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earth2adam4u 56M
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9/7/2019 12:42 pm

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Do women like to "just fuck"?

The key to this question / poll is NOT to ask if women love having sex. Clearly they enjoy it just as much, if not more than men. The question is more something like do women and men mean the same thing "NSA".

We all know guys are and would fuck any reasonable attractive disease free woman "presented" her self to him (want to fuck him). To a guy it is primarily a physical question: where and when?

However is it the same for women? Answering question is the goal of this poll. The poll gives you a few choices but be sure to elaborate on your opinion with a comment. is what makes polls interesting beyond the vote itself which is always fun to look at.

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Just to clarify a question was asked in comments about the meaning of NSA as used in the context of this poll:

NSA: "Basically, two horny people who find each other sexually interesting and decide to fuck simply because it will satisfy each others sexual needs.
Women and men are essentially the same and would just fuck under the same circumstances.
Women are more focussed on the relationship aspect so even for NSA there needs to be some sort of connection.
Women are even more horny than men and tend to be more permissive given the opportunity.
Women would love to just fuck at the drop of a hat, but are held back by their own inner compass.
Women just have complicated needs so it is impossible to gereralize but they are definitely different from men.
Guys are just dogs and women are nothing like them when it comes to their ability to "just fuck"


earth2adam4u 56M
108 posts
9/7/2019 12:55 pm

I am really looking forward to reading the comments on this poll. Given that it is AdultFriendFinder most of the votes will probably come from men, so I strongly encourage women to leave a comment so that your voice is heard lout and clear. I really want to hear what everyone has to say on this topic, but I am especially interested in what women have to to say.

So may sure you leave a comment and do not forget to ask your friends to vote in the poll (especially if you are a woman).


HAMONMAN 61M
10202 posts
9/7/2019 1:01 pm

Guys are just dogs


earth2adam4u replies on 9/7/2019 3:07 pm:
Yes they are.

BiggLala 48F  
28948 posts
9/7/2019 2:34 pm

Before I vote, or provide further comment, I ask that you define what you mean by NSA. Yes, I know the acronym is for 'no strings attached', but what does that mean for the purpose of your poll?

I know what it means to *me*, but it might not mean the same to you.

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earth2adam4u replies on 9/7/2019 3:05 pm:
Basically two horny people who find each other sexually interesting and decide to fuck simply because it will satisfy each others sexual needs.
Hope that gives you a starting point, but feel free to vote and just elaborate in a comment. That is where you get to define NSA your way and explain under what circumstances you choose to have sex.

earth2adam4u replies on 9/7/2019 3:06 pm:
If that did not fully answer your question, feel free to follow up with a new question and I will do my best to answer it.

BiggLala 48F  
28948 posts
9/7/2019 4:53 pm

Based on your definition, I voted "Women and men are essentially the same and would just fuck under the same circumstances."

That said, I think your definition is rather broad. Obviously, mutual sexual attraction is a given, but my definition of NSA is either:
-two people have sex one time, never to see each other again; or
-people see each other regularly for sex, but have no communication or interaction otherwise, or in between sexual encounters. Most likely they don't even know each other's last name. They only contact each other to schedule their next encounter.

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earth2adam4u replies on 9/7/2019 7:16 pm:
I would say that NSA does not need to be one time, but it probably starts out with the understanding that it might be one time. If both parties like it then it could happen more than once or even become regular as your second scenarios describes but at that point I would almost say that the NSA had become FWB, but then we have to define FWB.

IVFalternative 49M
630 posts
9/7/2019 5:43 pm

The idea that all guys will fuck any available woman is nonsense. Desperate guys are like that. It's true that there are a lot of desperate guys but that doesn't mean we all are.

Some women will have NSA as readily as most men do.
Lot's of women will have NSA sex if it's discreet.
Lot's of women would have NSA sex if the odds were better of finding a skilled partner.
Some women won't fuck unless you marry them.

Most people aren't very interested in sex that doesn't bring them to orgasm. If the average woman was as bad at pleasing men sexually as the average man is at pleasing women then men also would be more reluctant to bother with NSA sex.

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earth2adam4u replies on 9/7/2019 7:18 pm:
All good points. The poll is not perfect but i think u see what i was going for. But the discussion is where i hope it gets interesting so thanks for your contribution.

BiggLala 48F  
28948 posts
9/7/2019 7:45 pm

"...it could happen more than once or even become regular as your second scenarios describes but at that point I would almost say that the NSA had become FWB, but then we have to define FWB."
-This would not become an FWB situation for me simply because we had sex regularly, we'd just be fuck buddies.

For me, FWB is the *friend* that I talk to, learn about, do non-sexual things with in between sexual encounters, in addition to us having sex. I consider friendship a 'string'. It is a genuine friendship with the benefit of having sex, and is also non exclusive.

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earth2adam4u replies on 9/7/2019 10:12 pm:
Yea - i agree. Its kinda on the way to FWB, maybe but "fuck buddy" is a much better term for it.

earth2adam4u replies on 9/7/2019 10:13 pm:
And i agree that FWB should be a more on the friend side than a "fuck buddy" so you are also right on that point.

seems6666 50F
4118 posts
9/8/2019 7:43 am

Blimey! that got complicated real quick
I cannot fuck a stranger, there has to be a connection, both mentally and physically. I am ideally looking for a relationship but that is hard to find here so thought I would try a FWB situation, as Lala described, someone you do things with outside the bedroom but also have sex. My first attempt at that didn't really go well.... he wanted the benefits but not the friendship, despite us talking about our wants and intentions... so I knocked it on the head, I don't want to be a booty call whenever he feels the need


earth2adam4u replies on 9/8/2019 8:44 am:
Well put. I think you essentially hit what this poll is about. And if it leads to an open discussion like this then great. Thanks for such an insightful comment.

Its often not a good idea to generalize so that is where polls can be problematic. But they create a starting point for discussion. These comments are where we get into the meat of the matter (if u will excuse the pun lol).

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