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NSA.....does it really exist????  

doitrite08 63F
91 posts
7/7/2008 1:18 pm
NSA.....does it really exist????

I would really like to hear some peoples ideas and views on this...not to sure i believe it exists or is possible...

lustmirror 67M
2897 posts
7/7/2008 4:56 pm

I think they're called 'slip ons'

Iluv2TeaseYou72 47M
8 posts
7/15/2008 7:49 am

Yes it does. I was lucky enough to find a woman who knew what she wanted and needed. We had a year long affair that was fullfilling, friendly and fun. There were times where our emotions would get the better of us but we were both attached. Maybe that's what kept it from us from getting too needy. I don't think it can last for years but in our case, we both appreciated having a secret friend and since we were both insatiable, we had some great mind blowing naughty sex. Everywhere and every kind of sex imaginable. We both were only looking for ONE "special friend" and that kept it safe and comfortable as well. Just my two cents worth.

Sweetdreams4u269 61M

7/15/2008 8:39 am

Yes it does. It is complicated but it does exist. I have had the experience last summer with a married women. We had a lot of exciting times and fun and some real hot passionate sex. However it ended when the women got caught by her husband, How ? She was not paying her phone bill the husband was and he was checking every phone call. So he was already onto something before I came along. It was a nasty bitter divorce and the husband was especially crule towards her. So the lesson is cover your ass and use another phone for crying out loud.

rm_BistroLover 56M

7/16/2008 3:49 pm

It can definitely happen. Friends with benefits is real, but not easy to find. Being discreet isn't easy, nor is it easy to keep your distance with both parties remaining emotionally detached. I think it's easier for a married person, because they may feel less of the loneliness when the "friends" are apart. But if you can keep love and sex from getting entangled, it can be a great thing. Sex is good, and good sex is enjoyable and a confidence builder --- a good way (in my opinion) to get you back on your feet after a breakup.

NEsailor 73M

7/20/2008 2:38 am

Oh, I know it's possible. Believe me, it's fun too!

Shall I show you?

satnswthrt 56M/109F  
1 post
9/5/2008 2:11 pm

I think it can work,,but harder for women to have NSA involvement.

hondamagic77 61M  
1 post
11/24/2008 9:46 pm

i had to laugh at the posts because they were all from MEN...perhaps doitrite is looking for a woman's point of view. for myself...i dont know if it can exist or not for the ladies...i think the emotions and the closeness eventually can make it difficult to not desire more....do it rite...you are a great-looking lady and i wish you all the best and hope you find what it is you are looking for.

gdlkn39guy 54M
1 post
12/9/2008 6:03 pm

It does exist and can be an exciting time between consenting adults. By the way, you are incredible.

lomileage5 64M
10255 posts
12/11/2008 7:36 pm

if two people are mature,realistic,they can be NSA,yet share all the passion,joy they need to fulfill their needs.it is a matter of commitment to not upsetting your home and family life,while remaining true to yourself,finding the things you need in life

juanmoon 72M
584 posts
12/28/2008 3:44 am

NSA can start out with the best intentions on both sides.
It gets complicated when the experience becomes so enjoyable you start taking risks.
I steer well clear of married women for that very reason.
There is only one married woman I would with whom I'd start a relationship.
Only because I know her situation so well.
We have discussed it often enough. All it requires is for me to come to America.
That might be a string.
BTW. Great profile and pics.

Disman51954 66M

12/29/2008 3:07 pm

It sure can, but it is totally based on the two people involved. I, like you, would need to be discreet and therefore must remain with NSA. If you truly want the extra attention you seek, as you clearly look like you deserve it, I hope that you would write me back. I've been there, done it, and would like to "do it rite" again....but with you this time. I'll await word from you. Be well and stay beautiful.

rm_DC_Atty 60M
475 posts
1/27/2009 2:13 am

If the session is good, at least one thread (or more) attaches. I can't help but to feel/build some form of connection.

Trapper69 63G
2537 posts
2/11/2009 10:22 pm

NSA...Hmmmmm,,,,National Sex Association...No, that's not what you meant now is it!!! No Strings Attached...yes, it's possible, NSA can work, but it only works if all involved are mature adults who can control their emotions. By "mature" I'm NOT referring to age, although usually those who are a bit older seem to be able to make NSA relationships work. All parties involved must be on the same page and discuss their expectations, wants, needs, limits, etc. fully before entering into this kind of relationship! I've enjoyed several NSA relationship over the past 30 years with both women & M/F couples; some lasted less than a year, some a few years & 2 have lasted 20+ years. I wish you good luck as NSA can be quite rewarding if it's with the right person/people.

rm_pmowl59 61M
9 posts
5/23/2009 1:44 pm

yes it does as long as both understand up front what is going on. If you would like to explore it send me a message

rm_af1980111 40M
15 posts
10/18/2009 5:04 pm

why does it need to be complicated? I mean seriously, the main difference is when people have emotions going into it or not. I personally have had several NSA relationships and they were all enjoyable and all ended quite well.

I personally think that people bring to much of themselves and attachment into the picture when at the end of the day, it's about the sex that matters. If it wasn't, then whats the point of the NSA thing????

rm_jojodancerx1 49M
22 posts
11/20/2009 7:19 pm

i feel it exists as long as you are open and honest about how you feel. i believe most men,(myself included) are looking for a sexual relationship first, but for me, if something serious grows out of it, great. in my opinion, men need to understand that when some women decide to have sex she is giving her entire self, mind and body. its a huge deal for a woman, but for a lot of men, if not all(lol) its all physical.

rurandy469 64M
3 posts
8/27/2013 4:30 pm

I believe it exists, BUT, only for certain types of people. Personally, I find that if I'm in a relationship with someone, and we are making love, I can't help but form a bond with that person.

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