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fuckallmyholes 54F
27 posts
12/26/2010 11:26 pm

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6/9/2013 3:15 am

Heartless

When u ask a grieving person (u know very well) who has contacted you if there is anything u can do for them, & they responced with they really need to see u. Is it right to tell them u will be there as soon as possible when u have no intentions of showing up ?
Is it heartless ?
Is it right ?


Wichitacowboy 63M
4 posts
3/8/2013 8:20 pm


TO EVERYBODY HERE I HAVE SEEN MORE DEATH IN MY LIFE THEN I SHOULD HAVE STARTING AT THE AGE OF 16 IN THE ARMY AND MY MOTHER IN MY ARMS.SO TELLING SOMEONE YOUR NOT GOING TO BE THERE IS WRONG IN MY BOOK WHEN YOU SAY YOU WELL BE THERE YOU ARE TO BE THERE.YOU ARE NEVER TO LEAVE A FRIEND HANGING NEVER,JUST LIKE A VETERAN IF ONES NEEDED YOU GO TO ONES ADD.I HAD MORE WOMEN STAND ME UP THEN I HAVE WITH THEM,SO HOW MANY WOMEN HAVE YOU MEN LIE TO AND STAND UP AND NOT SHOW UP BECAUSE YOU HAD A DATE WITH A WOMEN YOU FOUND AT A BAR SO YOU CALLED OFF THE DATE YOU HAD THE NITE BEFORE JUST SO YOU COULD GO OUT WITH HER AND GET THAT PIECE OF ASS AND THINK SHE WOULD NOT KNOW AND NOW ONE GETS HURT IN THE LONG RUN.DO TELL,I THINK SHE WOULD LOVE TO HEAR THAT..?SO ALL THE HEARTLESS OUT THERE YOU KNOW YOU HAVE MORE THAN TWICE OR THREE TIMES.AND I BET IF YOU HAD A DATE WITH FUCKMYTHREEHOLES AND FOUND SOMEONE AT A BAR BETTER LOOKING AFTER A FEW BEERS AND SHOTS YOU WOULD CALL THE DATE OFF JUST TO GO HOME WITH HER AND GET YOUR ROCKS OFF AND TASTE THAT ASS AND PUSSY BUT WHAT LIE WOULD YOU USE TO TELL HER YOU COULD NOT MAKE THAT DATE..?


ChanceNTX 52M  
1 post
2/2/2012 10:28 am

Be honest with them, as a friend you should be there for them though. Already grieving one loss, don't add a lie to the mix and cause a loss of friendship too.


bee13231 60M
18 posts
8/7/2011 3:22 pm

NEVER MISTAKE MY KINDNESS FOR WEAKNESS


Cutoso1 31M
339 posts
7/14/2011 6:37 am

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seymoresnatch69 45M
8 posts
7/3/2011 11:30 am

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This_dude_onAFF 53M
81 posts
6/26/2011 9:55 pm

This reply is WAY too late, but I think a small lie would be preferable than saying I'll be there and not show up. I agree with an earlier respondent that honesty is best, but sometimes honesty isn't always practical or expedient. (For example, the truth could hurt a person's feelings, the truth may be too personal, or the truth may simply be too uncomfortable.) Generally, when I must tell a white lie, I try to say something as close to the truth as possible. IMO, even an outrageous lie with no basis in truth can be better than saying I'll be there and not show up. So this is my useless late opinion.


looking4casual2 48M
201 posts
5/6/2011 3:17 pm

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bluetail1 64M
16 posts
4/3/2011 6:35 pm

Sorry, no it's not ok to tell them you'll be there right away if you don't intend to show. Say something like "I'm sorry, this takes time to heal."


lickin4fun41 55M  
120 posts
3/7/2011 12:59 pm

If you say you'll be there for someone and you aren't ,what use are to anyone.

Make every moment count


pytimesx 60M
938 posts
3/5/2011 6:44 pm

Why not simply acknowledge an understanding of the situation and admit inability to physically be there?

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rm_1bigfukstik 59M
5 posts
3/5/2011 3:39 pm

The ONLY time it is ok is when you are on your way to see me. Lol.


rm_latinonicoya 59M
318 posts
3/1/2011 11:08 am

Its called a gut feeling ,just go with it......ur heart dont lie ,just u do ....


desertstr8guy 54M
4 posts
2/28/2011 2:04 am

Maybe the grief was to much for the "no show"! I say "No excuses for something promised at such a sensitive time". Grieving process are trying times. Grief encompasses emotions. Events which we greive, are sudden and catch us by surprises. Grief is not a time for games and no shows from people we count on. Almost always personal and very trying to say the least. If you go it alone, i would think be a very hard ordeal. I think you could:.
Focus on the persons who "showed" and share your state of mind within themselves. Don't be an emotional "no show" for them. they might need your comfort.

As for "no show", this was a good time to let you know how important to them your emotions are. Its obvious its not what you had expected, moreover; Someone missed a opportunity to comfort you and ease your emotions and let you grieve. They could been there for you, they blew it.
Good luck i hope all is well, soon


rm_dragon170652 57M
229 posts
2/21/2011 10:58 am

Never say something just to make someone feel good temporarily especially when you don't mean it. Honesty is always the best policy. As I would honestly love filling all you holes and as my friend would too. Hey three's a party.


Rider0808 56M
84 posts
2/6/2011 5:30 am

There's nothing you you shouldn't be willing to do for a friend/loved one. If they are berieved or bereft then they're out of their mind (we've all been there) any small consolation you can offer, be it a hug, touching their hand/shoulder, promising to visit and bring a casarole is going to mean a lot. We all want/need comfort and connectedness @ certain times of uncertainty. Offering to help is the same as helping. You're not part of the problem you're part of the solution.

XOXO
Chris


wantyou2bewet 61M
13 posts
1/14/2011 10:20 am

By "they want to see you" did they mean come over and fuck me so I feel better or I need someone to talk to. If its the first they're not really grieving to much, and not being honest themselves so it doesn't matter. Now if its the second your scum if you lie to them, Its a simple thing to say you'd like to come but can't with what's going on in your own life that way they feel other people have problems to and we all need to work through them. Bending the truth is ok just don't break it. Once a lier always a lier


docall98 66M
8 posts
1/14/2011 12:50 am

Tuff call, go with what feels right to you.


Erbonam 52M
23 posts
1/5/2011 6:26 am

yeah,just be honest and live with a clear conscience.


socalman4u2play 61M

1/5/2011 6:22 am

Honesty is the best policy , that is being honest with yourself , now when you ask if you are heartless after the fact you are only asking for forgiveness from others , forgive yourself and have more fun.
now about those holes .... can I fill one with this?


rm_ExxxcitingUS 61M
1 post
12/28/2010 9:17 am

It is definitely not ok to give anybody the idea or hope that you would do something that you know it is not likely because it causes more harm. THis is probably one of the more vicious ways in which we can be hurtful to others. I believe that telling someone like it is and let them deal with it is more honest and helpful than even telling "a little white lie."


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