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How I got started with AFF  

cougarmomma216 55F  
7 posts
8/14/2020 7:52 pm
How I got started with AFF

About 8 years ago my husband and I moved to the suburbs of Cleveland, OH. the time my youngest was a senior in and we were looking to downsize.

Our new neighbors also had a in , but he was only a junior the time so he didn't really spend time with my even though they were close in age (you know how are).

Anyway, it wasn't until the summer after my left for college that I began to see more of the neighbor's . My husband was away on business during the summer months and he'd asked the neighbor's to mow our lawn until he was back.

first I didn't the any mind and just let him go about his business, but as the summer dragged on he began to spend more and more time mowing our lawn. That's when I began to take notice of him. He was tall, slim, but not muscular, just average, but his age made him even hotter.

One Saturday, it was about 97 degrees or so and I could see him struggling outside in the heat. I remember inviting him inside to rest and get some AC and a cool drink. He was hesitant but eventually agreed, and although it was meant to be a short break, we ended up talking for hours and our previously "all business" relationship began to become more friendly.

The more we would talk, the more I felt myself develop a crush on this , barely 18 year old man. He was than all 3 of my daughters, but he just seemed so mature. Our conversations never seemed to be enough, and eventually we exchanged cell numbers so we could continue our conversations via .

That's how it remained for the next few weeks, but eventually once you talk to someone for so long, you begin talking about things that are more personal. It was during those conversations that I began to fall for him. I couldn't believe it. Here I was, a 47 year old, MARRIED, of 3 and I was head over heels for an 18 year old next door. I would justify my feelings by telling myself that it's just innocent flirting and that as long as my husband didn't know or get harmed, then it wasn't worth a fuss.

The problem was that it continued to progress and our personal texts then became explicit texts, then pictures, and eventually videos. It got to the point where I had even begun inviting him over whenever my husband wasn't home.

About halfway through his senior year is when everything changed. It was a long weekend and I found myself once again home alone as my husband was out of town on business. I had texted the to tell him that I would be home alone for the next few days and that I wouldn't mind having him join me for a movie or something. He must have got the message because he was over in about minutes flat.

I never intended to do anything crazy that night, but things just escalated. We began cuddling but it eventually led to us finally acting on our desires after months of teasing. It was the first time I had been with a in over 30 years. I had forgotten how energetic they could be. He was , but he was incredibly gentle and receptive as we made love and I could tell he wanted to learn how to make rather than just it and quit it.

As for the sex that night, I couldn't describe how good it felt. Whatever I say would never do it justice. It was obvious that night that he wasn't a virgin, and I assumed years of internet porn had taught him to be more creative with his positions because I had never been folded up and put in so many different positions in all my years of sex with my husband.

I had been married for over 25 years and had never known that sex could feel like this. This was about 40 years than my husband but he made my husband like a in many ways. First, he was visibly larger in literally all aspects. I wouldn't say double the size of my husband but it sure felt like it the time. He was also much more confident and assertive in the bedroom, something that I never realized I wanted until this handled the way he did.

This eventually blossomed into an affair that we continued discreetly behind my husband's back until the end of the 's sophomore year of college. Although he was in college, it didn't mean that I saw him less. His college wasn't that far and he would often make weekend<b> trips </font></b>home and there were a few occasions that we met half way in hotels.

The sneaking around eventually became too much for both of us and that's when we decided looking for other ways to go about it. That is when AdultFriendFinder came in to play.

The had suggested it to because I had told him that my husband had recently began hinting that he would be okay with finding a bedroom partner. He was becoming aware of how much time he spent away from home and knew that I would never leave him (this was true and still is to this ). He had hinted that he knew it could be frustrating with him not there as much and that if I found someone that he felt would treat me safely, he wouldn't be averse to me having relations.

So my husband and I set up this profile and did the whole AdultFriendFinder newbie thing. Dealing with flakes and phonies, etc. I never really any mind to it because the whole purpose for the page was to connect with the and have my husband feel it was a genuine connection that he played a part in. We eventually connected with the and I allowed him and the husband to communicate.

We settled on an agreement and we continued our relationship with the blessing of my husband. For years my husband didn't know that I was meeting with the neighbor's , nor did he know how long we had actually been seeing each other.

Within the past year, all of that has come to light. My husband was not upset when he found and actually appreciated the honesty. He admitted that hearing it had been going on for years wasn't what he wanted to hear, but it gave him some comfort knowing that he didn't need to feel guilty for all those years he left me home alone.

The eventually moved down to Georgia for grad and fortunately for , my husband's company offered him a contract in the Atlanta area, so we've moved down here for the time being. My husband is aware that the is here and has given us his blessing to continue. The and I are not exclusive, we do sometimes play with other partners, but that is very rare. More commonly, we'll meet with other couples but even that is rare (even more so now with coronavirus).

fashionablegma 77F
8083 posts
8/14/2020 9:57 pm

Oh yes do love an assertive young toyboy myself,and have dated them for many years,making me feel like a lady again,the sex is still mind blowing but better when there is friendship,a deep connection too,

jaciy11221af 51M
13 posts
8/14/2020 10:20 pm

I really envy that young neighbor

The article is well written and I like it


LadiesR2B1rst 57M  
908 posts
8/14/2020 11:33 pm

If I hadn't met a lady like you when I was young, I would not have the knowledge and experience I have now . Although, I still think the husband should give his consent first. An older woman has a wealth of knowledge.

Mr_Flirt_2020 47M

8/14/2020 11:43 pm

Woww just felt good reading such a interesting story of your life, I wish you great joys and blissful pleasures ahead..stay safe and stay joyful buddy.. XOXOXO

lokingforfun82 39M
157 posts
8/15/2020 12:21 am

What a lucky guy! You have a magnificent body!

jtwrigleyville 42M
357 posts
8/15/2020 11:35 pm

Thank you for this. i would enjoy reading more from you too.

milk69man69 56M  
87 posts
8/17/2020 10:53 am

I haven't wished I was 18 again or lived in Atlanta area, ever. Until now.

And I haven't thought about this in a very long time, but back in the day of my young adult years, I always seemed to gravitate to older women. There is no sex better than with a hot vixen cougar. Especially a married one. mmmm .

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