Is it $worth$ it ?  

electrastorm69 38F  
1272 posts
9/15/2019 7:57 am
Is it $worth$ it ?

How much $$investment$$ are you willing to make for a hook-up on this site?
Only investing my time/effort - not touching my wallet!
Cost of a room and some condoms to get the deed done!
Willing to invest in a first meet for coffee/drinks, then see where it leads.
Both parties should split the bill for activities
Anything more than the cost of a pro is not worth it!
If she/he is worth it, money is not an issue!


electrastorm69 38F  
216 posts
9/15/2019 7:58 am

Comment if you see things differently, thanks in advance for voting


1quietguy35404 70M
334 posts
9/15/2019 8:23 am

First time meeting , I would treat


benhereagain 62M
49 posts
9/15/2019 8:28 am

yes we should pay for coffe and maybe a meal to get to know the lady
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funsnellvillecpl 62M/50F  
2199 posts
9/15/2019 8:41 am

to many hookers on here since yahoo stopped ad's for sex


cotobato50 69M

9/15/2019 8:55 am

I make sure my intentions are clear from the start- if we like what we see then lets do it- other wise I can go to a few brothels and check out the material there


Toppingnbottming 38M
36 posts
9/15/2019 9:08 am

There's a lot of fake profiles out there...


Sgt_Tarado 30M
31 posts
9/15/2019 10:05 am

😁


milk69man69 55M
64 posts
9/15/2019 10:41 am

I dont do brothels or any other such services.

Call me old me old fashioned, but I would not under any circumstances consider asking any lady whom Im on a date with, to pay for 1 cent of anything.


lonlyforlove2 77M  
2804 posts
9/15/2019 1:28 pm

Some things you can't put a price on, this is a judgement call on a case by case issue.. But nothing to the up front hooker or scammer, don't need any thing they got..


Heathen_G 61M
7183 posts
9/15/2019 1:39 pm

Reading through these gave me a good laugh. This is 2019 and there are still those penis people who think they have to pay for a woman to visit with him at a meeting. That kind of attitude today, is a clear showing of lack of self esteem, or just plain foolishness.

A woman, whom a man has no intimate history with, is only another person. Absolutely nothing whatsoever is a special enough reason about her to spend any amount of money [on].

So why do these guys insist they must spend his money to meet with a woman?

Because he is a guy who feels he needs to kiss up to women, a guy who feels that he needs to buy a woman's affection with gifts, drinks, dinners, compliments...[so sad:] because , in truth, he can't imagine that a woman would want to be with him just for him.

That is truly sad about these males. Immediately he has introduced himself a doormat.


Heathen_G 61M
7183 posts
9/15/2019 1:53 pm

    Quoting funsnellvillecpl:
    to many hookers on here since yahoo stopped ad's for sex
I don't know why hookers being on this site should bother anyone.

Men are given the choice, now. Try to get a woman to visit him offline, or pay a woman for sex. Seems fair to me.

But, isn't "Paying for her, coffee, drinks or food" , just another way of saying , "I'll pay for your company"?... Well , yes it is.

So is hooking always bout sex?... No. Women who expect a man to pay her way, is also hooking, but hooking for attention.


hirajind 37M
49 posts
9/16/2019 12:53 am

sexy pic


aimtoplease1033 58M
173 posts
9/16/2019 11:53 am

Public place, meet and greet coffee not alcohol always the smart answer to this question


tryme992012 60M  
46 posts
9/16/2019 4:09 pm

if the women is really worth it then go for it. otherwise meet and greet for a drink is best.


wantyoufucked 54M
35 posts
9/16/2019 10:36 pm

Paying for a coffee , is a lot cheaper than going to a brothel . If it don't work out you have spent a few quid


Ndsomefun2018 50M  
145 posts
9/16/2019 10:57 pm

I would in vest in buying coffee and dinner and then c were it goes


Maxbillion87 32M
42 posts
9/16/2019 11:07 pm

Whatever gets you laid right


4FunPlayfriend 40M
117 posts
9/17/2019 5:55 am

Meet for coffee if all goes well then get a room or play elsewhere


Cardinal863 55M
2 posts
9/17/2019 6:14 am

    Quoting funsnellvillecpl:
    to many hookers on here since yahoo stopped ad's for sex
Where are these Hooker's. I don't see any on here. That would be a treat.


Casquetin14 45M  
30 posts
9/17/2019 6:49 am

Really depends on what was establish before when u find a non fake person !


Grangeroanonimo 41M
137 posts
9/17/2019 7:48 am

Solo mi tiempo pero si si vale la pena si pagaría


ALPHASonly 64M
18 posts
9/17/2019 8:07 am

Sure I would spring for a cup of coffee, if there was a chance of me getting cock, but guys wanting to cum wouldn't care so i could save the money(honey).


