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gentlelovrjust4u 62M  
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11/10/2019 9:16 am

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Fucking, Smashing or Make Love


I have seen all sorts of comments on here about "I'd Fuck that" or "I'd Smash that". Doesn't anyone make love anymore??

What is your definition of Fucking, Smashing or Making Love??

I have no idea what Smashing is so I can't comment on that. But, my definition of fucking is when both people are less concerned about what their partner gets out of the experience and more about what they themselves get out of it.

, making love is just the opposite. I much prefer make love someone than fuck them. It is very important that my partner gets as much or more out of the experiance as I do. I get a great deal of satisfaction out of making my lady cum over and over again. I have been with ladies who were multi orgasmic and got a great deal of pleasure out of making them cum so many times.

So, for the most part, what do you think? Fuck? Smash, whatever that is? Or Make love??

gentlelovrjust4u 62M  
177 posts
11/10/2019 9:18 am

I have not been following blogs for all that long, but I have never seen this question so here it is.


EnigmaInitiative 52F  
3984 posts
11/10/2019 9:40 am

So, I thought smashing and fucking was the same thing. I suppose that ain't helpful.

Do I make love? With the right person, absolutely.

In a sense, sexuality is the built-in psychedelic experience that only a very few people manage to evade.

~Terence McKenna


jimoneball5 62M
115 posts
11/10/2019 9:47 am

Make love, long foreplay, lots of touching


Granny872 68F  
2574 posts
11/10/2019 10:22 am

I think 'smashing' and 'fucking' are used interchangeably, probably the only difference is that each younger generation comes up with its own term to replace the terms of its predecessors.

Making love? Dang you said that on THIS site? Be prepared for all kinds of criticisms and put downs, insomuch as 'making love' implies some kind of emotion or concern for the other person. Not much of that on this site.


AnewWoman 61F  
181 posts
11/10/2019 10:54 am

I'm with you on love making, sometimes I will call it emotional or sensual sex. Fucking and smashing sound like hit it and run sex, the kind which leaves you feeling empty the next day.


GoodDickSB 29M
15 posts
11/10/2019 11:31 am

Smashing and fucking are the same thing, now when it comes to making love it depends on the woman. I like milf's and cougars so I've had some that like making love only they'll take it deep but no pounding just good sex. And then you have the ones that like it deep and hard ie smashing/fucking, I've tried to make love to women like this that doesn't last long they always want it harder faster. I don't mind I aim to please.... Now when I have sex with women understand 28 pretty much all of them are used to getting smashed, having sex with guys that only fuck for themselves. Nearly all of them have never made love sad and if you're ever able to help a woman experience this it will be one of the most beautiful things you've ever seen (this is just my opinion)


jajo696 65F
2364 posts
11/10/2019 12:24 pm

Ive never been a fly by night or a hit n run kinda person.....everything , every interaction is enhanced to the max IF there is a connection on a deeper level. Yup...even on a so called ' sex site' there are some of us looking for something meaningful. Making love is where that meaning is ~~


Bettibenobo 64F  
412 posts
11/10/2019 3:01 pm

    Quoting GoodDickSB:
    Smashing and fucking are the same thing, now when it comes to making love it depends on the woman. I like milf's and cougars so I've had some that like making love only they'll take it deep but no pounding just good sex. And then you have the ones that like it deep and hard ie smashing/fucking, I've tried to make love to women like this that doesn't last long they always want it harder faster. I don't mind I aim to please.... Now when I have sex with women understand 28 pretty much all of them are used to getting smashed, having sex with guys that only fuck for themselves. Nearly all of them have never made love sad and if you're ever able to help a woman experience this it will be one of the most beautiful things you've ever seen (this is just my opinion)
You are a perfect example of why I like younger black men!


BiggLala 48F  
28830 posts
11/10/2019 7:48 pm

First of all...it's all sex. Period. I consider making love vs. fucking a matter of type.

That said, I don't use either term. Again, it's sex so I say sex. I think 'making love' is when two people love, and are in love with each other. Fucking can still be about concerning oneself with the other person's pleasure. It's usually thought of as the hard, fast and fevered type of sex. See this post, Let39s Make Love, NoWanna Fuck, for more on my thoughts.

Smashing is what the kids/millennials say these days. Again...it's sex.

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