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Is it $worth$ it ?
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Is it $worth$ it ? |
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Comment if you see things differently, thanks in advance for voting 
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First time meeting , I would treat
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yes we should pay for coffe and maybe a meal to get to know the lady 4251343
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to many hookers on here since yahoo stopped ad's for sex
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9/15/2019 8:55 am |
I make sure my intentions are clear from the start- if we like what we see then lets do it- other wise I can go to a few brothels and check out the material there
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There's a lot of fake profiles out there...
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😁
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I dont do brothels or any other such services. Call me old me old fashioned, but I would not under any circumstances consider asking any lady whom Im on a date with, to pay for 1 cent of anything.
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Some things you can't put a price on, this is a judgement call on a case by case issue.. But nothing to the up front hooker or scammer, don't need any thing they got..
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Reading through these gave me a good laugh. This is 2019 and there are still those penis people who think they have to pay for a woman to visit with him at a meeting. That kind of attitude today, is a clear showing of lack of self esteem, or just plain foolishness. A woman, whom a man has no intimate history with, is only another person. Absolutely nothing whatsoever is a special enough reason about her to spend any amount of money [on]. So why do these guys insist they must spend his money to meet with a woman? Because he is a guy who feels he needs to kiss up to women, a guy who feels that he needs to buy a woman's affection with gifts, drinks, dinners, compliments...[so sad:] because , in truth, he can't imagine that a woman would want to be with him just for him. That is truly sad about these males. Immediately he has introduced himself a doormat.
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to many hookers on here since yahoo stopped ad's for sex Men are given the choice, now. Try to get a woman to visit him offline, or pay a woman for sex. Seems fair to me. But, isn't "Paying for her, coffee, drinks or food" , just another way of saying , "I'll pay for your company"?... Well , yes it is. So is hooking always bout sex?... No. Women who expect a man to pay her way, is also hooking, but hooking for attention.
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sexy pic
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Public place, meet and greet coffee not alcohol always the smart answer to this question
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if the women is really worth it then go for it. otherwise meet and greet for a drink is best.
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Paying for a coffee , is a lot cheaper than going to a brothel . If it don't work out you have spent a few quid
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I would in vest in buying coffee and dinner and then c were it goes
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Whatever gets you laid right
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Meet for coffee if all goes well then get a room or play elsewhere
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to many hookers on here since yahoo stopped ad's for sex
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Really depends on what was establish before when u find a non fake person !
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Solo mi tiempo pero si si vale la pena si pagaría
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Sure I would spring for a cup of coffee, if there was a chance of me getting cock, but guys wanting to cum wouldn't care so i could save the money(honey).
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Not trying to be a sugar daddy. Looking for mutual benefits.
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No gastar tanto
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I am sorry but I have to disagree with you completely. As one person said a few comments back, maybe I am too old, but I was always brought up that men walked on the curb side, opened doors for women, paid for the meal or what ever if he is the one that invited her, and treated women with respect, no matter what.
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Well just depends. We aren't footing the bill for people we have never met. Either they could unreliable and not show or they do show and are total weirdos. So first time I would say meet for a drink or two. We would expect each party to pay for themselves. From there, if there is a next step, wouldn't have a problem spending money on a room for a night of fun
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I am sorry but I have to disagree with you completely. As one person said a few comments back, maybe I am too old, but I was always brought up that men walked on the curb side, opened doors for women, paid for the meal or what ever if he is the one that invited her, and treated women with respect, no matter what. Your lessons , back when you were a kid and a teen are antiquated , and only make you seem ill informed, behind the times. Women, exclusively, your age and older, unless they were turned, probably deserve that kind of behavior.
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Willing to invest in a first meet for coffee/drinks, then see where it leads Those people, who chose that one, are fools. That isn't an , "Investment", that's a gambling loss. Men should just pay for himself , meeting with an unknown woman.
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Only fair that both parties split the cost of any 1st encounter.
