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Is it just me? It cant be...  

chazity20 42F  
102 posts
11/11/2018 12:13 pm

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Is it just me? It cant be...

So yes I have been on this site for a long time, and in that time my wants and desires have changed. But through out all of my wants and desires, the people that say they want to meet up for fun, rarely follow through with me. And then of course there is the permission thing from hubby, that has made things a bit rough.

So my question is..

Is it just me or do people really not want to hook up with me.. I get that I am not every mans perfect woman. But why take the time to get to know me, ask me questions, give me info about you that entwines me in your life. From something as small as your day at work and being able to relax, up to emotional connection over if they are well or not.

I get that distance is an issue for 99% of us, and that is not even my irritation. But if you are gonna tell me you will be here for a week in the month of Oct. and not show, call, text, or say fuck you bitch your too fat. Or to message and say hey I am in town visiting family and then nothing.

When that happens to me I wonder if you are ok. If something happened in your life that you just shut down and don't want to talk to anyone. Or worst case something happened to you.

I would rather you tell me you don't like me you were never interested and did not want to meet in the first place or something.

bigg_dre2000 40M
109 posts
11/11/2018 3:37 pm

Don't let anyone steal your joy!!

s2ndegree 61M  
9732 posts
11/11/2018 6:04 pm

I think in a lot of cases guys just want to talk to someone
they already know is willing.They've obviously passed the
biggest test(looks) that boosts their ego into thinking that
hey maybe I'm not as bad as I think I am.This tryst
isn't going to go any further than a boink so why risk the
chance that I may see something in this person that
I can't have.She only wants me for one thing anyway.

Keep in mind that takes some a month or so to culminate
in their heads.In that time their still getting the ol' no response is a response
from all those they're messaging that they too
suddenly don't feel obligated to cancel either.
Not to mention selfish,disingenuous and actually
resemble exactly what they have in their pants.

Using more than all the road!

Resident_Bitch 103M/103F  
9132 posts
11/12/2018 4:51 am

I'd guess these guys want to collect 'friends'.....a collection of women who they can call upon when the current ones they are seeing, stop seeing them. Then they take up with one of those on their 'to do' list, hoping a woman is flattered/desperate to be asked out, even if the guy has vanished and then re-appeared.

I once had a guy who I met for lunch, just lunch, who then proceeded to tell me I didn't give him enough compliments, make him feel wanted, not spontaneous - as I didn't jump in my car and drive to his to have sex - and all this by text. And to top it off, he was looking for long term fun and could only see short term fun with me.
How do these guys predict the future??
My reply was that clearly I wasn't good enough for him. Goodbye.
6 months later I got a message from him - from a different Profile - reminding me I'd had lunch with him, and telling me how he'd enjoyed looking at my pics and seeing what I'd been up to.

If I'd behaved the exact same way to any guy, I'm sure I would have been called a bunny boiler/stalker....

Some guys are oblivious of how sh*t they treat women.....and yet think they can return for contact/sex with them....any time they wish.....

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maximaman512 39M  
68 posts
11/13/2018 7:18 pm

see now that's some bullshit. if I say i'm coming then I'm coming. otherwise why bother talking and getting to know someone. I cant stand fakes and liars. which you are not

Lostincarlsbad 59M
34 posts
11/27/2018 4:18 pm

you do you and do it well. Anybody that doesn't follow through is missing out on you!

Payton4711 50M  
6 posts
12/27/2018 9:56 am

Wish you were closer I would totally be all over you.

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