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hotdreamer1000 60M
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6/22/2015 8:01 am

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Permission to Speak Freely


Please note, this post is in no way intended to belittle the real difficulties of having any kind of mental disability or speaking disorder............

But there are times when I wish I had Tourette's syndrome - you know, the one where you just say what you are thinking with no filter. Sometimes I think I may have it very slightly, although thankfully I have it under control.

Like today, when I was in the coffee shop and the girl serving me said "is there anything else you would like?" I was very tempted to reply, "yes please, could I have a quick feel of your really gorgeous breasts?" But without being able to prove a genuine case of Tourette's, I think it is possible I may not have got away with it.

And yesterday, confronted by a man I find I am totally unable to like, I wanted to say, "go away you horrible person, you are a man on whom I would not piss," (Dreamer likes to be grammatically, if not politically correct, ) "even in the event your trousers should catch fire."

snowbird817 57F
337 posts
6/22/2015 8:15 am

Okay the former actions could get you arrested...the latter though could set you free. I've told many an asshole exactly what I thought of them and used the same euphemism...maybe not so politely as you but I got the message across, lol.
Guess I'm not all that politically correct after all!

~Snow~


sexysixties2 72F  
38886 posts
6/22/2015 12:01 pm

You be careful or we'll have to have a whip round for bail money Dreamer.

I do my best to be careful what I say....but's it's very hard at times!!!


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~~Anais Nin~~


marysia4u 64F
15362 posts
6/22/2015 3:07 pm

Like Passion I have been known to say what I thought of someone in a different language, but always with a smile on my face so that they think I'm saying something nice.


hotdreamer1000 60M
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6/22/2015 3:42 pm

    Quoting snowbird817:
    Okay the former actions could get you arrested...the latter though could set you free. I've told many an asshole exactly what I thought of them and used the same euphemism...maybe not so politely as you but I got the message across, lol.
    Guess I'm not all that politically correct after all!
I don't think it is actually illegal to ask for a fondle, but I agree it's better not to risk it!


hotdreamer1000 60M
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6/22/2015 3:43 pm

    Quoting  :

I don't think I can blame the weather - I am just as bad in the middle of winter.


hotdreamer1000 60M
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6/22/2015 3:44 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    You be careful or we'll have to have a whip round for bail money Dreamer.

    I do my best to be careful what I say....but's it's very hard at times!!!

I should point out that when I say "girl" she was at least twenty two!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
6/22/2015 3:46 pm

    Quoting PassionCork:
    My trick . . depending upon where I am . . . .I change language when I want to say what I am thinking.

    So far so good . . .have yet to be caught out. But, I have caught others.
That's a good plan...how do I say "please can I fondle your gorgeous breasts?" in Italian? I know how to say, "Mi disparace, sono Inglesi," so that might help smooth things over afterwards if she understood me.


hotdreamer1000 60M
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6/22/2015 3:47 pm

    Quoting marysia4u:
    Like Passion I have been known to say what I thought of someone in a different language, but always with a smile on my face so that they think I'm saying something nice.


Passion is on to something I think, but I am thinking of using it for the chat up rather than the insult!


tigger678902 53F  
4549 posts
6/22/2015 6:38 pm

sometimes saying what you think can work out well,...ut there's always a risk involved...

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kittyliquor519 55M
2734 posts
6/22/2015 7:45 pm

I've found it best just to smile

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


MyNameIsKay 58F  
11808 posts
6/22/2015 8:06 pm

Those are two different kinds of things on your mind...and speaking your mind would get you two very different results. I wonder which one would provide you with the greatest satisfaction.

I've found that when speak my mind out of irritation, that it's not always as satisfying as I'd like. But when I speak because someone turns my head, I'm glad I was able to get up the courage.

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hotdreamer1000 60M
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6/23/2015 3:32 pm

    Quoting MyNameIsKay:
    Those are two different kinds of things on your mind...and speaking your mind would get you two very different results. I wonder which one would provide you with the greatest satisfaction.

