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electrastorm69 40F
1224 posts
9/15/2019 7:57 am
Is it $worth$ it ?

How much $$investment$$ are you willing to make for a hook-up on this site?
Only investing my time/effort - not touching my wallet!
Cost of a room and some condoms to get the deed done!
Willing to invest in a first meet for coffee/drinks, then see where it leads.
Both parties should split the bill for activities
Anything more than the cost of a pro is not worth it!
If she/he is worth it, money is not an issue!


electrastorm69 40F

9/15/2019 7:58 am

Comment if you see things differently, thanks in advance for voting


benhereagain 64M
50 posts
9/15/2019 8:28 am

yes we should pay for coffe and maybe a meal to get to know the lady
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funsnellvillecpl 64M/52F  
3751 posts
9/15/2019 8:41 am

to many hookers on here since yahoo stopped ad's for sex


cotobato50 71M

9/15/2019 8:55 am

I make sure my intentions are clear from the start- if we like what we see then lets do it- other wise I can go to a few brothels and check out the material there


Toppingnbottming 40M
109 posts
9/15/2019 9:08 am

There's a lot of fake profiles out there...


Sgt_Tarado 32M
32 posts
9/15/2019 10:05 am

😁


milk69man69 57M
90 posts
9/15/2019 10:41 am

I dont do brothels or any other such services.

Call me old me old fashioned, but I would not under any circumstances consider asking any lady whom Im on a date with, to pay for 1 cent of anything.


lonlyforlove2 78M
33427 posts
9/15/2019 1:28 pm

Some things you can't put a price on, this is a judgement call on a case by case issue.. But nothing to the up front hooker or scammer, don't need any thing they got..

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Heathen_G 62M
7955 posts
9/15/2019 1:39 pm

Reading through these gave me a good laugh. This is 2019 and there are still those penis people who think they have to pay for a woman to visit with him at a meeting. That kind of attitude today, is a clear showing of lack of self esteem, or just plain foolishness.

A woman, whom a man has no intimate history with, is only another person. Absolutely nothing whatsoever is a special enough reason about her to spend any amount of money [on].

So why do these guys insist they must spend his money to meet with a woman?

Because he is a guy who feels he needs to kiss up to women, a guy who feels that he needs to buy a woman's affection with gifts, drinks, dinners, compliments...[so sad:] because , in truth, he can't imagine that a woman would want to be with him just for him.

That is truly sad about these males. Immediately he has introduced himself a doormat.


Heathen_G 62M
7955 posts
9/15/2019 1:53 pm

    Quoting funsnellvillecpl:
    to many hookers on here since yahoo stopped ad's for sex
I don't know why hookers being on this site should bother anyone.

Men are given the choice, now. Try to get a woman to visit him offline, or pay a woman for sex. Seems fair to me.

But, isn't "Paying for her, coffee, drinks or food" , just another way of saying , "I'll pay for your company"?... Well , yes it is.

So is hooking always bout sex?... No. Women who expect a man to pay her way, is also hooking, but hooking for attention.


hirajind 39M
49 posts
9/16/2019 12:53 am

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tryme992012 62M
49 posts
9/16/2019 4:09 pm

if the women is really worth it then go for it. otherwise meet and greet for a drink is best.


wantyoufucked 56M
42 posts
9/16/2019 10:36 pm

Paying for a coffee , is a lot cheaper than going to a brothel . If it don't work out you have spent a few quid


Ndsomefun2018 52M
152 posts
9/16/2019 10:57 pm

I would in vest in buying coffee and dinner and then c were it goes


Maxbillion87 34M
49 posts
9/16/2019 11:07 pm

Whatever gets you laid right


Cardinal863 57M
2 posts
9/17/2019 6:14 am

    Quoting funsnellvillecpl:
    to many hookers on here since yahoo stopped ad's for sex
Where are these Hooker's. I don't see any on here. That would be a treat.


Grangeroanonimo 43M
209 posts
9/17/2019 7:48 am

Solo mi tiempo pero si si vale la pena si pagaría


KinkyGaBoy 51M  
16 posts
9/17/2019 11:57 am

Not trying to be a sugar daddy. Looking for mutual benefits.


Grangeroanonimo 43M
209 posts
9/17/2019 1:24 pm

No gastar tanto


10mikie10 72M  
3 posts
9/17/2019 8:34 pm

I am sorry but I have to disagree with you completely.

As one person said a few comments back, maybe I am too old, but I was always brought up that men walked on the curb side, opened doors for women, paid for the meal or what ever if he is the one that invited her, and treated women with respect, no matter what.


Heathen_G 62M
7955 posts
9/18/2019 1:04 am

    Quoting 10mikie10:
    I am sorry but I have to disagree with you completely.

