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Posted:Sep 29, 2020 8:26 pm
Last Updated:Oct 5, 2020 9:43 pm
1tulipman:hello, im new here. I believe honesty is the best policy,

CW: oh ok, does your wife know you're here looking?

1Tulipman: No she doesn't. But I meant to be honest about being single or not

CW: so you mean its okay to be honest with a potential fwb, but not with your wife? What a conundrum, eh?
1tulipman: Very funny! so you want some of this good hard dick, or not?
Breaking News: shocking UN publishes 1st quarter Demography Report 2019 There are 7.8Billion people on planet . (earth). The report shows Women = 5.6Billion Men = 2.2Billion So, they advised women to be careful in showing attitudes to any man because out of the 2.2 Billion men: • One billion are married already. • 130 million are in prison. • 70 million are mentally ill. That means that we have just about 1 billion men available for marriage and out of the 1billion: • 50% are jobless • 3% are gay • 5% are Catholic Priests • 10% are your relatives • 32% are above 66years So, ladies both the married and singles, you have to rethink before treating any man like trash. "

Using our wise minds
Posted:Sep 22, 2020 9:58 am
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2020 9:13 am

i watched a string of scammer videos yesterday; went down the rabbit hole of baiting and revealing scams, mostly from centers routed India. You know the ones: they leave a msg regarding your social security and how it is being stolen and used by unknown people who stole a car and left it on the border of texas and Mexico with 22 pounds of cocaine left inside it. (!)

To be continued...
Juan de Fuca, 2006
Posted:Sep 22, 2020 9:52 am
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2020 8:22 pm
She moaned softly deep in her sleep. She laid, soft yet sleekly in his long limbs, the scent of her hair like rain in his nostrils. He inhaled her mystery; he did not know her well. Yet his protective response her tormented heart was to take her into his arms, sleep closely around her, and tuck her against his belly.

His hand brushed briefly against her warm breasts. Small they were, yet perfectly round. One nipple, hardened against his palm, stopped his casual search. How succulent, how inviting was this nipple, like an eraser tip, dewy yet yielding. He felt his cock harden against her silky, curving ass. She moaned once more as his hand teased her nipple, both nipples, now...

Warm, in her scent, he let her sleep.

She awoke with a start the next morning, her skin damp with the nightmare's influence on her reality. She lay there quietly a moment, gathering her thoughts cautiously until the ones she had pushed away before falling asleep re-entered her consciousness and the ache began anew.

How a man she trusted and loved with such ferocity could have so deceived and betrayed her, her naïve mind would never understand. She knew then only a few of his many betrayals; later she was to find out the extent, the depth of his misuse of her, of her loving trusting soul. She lay in the comforting arms of another man that morning, oblivious to what was to become a terrifying trip to the edge of insanity in the months to come. She had fallen in love with a sociopath, a narcissistic, pathological liar but on this particular morning, in this particular bed, she lay safely in the arms of another man.

And this other man needed tending to. She could feel his erection against her ass. How she loved this about men: their desire was so immediately obvious and hard cocks were so fun to with! She arched back against him and impaled herself his hardness. Her wet pussy, warm and inviting, drew his cock in. This sensation woke him. He moaned with the warmth of her pussy tightening around his cock and his eyes opened take in her tousled blonde hair, her beautifully smooth back with its muscle patterns in relief against the sheets. His breathe caught at the feeling of her slick wetness tightening, drawing him in. How in god's name could this woman take him in with a feeling he had rarely felt before?

But he was not ready to cum yet so he pulled out of her, pushed her away, and murmuring in her ear, left the bed to empty his bladder in the bathroom. He stood a long moment, looking out the window at the blue-gray water of the sound where it met the blue-gray scudding clouds of the February sky. He noticed the proprietor of the bed and breakfast out on the narrow beach with his border collie taking in the smells of the salty air.