    I've found that when speak my mind out of irritation, that it's not always as satisfying as I'd like. But when I speak because someone turns my head, I'm glad I was able to get up the courage.
That's a very good point Kay, I like the way you are thinking.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
6/23/2015 3:35 pm

Really? Irrespective of the situation? I'm not sure that would always work for me. I mean people might not know whether it was a real smile or not. Maybe you didn't mean it as advice....just what works for you?


hotdreamer1000 60M
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6/23/2015 3:37 pm

    Quoting tigger678902:
    sometimes saying what you think can work out well,...ut there's always a risk involved...
I know! Sexysixties and Snowbird think I might risk getting arrested.


kittyliquor519 55M
2734 posts
6/23/2015 6:29 pm

    Quoting hotdreamer1000:
    Really? Irrespective of the situation? I'm not sure that would always work for me. I mean people might not know whether it was a real smile or not. Maybe you didn't mean it as advice....just what works for you?
Ultimately it depends on how I have read the person and whether or not I think they could handle any criticism. If I sense it would not be worth my time to talk to someone I'll just smile and be on my way

Cuz sometimes I just want to let it all out...and that just wouldn't be right according to The Golden Rule

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


Wildfire9600 106F  
6572 posts
6/23/2015 6:30 pm

I say go for it, then change your voice and explain you have multiple personality disorder. Maybe even scold your other self for speaking inappropriately.

You want to stop the flame from burning. I just want to let it go...


Violette001 48F
4497 posts
6/24/2015 6:00 pm

well... politicians and such seem to be getting away with blurting out inappropriate things and apologizing 5 seconds after it has gone viral... so... maybe you'd get away with it too?

and I'm glad you've got your priorities right - it is ALWAYS more important to be grammatically correct than politically correct.

"Do not put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket"
--Author Unknown



hotdreamer1000 60M
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6/25/2015 4:05 am

    Quoting kittyliquor519:
    Ultimately it depends on how I have read the person and whether or not I think they could handle any criticism. If I sense it would not be worth my time to talk to someone I'll just smile and be on my way

    Cuz sometimes I just want to let it all out...and that just wouldn't be right according to The Golden Rule
Yes, I understand. And in the case of the man I don't like, he is definitely (for me at any rate) beyond worth bothering with, which is why, like you, I don't say anything, because it is easier just not to have to deal with him.

My blog wasn't completely serious though.


hotdreamer1000 60M
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6/25/2015 4:10 am

    Quoting Wildfire9600:
    I say go for it, then change your voice and explain you have multiple personality disorder. Maybe even scold your other self for speaking inappropriately.
Hmmmm......multiple personality disorder........

You mean saying something like "Wildfire, I really do find your mind terribly sexy. Can you please fly over to the UK and visit me some time for a long night of STOP THAT DREAMER, what were you thinking? I'm so sorry Wild, he just leaps on my brain and says whatever he is thinking sometimes, I would never presume upon our friendship just because Dreamer is feeling so horny today"

I suppose that might be fun sometimes, do you think I would get away with that?


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
6/25/2015 4:13 am

    Quoting Violette001:
    well... politicians and such seem to be getting away with blurting out inappropriate things and apologizing 5 seconds after it has gone viral... so... maybe you'd get away with it too?

    and I'm glad you've got your priorities right - it is ALWAYS more important to be grammatically correct than politically correct.
Hiya V, great to see you. Yes, I could try it. I rather like Wildfire's idea - see my reply to her above!

I do allow grammatical lapses where strict Queen's English doesn't quite sound how I mean it to, but mostly, especially in the written word, I do like to maintain my standards, lol.


Wildfire9600 106F  
6572 posts
6/28/2015 7:13 pm

    Quoting hotdreamer1000:
    Hmmmm......multiple personality disorder........

    You mean saying something like "Wildfire, I really do find your mind terribly sexy. Can you please fly over to the UK and visit me some time for a long night of STOP THAT DREAMER, what were you thinking? I'm so sorry Wild, he just leaps on my brain and says whatever he is thinking sometimes, I would never presume upon our friendship just because Dreamer is feeling so horny today"

    I suppose that might be fun sometimes, do you think I would get away with that?
That's it exactly! Give it a whirl and let me know how it goes!

And I would love to fly across the pond and spend a late night in deep discussions with you.

You want to stop the flame from burning. I just want to let it go...


hotdreamer1000 60M
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6/29/2015 9:22 am

    Quoting Wildfire9600:
    That's it exactly! Give it a whirl and let me know how it goes!

    And I would love to fly across the pond and spend a late night in deep discussions with you.
Let me know when you're flying over and I'll give it a whirl!


hippiechick1967 41F
12074 posts
6/29/2015 8:22 pm

Those are some polite comments: lecherous or insulting, they were still polite. Is that an English thing?

Elevate me...


hotdreamer1000 60M
11653 posts
6/30/2015 12:53 am

    Quoting hippiechick1967:
    Those are some polite comments: lecherous or insulting, they were still polite. Is that an English thing?
I don't think so, although it would be nice if that was true, but I don't think it ever was really. I am usually polite I suppose, but in this case I think it was mainly just that polite insults or lechery can be funny!


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