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harbor112 62
326 posts
8/23/2021 12:51 am
Complements?


Complements, is this now obsolete?

At one time ( yes, showing my age ) you would complement on your fellow female appearance and not worry if you complement was going to cause an issues with HR or you had to go to training class for sexual harassment.

When a woman takes the time and the expense to do her nails, hair and shop for a new wardrobe. As a male it doesn't cost a dime to notice and just let her known via complement that you notice her new appearance.

Just my two cents.

harbor112 62
1532 posts
8/23/2021 1:29 am

Just my two cents


Heathen_G 63
7965 posts
8/23/2021 2:59 am

Don't worry about that. Just don't "Compliment" a woman to get her to have sex with you [to go out with you].

If you think a woman is attractive, or more attractive than usual, go ahead and say so, even at work.

It's past time for men to be men again. A man can "Compliment" without being creepy.


positively4you 72  
4512 posts
8/23/2021 3:35 am

Agree with Heathen. We get to an age when compliments are welcome. Some women are just so dumb they fall to the narrative of what some perceive as harrassment. Its bs. Now, tell me Iā€™m hot. šŸ˜œ


harbor112 replies on 8/23/2021 4:10 am:
Positively4you. I love what you did with your hair. You not only look hot, you very Hot! If get any closer I'll catch on Fire!

author51 58  
125833 posts
8/23/2021 3:57 am

I love compliments and will also compliment the men as well. Some of them take it the wrong way nowadays unfortunately and think you are only doing it for one reason.. Not always the case as a single compliment can make one's day...xoxo

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harbor112 62
1532 posts
8/23/2021 4:06 am

The work has become a mine field. One day the mines are duds the following day they are alive and kicking lol


WyoCowboy7751 68
2326 posts
8/23/2021 4:26 am

Same. kind of goes, for the Age of Chivalry !! Use to hold the door open for a female and told, Thank You or other Compliment and not told, I'm quite capable of opening my own door !!! šŸ¤ 


manto69u 66  
89 posts
8/23/2021 5:24 am

I still hold the door and if they say something, I just tell them that's the way I was brought up. Most of the time they just walk past me.


flannel_light 59  
4195 posts
8/23/2021 7:03 am

For me it's hard to accept a compliment since I never gotten any from ex lovers or otherwise

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positively4you 72  
4512 posts
8/23/2021 5:31 pm

Thats what Iā€™m talkin about. Uh huh šŸ‘


BiggLala 49  
30139 posts
8/23/2021 6:15 pm

When a woman takes the time and the expense to do her nails, hair and shop for a new wardrobe. As a male it doesn't cost a dime to notice and just let her known via complement that you notice her new appearance.
-Do you notice if/when men do the same, and take the time to compliment them? Or to women you don't find attractive, but maybe they put a bit of extra effort into their appearance that day? If not, this tells me your intentions are not necessarily genuine when giving compliments. Perhaps this is why you're concerned about being reported to HR (which any HR department worth their salt will NOT recommend harsh action for someone *innocently* and genuinely complimenting another person). I agree with Heathen's comment.

Compliments should be given to any person, not just women/women you find attractive. There's absolutely nothing wrong with [occasionally] saying, "Hey, you look nice today," and walking away.

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PonyGirl1965 55
19947 posts
8/25/2021 1:28 am

In my head, its ok to say you like their nails or dress or whatever. It is bad to say they look sexy. Of course it helps to be friends so you know the co worker isn't going to take things the wrong way and report you.


Heathen_G 63
7965 posts
8/25/2021 7:50 pm

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    In my head, its ok to say you like their nails or dress or whatever. It is bad to say they look sexy. Of course it helps to be friends so you know the co worker isn't going to take things the wrong way and report you.
No guarantees with female friends. A woman [at work] friendzones a man, for whatever reason/s, ....fine, but a man being her neutered gay friend [friendzoned] won't stop her from reporting a man to HR. So still be careful not to cross the creepy-line.


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