The windows to their bedroom were large, open, and looked out to the beach. A set of French doors, covered by drapes also afforded optimum views. He thought to himself with a slightly mischievous grin that the view went both ways. He did not know the owner well, but he was a handsome man who apparently had an adoring wife. They had both greeted their guests warmly the night before, and then retired to the front room to read together on the sofa.

He padded, naked, back to the bed and looked down at the mysterious beauty half covered in rumpled sheets, on her stomach, a well-rounded ass teasing him with its helpless perfection. This woman was almost too much for him to take in. She had fallen asleep in his arms the night before, telling her story, her tears wetting his chest as he listened, helpless in the face of her pain. She stirred and her eyes opened, the same blue-gray as the sky and the strait beyond the open windows.

Walking to the French doors he raised the blinds to stand there in silhouette. He gave off a comfortable masculinity that she found hugely appealing. He moved aside so she could see the view beyond. They both saw the man and the not far away, the man intent on throwing a stick for the to fetch. He turned toward her, moving with the grace of the athlete he had been some twenty years ago, and taking her by the hand, pulled her from the bed stand at the open doors.

Her face lit from within as she realized his desire. He kissed her, slowly, lightly at first, then more fervently as he realized that her mouth even in the morning was delicious him. She began breathe faster in his arms. His cock began swell and rise.

"Suck my cock." He demanded it softly but firmly. She instantly dropped her knees at his feet and obediently opened her mouth take him in her warm mouth, looking at him as she did so. The gray light fell her face, transfixed at the task. She so adored cock, something he had yet experience. He watched her, working his fingers in her hair as he pulled her in closer.

" my god," he thought. "I'm going cum in her mouth if she keeps this ." She looked at him as his eyes closed in the sensation. He opened his eyes look down at hers. He pulled out of her mouth and turned her around face the unshuttered door. There, outside, the man with the stood immobile, stick in hand, watching.

She leaned against the glass. Hands outstretched, feet spread, she tilted her hips back to show him her pussy's readiness. Quickly now, he fumbled through his bag the floor find a condom which he unwrapped and slid on. He stared at her cunt's lips, where beads of her lubricant glistened. She waited impatiently now for his hard cock.

And. Right there. Yes, so good. He entered her in one deep, slow thrust. She was so tight, so wet. her sorrow, her grieving rage, was forgotten in the sensation of his cock penetrating her. She braced against the glass, arching back against him. Then she turned her eyes toward the man on the beach.

As she was fucked, two men watching, her eyes flickered shut then open again. "Fuck me," she breathed. And so he did.

"Harder please, harder," she begged. She liked it hard and pounding especially reveling in the feel of his balls swinging, hitting her pussy. She began frigging her clit now as she felt her orgasm building.

Her lover's chest pressed her face into the glass as the man with the stood watching. He could see her mouth open in a perfect 'o', then her eyes open wide now on him as she came with such force that he could hear as she screamed.

Her lover's face was fixed in concentration now. ", baby, I know just what you need, don't I? Let help you out with that cunt honey, I'm going fuck you so good," he gritted his teeth as he felt his cum shoot from his balls, into his raging hard cock. She reached down to cup his balls in her hand and she felt them tighten as his body tensed.

He came with a roar so loud that the looked up from its hunt for the stick that had dropped from his master's hand. For a long moment, the four pairs of eyes locked; then with a slight smile and head turn to acknowledge the man on the beach's presence, she closed her eyes and pushed back from the glass door.
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A Delicious Blowjob, 2006
Posted:Sep 17, 2020 7:57 pm
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2020 8:24 pm
My lover and I were naked in a public hot tub at a swing club. Feelings between us were a bit frayed as we had just had an emotionally-charged discussion on the drive there. We had not yet re-established our amazing physical/mental connection. We had joined this club, a well-known destination swing resort six months before and had had some fun, interesting, as well as painful encounters. We were still relative 'newbies.'

While in the tub, we were joined by another couple. She had short, pixie-like hair, pleasant smile, and a slim body. I glanced at her male partner only briefly; enough to notice he also had a lean build and friendly face.