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A couple looking for a single male, single male pays. Couples fors couple 50/50 or every other time if multiple meetings. Couples for single females couple buys. Just our thoughts.
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Certainly willing to invest a little time and money for lunch/dinner/chat/meet and greet. What do the parties have to lose.....their virginity?
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ill pay to meet ...then go from there
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trade
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money shouldn't be an issue,time & quality is.
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you should have said this is for the guys only
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I've paid for pussy from this website already! Worth every penny
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It depends, usually I am prepared to buy drinks or a light diner, but also prepared to get a hotel room if there is no other easy accommodation. In any case i will provide condoms, different lubes and bottled water when it is getting serious. But if i should pay pro-prices I am looking for a professional, and that is not someone who tries to scam me by pretending to be someone else. 
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First time meeting and get to know each other, then go from there.
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É sempre bom investir
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I voted for coffee and see where it goes but really this has to be judged on a case by case basis.
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That's great you were brought up that way, but women [whom the man has no intimate history with] today don't deserve that kind of behavior from a man. Your lessons , back when you were a kid and a teen are antiquated , and only make you seem ill informed, behind the times. Women, exclusively, your age and older, unless they were turned, probably deserve that kind of behavior.
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I am only referring to your last comment here. What's the difference with a woman his age and women now? Why would they be more deserving of that kind of behavior? (as you put it) Very curious to the answer. Women have been making their own paycheck and have been officially recognized as a social equals to men. For women to also insist on certain courtesies granted to women dependent on men, bestowed on her, too, is laughable. There is no reason to give these women undeserved special treatment any more. This reality of today leaves those men with , "Gentleman-influenza",socially degraded doormat-men for women to wipe her shoes on.
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9/18/2019 5:20 pm |
Well, it depends on how much I've had to drink.
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Other than the cost of my membership I only invest my time.
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I've only paid for points. Most of what I do here only cost that. Only other cost was the gas to rendezvous...
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For the right person money is no object but I am very picky.
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50 points
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Lovely!
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I invest money and time to get what I want.
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Make it a date night...and see where it goes
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im glad to host when time aloud. willing to get a room but don't ask me for money after we a done. will have coffee or drink even make you dinner or breakfast. just don't expect money. you want sexy as much as I do we will get along.
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We have never charged or paid for sex, we do it free and love all we do, if anyone asks for payment we do not entertain them. My wife is very Bi and loves anal too
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last time cost me a single dip ice cream cone.... it was good.... >>!
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Whatever anyone would invest on any given social acquaintance And always along the lines of existing chemistry Anything more, is simply a hard to maintain exaggeration Cheers - P
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if you pay for sex its not the same
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I use to be upfront about insisting the person I was meeting pay for coffee or a meal. Nowadays I offer to cover my expense, but with that said the men still always insist on paying the tab. Just another day in paradise living my dream Standard members should be able to view my profile and message me.
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really depends on if its going to be a 1 time deal or an ongoing thing.
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It's good to be generous ...in every way
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The first arranged meeting, I only pay for myself for drinks, meal, etc. If something long term or occasional develops, I would have no problem offering to pick up a tab.
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I did hook up more and meet when I was Gold. Not willing to do that again though. I think
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sometimes we cant make money an issue even though it does work like a catalyst...you have to know your worth and your partner's worth
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9/21/2019 12:08 pm |
LOL at all the men who think a woman should have sex with random men who don't think she is worth a cup of coffee!!!! So many involuntarily celibate (incels) losers on here , hahaha
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1 post 9/21/2019 1:13 pm |
This place has made me skeptical and a pessimist. Definitely a public first meeting just to make sure the other person is actually who and what they say they are.
