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Things that make you go Hmmmm  

chillgal11 60F
31 posts
10/18/2017 6:34 am
Things that make you go Hmmmm


Being a curious person, I often wonder about the thought process behind men and women who use AdultFriendFinder as a means to meet others and their chosen advertisement pictures.

We can all agree there are plenty proud cock pics. Each man with his fully erect 5 inches (that he thinks is 9), do you guys actually pull out the ruler or measuring tape or just guess...I visualize this. At 57 I have never measured a mans penis. Ladies with their ample breasts bursting from a lacy bra or garment, all lovely in their presentation. Some prefer the tushy pic, again nicely done I personally prefer the clothed, leave something to the imagination pic, but that's just me.

On another note, the photos meant to display sexual talent or what you bring to the equation of sexual satisfaction. Most men display a "me getting a blow job" photo, which either says..."I love Blow Jobs or I am so proud my last hookup was this good looking and who I photographed looking up at me while she blew me I put her face on the internet sucking my cock, but I'm not going to show you my face, someone might recognize me, but her? who cares, she blew me and I'm proud of that....

I can certainly understand a woman choosing to post a pic of her talents but guys, if you really want to entice a woman show a pic of YOU performing cunnilingus on a woman, show us YOUR talent, we already know you want us to go downtown, show us your best effort in that realm.

Thoughts from the chill seat...

forgotforgetting 54M
7285 posts
10/18/2017 2:36 pm

Like the post. Some good observations.

I suppose the pic selection does have something to do with pride. When I first joined I had a upper body shot from my more intense body-building days. At the time, the pic was only 2 month old. After a couple of years I took it down. I still worked out (do to this day), just not that intensely. I didn't replace it at first because I couldn't decide on a photo, then I just got used to not having one. At this point, maybe reality doesn't want to compete with the possible image other may have. LOL

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


chillgal11 replies on 10/18/2017 2:41 pm:
I met a guy off AdultFriendFinder for a walk when I lived out west, his profile pics were epic body builder Ärnold" the man that showed up was 7 years older than those pics, nothing was the same, he was still a very nice man, good looking but the bait n switch was a bit much.

forgotforgetting 54M
7285 posts
10/19/2017 9:11 am

Yeah, I try to avoid false advertisement whenever possible. For me, I got tired of living in the gym ( or it seemed like I was living there ).

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


OttawaMan43sum 49M
2204 posts
10/21/2017 3:05 pm

I agree. We all have our physical sexual attributes but not everyone is capable of mental sexual expression. That's why I prefer to read profiles and chat (where AdultFriendFinder provides that function) to get a sense of the person beyond the physical.

I too have been subject to the bait and switch tactic, but women are most subject to it given the ratio of men to women. Coincidentally enough, I recently and unexpectedly ran into someone at a social event who quickly recognized me from a dozen years ago. She and I were one-time work colleagues but in different buildings so we didn't see each other often. She looked different so I wouldn't have recognized her on my own.

It must be my good genes or is that jeans as in my pic.


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