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hotdreamer1000 60M
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7/24/2014 8:22 am

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Dangerous Toys


Okay, here's a weird one. I have a slight fetish about women holding their breath.

I used to think it was based on another fetish of mine (the one I don't talk about. And I don't know why I said that because nobody, well almost nobody, even knows I have one I don't talk about) but anyway I realise now that although they may be linked in some way, I have had this one for a while without noticing. Thinking back I remember getting unexpectedly turned on by a TV program about a woman free diver a while back. Maybe I might develop this one a little?

I would love to know what triggers these little things off though. I know a lot of the time it can be remembered experiences - which is why I think people tend to have more of these strange little triggers as they get older, because they have more experiences to draw on. But there has to be something else too, to make you appreciate the sexiness of seemingly unconnected things. Then once you start to feed it, it gets bigger. (Which is why you have to be careful if it turns out to be something which could be harmful.)

Whatever. My attention was drawn to this by a comment by the Sox, although the breath holding referred to in their case was, A) probably fictitious, and B ) more a reference to petulance than sex.

But it did make me think, I mean OMG, isn't there something just nipple-hardeningly exciting about someone sucking in a great lungful of air and then holding it until they are gasping........or am I a bit weird?

You see suddenly I realise that this could in fact be potentially dangerous. Ok, simple breath holding, assuming you are healthy and don't faint and fall down the stairs, would probably safe enough for you to play with to satisfy my strange desires. (Should you feel moved to do so..... )

But I can see how, if fed, this fetish could lead me to things less safe. For example would I then start to get off on the idea of something like say choking. I am aware that many people do. I think we are probably all aware of the dangers of auto eroticism. Not having experienced it, or witnessed anyone become sexually aroused because of oxygen deprivation, I don't know what it is like, but clearly it does have an effect, and quite a lot of people have died, either by using a home made "fail safe" which went wrong, or by accidentally damaging a partner's throat, which, I remember reading, is surprisingly easy to do. And yet I notice that quite often even in fairly regular pornography, guys have their hand around their girl's windpipe.

I simply can not conceive ever of taking any risks with the wellbeing of anyone I was having sex with. So, perhaps even the effects of harmless erotic breath holding may have to be put on the long list of things I have to go without, (like real sex for example ha ha ha, (partly ironic laughter) things which, for me, fall into the category of "Too Risky to be Worth it."

People sometimes say you only regret the things you didn't do........but this is absolute rubbish. As I have mentioned before, a character in a second rate sit-com once put it rather well: "The problem about living in the moment is that it tends to bugger up the next moment." Often all too true.

Violette001 48F
4497 posts
7/24/2014 8:36 am

well.... if you can take her breath away just by the way you look at her... her windpipes will be safe.

"Do not put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket"
--Author Unknown



hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
7/24/2014 11:20 am

    Quoting Violette001:
    well.... if you can take her breath away just by the way you look at her... her windpipes will be safe.
She only has to look at my boat!


sexysixties2 72F  
38886 posts
7/24/2014 12:35 pm

There are definitely some things which are just too risky to try. I used to have a fantasy of having sex with a total stranger....now how stupid is that?

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
7/24/2014 1:04 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    There are definitely some things which are just too risky to try. I used to have a fantasy of having sex with a total stranger....now how stupid is that?
There is something pretty powerful about that idea - after all, lots of people do that. I think I used to have the same fantasy, but these days it is more often the idea of sex with someone I know really well but who I haven't thought of in that way before which attracts me!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
7/25/2014 3:19 am

Ahhh yes, the pre-orgasm holding of breath. Maybe that association has something to do with why I like it.

It certainly is very sexy, I think maybe only some people do that, not everyone. I think you should write a post about that, H will be amazed that you shared such a sexy detail, even though it is in fact about her, not about you!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
8/8/2014 4:10 am

    Quoting rainbowsox:
    It does show we made two comments on this post. I don't remember making two so maybe H' replied to you. Of course, since you did NOT quote me, I never saw your response..... soooooooo, you should not "hold your breath" waiting for THAT post, the fact that I even commented in that way was a bit of a reach for me. I must have been basking in a "glow"or something!!! LOLOLOLOL!!!

    Love,
    -E'


Oh yes - I didn't notice that I didn't quote you.....I obviously meant to.

No, I won't be holding my breath - I was a bit surprised (and maybe a little bit flattered) that you had shared this revealing detail, lol. Don't blush, but I do now have a mental picture of your lustful eyes fixed hungrily on H's as her breathing becomes more halting.......... which she keeps bringing to mind every time she interviews you, lol.


tigger678902 53F  
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9/23/2014 9:33 pm

nteresting post,...yes some things do get interestingly more enticing as time goes by,...and then you start doing and liking things you never thought you possibly would,...welllllll ok maybe you might have thought posssssssibly but,.....and then the but just sort of wears away,...

do you think you might like the breath holding,,...because women often hold their breathe when they orgasm?

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hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
9/29/2014 4:49 am

    Quoting tigger678902:
    nteresting post,...yes some things do get interestingly more enticing as time goes by,...and then you start doing and liking things you never thought you possibly would,...welllllll ok maybe you might have thought posssssssibly but,.....and then the but just sort of wears away,...

    do you think you might like the breath holding,,...because women often hold their breathe when they orgasm?
Really good point, and yes, I wonder if maybe that might have something to do with it. I suppose I knew that women sometimes hold their breath while they come - or is it more accurate to say when they are about to come? I guess all women are different - from what I remember, (dim and distant years ago now, lol) the women I slept with tended to do a lot of gasping during orgasm....maybe that was after holding their breath for a bit......


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