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Do you think it's important..?  

charlesleigh78 54M/42F   
31 posts
4/22/2019 9:20 am

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Do you think it's important..?

How important is it to you, to meet up and talk to possible playmates before doing whatever floats your boat behind closed doors?
Very Important.
Somewhat important.
Not very much.
I'd rather just get laid.

10195 posts
4/22/2019 11:01 am

I need to assess the other party before committing to any shenanigans.

A pre-play allows both parties to size each other up imho.

GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1909 posts
4/22/2019 11:37 am


Sorry...I did not see your poll before I posted a similar question - only mine is in blog form, not poll form.

But my answer is very important!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL

Heathen_G 61M
7838 posts
4/22/2019 5:32 pm

So, you are asking if "Talking " is important, when you meet up with someone for the purpose of having sex?

"Talking" to say, "Hi"? Or what?

I can't imagine two strangers meeting, and without a word spoken , or ASL signed, just getting naked and having sex.

If two deaf mutes met, there wouldn't be any "Talking".

Okay, I'm curious...why are you asking if , "Talking" is important?

13241 posts
4/23/2019 9:10 pm



thejashman 35M
72 posts
4/27/2019 11:49 pm

my answer is not much imortant

RomanticRubber69 51M
33 posts
4/29/2019 9:50 pm

My philosophy with pursuing friendships on line is, you get acquainted and uncomfortable on line. Then with all the fakes and flakes out there, we meet a public place for coffee or drinks. That way, we get to see if it was who you thought it would be physically, and the established connection, chemistry and rhythm on line carried over to the personal appearance. Then we play it by ear, and hopefully play!

hunting4real 63M/53F  
76 posts
4/30/2019 9:32 pm

The mental connection is very important you cannot seduce the body without seducing the mind first, and that goes for the female and the male

Oby_Haive 56M
50 posts
5/2/2019 10:57 pm

Strength of character is sorely lacking in today's world. A txt or an email falls short compared to looking someone in the eye and talking with them to get an informed opinion.

pineconer9 69M
243 posts
5/31/2019 1:14 pm

I do like to meet first and get to know one another and also to see if chemistry is good for all and if it is then it easier to work into what we are all wanting to explore.

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