KinkyGaBoy 49M  
15 posts
9/17/2019 11:57 am

Not trying to be a sugar daddy. Looking for mutual benefits.


Grangeroanonimo 41M
137 posts
9/17/2019 1:24 pm

No gastar tanto


10mikie10 70M  
4 posts
9/17/2019 8:34 pm

I am sorry but I have to disagree with you completely.

As one person said a few comments back, maybe I am too old, but I was always brought up that men walked on the curb side, opened doors for women, paid for the meal or what ever if he is the one that invited her, and treated women with respect, no matter what.


StCloudCouple19 29M/29F  
13 posts
9/17/2019 11:15 pm

Well just depends. We aren't footing the bill for people we have never met. Either they could unreliable and not show or they do show and are total weirdos. So first time I would say meet for a drink or two. We would expect each party to pay for themselves. From there, if there is a next step, wouldn't have a problem spending money on a room for a night of fun


Heathen_G 61M
7183 posts
9/18/2019 1:04 am

    Quoting 10mikie10:
    I am sorry but I have to disagree with you completely.

    As one person said a few comments back, maybe I am too old, but I was always brought up that men walked on the curb side, opened doors for women, paid for the meal or what ever if he is the one that invited her, and treated women with respect, no matter what.
That's great you were brought up that way, but women [whom the man has no intimate history with] today don't deserve that kind of behavior from a man.

Your lessons , back when you were a kid and a teen are antiquated , and only make you seem ill informed, behind the times.

Women, exclusively, your age and older, unless they were turned, probably deserve that kind of behavior.


Heathen_G 61M
7183 posts
9/18/2019 1:08 am

Willing to invest in a first meet for coffee/drinks, then see where it leads

Those people, who chose that one, are fools. That isn't an , "Investment", that's a gambling loss.

Men should just pay for himself , meeting with an unknown woman.


PoppyCockUr 61M  
118 posts
9/18/2019 5:58 am

what is her phn number?


dick03081953 66M
27 posts
9/18/2019 7:06 am

Only fair that both parties split the cost of any 1st encounter.


2for2ormore99 51M/48F
34 posts
9/18/2019 7:55 am

A couple looking for a single male, single male pays. Couples fors couple 50/50 or every other time if multiple meetings. Couples for single females couple buys. Just our thoughts.


LickAPussAMus 60M
42 posts
9/18/2019 7:56 am

Certainly willing to invest a little time and money for lunch/dinner/chat/meet and greet. What do the parties have to lose.....their virginity?


BenSteel5 60M
10 posts
9/18/2019 8:29 am

ill pay to meet ...then go from there


rollmeover2019 62M
79 posts
9/18/2019 8:48 am

trade


aniceride 49M  
90 posts
9/18/2019 9:20 am

money shouldn't be an issue,time & quality is.


bitchkitty2017 67F  
5092 posts
9/18/2019 10:19 am

you should have said this is for the guys only


tastemeY 53M  
44 posts
9/18/2019 11:00 am

I've paid for pussy from this website already! Worth every penny


luvhandle14 53M  
285 posts
9/18/2019 11:28 am

It depends, usually I am prepared to buy drinks or a light diner, but also prepared to get a hotel room if there is no other easy accommodation. In any case i will provide condoms, different lubes and bottled water when it is getting serious.
But if i should pay pro-prices I am looking for a professional, and that is not someone who tries to scam me by pretending to be someone else.


Showyouinsac 45M
78 posts
9/18/2019 2:17 pm

First time meeting and get to know each other, then go from there.


Ronbin32 27M
44 posts
9/18/2019 2:29 pm

É sempre bom investir


flasher4u3 62M  
66 posts
9/18/2019 3:57 pm

I voted for coffee and see where it goes but really this has to be judged on a case by case basis.


Wonder167 52F  
4278 posts
9/18/2019 4:28 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    That's great you were brought up that way, but women [whom the man has no intimate history with] today don't deserve that kind of behavior from a man.

    Your lessons , back when you were a kid and a teen are antiquated , and only make you seem ill informed, behind the times.

    Women, exclusively, your age and older, unless they were turned, probably deserve that kind of behavior.
I am only referring to your last comment here. What's the difference with a woman his age and women now? Why would they be more deserving of that kind of behavior? (as you put it) Very curious to the answer.


Heathen_G 61M
7183 posts
9/18/2019 5:17 pm

    Quoting Wonder167:
    I am only referring to your last comment here. What's the difference with a woman his age and women now? Why would they be more deserving of that kind of behavior? (as you put it) Very curious to the answer.
Good question... I renounce that one statement.

