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hotdreamer1000 60M
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12/21/2016 4:10 am

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Christmas, Actually


I love the opening voice-over lines of the film "Love Actually." Something along the lines of "people say nowadays the world is full of greed and hate, but in fact if you look for it, you will find that that love, actually, is all around you."

I can be grumpy and pissed off with life as much as the next guy. Well, perhaps not quite as much as the next guy, because there are some pretty dreadful things some of the next guys out there have been doing, but we won't go into that, and you know what I mean. But deep down, I like to look for the best in things, and I try to remember to look for the best in people. (What I really love is when I come across one of those people in whom you don't have to look for the best, it is just there, staring at you wide eyed and wonderful. )

So as I look forward to another wonderful Christmas spending time with people I love, as always I wanted to say hello here to some of the bloggers I know, and who, whatever else is going on in the world, are here so that I can love them too.

Sexysixties - Thanks for nearly always being the first to comment on my blog. I feel I should ask if there is any subject or theme you would like me to write about! Maybe it would inspire me to recapture the Old Dreamer!

RainbowSox – It's quiet round here without a regular. Blog. From. You. I know you've both been busy, but come back soon, Blogland needs you. Meanwhile, I hope you are both as happy as ever, and have a great Christmas. It will be okay as long as someone else is cooking!

Wildfire – Somehow I always feel warm inside whenever I think of you Wild. In a weird kind of blog way, you are always there for me, even when you aren't around much, if that makes any sense. I genuinely think of you often and wonder how you are getting on, and I wish you the Happiest of Christmases.

Marshamaybe - I can't describe in a short Christmas message how much I have enjoyed reading your blog this year. It always interests me even when it is about nothing. A fascinating glimpse into a different kind of life, in a part of the world I would love to be closer to, and a reminder of a happy time driving through Canmore and out towards Field and then Jasper. You have been quiet lately, and I really hope that doesn't mean you are going to stop blogging, as I would love to keep hearing about your life. I bet is snows round your way every Christmas.

BiggLala - I don't know if you will be dropping by here this Christmas, but if you do, season's greetings, and thanks for getting me thinking about stuff this year.

Author51 - Your blog has kept me interested in blogging this year and I hope you keep "spreading the Joy."

Amakamaria – I'm sorry we didn't manage to catch up recently. I keep meaning to, but sleep gets in the way! Let's talk soon. I love you, you know that right?

Violette - I am always excited whenever I see you have a new post up. Sadly not that often any more. But I don't forget you, and sometimes I try to write a bit like you, and it makes me smile..

Oldhabits – I'm still trying to catch up with what's going on in your head / life, but I can't imagine it is going to be any less interesting or exciting when you move to Hawaii! I can't wait.

Zandigal – If you're here, then Happy Christmas Z, if not then I wish I lived in Jax. so I could drop by and give you a merry one in person. (I wouldn't bother following the Jaguars at the moment though, if I did live in Jax. lol. ) Don't stay away too long, 'cause I love you and your blog and I miss it.

Marysia – I'm glad you still drop by to read my increasingly boring blogs! And I can always rely on yours for a laugh. Merry Christmas, and as always please say hello to your sister for me and wish her well.

Stormyroses. - You've been quiet this year? I know you haven't been very well, so if you happen by, I hope you are feeling better, and have a really good Christmas. I love hearing from you,

Hippiechick – Another “Merry Christmas, Dude,” to you, if you happen to pass by. I know it wasn't that long ago you were here for a moment, but otherwise, I miss seeing your posts.

Your name is Kay – I mean MyNameisKay - you know what I mean. Hi. Happy New Year, lol.

To everyone else who drops by, and any old friends who might be just saying a once in a while hello - (Bubbles, Syndarella, Passion, skierchick, mostwantonwench, peter, oh heavens I hope I haven't forgotten anyone....redrose?) thanks for being part of ,my life, and I hope to see more of you soon,

Love and Happy Christmas,
Dreamer.

author51 57F  
94588 posts
12/21/2016 5:09 am

Thank you for the nice comment.I am touched.I have enjoyed reading your as well and so glad we have crossed paths.No doubt I shall continue to share my JOY with others..lol.All the best to you and Thanks for adding blogs I never knew were out there..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


author51 57F  
94588 posts
12/21/2016 5:10 am

I need to check out Marshamaybe.That is such a beautiful part of our country.I have been there many times when I lived in British Columbia.

