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hotdreamer1000 60M
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12/22/2015 2:15 am

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And the boys from the NYPD choir were singing.....


As I said last year, Christmas really is my favourite time. I love that the true spirit of goodwill is still there in people everywhere if you know how to see it. I love the piled high shelves and luxury food in the shops and the lights and the extra people in the street. I love thinking through what I can buy as presents, especially for people I love – I have occasionally been known to go a bit over the top, but it never seems to go down badly on the day. And I love the childish excitement I still feel on Christmas Eve, almost more than I did when I was a little boy. Maybe because I have learned how to always be happy about Christmas, and not let it make me feel sad. I know how it can, and maybe if I wasn’t so lucky as to have this great life I lead, I wouldn’t find that so easy.

As usual for me I will be spending Christmas with someone wonderful who loves me, and as always I am extremely grateful.

But although I will be off line for a while, I would be leaving something out of the truth if I didn’t admit that there will be one or two of you here who might pop into my thoughts quietly as I lie warm and naked in my bed, and for those of you who fall into that category, plus a whole load of other fellow bloggers whose words I always look forward to reading, here are some Christmas Messages.

RainbowSox – Well, I have to do my own version of cooking Falstaff this year. Sometimes it goes well, other times not so much, so I will be thinking of you if he turns out so dry you could watch the Mars Rover roll over his carcase. Actually I will be thinking of you anyway. Being friends with you, even in this strange remote way, is genuinely something I value, and I am amazed by how often I learn a new perspective from reading one of your posts. I. Also. Laugh. A. Lot. I hope you both have a great Christmas – you deserve a break after working so hard, and no doubt family will be involved. I know family is a sore point with H, but my Christmas wish for you is that some spirit of goodwill manages to shine through somehow, and if not…..well, at least I was thinking of you.

Wildfire – I still haven’t worked out quite what is going on in your life at the moment - or ever now I think about it. I would like to though. And that isn’t just because my mind is full of the image of your gorgeous legs….. I don’t think….. I think I always liked you a lot anyway, and valued how well you got what I was saying on my own posts. I don’t know, I can’t remember, the legs are filling up all the available brain space.

Amakamaria – Wow it has been great to see you back and blogging again. I love the subjects you come up with, and there is never anything we couldn’t talk about. But somehow the blogs bring up topics we wouldn’t think of if we were just chatting, and that, I suppose is why I stay, and why I am always so pleased when you are here too.

Violette - Did you stop blogging, or are you just taking a break? I really miss reading your free flow stream of consciousness posts, even if a lot of the time I never knew where they were heading. Ahh, wait a minute, I started writing this post just before your recent string of comments. Yes, you HAD been away that long! So glad to see you back. Merry Christmas.

Babyjeans – I get the feeling you are struggling with a bunch of stuff in life, but I hope you keep on blogging because I am interested in what you write. I also hope you get your man back for Christmas, or if not find a better one instead. Have a good time until hear from you again.

Oldhabits – Getting to know you is proving very interesting and entertaining. I don’t know how far I have got in the process yet because feedback seems to be rare, lol, but that could just be my blurred perspective, lol.

Lustasaurus – No wonder you have so many watchers – I never cease to be amazed by the way you always seem to appreciate what is being said on people’s blogs and manage to write a helpful and perceptive comment. Sometimes more interesting than the original post itself. I keep wanting to quote you and comment: “what she said.”

Zandigal – There is something very special about knowing you are still here on these blogs, even if it is only occasionally and mainly photographs these days. (Not that kind of photographs, anyone else reading this. Landscapes….nature….she’s a brilliant wildlife photographer. ) I would love to see you post some more of your obscure, dark but wonderful poetry, or wildly imaginative and sexy blogs like the one (presumably fictional ) where you pretended to be a gay man in order to give strangers blow jobs. If you are dropping by, have a fantaztic Christmas Zandi.

Marysia – It is always good to see you – Merry Christmas, and as always say hello to your sister for me and wish her well will you?

Stormyroses. - Love your selfies, love your style, love it that you have been blogging more again. Come by and inspire me anytime you like, or if you don’t, maybe I will be in touch anyway.

Tigger – Your blog has been quiet lately…..too busy polishing your toes probably, but no doubt you will be putting up new posts again soon. I hope so. Meanwhile it is always good to see you here and I love your comments because you are always telling me to do what I want to do, even if I don’t want to do it. If you know what I mean, lol.

Hippiechick – Nine years I’ve known you now. Wow. I know you don’t blog that much at the moment, and I miss that, but I wouldn’t be surprised to see you pop in to say “Merry Christmas, Dude.”