Women have been making their own paycheck and have been officially recognized as a social equals to men.

For women to also insist on certain courtesies granted to women dependent on men, bestowed on her, too, is laughable. There is no reason to give these women undeserved special treatment any more.

This reality of today leaves those men with , "Gentleman-influenza",socially degraded doormat-men for women to wipe her shoes on.


prairieranger00 60M

9/18/2019 5:20 pm

Well, it depends on how much I've had to drink.


Mikemike107015 49M  
116 posts
9/19/2019 5:46 am

Other than the cost of my membership I only invest my time.


bruno222999 50M
22 posts
9/19/2019 7:26 am

I've only paid for points. Most of what I do here only cost that. Only other cost was the gas to rendezvous...


Granny5761 58F
12 posts
9/19/2019 10:04 am

For the right person money is no object but I am very picky.


TheElitesTRIAL 25M
38 posts
9/19/2019 11:05 am

50 points


Ilovemassageass 37M
23 posts
9/19/2019 11:35 am

Lovely!


DiscoverMidlife 54M
123 posts
9/19/2019 1:24 pm

I invest money and time to get what I want.


Mann4u2nite 48M
24 posts
9/19/2019 7:14 pm

Make it a date night...and see where it goes


69ereatwetpussy 57M
2757 posts
9/19/2019 7:22 pm

im glad to host when time aloud. willing to get a room but don't ask me for money after we a done. will have coffee or drink even make you dinner or breakfast. just don't expect money. you want sexy as much as I do we will get along.


MomoBear1 69M/34F  
342 posts
9/19/2019 8:00 pm

We have never charged or paid for sex, we do it free and love all we do, if anyone asks for payment we do not entertain them. My wife is very Bi and loves anal too


381stcomsq 52M  
62 posts
9/19/2019 9:51 pm

last time cost me a single dip ice cream cone.... it was good....>>!


proteus_2a 54M
7680 posts
9/20/2019 12:14 am

Whatever anyone would invest on any given social acquaintance
And always along the lines of existing chemistry

Anything more, is simply a hard to maintain exaggeration

Cheers - P


Smartwolf69 41M
6 posts
9/20/2019 2:15 am

if you pay for sex its not the same


AnewWoman 61F  
80 posts
9/20/2019 6:16 am

I use to be upfront about insisting the person I was meeting pay for coffee or a meal. Nowadays I offer to cover my expense, but with that said the men still always insist on paying the tab.

Just another day in paradise living my dream
Standard members should be able to view my profile and message me.


29HornynBored 34M
16 posts
9/20/2019 8:35 am

really depends on if its going to be a 1 time deal or an ongoing thing.


sassos 53M
27 posts
9/20/2019 12:35 pm

It's good to be generous ...in every way


Punkerelli 39M
32 posts
9/20/2019 1:54 pm

The first arranged meeting, I only pay for myself for drinks, meal, etc. If something long term or occasional develops, I would have no problem offering to pick up a tab.


Spidey604 42M
69 posts
9/20/2019 7:06 pm

I did hook up more and meet when I was Gold. Not willing to do that again though. I think


happytimes20189 50M
11 posts
9/21/2019 5:15 am

sometimes we cant make money an issue even though it does work like a catalyst...you have to know your worth and your partner's worth


ChiMichelle 29F

9/21/2019 12:08 pm

LOL at all the men who think a woman should have sex with random men who don't think she is worth a cup of coffee!!!! So many involuntarily celibate (incels) losers on here , hahaha


BadScreename 39M
1 post
9/21/2019 1:13 pm

This place has made me skeptical and a pessimist. Definitely a public first meeting just to make sure the other person is actually who and what they say they are.


YourGoodLukCharm 60M
38 posts
9/21/2019 1:14 pm

Have always been willing to spring for the first meet & greet for coffee, a drink, &/or some food at a neutral place for both of our safety. This allows one to see if there is truly some shared interests & chemistry without giving away to much personal information first & gives each a chance to get through the first meeting butterflies. If the common denominator is there, as adults we can then decide to get down somewhere or move on at that moment or perhaps meet again at a at a later date.
I've had a variety of scenarios play out, whereby some are looking for more of a long term relationship and there have been others that just want to play & be made love to with some mutual orgasms. Then there are those that wish to be dominated & those that have a few kinks & fetishes that they need worked on & fulfilled! Different strokes for different folks that are different from day to day. Such is the wonderful variety of the human condition from day to day...
I think the older iterations of this site allowed for much better interaction between members. We have lost a great many privileges & features that made this site function better than it does today for both std. & gold members. Tis a shame & I do believe that by trying to monetize every aspect of this site has changed the makeup of its members & yes there are some that are hookers or want roses or something to meet. Hopefully you can figure that out beforehand. Sometimes it's right there in a profile. I also believe that since cell phones have become ubiquitous it has diminished etiquette & attention spans for using the IM, which truly, truly needs some upgrades; like how you can call a message "delivered" but not "read" a "chat" which by definition is a conversation between 2 or more people, not a one way dialogue is beyond me. I could point out quite a few more things but won't. I just know that my area seems to have a real lack of active members & you can no longer screen out the inactive ones but have to trawl through all of them, or search by zip code when traveling, that I don't feel Gold membership is worth it anymore


