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hotdreamer1000 60M
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7/21/2015 4:16 am

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Actually, I think I get it too


I suppose if I were advising myself, I would say, "Be careful to make the most of what you have got, rather than wasting energy wondering about what you haven't got."

I think if I wanted change enough, I would change.

MyNameIsKay 58F  
11808 posts
7/21/2015 6:01 am

Maybe! Sometimes we are not in a position to change even when we want it badly. As you said in the previous post about being younger and having more opportunity to do things differently, maybe now that there are less tomorrows, you have decided to stay put. I don't know...maybe it still is a choice, but that doesn't make it a bad one.

You sound melancholy Dreamer! Think of me and smile...it's what I do when I think of you. Happy Tuesday...

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sexysixties2 72F  
38886 posts
7/21/2015 10:53 am

My life now is definitely not the life I had planned but I am extremely grateful for the things I have in it.....few of them are things you can actually buy.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


tigger678902 53F  
4549 posts
7/21/2015 12:03 pm

great advice for all of us I think Dreamer,...certainly works for me.

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hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
7/22/2015 1:58 am

    Quoting MyNameIsKay:
    Maybe! Sometimes we are not in a position to change even when we want it badly. As you said in the previous post about being younger and having more opportunity to do things differently, maybe now that there are less tomorrows, you have decided to stay put. I don't know...maybe it still is a choice, but that doesn't make it a bad one.

    You sound melancholy Dreamer! Think of me and smile...it's what I do when I think of you. Happy Tuesday...
Thanks Kay, I am a bit. Not badly, but just, you know.......slow to find enthusiasm. Your suggestion is very sweet, and I will give it a try!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
7/22/2015 2:02 am

    Quoting rainbowsox:
    I think Mick said it best....

    "You can't always get what you want
    But if you try sometimes
    well you just might find
    You get what you need"

    Love,
    -E'

One of my favourite songs when I was about eighteen!

I do feel like kind of "I saw her today at the reception," even though actually I didn't.

Maybe I'm the "footloose man."?

My favourite flavour isn't cherry red though.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
7/22/2015 2:07 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    My life now is definitely not the life I had planned but I am extremely grateful for the things I have in it.....few of them are things you can actually buy.
Yes, that happens. Money can help you do things you want to do when you are happy already, and a severe lack of it can make you unhappy in some ways, but the mere presence of Money can not make you happy if you don't feel it inside. Sometimes cherishing what you have which Money can't buy is a quick route to happiness.

I was about to write the next sentence when I realised I think I have written it here before - I have a certain woodworking tool (more than one actually) which was given to me by someone special. It isn't the perfect thing for using the way I need to use it, but when I do use it, I love it more than anything else I could use instead, because of who gave it to me. That makes me happy, and I need to apply that principle to the rest of my life I think.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
7/22/2015 2:09 am

    Quoting tigger678902:
    great advice for all of us I think Dreamer,...certainly works for me.
Thanks Tigger, I'm trying to follow it. You have to balance it with not giving up on your dreams though I think, and that can be when it gets difficult.


rm_cum2kissu2 55F
10790 posts
7/22/2015 9:41 am

Sounds like sound advice too me.

Kizza


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
7/30/2015 4:12 am

Advice is easy, following it is harder!


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