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Don't Want to be a Richer Man  

hotdreamer1000 60M
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10/19/2015 4:08 am

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Don't Want to be a Richer Man


Stormyroses, (whohoooooooo Stormyroses is back ) asked where I went on my holiday, and the answer is the Canadian Rocky Mountains, and it was fantastic! But you would need to like fabulous mountain views, friendly small town people, extremely variable weather and a bit of wildlife watching, mountain hiking or fishing to fully appreciate it.

And as always after my annual September trip, I came back full of enthusiasm for life and with lots of fun projects in mind. Of course after a while reality always sinks back in. But having said that, my reality is pretty good, I am extraordinarily lucky in the advantages I have had, and still continue to have in life, and my enthusiasm, which is the one thing I do find varies considerably, isn't bad at the moment really.

So why haven't I been posting much recently? (A question I have been asking myself on and off for years now. ) Well, I don't know really. Ideas for posts do pop into my head. I still have the dreams. Last night I bumped into an old college friend of mine with a party of his friends having dinner in a pub. In reaching over the table to shake his hand, I accidentally spilled his 's drink and had to buy her another, which somehow became a whole round for about ten people, one of which was this sexy woman of about thirty who stood up and said into my ear "As you have so kindly bought me a drink, and it looks as if most of the others will all be drifting away home soon, I thought I might just mention that I am not ready to go home yet, if you would be interested in making a longer night of it....."

But the reality is, for some reason I haven't been thinking about sex as much as usual for a while. Maybe I have even been avoiding thinking about it, at least in real life situations, and perhaps this leads me to avoid posting too much here. I know it doesn't have to be about sex - other people post about their daily lives and stuff, but I have never really wanted to do that, and I doubt many of you would be interested. Those of you who would be mostly have my email address anyway.

Plus I have had more work on recently, so although, in the words of David Bowie, and reprising a theme from an earlier post of mine, I don't want to be a richer man, and I don't actually feel like I want to make too many Changes at the moment, I find when I sit down to type, I tell myself I must just get some work out of the way first........after which the urge to write, and the idea for the post is gone.

But at least you know I am still here, unlike others who suddenly disappear without warning!

Although some of them do come back, which is nice.

hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
10/19/2015 8:47 am

    Quoting Darling_Annette:
    well, see, there you are ... you wrote about not having the urge to write so much, yet this post is warm and interesting nonetheless. thank you!.
Hey there - thanks Annette, always nice to hear I am warm and interesting!


marysia4u 64F
15362 posts
10/19/2015 12:18 pm

Do keep popping in. I sometimes have long breaks of being blog dead, but call into other blogs to see how the bloggers are, so jot a line or two whenever you have time, so we know you are ok.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
10/19/2015 12:57 pm

    Quoting marysia4u:
    Do keep popping in. I sometimes have long breaks of being blog dead, but call into other blogs to see how the bloggers are, so jot a line or two whenever you have time, so we know you are ok.


That is sweet of you Marysia, and don't worry, I will.


MyNameIsKay 58F  
11808 posts
10/19/2015 9:45 pm

I haven't commented on a post since my birthday (early Sept)...I hadn't planned on posting any comments again, but you my dear Dreamer...you have no private message area on your blog. I sent you an e-mail here to say a goodbye but didn't realize that the site had stopped standard members from being able to read them.

I had decided it was time to end my blog and attempt to put my efforts elsewhere. There was a lot of thought behind it and some true frustrations with continuing to write here...none of which had anything to do with the site!

I'm still here and reading for now, so even if I don't comment on your posts anymore, I do still pop in to wonder on occasion what the face behind the book must look like. Dreamy, I'm sure!

Happy Monday.

Swim...Bike...Done


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
10/20/2015 3:25 am

    Quoting MyNameIsKay:
    I haven't commented on a post since my birthday (early Sept)...I hadn't planned on posting any comments again, but you my dear Dreamer...you have no private message area on your blog. I sent you an e-mail here to say a goodbye but didn't realize that the site had stopped standard members from being able to read them.

    I had decided it was time to end my blog and attempt to put my efforts elsewhere. There was a lot of thought behind it and some true frustrations with continuing to write here...none of which had anything to do with the site!

    I'm still here and reading for now, so even if I don't comment on your posts anymore, I do still pop in to wonder on occasion what the face behind the book must look like. Dreamy, I'm sure!

    Happy Monday.
It's good to know you might still be reading my posts, (if I write any, lol ) as I find it even more difficult to be inspired if none of the people I have got to know are going to see the results! I think it was mostly the comments threads and the tangents they sometimes lead off on which I used to find most interesting in fact.

The good news is that I did manage to read your mail, it just wouldn't let me reply. But I will be in touch soon, don't worry!


tigger678902 53F  
4549 posts
10/20/2015 5:14 pm

I've been rather unbloggy for quite awhile now too Dreamer, I'm sure you will have lots of intersting posts for us in the future

Good girls go to heaven,....Bad girls go EVERYWHERE!
I love to travel

Come visit my blog tigger678902


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
10/21/2015 2:23 am

    Quoting tigger678902:
    I've been rather unbloggy for quite awhile now too Dreamer, I'm sure you will have lots of intersting posts for us in the future
I think it is self perpetuating -- the more your friends are unbloggy, the more unbloggy you become yourself!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
10/21/2015 11:33 am

    Quoting rainbowsox:
    It's all about inspiration
    I had a flash of it. Now it's gone
    Chicken and egg
    I wasn't busy. I had ideas
    Now I'm busy. And I've gone blank

    Holy shit. I'm shooting blanks

    Love,
    -H'

Ha ha, yes, it happens a lot. Not the shooting blanks part, at least not that I know of in the reproductive sense, and not in the usual dysfunctional sense either. Not that you want to know about that, lol.


Wildfire9600 106F  
6572 posts
10/26/2015 7:00 pm

You came all the way across the pond to see the Rockies? What a fabulous holiday!

Now, you better not have had a stopover at the Toronto airport, or I may have to pout that you didn't tell me about it.

You want to stop the flame from burning. I just want to let it go...


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
10/27/2015 8:48 am

    Quoting Wildfire9600:
    You came all the way across the pond to see the Rockies? What a fabulous holiday!

    Now, you better not have had a stopover at the Toronto airport, or I may have to pout that you didn't tell me about it.
Straight flight to Calgary, then across BC by car, and flew back from Vancouver. The thought of a different itinerary did enter my head, but I wouldn't have been able to get us any alone time!


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