jonesie004 53M  
13 posts
9/21/2019 3:40 pm

Provided that it does make you a professional...…!


southrnaccent17 53M
25 posts
9/22/2019 12:35 am

Well I believe the question was for "hook-up" not date. Just hook up I believe split cost... Date - yes, I invest in drinks and a meal..


likeit563 66M
22 posts
9/22/2019 11:17 am

I would spring for a few drinks on first meet


lokingforfun82 38M
60 posts
9/22/2019 1:47 pm

I'm not down to pay for sex, but investing in meeting could always become an issue depending on personal circumstance. sex site or not, if you meet someone on here it's almost as if you were going on a date unless both parities are purely in it for some raw sex and just want to get down to it. otherwise there will be some kind of financial responsibility either or both or all parties involved..


NeedFWBorGF 49M  
1 post
9/22/2019 8:30 pm

This thought applies mostly to ongoing relationships, but in this era of equal rights (and equal pay) for women, I think expenses should be shared. Usually I prefer that whoever suggests going to a particular place pays the bill there. If I ask her out to dinner, that means it's my treat. If she suggests going to a movie together, I kind of expect her to pay for both of us. I know not all women agree so I don't get upset if she expects me to pay, but I'm not filthy rich and the simple sad fact is that some women are more expensive than they're worth.


PyaariBindu 20F  
1 post
9/23/2019 7:04 am

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rebelram999999 50M
57 posts
9/23/2019 9:41 am

As a gentleman, i would def pay for coffee, dinner or the first "date" to get to know the person and see where it leads. Least i can do.

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sissy42G 60F  
5 posts
9/23/2019 6:31 pm

A true gentleman! Not too many around. I prefer to go Dutch treat, so I don’t feel the pressure of having to sleep with a man on the first meet. If we click, then it’s on!

I hear there are fakes, flakes and women out there wanting money. GUYS!!!!! The first time a woman asked you for money, report her, put a comment on her testimonial as being a money whore and block her!

That’s what I do with men asking me for money. Report, put a comment on his testimonial and then block him. Good luck!


Thequarry 41M
23 posts
9/23/2019 10:53 pm

I have to agree with the masses on this one


Speedster997 22M
15 posts
9/24/2019 12:38 am

Only time and effort.


a_taboo_daddy 64M  
45 posts
9/26/2019 1:14 pm

Not a paying member but have met a couple ladies in person thru IM


Happyfunz2 59M  
4 posts
9/27/2019 6:18 am

I usually do spring for the meal, drink etc at the first meet. Is nice to meet someone who at least offers to help with the bill. Shows maturity


herbman693 33M
18 posts
9/28/2019 9:02 am

If she's 10 yeah anything


billinokc 53M
12 posts
9/30/2019 9:58 am

I usually pay, but I also respect a woman that insists on splitting the bill or the room.


Discreetmeetfish 52M
41 posts
10/2/2019 7:20 am

funny how you put in the choice about the pro. I laugh because i'm pretty sure that about 80% of the single women are possibly hookers but that's just a feeling no data to truly evaluate. Anyway why worry about money shouldn't be the main focus.


biseoulcpl 46M/34F

10/20/2019 9:40 pm

We often host, often visit others homes and hotels, sometimes there're meals and drinks and the like, but rarely any real amount of money being expended. We sometimes travel to organized events, but those are well established with people we know. Occasionally hubby invests in professionals, usually shemale escorts for something special but that's the exception


fishersman68 51M
25 posts
11/2/2019 12:26 pm

I just really want some pussy


nastypoppie33 42M
63 posts
11/22/2019 11:33 am

For me it will always depend on the person and the situation because I usually go and vibe off of the woman to see where's her head is at to determine how to approach the situation. Me personally Im open to most of any and all situations and circumstances sexually so it just a matter of what type of woman I'm dealing with at that point and time.


StillBoredinTx 43M
37 posts
11/23/2019 6:48 am

Let talk about it first


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