We chatted superficially, about mundane things such as where they were from (Victoria, B.C.) and how long they had been members (a few years.) As we conversed, my guy got up out of the tub to sit on the edge facing the couple across the tub from us. I sat in the warm tub, my arm and face resting on his left knee. His soft cock looked sweet and warm and lovely. I began to get ideas...

...at the same time he did. "Should I?" I asked him.

"It's up to you," he answered. I thought to myself...why not? It had been a few weeks since we had had any encounters with other couples. I began teasing him visually by slowly opening my mouth and holding out my tongue as I crouched at his knee. We all watched his cock grow hard at the sight of my willing mouth. His lovely, lovely cock began to dance with my outstretched tongue. His cock, when fully erect, is perfectly shaped but above average in length, and is exceptionally thick.

I then began tenderly, lovingly sucking and tonguing his cockhead, then with my wet tongue licked along the bottom length of his hard shaft. I alternated this with cupping and flicking his balls with my tongue. I gently sucked each ball into my mouth, and with light suction pulled back until it popped out from between my moist lips.

My movements were slow and languid, but enthusiastically noisy and wet. I adored his swollen cockhead with my tongue, then deeply sucked him in and purring, looked up to watch him watch me. I varied my movements, aware of the throbbing pulse of his very hard cock in my mouth. I went as deeply as I could, shaking my head to take him in deeper, my hands on his knees at times to give him his favorite sensation of a 'no-hands 'b.j.' I loved to hear his breathing catch, then quicken. I could hear the couple begin to react, moving to position themselves better and remarking how erotic it was to watch.

"Wow," said the man, "this is the most delicious blowjob I believe I've ever seen."

After ten minutes of watching us, the female half of the couple finally slid over and asked if I would like some help. I looked up at my guy to request the permission I knew I would get. She then very gracefully joined me side by side at his knees as we seamlessly took turns sucking, tonguing, licking his balls, taking him in deeply, hungrily, wetly.

"Mmmmmm," my man moaned, watching us lick and suck, alternating mouths on his now-throbbing cock and balls, which had tightened into their sac. He looked down on our two heads, one blonde, and one brunette and as I looked up at him he closed his eyes in the pleasure of the sensation that two mouths were giving him.

The other woman and I lavished attention on him as though we were an experienced team. I was generous with my sharing of his beautiful cock and she was bold in her acceptance of the offering. I noticed that my pussy, as always when I suck him off, had begun to swell and grow slick.

The male half of the couple, watching avidly, remarked that my guy seemed to have won the lottery that day. My man opened his eyes and agreed. I looked up at him once more to find him watching, his breathing catching and quickening...

But because there was another male to attend to, we slowed our actions.

"Who's next?" I called out playfully, intending to give the other male some of our shared talents. I turned around, and was surprised to discover that three additional men had joined the tub while I had been so preoccupied. They all leapt up hopefully as the other couple and my man laughed in amusement at my complete focus.

I adore cock but am hopelessly addicted to his.
Were not getting any younger, are we??
Posted:Sep 15, 2020 8:42 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2020 3:06 pm
I have a friend that I made here who happens to live in Australia. He's an open-hearted, funny, cheeky man who I need to talk with at least once a week to get my fix of his broad Aussie accent. His emphatic "Absolutely!!"makes me grin, every time. He had made plans to meet a woman he had recently met; they had met and things looked promising enough that he had reserved a hotel room to spend the day in bed. He had been open to whatever she wanted, and he knew he wanted her, but in the end, she bailed. He let me know when I asked somewhat enviously that "there were plenty of fish in the sea." in fact, he confessed cheekily that six women were pursuing him, and that we weren't getting any younger. I agreed with him and as we hung up I finished making my dinner then sat down to eat it. This pandemic has been a challenge for us all...including Australians who have managed this better than we Americans have. But we have discussed ways of living and loving through this fear of a virus that seems to be burning through the united states like wildfire. I am no longer holding out for a vaccination that won't be available anytime soon nor am I waiting for a return to normal dating life. So we adapt our strategies for dating, safely.
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erotica 2006
Posted:Sep 13, 2020 12:32 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2020 8:19 pm
He plowed into her, groaning with the warm slick feel of her, tight around his swollen coc He liked control, prolong his cumming as long as he could. OMG she was hot tonight; it had been weeks since he had been in her oasis of a bed. He leaned over hear her whisper, face shoved into sheets, "i want you to take my ass."

