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There are so many morsels to be savored from romance....smell,taste,imagination, give, receive, tingle and the numerous other senses that go into making romance one of the most wonderful and misunderstood occurrences in life. Let's pontificate on this wonderfully aspect of our being.
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the River
Posted:Mar 7, 2021 5:00 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 2:10 pm

Romance is very much like the flow of a river. Romance is always going to flow like a river in that it is always moving and it depends where you get on the river and what part of the river you want to navigate. The river is there, you can float down one of it creeks, sit on the bank and watch, jump in head first and see how far you swim....but one thing is for sure, it will keep flowing. You just have to realize in romance just like a river, you can't force the way the river flows but if you just flow with the river....it always get you there and usually with an enjoyable ride
Great Day for rak/rar
Posted:Feb 23, 2021 5:37 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 2:10 pm

We always hear about random acts of kindness [ which is an absolutely fantastic thing] but we need to think about an even better act. Random Acts of Romance is one of the true pleasures in the world and one of the most neglected. In this busy world of ours we plan out our romantic endeavors and do not let the romance have it's natural flow. As the saying goes....let the spirit take you. This can be in the form of an unsolicited massage, unexpected gesture or just having sex in an unusual place or position. These random acts of romance just adds to the excitement that good romance should possess.
Spicing up romance
Posted:Feb 12, 2021 6:39 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 2:10 pm

All of us add some type of spice or seasoning our food enhance the taste and enjoyment in our consumption of life sustaining morsels. You have add just the right amount of spice bring bland food into a enjoyable meal. Too much spice can ruin the meal and too little leaves a bland taste in your mouth. Romance follows the rule of thumb.....just the right amount of spice can make a bland romance fantastic, but being fixated upon adding spice can ruin the moment and the romance. Just add the spice and adjust as the cooking proceeds, just don't add spice for the hell of adding spice. Enjoy spicing up and savor every morsel....just add spice your taste, not what they say in the magazine
Deep thinking
Posted:Feb 3, 2021 7:38 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 2:10 pm

It is Wednesday morning and we need a good mantra for morning coffee and the coming weekend.

What does Mantra have to do with romance, well you are getting ready to find out. Everyone needs a mantra to recite when romance enters the mind, soul or physical presence. You need this to remember what romance is really all about and the more times you recite your mantra the more enjoyment from romance you will attain. This mantra needs to be what you want out of life and romance, decide on one and stick with it. On a personal note, mine is.....the worst thing that can happen is that I have a good time. Also when you tell someone you have a mantra for romance, they will think you are a deep thinker with a mystical quality. Have fun with the mantra and make sure that it enhances your enjoyment of romance.
Light reading for a cold Tuesday
Posted:Feb 2, 2021 5:48 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 2:10 pm

Fountain of Youth..... a dirty mind and a naughty smile.

Disclaimer.... I know that I am a very good lover because I practice on my own all the time.

Medical update..... I went to the doctor last week for annual checkup, the doctor looked at me and said I would have to quit masturbating. with a shocked look I asked why, he just shook his head and told me ..... so, he could finish the examination.
holler Monday on a Thursday
Posted:Jan 21, 2021 6:29 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 2:10 pm

Here is a Monday thought to carry you through the week, even though it is Thursday because everything just messed the whole week up.

We get so busy with today's' life and caught up in decorum that we flat forget to holler. I am not talking about hollering in anger or trying to garner attention, I am talking about hollering for fun and the enjoyment of life and romance. We need a lot more hollering when we dance, tell a joke or have romance. We bottle up so much inside ourselves, let out a big holler just for the enjoyment of it and definitely right before you climax. Now a holler does not have to be loud, it is just the expulsion of joy that needs to take place to keep a good frame of mind. Holler away my friends
emotional intelligence
Posted:Jan 6, 2021 6:51 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 2:10 pm

I always enjoy asking people for their definition of emotional intelligence. I have never had the same definition given, which makes sense since everybody interprets emotion and romance differently.... and that is what makes it so exciting and enjoyable. One thing is for sure, just like making any other decision in life.... if you keep an open mind and view options fairly..... then the nuances of romance come into and you can enjoy its wonders feeling comfortable with yourself and not setting a scenario for any unwanted surprises. Have fun my friend
Entitlement ....Christmas eve eve version
Posted:Dec 23, 2020 9:30 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 2:10 pm

