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hotdreamer1000 60M
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5/22/2014 2:12 pm

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Hippiechick has a post up in which she bemoans the fact that she is constantly asked whether she is shaved or unshaved....."down there."

Me? Who the hell cares?

See, I always think, that the moment you start saying "must be ......whatever" you just aren't going to find what you are looking for.

Like in Seinfeld: however perfect his girlfriends seemed to be, it was a running gag that he would always find something seemingly insignificant wrong with them, which for him would become a total deal breaker.

Falling in love, fancying someone, lusting after someone, isn't really like that. Yes, I suppose I could describe my theoretical perfect woman, (in fact I think I did once in a post called "Dreamer's crucial checklist" or something. ) But in reality, none of the women I have ever fallen in love with, or liked, lusted after, or had any other romantic, sexual or platonic emotions in between about, has ever fully fitted that description.

My "Lioness" was cross-eyed for goodness sake! But when you are open to feeling the real core of the other person's being, and you get it, you find that all those things that you thought would be deal breakers actually don't matter at all. In fact you grow to love the things about that person which in someone else might have put you off.

So, to paraphrase a wealthy retailer who I once remember saying "The people who buy my company's clothing are the type of people who don't ask how much something is until they have their pen poised over the cheque book," and to throw in a golfing metaphor which has just occurred to me as well..............................

I don't expect to find out whether a girl is fairway smooth or forested with long rough until I'm on the green with my putter addressing the hole.

By then, I don't care as long as I sink it.

keithcancook 63M
18277 posts
5/22/2014 3:14 pm

Hopefully the hole hasn't been flagged with too many poles.

blog on!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
5/23/2014 5:15 am

    Quoting keithcancook:
    Hopefully the hole hasn't been flagged with too many poles.

    blog on!
I'm not worried about who else has been round the course if I really love it there.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
5/23/2014 5:15 am

    Quoting  :

Nothing wrong with smut!


TicklePlease 52F  
12760 posts
5/23/2014 12:45 pm

Love the golf analogies!!!!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
5/23/2014 3:55 pm

I hadn't planned them - they just came to me at the end as I was writing, so I slipped them in.


sexysixties2 72F  
38886 posts
5/25/2014 10:59 am

There really shouldn't be deal breakers....I have had some loves in my life and the only thing that was common to them all was the fact that they could make me laugh even on a bad day.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
5/27/2014 6:49 am

    Quoting the_girl5:
    Wow!
    and I really love the company quote!
    It's a matter of personal taste but it really shouldn't be a dealbreaker. But I guess that's just the way it is
Taste...yes.

The guy who said that thing about his company sold really expensive shirts!


hippiechick1967 41F
12074 posts
5/28/2014 6:10 pm

Some of the profiles on here crack me up will all their 'musts.'
I could tell about my pubic hair (or lack thereof), but I think I won't just so I have something to bemoan!

Elevate me...


tigger678902 53F  
4549 posts
5/29/2014 8:02 pm

hahaha I prefer the golf metaphor for some reason,..

Good girls go to heaven,....Bad girls go EVERYWHERE!
I love to travel

Come visit my blog tigger678902


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
5/30/2014 3:20 pm

    Quoting hippiechick1967:
    Some of the profiles on here crack me up will all their 'musts.'
    I could tell about my pubic hair (or lack thereof), but I think I won't just so I have something to bemoan!
Good plan Hip, keep the pubes a secret.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
5/30/2014 3:22 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    There really shouldn't be deal breakers....I have had some loves in my life and the only thing that was common to them all was the fact that they could make me laugh even on a bad day.
Yes, I agree. If you like someone, then you just like them. As long as they don't squeeze the toothpaste in the middle of the tube of course.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
5/30/2014 3:24 pm

    Quoting tigger678902:
    hahaha I prefer the golf metaphor for some reason,..
Thanks tigger - it just came to me as I was writing. I expect it can be extended to include other golfing references.......


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