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I'm back...
Posted:Feb 20, 2016 3:47 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2016 12:46 pm

Hello everyone...after a few months off to refocus....I am back and better then ever! I am hoping to re-connect with some old friends and make some new ones. Stop by and say hello. I will be making new posts soon.

What is sexy?
Posted:Mar 30, 2015 7:35 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2016 3:42 pm

I have always been a people watcher. I notice how people conduct themselves, their body language and mannerisms. I try not to judge anyone. I, like many others have been through things in my life that causes our self confidence to take a hit. Or we are under stress and forget to take time for ourselves. I have learned that sexy is not just looks. I believe that:

Passion is erotic.
Confidence is seductive.
Skin is tempting.
Good kisses are addictive.
Lingerie can be more arousing then being naked.
Laughter is sensual.
Intimacy is delicious.
And most importantly. ...it's not sex that gives pleasure it's the lover!

So be healthy but don't worry about your size. Don't lose sleep over a grey hair or a wrinkle. Don't be self concious about the length of your penis or your stretch marks. Your life to this point has made you who you are. Just be the best you. It's that complicated and that simple. So if we talk I will be upfront and honest. If I say I like you it means just that. It doesn't mean let's get married and have babies lol I am not a size 2 but I am damn sexy. I am outspoken, confident, independent, funny and downright sassy. I come with a warning label lol but I am also fun to be with in and out of bed. I am kind hearted, honest and loyal. If you want to talk...send me a message. You just never know.
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Posted:Mar 18, 2015 2:13 pm
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2015 7:40 pm

With all the cold and snow and endless winter.....I'm daydreaming. ...of warm weather. ..less clothes. ...bbqs bonfires washer toss sex trivia around the fire blowjobs flirting stripping teasing and my favorite. ..skinny dipping. Get a few people naked in the pool.....brush up against a hot guy with your tits....brush up against his hardening cock tease flirt. Let him know you want more. Floating on the water open your legs your body glistening in the moonlight. Where do we go from here. .
Spring Fever?
Posted:Mar 16, 2015 10:47 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2020 7:21 pm

It's remarkable. Over the past few years on this site I have noticed something ever year about this time. All those people that have hibernated over the winter come to life. I don't know if it's the promise of spring or better roads or if it's just nature. People are more active on the site. Looking to meet up, pair up for fun. Less clothes, the chance to be more carefree and playful. Whatever the reason I say let's go......
assertive versus aggressive
Posted:Mar 9, 2015 8:21 pm
Last Updated:Mar 13, 2015 5:15 am

Why is it that some men are intimidated by strong, assertive women? Don't get me wrong, I don't mean a dominant woman. I still like the man to be strong and assertive as well. I mean when you are talking and you bring up a meeting first. Or when you meet you make the first move to let him know you are interested. Or even when you are seeing each other and you're really horny and jump on him the first chance you get.

I'm interested to hear what men think of that. Does it turn you off or make you hot knowing she wants you?
First meets
Posted:Feb 26, 2015 5:19 pm
Last Updated:Mar 1, 2015 3:49 pm

So I have been wondering what you all do for a first meet and greet? Do you go for coffee? A drink? Do you go to their house? What do you expect on the first meet? Just chatting. ..kissing? Touching? Or jump right into sex? As a single woman I am generally very careful about putting myself in a vulnerable situation. I am curious to hear what other women think and also from a man's point of view.
our time
Posted:Feb 12, 2015 10:48 pm
Last Updated:Feb 22, 2015 5:13 pm

I don't want to be the most important thing in your life however for the time we are together I want to be the most important woman in the world. During that time I want you to seduce me with your eyes, caress me with your hands, tease me with your tongue....take me and make me yours....

Romance my heart, tease my body, enjoy the company shared in bed and out...then we both walk away smiling
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all talk no action
Posted:Feb 8, 2015 1:02 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2015 4:17 pm

Well we have all been there. You start talking to someone on here, they are eager and chatty want to cam and send naughty pics. But then it doesn't go anywhere. Is it the excitement of "seeing" someone new? Is it the need to get compliments on your genitals? The thrill of showing off to a stranger?

Maybe it's just me but I see chatting as a stepping stone to meeting. I don't want endless chats. I want to learn about you. Exchange pictures so we can see each other. Set up a time and actually meet face to face!

You can't get to really know anyone online. You have to look them in the eye, read their body language and hear their voices. Only then will you know if you want to spend time with that person. That's my opinion anyway.
books and covers
Posted:Jan 30, 2015 3:37 pm
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2015 4:06 pm

Although there has to be an attraction....you should never judge on looks alone. The nicest looking guys can be total asses and average looking guys can be totally sweet. So lesson learned.....follow your gut and give everyone a chance. You never know when your going to find a diamond in the rough.

And that goes for women as well. I don't mean to infer that I am looking for "ken" I just mean some people are worth a second look.
Posted:Jan 29, 2015 8:54 am
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2015 10:10 am

Why is it such a weird concept to have morals and still play in this lifestyle? I want one or two friends that we can hang out and have fun, companionship and great sex. Not to play house or get married. We could play together as a couple if agreeable. I don't want serial one nighterst or many partners.

I also believe in having morals. I wouldn't pursue someone a friend was talking to or seeing and I make it a rule to only meet single men unless playing as a couple. If you want to do those things then have at it. Unless it affects me I don't care. If it affects me and you are being spiteful then screw you..,.karma will catch up to you.

I am proud of the moral but sex loving person that I am. Moving on.
Indoor games
Posted:Jan 17, 2015 10:51 am
Last Updated:Feb 22, 2015 5:14 pm

Today would be a great day for naked indoor games. Shower sex....bedroom sex....kitchen sex.....slow sensual lovemaking.....fast hard fucking......a complete buffet of kissing teasing touching....yum!
do I?
Posted:Jan 16, 2015 2:46 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2015 3:31 pm

One of my favorite questions I get on here is "Do you like younger men" well hell what's not to like! I don't mean robbing the cradle....but 35-45 yum bring it on!!
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Double standard
Posted:Jan 11, 2015 7:57 am
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2015 6:54 pm

I am a single woman who has a high sex drive and I enjoy a variety of sexual activities. I respect others and I have morals. I try not to get involved with attached men. So why is it when someone asks about the number of partners I have had I feel slutty? I know part of it is my very catholic upbringing. If I was a man I would be considered a "stud" in this day of open sex and equality I shouldn't feel guilty.

The other thing that bothers me is the negative use of the word Cougar. Recently I was being teased by a vanilla friend about being a cougar. He really has no idea LOL but I admit it bothered me a lot. It shouldn't. At my age if young men are interested I should be flattered right?

So how do I stop myself from feeling the negative side of these things? I am a good person....I just REALLY like sex.....

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