No, this is not referring to the entitled generation or a socioeconomic status. It is referring to one of the biggest killers of good romance, and the thought that everyone is entitled to good and lasting romance that they don't have to work for it. There is a saying a wise man once said[ ok ok, it was me]...you only get out of romance what you put into it. Boys and girls, you got to work at romance.....being witty and cute opens lots of doors but you can't rest on those laurels or slowly you are moved out the door. The same position and no creativity or adventure puts rust on the romance. So oil up all your toys and mind and go work at having fun..... and people wonder why you don't get invited back to the playground. Hmmm
wow syndrom
Posted:Dec 12, 2020 5:42 am
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2021 9:14 am

Everybody seems want the Wow Effect when they meet someone interesting, this sounds great but is not what you want emanating from the person of interest. What you want is the Ummmmmmmm Effect, when you meet someone that gives you the Ummmm Effect.....you know you have get more. The Wow Effect can be caused by many symptoms and majority of them are not so great. The Ummmmm Effect does not blow your socks off but makes you comfortable, totally enjoy the moment and leaves you with a smile on your face. So, go with the Ummm Effect....it is always more satisfying and longer lasting.
Simple romantic thought
Posted:Nov 30, 2020 6:59 am
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2020 5:43 am

Here is a simple thought on life, just to let you know that I am still alive and kicking.
A simple personal philosophy, a kind of existential thing. Life should be lived to the fullest....if you feel it then do it, it's quite simple. You create your own values and enjoyment of life. Now since we live in a politically correct world, here is my disclaimer... none of us want to hurt other lives or people but if you treat other people as you would treat yourself... then life is your playground and go play hard
AA on a Thursdaay
Posted:Nov 12, 2020 6:17 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2021 2:10 pm

OK, before you go what the hell....this is Attitude Adjustment meetings. All of us lose our edge... which may consist of humor,wit,positive outlook, sensual vibes or whatever that makes you unique. We may not have a clue that our edge is slipping until friends start shying away, that sly grin is not looking back at you in the mirror, you don't relish that pretty sunset or you walk around just pissed off. A good romantic session is the best remedy for this malady.....some kissing,touching and great sex sets the mind into neutral. The luxuriating aftermath period is a perfect time for a tension free discussion of your attitude, and that finishes the cure......The edge is back
Park here for romance
Posted:Oct 26, 2020 6:40 am
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2021 7:23 am

Oh, what a day in the park it was yesterday and today is even going to be better.{ For all of you newbies, Saturday In The Park is my parody of the old Chicago song about just how good life is and what you do with it]Anyway, at the park yesterday I noticed a sign that was very apropos and related to....you guessed it, Romance. The sign said: Sit down, Shut up, Don't think too much. Great message to enjoy the park and definitely the way to go with romance. In romance, too many people want to tell what they want, who they are, what they are going to do, what they expect.....and then want to over analyze everything. Romance does not appear on demand, it can't be forced and it sure as hell can't be directed. It is a natural flow and progression.....so, sit down....shut up and don't over think. Romance will come when it happens...so sit back and get ready for when it does. Now, off to enjoy another great day in the park.....it must be the 4th of July.
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Shout out
Posted:Oct 12, 2020 5:34 pm
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2020 5:40 am

Here is a big shout out the people that created the internet[ no it was not Al Gore, but somebody give him a little love...he needs it]... for this technology has enhanced the nuances of romance. It has always been hard for people articulate their romantic feelings and this hidden veil that the internet provides allows people expound and explore some of the deepest reaches of their romantic soul. People tell true feeling and desires that have not and will not be told to another human being face to face. The release of these feeling and desires is very good for ones mental and physiological well being, plus makes damn good reading. I relate this to the early civilizations... when they had no clue to their sexuality and were trying everything from sacrificing virgins to blood letting of penises. So thank you internet geeks for starting a new sexual Inquisition and Renaissance.

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