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
12/21/2016 8:00 am

    Quoting author51:
    I need to check out Marshamaybe.That is such a beautiful part of our country.I have been there many times when I lived in British Columbia.
Go for it. Marsha is great fun, although she has been quiet lately, so I hope she isn't going to be another who has drifted away too soon.....


sexysixties2 72F  
38886 posts
12/21/2016 9:28 am

Thanks for this Dreamer...sorry I didn't make it to be first to comment on this one but I was busy making bling.....something I need to concentrate on.

I think Zandi is up to other stuff these days but hopefully she will be back.

I don't have any suggestions as to topics for you....just know that I always enjoy your blog. Merry Christmas.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


MyNameIsKay 58F  
11808 posts
12/21/2016 12:56 pm

Love you too Dreamer! Big hugs from California...

Swim...Bike...Done


marysia4u 64F
15362 posts
12/21/2016 10:09 pm

Thank you for the mention.

I don't find your blogs boring, it's me. Sometimes I can't think of a comment.

Wishing you a very Happy Christmas, and a good blogging New Year.


Wildfire9600 106F  
6572 posts
12/23/2016 3:33 pm

That's so sweet, Dreamer, and not weird at all. I feel the same! I always know you're there with a kind word, perspective, and that you get me. I appreciate that so much!

I hope you have a wonderful Christmas with the people you love in 3D. When the night is quiet here late on Christmas Eve, I will raise a glass to you and wish you Happy Christmas from across the pond. Much love to you, my friend. xo

You want to stop the flame from burning. I just want to let it go...


stormyroses 36F
1628 posts
12/23/2016 4:26 pm

Hey, hotness. You're right about me being here very rarely, but I'll always stop in for your Christmas posts, and I come by on other (rare) occasions to catch up with your blog. Your writing has given me so much - warmth, amusement, new perspectives - and I just wanted to make sure you remember that you are loved and appreciated. Have a great Christmas yourself. Hugs. xx

Do not seek an external refuge, but be a light unto yourself.

"Be the change you want to see."

HalfNekkid Wednesday Peekaboo


marysia4u 64F
15362 posts
12/25/2016 10:23 am

I passed on your message to my sister. She said to tell you she's working near Twyford (not sure of the spelling) at the moment.


Violette001 48F
4497 posts
12/30/2016 1:31 pm

(What I really love is when I come across one of those people in whom you don't have to look for the best, it is just there, staring at you wide eyed and wonderful.

I totally know what you mean by that!!! you're one of those people for me, and, honestly, if you left or stopped watching my blog, i'd stop writing here. I hope you had a really good Christmas, Dreamer!

many warm hugs for the new year!!!

"Do not put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket"
--Author Unknown



hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
1/4/2017 2:43 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    Thanks for this Dreamer...sorry I didn't make it to be first to comment on this one but I was busy making bling.....something I need to concentrate on.

    I think Zandi is up to other stuff these days but hopefully she will be back.

    I don't have any suggestions as to topics for you....just know that I always enjoy your blog. Merry Christmas.

You can't expect to beat Joy to the post if she is on her game! Anyway, I'm glad you enjoy it, to be honest there wouldn't be much point if people didn't.....

I heard from Zandi actually, she is on the mend I think, and she sent me a picture of the moon, so nothing new there!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
1/4/2017 2:43 am

    Quoting MyNameIsKay:
    Love you too Dreamer! Big hugs from California...
Right back at you from the old country!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
1/4/2017 2:46 am

    Quoting marysia4u:
    Thank you for the mention.

    I don't find your blogs boring, it's me. Sometimes I can't think of a comment.

    Wishing you a very Happy Christmas, and a good blogging New Year.


There is no obligation to comment, lol. I do my best, but after 11,378 posts mostly I have said all I've got. Glad she's well, Twyford correctly spelt and only a few miles from me....


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
1/4/2017 2:49 am

    Quoting Wildfire9600:
    That's so sweet, Dreamer, and not weird at all. I feel the same! I always know you're there with a kind word, perspective, and that you get me. I appreciate that so much!

    I hope you have a wonderful Christmas with the people you love in 3D. When the night is quiet here late on Christmas Eve, I will raise a glass to you and wish you Happy Christmas from across the pond. Much love to you, my friend. xo
What can I say? Thanks for being there, and Wild and on Fire. I had a strange erotic dream on Christmas Eve actually. Raising a glass to you too!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
1/4/2017 2:50 am

    Quoting stormyroses:
    Hey, hotness. You're right about me being here very rarely, but I'll always stop in for your Christmas posts, and I come by on other (rare) occasions to catch up with your blog. Your writing has given me so much - warmth, amusement, new perspectives - and I just wanted to make sure you remember that you are loved and appreciated. Have a great Christmas yourself. Hugs. xx
What an absolutely lovely comment Stormy, I am touched.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
1/4/2017 2:52 am

    Quoting Violette001:
    (What I really love is when I come across one of those people in whom you don't have to look for the best, it is just there, staring at you wide eyed and wonderful.

