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electrastorm69 39F  
1269 posts
9/22/2019 11:52 am
I wish...

In a perfect world we would all find what we're looking for and get laid at the same time However there seems to be constant challenges in getting a connection going.

What are some of your biggest "I wish...." moments here on AdultFriendFinder?
I wish people would respond to IMs, emails, etc
I wish women were not so picky
I wish men would make more effort to connect
I wish coordinating a time, place, etc to hook-up was easier
I wish I didn't have to deal with so many fakes, flakes & con-artists
I wish people were more open, forthright & honest
I wish getting laid wasn't so much work!

electrastorm69 39F  
261 posts
9/22/2019 11:55 am

I wish the people I connected to were closer.

mdrguy 56M  
37 posts
9/22/2019 11:58 am

I always question whether half the people in here are for real

Lasttry731 41M
77 posts
9/22/2019 12:07 pm

Connections are important. At least for me. I enjoy working for it as long as the other is too. Finding someone full of raw passion and desire that's not a bad hopper is hard to find. I'm ok with weeding through the fakes and flakes. I also understand this site has its issues which we all have to deal with to find what we are looking for.

12759 posts
9/22/2019 12:16 pm



s2ndegree 61M  
9736 posts
9/22/2019 4:22 pm

I guess I'm living in a perfect world!

Using more than all the road!

PooCsuka 52M
42 posts
9/22/2019 4:29 pm

I wish all of the above.

jolielaide 48F  
1399 posts
9/22/2019 5:55 pm

of those that i am aware of, there are female members who have been called stupid, idiot, self-righteous, bitch and even worse. why? because they did not allow themselves to be bullied or blindly acquiesce to the whim of a male member who is a rude, pushy j/o that is attempting to get laid. what is wrong with trying to make a connection, build a rapport, see if you're a psycho or not? and if a female says no, guys you don't have to be a tool.

and like you, electra, i feel like there are some real good people that i have been able to connect with on here, too bad we're not closer to each other

massageug00d 58M
40 posts
9/22/2019 6:05 pm

Most of the above.

author51 57F  
96518 posts
9/23/2019 7:30 am

There were a few of them but I voted for people who were more open and honest, which also falls under the fakes and scammers one. I must say though that one will find those open and honest ones here in Blog Land for the most part.. We are all very real and when one writes straight from the heart, one can not find more open honesty right there...

Good poll...Cheers!

One can never have enough JOY in their life...

author51 57F  
96518 posts
9/23/2019 7:33 am

I definitely know that one as well first hand.. I had a year long lover from far away I would travel to but the long distance we really hard to overcome..

There is one special man I wish I lived closer to.. a Male blogger and have plans to travel to him as well..Sigh!! Messages and phone calls help, but nothing better than being able to touch the real thing in real time...

One can never have enough JOY in their life...

I_willoralu 46M
1543 posts
9/23/2019 7:35 am

I wanted to vote for 2 of them. I wish people would answer IMs and emails even if they are not interested for whatever reason. At least then you know they got the message and it wasn't AdultFriendFinder just not working.

Second I wish there was not so many fakes. Hate always seeing profiles of woman that are just wanting you to go to another site and pay

reach me in my blog titled private mail

Toess10 40M
30 posts
9/23/2019 12:19 pm

Too many fakes! It affects those who are real and can/wont put up much personal info. I tend to skip the profiles with 1 or 2 pictures, and/or limited info in the profile.

More comms would be good to. Well more reliable comms!

hillcountryman60 61M
154 posts
9/23/2019 12:53 pm

Interesting poll, if ppl were more honest and open then you wouldn't have to deal with fakes. The emails and IM issue is more of AdultFriendFinder fault. Interesting poll, very good.

DripOnMyTongue5 49M
5 posts
9/24/2019 6:32 am

That's a good story and I get points too

Ronbin32 27M
48 posts
10/1/2019 7:22 am

fica sempre um pouco próximo pra troca ideias ,conversar,dar conselho, e outras coisa amais

Discreetmeetfish 53M
41 posts
10/2/2019 7:34 am

I've found that just getting to the initial communication helps work through all the rest of the list. I really wish people would just respond. In any regard I really just wish it weren't so hard to find someone who shared my cravings.

FWBssshhh 35M
12 posts
10/7/2019 10:32 am

Soooo many fakes and guys posing as women/ guys posing as a couple.

Redrighder 27F
17 posts
10/10/2019 7:28 pm

I wish all of the above some days

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