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hotdreamer1000 60M
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4/10/2014 3:33 pm

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And me, I'm a part of your circle of friends


I was walking into town, humming this song to myself ("Circle" by Edie Brickell and the New Bohemians if you are interested - tube it, you won't regret it, I may have mentioned it before,) and I realised, that if my life fell apart completely, and I really needed a support network of friends to get me through it - people I could really turn to, who would always be there for me.................................then there are a couple of life long friends I have had for ever, and maybe one or two newish close friends, but out of maybe my ten closest friends in the whole world, (and I am talking about people I can confidently say really do care about me) then at least three, and quite possibly four or five of them are people I met here on this very site.

That's pretty amazing when you stop and think about it.

nightsoul1962 58F
17862 posts
4/10/2014 3:58 pm

Yes, pretty amazing!!! We all should have someone to depend on in case of need.....God...don't I know it...........I don't have anybody, so consider yourself lucky!

WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
4/10/2014 4:20 pm

    Quoting nightsoul1962:
    Yes, pretty amazing!!! We all should have someone to depend on in case of need.....God...don't I know it...........I don't have anybody, so consider yourself lucky!
I am. Very lucky. (Although I think there is a song lyric somewhere that says, "luck is believing you're lucky, and having just a little bit of faith." )

But if you blog here - really blog yourself; how you really feel about stuff - sooner or later, in amongst all the comment whores and the wanna fuck emails, someone will find you, it's like that here.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
4/10/2014 4:47 pm

    Quoting  :

I think emotional support can be more important. Although I suppose I am not trying to bring up an autistic child so maybe I wouldn't know. But what I mean is that some of the time emotional support gives you enough new strength so that you don't need practical support, doesn't it?


MyNameIsKay 58F  
11807 posts
4/10/2014 6:16 pm

I also have friends that I have made here, but sadly many of them don't live close. A couple do, and I know I could count on them. But near or far, they are stand up people for sure. I'll meet more in July at the bash, but the one that really is my current desire...is one of those that lives too far away.

But this place can be amazing...

Swim...Bike...Done


tigger678902 53F  
4549 posts
4/10/2014 6:46 pm

Thee is nothing to hold you to the people you meet here except common regard,...you don't work with them, live next door, or go to church or some social organization with them, thre is no need to be polite for necessity's sake alone,...so while it may seem a bit unconventional, based on how humans formed close attahcments in the past, it really seems quite logical to me.

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marysia4u 64F
15362 posts
4/10/2014 11:37 pm

I too have made some lovely friends on here, but none close by. Need those lotto numbers so I can meet them.

No one here has arranged a bash, it would be so much fun, but guess there are too few of us.

I have four very close friends that I can call on at any time, as they can call on me.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
4/11/2014 6:49 am

    Quoting MyNameIsKay:
    I also have friends that I have made here, but sadly many of them don't live close. A couple do, and I know I could count on them. But near or far, they are stand up people for sure. I'll meet more in July at the bash, but the one that really is my current desire...is one of those that lives too far away.

    But this place can be amazing...
Well it's true that the people I was thinking of don't live close to me either. But the funny thing is, my nearest close friend, who lives only ten minutes away, never emails me. We speak on the phone sometimes and see each other every few weeks, but in many ways I am in closer contact about my daily life with my on line friends from America.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
4/11/2014 6:51 am

    Quoting tigger678902:
    Thee is nothing to hold you to the people you meet here except common regard,...you don't work with them, live next door, or go to church or some social organization with them, thre is no need to be polite for necessity's sake alone,...so while it may seem a bit unconventional, based on how humans formed close attahcments in the past, it really seems quite logical to me.
That is such a good point - here you only need to bother to interact with people who you form some kind of instinctive bond with, there is much less falseness. Unless your profile is made up of course. (Shhh, don't tell anyone, I do have one of those, lol. )


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
4/11/2014 6:52 am

    Quoting marysia4u:
    I too have made some lovely friends on here, but none close by. Need those lotto numbers so I can meet them.

    No one here has arranged a bash, it would be so much fun, but guess there are too few of us.

    I have four very close friends that I can call on at any time, as they can call on me.


Like I said to Kay, sometimes I think I keep in closer contact with some of my on line friends, however far away they might be.


sexysixties2 72F  
38886 posts
4/11/2014 7:38 am

I met my best friend right here on the site and a lot of other good friends too. It's been brilliant.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


domandginger 61M/61F
7299 posts
4/11/2014 10:05 am

I met my darling Dom online-- not on this particular site, but in an old MSN chatroom..
I have great great friends from here,, 3 of which even came to my son's wake!
Yes, there are 'players' here,, but there are wonderful real people too
XXXXx
Ginger


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
4/14/2014 12:39 am

    Quoting rainbowsox:
    When you think about it, it does make sense! This "forum" allows a selfless kind of relationship. None of the typical things you get from a "normal" relationship to get in the way. There is a balance that is otherwise hard to keep with the traditional relationships we have. No issue over who pays for lunch all the time. Who always seems to do the driving. Who always needs some sort of help without reciprocation. And it is easy, in this "place" to say adios to those who we have an emotional imbalance with. No having to try and figure out a way to get our cute top or old "Edie Brickell and the New Bohemians" albums from!!!! Speaking of which.... do you have my Neon Pink tank top I let you borrow the other day??? LOLOLOL!!!!

    Love,
    -E'
I thought that tank top was a present!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
4/14/2014 12:39 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I met my best friend right here on the site and a lot of other good friends too. It's been brilliant.
That is so good to hear


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
4/14/2014 12:41 am

    Quoting domandginger:
    I met my darling Dom online-- not on this particular site, but in an old MSN chatroom..
    I have great great friends from here,, 3 of which even came to my son's wake!
    Yes, there are 'players' here,, but there are wonderful real people too
    XXXXx
    Ginger
It seems the site really does do what its title says!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
4/14/2014 12:43 am

    Quoting  :

So a typical meet for you would be to take me out to get photographs of interesting trees and roundabouts along the A 303?


hippiechick1967 41F
12074 posts
4/15/2014 4:48 pm

    Quoting hotdreamer1000:
    I am. Very lucky. (Although I think there is a song lyric somewhere that says, "luck is believing you're lucky, and having just a little bit of faith." )

    But if you blog here - really blog yourself; how you really feel about stuff - sooner or later, in amongst all the comment whores and the wanna fuck emails, someone will find you, it's like that here.
And that's why it works for so many of us who don't feel they can be their true selves with those in-person interactions.

Elevate me...


zandigal 55F
13002 posts
5/5/2014 6:22 pm

this place may have brought the worst times of my life, but more than enough best times of my life to make up for the bad stuff... the friendships here are precious to me.... especially you.


Respond to every call that excites Your Spirit
~Rumi


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hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
8/18/2014 7:33 am

    Quoting zandigal:
    this place may have brought the worst times of my life, but more than enough best times of my life to make up for the bad stuff... the friendships here are precious to me.... especially you.

I don't thin k I saw this comment when you first left it, otherwise I am sure I would have replied straight away with: "that is so lovely Zandi, my friendship with you is precious to me too."


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