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Sexual Bucket List
Posted:Sep 15, 2013 6:09 pm
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2013 2:49 pm
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I realized recently that I have fulfilled many of the things on my sexual bucket list. It's not something I wrote down, I had , but it's clearly there. There are a few things left and I'm sure more will be added so I have more adventures to look forward to!?*

What's on yours?
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Skinny Dipping mmmmmmmm
Posted:Aug 21, 2013 5:09 pm
Last Updated:Nov 1, 2013 2:15 pm
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I love this time of year. The nights are warm enough to skinny dip! That feeling of cool water swirling around my bare skin. Cooling me but also stimulating my body. It's even better with a partner. Feeling the exquisite heat of their hands and body as they touch me. It makes their touch even sweeter, more sensual.

Whether it culminates in water sex or is a prelude to something else, its always worth it. o-o
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People
Posted:Aug 6, 2013 1:38 pm
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2024 11:14 pm
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People really are different. I have met some great people by chance or through a friend. Some are a little crazy but if we are all the same life would be boring. lol I'm glad I'm the kind of person that's approachable.
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Catholic guilt ??
Posted:Aug 4, 2013 7:31 pm
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2013 7:43 pm
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I thought I left my good girl catholic upbringing behind a long time ago. However, I still find myself wondering....how many partners makes me a slut? How many partners in a week are too many? Of course I play safe and I'm choosy about my partners but still....

Sometimes I like how "bad girl" it makes me feel but I also have morals and integrity. I don't think liking sex makes me a bad person or expressing it with consenting adults either. But I do ask myself, is there a magic number? So I'm asking for your opinions...male and female...what do you think?
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Adventure
Posted:Jul 30, 2013 7:23 pm
Last Updated:Aug 2, 2013 4:38 pm
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Well you just don't know what will happen....if you are open to people and new ideas. Having an adventurous summer.
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Karma or Revenge??
Posted:Jul 17, 2013 10:05 am
Last Updated:Jul 30, 2013 7:16 pm
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The difference between karma and revenge is quite simple. Revenge is when you "get back" at somebody for doing something you perceive as bad to you. Karma is when, with no action from you, the universe gives that person what they have earned by their behaviour.

Revenge rarely makes us feel better and it means we have lowered ourselves with our behaviour. Instead, just be patient, people who behave badly will ultimately get their just desserts. It is difficult sometimes to wait it out. However, those people who behave badly will have it come back to them at some point.

So live your life doing your best. We all make mistakes, it's human nature. But, when you know better, you have to do better. You may not have the satisfaction of seeing karma at work. Move on with the knowledge that karma will come back to bite them in the ass. Then you can chuckle as you live your happy life.
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Ch Ch Ch Changes...
Posted:Jul 16, 2013 7:52 pm
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2024 11:14 pm
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Most of us don't like change. We are naturally creatures of habit, some more so then others. Even when we make the changes ourselves, it is still hard to go through. I tell myself that change is necessary for growth but, its still no fun until you get through it and see a payoff.

It's important to keep making changes, even just little ones, to keep us from becoming bored. So I say, have fun with it.
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Moods
Posted:Jul 14, 2013 6:42 pm
Last Updated:Jul 15, 2013 7:03 pm
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I have been thinking about our desires changing with our moods. Sometimes, with the right guy, I want hours of slow, sensual lovemaking. Lots of foreplay, kissing, touching, licking, eye contact. The whole tantalizing, erotic package. yummmm {=}

Then other times I want it hard, fast, hot and sweaty. >>!

I guess there are a lot of factors. Partner, chemistry, situation, location. Whatever the reasons, I love it!!!!
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Grateful
Posted:Jul 9, 2013 4:36 pm
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2013 6:13 pm
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I had the opportunity to help 2 strangers in an RV fire on the hwy today. I didn't think about it, I just stopped and helped. My compassion for people is one of my great qualities. It is who I am and I'm going to embrace it. The people who take advantage of that have to deal with it. I can't change them, only how I react to them.

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Be who you are....proudly.
Posted:Jul 4, 2013 8:10 am
Last Updated:Jul 31, 2013 11:58 am
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I try to live my life helping people when the opportunity arises. I get discouraged at times. It doesn't always work out. You are taken for granted. There are those people who just take and use you. But then karma comes back to you. Something good happens to keep you going. It renews you. You look around and realize you have good people in your life. You have a lot of life left to live.

So get out there and live it, I know I am.

I heard the devil whisper this morning "oh shit, she's back"
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How long has it been?
Posted:Jul 3, 2013 8:45 am
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2013 4:36 pm
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What is the right answer to that? When you talk to a potential lover what do you say? Do you tell them the truth, do you avoid the question, do you generalize? You don't want to sound like a slut, nor do you want to sound like you never get laid.

I tend to think as long as I'm being smart and using protection that it's really nobody's business. However, I can't say that. So it becomes "oh a little while" What does it matter anyway??
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Meaningful Words
Posted:Jun 28, 2013 7:43 pm
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2013 4:53 pm
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The quote below by Marilyn Monroe still rings true today. I couldn't say it any better so I didn't try.

“This life is what you make it. No matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, some go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. And baby, I hate to say it, most of them - actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give up because if you give up, you'll never find your soulmate. You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.”
― Marilyn Monroe
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"The Lifestyle"
Posted:Jun 28, 2013 7:20 am
Last Updated:Jun 28, 2013 7:06 pm
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If you have been on this site for any length of time you have heard about "The Lifestyle" From what I gather, it's the term used for swinging, either as a Cpl or a single. For some reason I dislike that term. It sounds pretentious. "The Lifestyle" As if anyone not living like that is wrong With most people it has nothing to do with your lifestyle and in fact we keep it secret from our non-lifestyle or vanilla friends and family.

Why is society so hung up on labels? "lifestyle" "vanilla" "cougar" "FWB" "NSA" ????? Why can't we just live our lives and stop worrying about naming it?


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