"You want cum in your ass or your pussy tonight?" he murmered in her ear. She paused only briefly, "my ass," she answered, knowing what this meant. "You sure?" She nodded her head, barely perceptively.

His was the thickest cock she had ever taken. He pulled out of her warm cunt, and pushed his head into the puckered entry to her ass. His head, white ly covered with her juices, pushed hard into her. She moaned as his head entered her. This act required complete focus from her as she relaxed into him, into the pain. "Baby, go slowly," she whispered as he stopped his pushing. Again she relaxed until he was in to the hilt. As he began to rhythmically pound into her tight ass flower she began to moan and cry.

He reached around her to help her frig her clit with his finger. Her pussy was wet with her need and he began to let go. "I want your cum, give it to me deep," she begged him. "You want it, slut, you want it in your ass, hard" he cried, jaws clenched. He held her hands in his behind her back now and he began to ride her, hard. As she began to spasm around his fingers, he rocketed into his own orgasm with a loud roar. Hot, slick, deep, tight, around his cock as he shot a huge load. He looked down at his hard cock thrusting until he had none left, then pulled out. Her assbud, still quivering, leaked his cum.

He pulled her close in to spoon her as he tenderly kissed her ear through the silk of her hair.
Posted:Sep 13, 2020 12:13 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2020 2:21 pm
As a wordsmith, 'COMPERSION" is a word I find intriguing.

here is how Google defines it: Compersion is an empathetic state of happiness and joy experienced when another individual experiences happiness and joy. it is commonly used describe when a person experiences positive feelings when a lover is enjoying another relationship. its opposite is jealousy.

I had a relationship with a lover once where we actively played with other couples and I learned experience a certain thrill when watching him with others, especially if the other person was my girlfriend. I knew she loved me , so I never felt jealousy when they were together; in fact, it usually got off watching them. But this like watching a top physically hurt a bottom, didn't come naturally to me. I had to actively work at not feeling my ego bruised and work through any feelings of jealousy. Most of the time this worked, as lopsided the relationship was, at times. (eg, we often had FMF or played with a couple that we had to say yes to, in agreement, but he did not enjoy me with another man. I can count on one hand the numbers of times he watched me with another man; and usually, it was only when he was involved with the female of the couple first. We never had an MFM together; that was to come later on in my book of life. His excuse was he never found the right man to invite into our playtime. But he wanted to control the rules, in his hypocritical unfair way, and I allowed this in my younger . I no longer would allow this imbalance happen anymore.

But compression is still a worthy, rush of endorphins feeling that is worth cultivating. it rides the thrilling edge of jealousy and arousal.

have you, my readers, ever felt compersion for your partner?
Posted:Sep 13, 2020 11:51 am
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2020 3:28 am
I've thought about this topic, often. I have a dear friend in Australia who is seeking the same thing. I want a committed, long term relationship where I am the primary woman, but I don't require monogamy. American culture does not support this paradigm; however, marriage in this country is randomly successful, at best. A 50% success rate is no better than flipping a coin. Monogamy doesn't work; there are reasons to stay married, and love and compatibility don't seem to be of them.

