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hotdreamer1000 60M
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1/19/2016 10:01 am

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1/20/2016 2:08 pm

It's not you, it's me.


I haven't been feeling very sexy lately and I'm not really sure why.

You would have thought what with my unusually high testosterone levels and the fact that I never get any I would be on a short fuse all of the time. And normally I am. All it takes is a smile from a sales assistant, the right pair of legs, a supple skier in the snow, anything which catches my imagination, especially a deeply felt confession here on the blogs.

Maybe it's me, but I haven't found any sexy stories to grab a hold of my attention recently. I am attracted to a couple of the women behind the blogs I read, sure - I expect if they wanted to they could trip my switches. But I think I have been sub-consciously avoiding letting those kind of Thoughts develop. Probably it is just a phase. A short one I hope, because despite the frustration that can go with it, I really like feeling sexy. It is one reason why I come here. The reality of what is written here, the real feelings, hopes and desires of people writing their blogs is much more of a turn on to me than obviously contrived stories or acted porn.

But I woke this morning feeling tired all over, and that is never going to lead to licentiousness is it? I have been working hard, and maybe that is all it is. I read with envy Wildfire's account of an escape to warm ocean front luxury. Although I do love the cold weather, but today, ice outside my windows made me want to stay in the house. And then the phone rang and I had to work.

Anyway, I'm looking forward to a good night's sleep, and in that sleep, what dreams may come?

sexysixties2 72F  
38886 posts
1/19/2016 2:32 pm

I haven't exactly been feeling very sexy either....in fact I find it difficult to read some of the racier stuff on here just now. I know what's wrong with me and I'm trying to do something about it....hopefully it's not too late.

I hope you catch up on your sleep soon.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
1/20/2016 8:40 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I haven't exactly been feeling very sexy either....in fact I find it difficult to read some of the racier stuff on here just now. I know what's wrong with me and I'm trying to do something about it....hopefully it's not too late.

    I hope you catch up on your sleep soon.

I'm the same - the racy stuff doesn't feel right unless you are up for it somehow. On the other hand, I am a little better today, for some reason.

They do say it is never too late, and I hope that applies to you - sometimes it doesn't take much.


Wildfire9600 106F  
6572 posts
1/20/2016 11:29 am

I think we feel sexier when we have someone who finds us sexy. Regardless of what anyone else thinks, knowing that one person is attracted to you makes such a difference. And even then, it ebbs and flows. I have no doubt you'll get your sexy back.

You want to stop the flame from burning. I just want to let it go...


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
1/20/2016 2:08 pm

    Quoting Wildfire9600:
    I think we feel sexier when we have someone who finds us sexy. Regardless of what anyone else thinks, knowing that one person is attracted to you makes such a difference. And even then, it ebbs and flows. I have no doubt you'll get your sexy back.
You are 100% right about that Wild.


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