    As one person said a few comments back, maybe I am too old, but I was always brought up that men walked on the curb side, opened doors for women, paid for the meal or what ever if he is the one that invited her, and treated women with respect, no matter what.
That's great you were brought up that way, but women [whom the man has no intimate history with] today don't deserve that kind of behavior from a man.

Your lessons , back when you were a kid and a teen are antiquated , and only make you seem ill informed, behind the times.

Women, exclusively, your age and older, unless they were turned, probably deserve that kind of behavior.


Heathen_G 62M
7955 posts
9/18/2019 1:08 am

Willing to invest in a first meet for coffee/drinks, then see where it leads

Those people, who chose that one, are fools. That isn't an , "Investment", that's a gambling loss.

Men should just pay for himself , meeting with an unknown woman.


dick03081953 67M
90 posts
9/18/2019 7:06 am

Only fair that both parties split the cost of any 1st encounter.


BenSteel5 62M
17 posts
9/18/2019 8:29 am

ill pay to meet ...then go from there


rollmeover2019 64M
79 posts
9/18/2019 8:48 am

trade


aniceride 51M  
117 posts
9/18/2019 9:20 am

money shouldn't be an issue,time & quality is.


tastemeY 55M  
124 posts
9/18/2019 11:00 am

I've paid for pussy from this website already! Worth every penny


luvhandle14 55M  
705 posts
9/18/2019 11:28 am

It depends, usually I am prepared to buy drinks or a light diner, but also prepared to get a hotel room if there is no other easy accommodation. In any case i will provide condoms, different lubes and bottled water when it is getting serious.
But if i should pay pro-prices I am looking for a professional, and that is not someone who tries to scam me by pretending to be someone else.


Showyouinsac 47M
78 posts
9/18/2019 2:17 pm

First time meeting and get to know each other, then go from there.


flasher4u3 64M  
97 posts
9/18/2019 3:57 pm

I voted for coffee and see where it goes but really this has to be judged on a case by case basis.


Wonder167 54F

9/18/2019 4:28 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    That's great you were brought up that way, but women [whom the man has no intimate history with] today don't deserve that kind of behavior from a man.

    Your lessons , back when you were a kid and a teen are antiquated , and only make you seem ill informed, behind the times.

    Women, exclusively, your age and older, unless they were turned, probably deserve that kind of behavior.
I am only referring to your last comment here. What's the difference with a woman his age and women now? Why would they be more deserving of that kind of behavior? (as you put it) Very curious to the answer.


Heathen_G 62M
7955 posts
9/18/2019 5:17 pm

    Quoting Wonder167:
    I am only referring to your last comment here. What's the difference with a woman his age and women now? Why would they be more deserving of that kind of behavior? (as you put it) Very curious to the answer.
Good question... I renounce that one statement.

Women have been making their own paycheck and have been officially recognized as a social equals to men.

For women to also insist on certain courtesies granted to women dependent on men, bestowed on her, too, is laughable. There is no reason to give these women undeserved special treatment any more.

This reality of today leaves those men with , "Gentleman-influenza",socially degraded doormat-men for women to wipe her shoes on.


prairieranger00 62M

9/18/2019 5:20 pm

Well, it depends on how much I've had to drink.


Mikemike107015 51M
135 posts
9/19/2019 5:46 am

Other than the cost of my membership I only invest my time.


bruno222999 52M

9/19/2019 7:26 am

I've only paid for points. Most of what I do here only cost that. Only other cost was the gas to rendezvous...


Granny5761 60F
12 posts
9/19/2019 10:04 am

For the right person money is no object but I am very picky.


TheElitesTRIAL 27M

9/19/2019 11:05 am

50 points

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Ilovemassageass 39M
24 posts
9/19/2019 11:35 am

Lovely!


DiscoverMidlife 55M
124 posts
9/19/2019 1:24 pm

I invest money and time to get what I want.


Mann4u2nite 50M
24 posts
9/19/2019 7:14 pm

Make it a date night...and see where it goes


69ereatwetpussy 59M
6000 posts
9/19/2019 7:22 pm

im glad to host when time aloud. willing to get a room but don't ask me for money after we a done. will have coffee or drink even make you dinner or breakfast. just don't expect money. you want sexy as much as I do we will get along.


MomoBear1 71M/106F  
345 posts
9/19/2019 8:00 pm

We have never charged or paid for sex, we do it free and love all we do, if anyone asks for payment we do not entertain them. My wife is very Bi and loves anal too


381stcomsq 66M  
66 posts
9/19/2019 9:51 pm

last time cost me a single dip ice cream cone.... it was good....>>!


proteus_2a 55M
7979 posts
9/20/2019 12:14 am

Whatever anyone would invest on any given social acquaintance
And always along the lines of existing chemistry

Anything more, is simply a hard to maintain exaggeration

Cheers - P


Smartwolf69 43M
5 posts
9/20/2019 2:15 am

if you pay for sex its not the same


AnewWoman 63F
266 posts
9/20/2019 6:16 am

I use to be upfront about insisting the person I was meeting pay for coffee or a meal. Nowadays I offer to cover my expense, but with that said the men still always insist on paying the tab.