I listen dan savage's podcast, and read his book, "Commitment". he's a gay man who has had a sex column in a Seattle weekly, and is funny and compassionate and he shoots from the hip. His book reads like a depraved David Sedaris. He devotes much time in his book as well as his weekly podcast on being "monogamish" ie, recognizing that people will be attracted other people through the lifetime of their marriage: better handle it directly by communicating needs and desires within the coupledom. I have taken couples my bed mostly because I want learn how they communicate, admire this skill, and want reinforce their responsible behavior. It has always worked out well, and I make sure acknowledge my respect them directly through the course of our session.

I love the courage it requires admit your partner that you have more needs than they can fulfill. And the lack of ego this communication requires is admirable, as well.

Maybe it's , but I don't think infidelity within a marriage is worth breaking it up. Talk about it; come a gentle resolution, and stay (happily) married...
Love in the time of a pandemic
Posted:Sep 9, 2020 11:07 am
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2020 10:02 am
I can no longer wait for an effective vaccine; I'm tired of being alone with only my thoughts and my for company. It's not enough; I am struggling with feelings of loneliness. I have ventured out in some brief relationships; the first foray was with a never-married man who was one of the most selfish lovers id ever known. He had taken I could give, including a deep tissue massage, a , a bj; of which he loudly enjoyed but fell asleep when I climbed upon his face. I then spent a sleepless night in his too-small bed. the second lover I took was married and his wife had no idea; he quickly let know it would be a once in a while relationship. the third fellow I met and he was cute, but totally into his freedom and was exploring BDSM in the role of /baby girl with women he had met first. I explained honestly that while I didn't want monogamy, neither did I want be third in the stable. Every one of these meetings caused me either get a covid test and self-isol or self isolate for weeks while carefully ascertaining thee health status and contacts of each person.

this has had an interesting impact on how my relationships are developing. when I delay having sex with a man, I am therefore less likely develop emotional ties. I have sensed for some time now that I get physically involved too quickly, and this makes it harder to keep my boundaries clear. so being forced to safely in this age of covid makes more able resist potential situations and ppl who might be predatory or toxic. I can more easily find people who would otherwise be time-wasters, and cut bait sooner rather than later.
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Part 2
Posted:Sep 9, 2020 10:37 am
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2020 3:28 am

The irony is, I responded positively him because I recalled how we met. Our first date was a disaster, as I had arrived 45 minutes late and had tried call his cell phone after arriving at our destination and waiting a full hour. I thought he had stood , and I was ruffled. I had had a family obligation, having get a soccer practice, and he, having no , didn't understand.

Our second meeting was his suggestion: we would meet at the Seattle Massage School in the second-floor sauna. I arrived, stripped, showered, and entered the sauna. I had no idea what Jim looked like and there were men already in the sauna. I immediately identified him by his baritone voice and commented to let him know who I was. It was a very vulnerable way to meet; naked and strangers, yet it was the pattern to our relationship. we were always honest and deeply intimate with each other in the month that followed. I recall ending the evening by having amazing sex in my bed, but that's I recall of our relationship. he headed Cali for a welding job and I remained in Seattle; working and meeting new lovers. by the time he returned, I had met my then partner/lover in crime which I had felt I could safely rest my heart with. (this was change; more this later) but there was no room for Jim.
reaching out PART I
Posted:Sep 8, 2020 9:38 am
Last Updated:Sep 10, 2020 4:36 pm
"Hello Cat,

A lot of water under the bridge since then and I think the lack of specific remembrances speak for themselves. It was unwise of me follow an alcohol inspired loneliness make contact with my call but I've made bigger mistakes. We were a sweet interlude I will always carry with affection but I truly can't see rekindling that missed opportunity. I wish you all the best with fondest memories. You will always be a woman I will smile for having had the good fortune have met.

Be strong and stay well.



I had received a voicemail last Thursday and I didn't recognize the voice or the name at first. Then, when I replied with a text he identified himself and I was gobsmacked. He was a man who I had had a brief, intense relationship within the months shortly after leaving my marriage and before I met the man who would become my primary lover for nearly a year. so I wasn't sure what I wanted, but was enjoying the search.

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