    I totally know what you mean by that!!! you're one of those people for me, and, honestly, if you left or stopped watching my blog, i'd stop writing here. I hope you had a really good Christmas, Dreamer!

    many warm hugs for the new year!!!
I'd better not stop then. I am really glad to be one of those people for you V. Happy New Year to you too.


marysia4u 64F
15362 posts
1/4/2017 10:03 am

    Quoting hotdreamer1000:
    There is no obligation to comment, lol. I do my best, but after 11,378 posts mostly I have said all I've got. Glad she's well, Twyford correctly spelt and only a few miles from me....
She did say it wasn't far from you. Not sure where it is, must try and visit one of these days.

I've been trying for ages to get her back on here.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
1/11/2017 10:43 am

    Quoting rainbowsox:
    We love you so much, and miss the heck out of talking with you.

    Our Christmas (and New Years) were incredible and hope that yours were as well. It has been a crazy-hectic couple of months on the ranch and will probably remain so for quite a while. I suppose that is a really good thing, and it is a shame that some things in our lives have had to suffer (like this place!). But, like I said, it is a good thing as the busyness means we are knee-deep in life and taking full advantage of all the opportunities presented.

    Many wishes that 2017 offers you health and joy!!!!!!!!

    Love,
    -E'
"Knee deep in life," what a great expression! So glad to know you are happy.


BiggLala 48F  
28374 posts
1/11/2017 2:16 pm

Awww, thank you for the nod, Dreamer! I don't know how I missed this post to make a timely comment. Apologies. I'm glad our discussion inspired thought for you, and I'm even more appreciative of the discussion you brought to my page. I thoroughly enjoyed it!

I hope you had a wonderful holiday season, and a blessed start to the new year!


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BiggLala 48F  
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1/11/2017 2:18 pm

Oh I forgot to mention you gave me several things to think about as well.

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hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
1/11/2017 3:32 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    Oh I forgot to mention you gave me several things to think about as well.
That's good - it's one of the reasons I love it here. Thanks for the belated seasons greetings. I'm sure we'll have a few more discussions this year!


marshamaybe 32F

1/19/2017 2:40 pm

Thank you , Sir, for the kind words . I have been away from home and on the fringes of cell coverage the last while . We were at my foster mothers over Christmas in Manitoba , and we could actually see the tower and were unable to get a signal . Lots of snow , compared to where i was in SE Alberta the last couple of months . Back home now and it's chinooking mostly but the weather is unpredictable as usual . That hiway between Banff and Jasper is closed as i write this for some reason . I apologise for not visiting your blog more . I always look forward to and appreciate your comments on mine . Rather selfish of me , but i get sidetracked and some others writing makes mine seem pretty one dimensional , to me . Hope you and your readers enjoy a great year ahead.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
1/19/2017 3:06 pm

The "Icefields Parkway" as I remember it is called for the tourists, We'd be scared to turn up there in the winter I think, best leave it to you locals who know what they're doing!

No need to apologise for not visiting more, and it's certainly not selfish. I love it when I see a comment from you, but only if you feel like it: I'd hate to think you felt guilty! But you know, your writing isn't one dimensional - I always carries glimmers of a deeply sexy life, with colours of the countryside and hints of humour.


zandigal 55F
13002 posts
1/26/2018 10:13 am


Happy 2018, my sweet Dreamer. I know this is an older post, but for some reason it popped up for me. And I see I never even said Merry Christmas on this one!
All is well in the World of Zandi... better than Cindi's haha. Technology in my part of the world is slacking just a bit. Everything is always a challenge.
Have a wonderful weekend


Respond to every call that excites Your Spirit
~Rumi


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hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
2/1/2018 3:27 am

    Quoting zandigal:

    Happy 2018, my sweet Dreamer. I know this is an older post, but for some reason it popped up for me. And I see I never even said Merry Christmas on this one!
    All is well in the World of Zandi... better than Cindi's haha. Technology in my part of the world is slacking just a bit. Everything is always a challenge.
    Have a wonderful weekend

Hello there beautiful! I was just thinking about you this week what with the super moon and everything. I half expected to see some photographs on your blog....


zandigal 55F
13002 posts
2/1/2018 6:35 pm

hey handsome!
I was trying to get them up before you came back from holiday. but a couple are there now. chat soon!


Respond to every call that excites Your Spirit
~Rumi


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littlebratface 41M
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7/22/2018 11:45 pm

And... It means the world to me!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
11/22/2018 7:45 am

I know that. That's one of the best things about it.


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