29HornynBored 36M
16 posts
9/20/2019 8:35 am

really depends on if its going to be a 1 time deal or an ongoing thing.


sassos 55M
41 posts
9/20/2019 12:35 pm

It's good to be generous ...in every way


Punkerelli 41M

9/20/2019 1:54 pm

The first arranged meeting, I only pay for myself for drinks, meal, etc. If something long term or occasional develops, I would have no problem offering to pick up a tab.


Spidey604 43M
82 posts
9/20/2019 7:06 pm

I did hook up more and meet when I was Gold. Not willing to do that again though. I think


ChiMichelle 31F

9/21/2019 12:08 pm

LOL at all the men who think a woman should have sex with random men who don't think she is worth a cup of coffee!!!! So many involuntarily celibate (incels) losers on here , hahaha


BadScreename 41M
6 posts
9/21/2019 1:13 pm

This place has made me skeptical and a pessimist. Definitely a public first meeting just to make sure the other person is actually who and what they say they are.


YourGoodLukCharm 62M
79 posts
9/21/2019 1:14 pm

Have always been willing to spring for the first meet & greet for coffee, a drink, &/or some food at a neutral place for both of our safety. This allows one to see if there is truly some shared interests & chemistry without giving away to much personal information first & gives each a chance to get through the first meeting butterflies. If the common denominator is there, as adults we can then decide to get down somewhere or move on at that moment or perhaps meet again at a at a later date.
I've had a variety of scenarios play out, whereby some are looking for more of a long term relationship and there have been others that just want to play & be made love to with some mutual orgasms. Then there are those that wish to be dominated & those that have a few kinks & fetishes that they need worked on & fulfilled! Different strokes for different folks that are different from day to day. Such is the wonderful variety of the human condition from day to day...
I think the older iterations of this site allowed for much better interaction between members. We have lost a great many privileges & features that made this site function better than it does today for both std. & gold members. Tis a shame & I do believe that by trying to monetize every aspect of this site has changed the makeup of its members & yes there are some that are hookers or want roses or something to meet. Hopefully you can figure that out beforehand. Sometimes it's right there in a profile. I also believe that since cell phones have become ubiquitous it has diminished etiquette & attention spans for using the IM, which truly, truly needs some upgrades; like how you can call a message "delivered" but not "read" a "chat" which by definition is a conversation between 2 or more people, not a one way dialogue is beyond me. I could point out quite a few more things but won't. I just know that my area seems to have a real lack of active members & you can no longer screen out the inactive ones but have to trawl through all of them, or search by zip code when traveling, that I don't feel Gold membership is worth it anymore


southrnaccent17 55M
27 posts
9/22/2019 12:35 am

Well I believe the question was for "hook-up" not date. Just hook up I believe split cost... Date - yes, I invest in drinks and a meal..


likeit563 68M
22 posts
9/22/2019 11:17 am

I would spring for a few drinks on first meet


lokingforfun82 40M
205 posts
9/22/2019 1:47 pm

I'm not down to pay for sex, but investing in meeting could always become an issue depending on personal circumstance. sex site or not, if you meet someone on here it's almost as if you were going on a date unless both parities are purely in it for some raw sex and just want to get down to it. otherwise there will be some kind of financial responsibility either or both or all parties involved..


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1 post
9/23/2019 7:04 am

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rebelram999999 52M
72 posts
9/23/2019 9:41 am

As a gentleman, i would def pay for coffee, dinner or the first "date" to get to know the person and see where it leads. Least i can do.

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Thequarry 43M
23 posts
9/23/2019 10:53 pm

I have to agree with the masses on this one


herbman693 34M
18 posts
9/28/2019 9:02 am

If she's 10 yeah anything


Discreetmeetfish 54M
41 posts
10/2/2019 7:20 am

funny how you put in the choice about the pro. I laugh because i'm pretty sure that about 80% of the single women are possibly hookers but that's just a feeling no data to truly evaluate. Anyway why worry about money shouldn't be the main focus.


biseoulcpl 48M/36F

10/20/2019 9:40 pm

We often host, often visit others homes and hotels, sometimes there're meals and drinks and the like, but rarely any real amount of money being expended. We sometimes travel to organized events, but those are well established with people we know. Occasionally hubby invests in professionals, usually shemale escorts for something special but that's the exception


fishersman68 53M
48 posts
11/2/2019 12:26 pm

I just really want some pussy


nastypoppie33 43M
85 posts
11/22/2019 11:33 am

For me it will always depend on the person and the situation because I usually go and vibe off of the woman to see where's her head is at to determine how to approach the situation. Me personally Im open to most of any and all situations and circumstances sexually so it just a matter of what type of woman I'm dealing with at that point and time.


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