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Have always been willing to spring for the first meet & greet for coffee, a drink, &/or some food at a neutral place for both of our safety. This allows one to see if there is truly some shared interests & chemistry without giving away to much personal information first & gives each a chance to get through the first meeting butterflies. If the common denominator is there, as adults we can then decide to get down somewhere or move on at that moment or perhaps meet again at a at a later date. I've had a variety of scenarios play out, whereby some are looking for more of a long term relationship and there have been others that just want to play & be made love to with some mutual orgasms. Then there are those that wish to be dominated & those that have a few kinks & fetishes that they need worked on & fulfilled! Different strokes for different folks that are different from day to day. Such is the wonderful variety of the human condition from day to day... I think the older iterations of this site allowed for much better interaction between members. We have lost a great many privileges & features that made this site function better than it does today for both std. & gold members. Tis a shame & I do believe that by trying to monetize every aspect of this site has changed the makeup of its members & yes there are some that are hookers or want roses or something to meet. Hopefully you can figure that out beforehand. Sometimes it's right there in a profile. I also believe that since cell phones have become ubiquitous it has diminished etiquette & attention spans for using the IM, which truly, truly needs some upgrades; like how you can call a message "delivered" but not "read" a "chat" which by definition is a conversation between 2 or more people, not a one way dialogue is beyond me. I could point out quite a few more things but won't. I just know that my area seems to have a real lack of active members & you can no longer screen out the inactive ones but have to trawl through all of them, or search by zip code when traveling, that I don't feel Gold membership is worth it anymore
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Provided that it does make you a professional...…!
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Well I believe the question was for "hook-up" not date. Just hook up I believe split cost... Date - yes, I invest in drinks and a meal..
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I would spring for a few drinks on first meet
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I'm not down to pay for sex, but investing in meeting could always become an issue depending on personal circumstance. sex site or not, if you meet someone on here it's almost as if you were going on a date unless both parities are purely in it for some raw sex and just want to get down to it. otherwise there will be some kind of financial responsibility either or both or all parties involved..
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1 post 9/22/2019 8:30 pm |
This thought applies mostly to ongoing relationships, but in this era of equal rights (and equal pay) for women, I think expenses should be shared. Usually I prefer that whoever suggests going to a particular place pays the bill there. If I ask her out to dinner, that means it's my treat. If she suggests going to a movie together, I kind of expect her to pay for both of us. I know not all women agree so I don't get upset if she expects me to pay, but I'm not filthy rich and the simple sad fact is that some women are more expensive than they're worth.
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1 post 9/23/2019 7:04 am |
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A true gentleman! Not too many around. I prefer to go Dutch treat, so I don’t feel the pressure of having to sleep with a man on the first meet. If we click, then it’s on! I hear there are fakes, flakes and women out there wanting money. GUYS!!!!! The first time a woman asked you for money, report her, put a comment on her testimonial as being a money whore and block her! That’s what I do with men asking me for money. Report, put a comment on his testimonial and then block him. Good luck!
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I have to agree with the masses on this one
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Only time and effort.
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Not a paying member but have met a couple ladies in person thru IM
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I usually do spring for the meal, drink etc at the first meet. Is nice to meet someone who at least offers to help with the bill. Shows maturity
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If she's 10 yeah anything
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I usually pay, but I also respect a woman that insists on splitting the bill or the room.
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funny how you put in the choice about the pro. I laugh because i'm pretty sure that about 80% of the single women are possibly hookers but that's just a feeling no data to truly evaluate. Anyway why worry about money shouldn't be the main focus.
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10/20/2019 9:40 pm |
We often host, often visit others homes and hotels, sometimes there're meals and drinks and the like, but rarely any real amount of money being expended. We sometimes travel to organized events, but those are well established with people we know. Occasionally hubby invests in professionals, usually shemale escorts for something special but that's the exception
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I just really want some pussy
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For me it will always depend on the person and the situation because I usually go and vibe off of the woman to see where's her head is at to determine how to approach the situation. Me personally Im open to most of any and all situations and circumstances sexually so it just a matter of what type of woman I'm dealing with at that point and time.
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