Kay – Hi Kay. I know, I know, I’ve been meaning to get in touch. And I promise I will do. If I remember rightly, you don't celebrate Christmas, but I couldn’t write these messages without including you. I’m glad you still pop in to read and comment sometimes. Don’t stop.

Darling Annette – Thanks so much for your help with the blurred emails issue. I have noticed you on and off following my blog, and on others around the place, and I already see you as a warm and kind hearted person so I am not surprised. I’m looking forward to seeing more of you in the New Year.

Sexysixties - I really like it that although you said you were going to take a break from blogging, you are still around commenting here and on a few others. It always feels more welcoming when you are around.

Passioncork, Bubbles, Synndarella – You are not forgotten if you happen to be passing.

MostWantonWench – I see you are now a gold member, so you must still be on the site, but I don’t often see you on my visitors list. I know you will be sometime though. You will already know that I thought of you when Clara said goodbye. I thought she looked her very best as a waitress. What a great life she will have now as a dead girl, cruising the galaxy with “The woman who lived.” I was sobbing. Happy Christmas.

Peterwasted – Hi mate. I saw you were back, but maybe you haven’t been posting much. I often think of you as I go past on the A 303.

Torrid_Affair - I see your blog is still listed, but I haven’t seen any new posts this year. I often think of you so if you stop by, here’s wishing you a happy Christmas and a great New Year.

ColoradoRose. I wouldn’t feel right not to have wished you a happy Christmas, just in case you came by. I still miss you being here to talk about all the other bloggers with. Among all the other ways I miss you, lol. And, if you are reading this, I am sure it is your turn to write.

Thank you to everyone else who has come by and commented; I really value the interactions we have here.

mujercuriosahtml 59F

12/22/2015 6:17 am

Christmas time is also is my favourite time

Merry Christmas



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MyNameIsKay 58F  
11808 posts
12/22/2015 7:01 am

You do remember rightly! My kids are back with their dad for the holiday, and I'm enjoying some quiet time with my dogs...and an occasional friend or two. Even though I don't celebrate, I have friends who don't like to see me alone this week. I won't be lonely...and my house will finally get cleaned! Lol.

I wish you a very Happy Christmas Dreamer and always hope to see you pop up when I check my mail. I'm glad you will be with someone that loves you. We should all be so blessed...hugs to you for including me here.

Swim...Bike...Done


marysia4u 64F
15362 posts
12/22/2015 10:50 am

My sister was only asking about you the other day, and asked me to pass on her hello.

Glad you are spending this special time with someone you love.

Have a wonderful Christmas, but no too wonderful that you forget to come back.


sexysixties2 72F  
38886 posts
12/22/2015 1:25 pm

Thanks for those words Dreamer. I'm glad you will be spending Christmas with someone who loves you....I too will be spending the day with some of the little ones who love me and their parents. I love Christmas...it's a special time and I still believe in magic. Merry Christmas.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


Wildfire9600 106F  
6572 posts
12/22/2015 8:02 pm

Dreamer, I don't think I have quite worked out what's going on in my life either, so we're both in good company! I'm sorry my legs are taking up available brain space, but I'm tickled at how enamoured you are with them!

I hope you have a lovely time over the holidays, and I'm so glad you will be with someone you love. That's what really matters.

Happy Christmas! xo

You want to stop the flame from burning. I just want to let it go...


oldhabits88 34F
166 posts
12/25/2015 3:57 am

I got mentioned in The Dreamery! ::does small victory jig in bed:: as for feedback, sometimes I just don't know how to respond. I really wish you could correspond using the AdultFriendFinder mail, but you can't view messages.


oldhabits88 34F
166 posts
12/25/2015 4:09 am

Also if you ever do want to upgrade to gold, I've got a treasure chest full of points I'm not doing anything with. Just saying...


lustasaurus 43F  
1750 posts
12/28/2015 10:24 am

It'd be lame if I didn't comment on this post. Thank you for your kind words and, most especially, thank you for your own thoughtful blog comments.

I hope you had a warm and wonderful Christmas holiday and are looking towards 2016 with optimism.


Violette001 48F
4497 posts
12/31/2015 9:00 pm

being included in your Christmas list never ceases to thrill me! it makes me feel special. and it warms me up.

why it's almost like a virtual harem in here!



hope your new year is full of good things, Dreamer!

i have a blog post stewing in my mind, just haven't found the starting point yet!

