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The Quest for the Holy Grail: FwB  

charmade117 39M
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1/11/2018 3:12 pm
The Quest for the Holy Grail: FwB


I'm nearing the end of my intital membership of 2 months and while I've had contact with several ladies I have only found match that is willing to meet and hang out. She is great so I"m hoping which is all I can do.

But seriously...this goal that I'm pursuing at times feels like I'm searching for the Lost City of Atlantis. What really makes wonder as to why it is so damn challenging to find a true FwB is that I believe and understand the reality that there are women out there searching for the same. I have only had encounter overall since my marriage ended last year in July.

We went for a drive, talked, smoked a J. She asked if she could have a kiss and I replied "Absolutely, where would you like to be kissed. To my surprise, she answered not with the default anticipation of on the lips but on her beautiful huge mammaries. I sucked on them and bit them and she said "nobody has ever got me wet from that before!. Now let me show you what I can do"

She reached for the inseam of my jeans and and clutched it tight with her palms so she could make sure to feel if I was hard or not. She knew I was but she still wanted to feel it, she said. Then she slowly unzipped my jeans and after than she wasn't slow at all to pull out my throbbing hard cock and start sucking with the same ferocity as I did with her tits.

She slobbered on it so well that it was dripping down my legs. I told her that I was about to come and she said she wanted it in her mouth. Right before I exploded I told her "You haven't earned that yet." and I pulled the back of her hair up to and i jerked off in her face. She said it was the hottest thing she experienced in . We wanted to get a room so I could go down her and make her cum at least twice from licking and then fucking her proper. But sadly we ran out of time.

Other than how much fun it was to fool around, what made it better was we talked for a while and connected first that way. Both of us direet in knowing our boundaries for relationships and how to still and have a great time.

If I found it once, what is the hold up ladies?

BiggLala 48F  
29222 posts
1/11/2018 4:46 pm

How is 'once' an FWB?
Or rather, what is your definition of FWB? (yes, I know it stands for friends with benefits, but what does that situation look like to you...how often you talk to each other, how often do you do non-sexual activities together, etc.)

Do you and her hang out and/or have sex regularly? If not, what you described is a hookup.

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papis_baby_girl 41F
5392 posts
1/11/2018 5:28 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    How is 'once' an FWB?
    Or rather, what is your definition of FWB? (yes, I know it stands for friends with benefits, but what does that situation look like to you...how often you talk to each other, how often do you do non-sexual activities together, etc.)

    Do you and her hang out and/or have sex regularly? If not, what you described is a hookup.
come on now Lala...

you know how it works... he want's a fuck buddy but disguises it as wanting a FWB... you know... so a lady thinks she's getting more than what he's offering...
only problem... she figures it out...and is out of there...even more so now since his story is on blast...

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charmade117 39M
3 posts
1/11/2018 7:17 pm

It was a story to share. Perhaps you're right i needed to be more I depth regarding the title.

You're right it was a hookup. I deemed it an encounter for that reason. But i need that it felt like something that could've grown into fwb if it weren't for her reconciling with her husband and removing the open marriage clause, which i respected.

I know what a real friend is. I also know that sex wouldn't be a constant...marine regular or frequent. But it would be that ultimate friendship that had no boundaries but no serious romance other than suicidal love for a very special friend.

Thanks for your comments.


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