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A note to fellow single guys on AdultFriendFinder
Posted:Jan 8, 2020 11:15 pm
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2020 2:30 am

Something I've noticed after reading numerous profiles and writings is that many single men, especially younger ones like me, vent frustrations about not finding someone . be honest, I this from time time too. We make up an overwhelming majority of the site and some women and couples definitely don't hold single men in regard because of the things they typically see and hear constantly. I'm by no means a professional or entirely experienced with this but I want share a few tips I've learned and hopefully they help whoever is reading this.

way catch others' attention is completely filling your profile with enough details and be honest about what you're looking for. If you're single be honest about it. If you're married be honest about it. If you have any type of relationship with someone be honest about it. The point is don't make it sound like you're sneaking around or pretend that you're a "" profile. Try avoid just using adjectives. Be confident and not arrogant/cocky/pushy (yes there is a difference). Don't just post pictures of your junk but it should be fine if you have a few. Just don't overdo it because dick pics are equivalent those random flyers that you find on your windshield wipers. Post pictures without hat/sunglasses or post some of your body since they're more acceptable. Feel free be a tease in them.

Be sure completely read other profiles and what they're looking for. If they're looking for women or couples, don't assume they're looking for single men. If they don't have a little green check mark but instead an X in the compatibility chart, don't assume you're going be that exception. Yes this is site but don't be completely crude saying stuff like "wanna fuck?" or a dick picture when you're messaging others especially in a first . Also try not say liners like "hey". It's your first impression so you basically get chance make yourself good. Just be respectful, polite, and don't take your anger on others if they say no or they don't respond back. Just move on, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Be positive. Remember at the end of the day, they're people too and treat them like it. Get to know them first.

If you do find someone, always meet in a public place first. If you can't host, be honest about it from the start and offer to for a room. Also try your best not to flake at the last minute. Let them know ahead of time that you won't be able to make it. Hopefully this helps in any way and I know profile isn't the best either but I'm trying best follow own advice as well. Best of luck in your search.

(I know writing isn't the best. I might edit this and some more in the future)
Self-reflection and positivity
Posted:May 23, 2019 11:08 am
Last Updated:Jan 8, 2020 10:56 pm

Positive people look in the mirror, feel good about themselves, and share the love and positivity with others. But...misery loves company...negative sad people look in the mirror and do not like what they see...often they react by flinging insults toward others...really, whatever insults they attempt to hurl are simply barbs meant for self. In other words: happy people smile at self, then smile at the world...sad people insult others through projection, the things they say to others are based on what they dislike about themselves. Truly, happy people cannot insult others...happiness oozes from their pores. Sad people cannot be nice to others because they dislike themselves. Mirrors...the best way to identify self love or self hatred. How people treat other people is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves.
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