"Do not put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket"
--Author Unknown



hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
1/6/2016 9:31 am

    Quoting Darling_Annette:
    Thank you Dreamer for including me on your Xmas list, I am touched. You know i was always happy to help you and i look forward to seeing more of You too, in the new year. I hope your Christmas is a happy one ... xx A.
I had a great Christmas Annette, only just got back into the swing of things here, and need to make time to catch up with a bit of blogging!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
1/6/2016 9:32 am

    Quoting mujercuriosahtml:
    Christmas time is also is my favourite time

    Merry Christmas
Hi Mujercurios, I hope you had a good one!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
1/6/2016 9:34 am

    Quoting MyNameIsKay:
    You do remember rightly! My kids are back with their dad for the holiday, and I'm enjoying some quiet time with my dogs...and an occasional friend or two. Even though I don't celebrate, I have friends who don't like to see me alone this week. I won't be lonely...and my house will finally get cleaned! Lol.

    I wish you a very Happy Christmas Dreamer and always hope to see you pop up when I check my mail. I'm glad you will be with someone that loves you. We should all be so blessed...hugs to you for including me here.
Hi Kay, hope you had a good time. I WILL pop up, I promise.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
1/6/2016 9:34 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
1/6/2016 9:36 am

    Quoting marysia4u:
    My sister was only asking about you the other day, and asked me to pass on her hello.

    Glad you are spending this special time with someone you love.

    Have a wonderful Christmas, but no too wonderful that you forget to come back.


Aww that's nice, I hope she's well. I had a great Christmas thank you and I only just got back so I need to make time to catch up with a bit of blogging!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
1/6/2016 9:37 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    Thanks for those words Dreamer. I'm glad you will be spending Christmas with someone who loves you....I too will be spending the day with some of the little ones who love me and their parents. I love Christmas...it's a special time and I still believe in magic. Merry Christmas.
Sometimes believing in the magic is all it takes for a little magic to happen I think!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
1/6/2016 9:39 am

    Quoting Wildfire9600:
    Dreamer, I don't think I have quite worked out what's going on in my life either, so we're both in good company! I'm sorry my legs are taking up available brain space, but I'm tickled at how enamoured you are with them!

    I hope you have a lovely time over the holidays, and I'm so glad you will be with someone you love. That's what really matters.

    Happy Christmas! xo
I was just looking back to find an email you sent me so as to get back in touch, and guess what - they have all gone blurry too. Oh well. I expect I will think of something.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
1/6/2016 9:40 am

    Quoting  :

Helloooooooooooo Peter! Happy New Year mate.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
1/6/2016 9:42 am

    Quoting oldhabits88:
    I got mentioned in The Dreamery! ::does small victory jig in bed:: as for feedback, sometimes I just don't know how to respond. I really wish you could correspond using the AdultFriendFinder mail, but you can't view messages.
"Does small victory jig in bed........" .......Sounds kind of sexy.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
1/6/2016 9:43 am

    Quoting oldhabits88:
    Also if you ever do want to upgrade to gold, I've got a treasure chest full of points I'm not doing anything with. Just saying...
I'm working on it.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
1/6/2016 9:48 am

    Quoting lustasaurus:
    It'd be lame if I didn't comment on this post. Thank you for your kind words and, most especially, thank you for your own thoughtful blog comments.

    I hope you had a warm and wonderful Christmas holiday and are looking towards 2016 with optimism.
I don't think I would have thought it was lame, but of course I am always glad to have a comment from you. I had a great Christmas, very enthusiastic about 2016, I just need to make time to catch up with a bit of blogging!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
1/6/2016 9:51 am

    Quoting Violette001:
    being included in your Christmas list never ceases to thrill me! it makes me feel special. and it warms me up.

    why it's almost like a virtual harem in here!



    hope your new year is full of good things, Dreamer!

    i have a blog post stewing in my mind, just haven't found the starting point yet!
OMG I know, does it look bad?! LOL. I have to admit I kind of like it when my blog resembles a harem - it doesn't happen very often, especially these days. Rose always used to call women reading my blog "the bees" and if I put a sexy post up she would say I was stirring the honey pot!


tigger678902 53F  
4549 posts
1/14/2016 6:30 am

Thanks for the wishes Dreamer, I always hope the best for you. I'm quiet but not gone just wrapped up in life and stuff, really must make more time to blog
kisses and big big hugs

Good girls go to heaven,....Bad girls go EVERYWHERE!
I love to travel

Come visit my blog tigger678902


stormyroses 36F
1628 posts
1/24/2016 9:46 am

A (very) belated Merry Christmas to you, love. You do say such lovely things, things that I didn't know I needed to hear until you said them. I am not feeling so inspiring this year - like you, I'm tired and overworked - but I can always hope that something I say or do makes a difference to someone. And I will always stop around whenever I come back to the site - catching up with your life and thoughts is one of my very favourite things to do here. ❤️

Do not seek an external refuge, but be a light unto yourself.

"Be the change you want to see."

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