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Ten Years and What Have I Learnt?  

hotdreamer1000 60M
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8/31/2017 6:44 am

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Ten Years and What Have I Learnt?


Actually it is nearer eleven, but I have given up counting. Since I first found this site and started writing a blog. I was curious. Among other things.

So what have I learnt?

1 ) A box of frogs really is quite mad. Actually it wasn't a box, it was a pile of old wood and leaves I was clearing out in my garden. I built them a lovely pond to live in, where I do see the odd one now and again. They sit there quietly half out of the water and watch me mow the lawn. But when I went to clear out the pile of garden debris by the paving behind the pond it was literally hopping with them, about twenty or thirty of all sizes legged it off into the undergrowth. I couldn't believe it. The last one, the biggest fattest of them all, hung on long after I thought they had all gone, right up to when I lifted the very last dead branch and then, with a sad look behind at me, walked slowly off and slid into the pond, where it sat looking disgruntled. Mad as a box of frogs they were.

2 ) A Sandboy isn't always happy despite appearances to the contrary.

3 ) Phone sex is nearly as good. Seriously. If you never have, and you get the chance, lie back comfortably in bed, and talk to someone who turns you on while you both masturbate. Stated coldly like that it doesn't sound that great. You have to be in the right mood, and it has to be someone who makes you feel uninhibited, and who understands the ideas that turn you on. You don't have to talk dirty if it feels weird, just hearing the voice in your ear, listening to them get turned on by you........if you let your imagination fly, it works.

4 ) You can make real friends with people you don't know on a sex finder's site on the internet. I was going to mention names, but then there are too many to mention and I might leave someone out. But you know who you are. I get an amazing sense of security knowing you are there if I need you. I would never have realised that would be possible.

5 ) You can't write sexy unless you are really feeling it.

6 ) I really don't like country music. Except for Willie Nelson.

7 ) I love nothing more than to sit in my workshop and make things, or convert old useless junk into something new and worthwhile.

8 ) A piece of creative writing is easy to start, but very hard to finish.

9 ) I can't help wanting to find a way of giving hope to people who are hurting. I am not always successful.

10 ) Men and women really don't understand each other, but the ones who realise that this doesn't matter can and do love each other.

11 ) That you can buy a kit to make an exact replica of your penis. If for some reason you want to.

12 ) That most women don't want to see a picture of anyone's penis. So I seriously doubt if they would want to have a replica of one either. But who knows?

13 ) That there is almost always someone out there who wants to try something weird, whatever it is.....see point 12 ) above, lol.

14 ) That "after changes upon changes things are more or less the same." (Thanks to Paul Simon for that one. )

So I am still learning how to really put the past behind me, how to decide what I want for the future, and how to turn and face the strain to make decisions where changes are required. I am about to head off on my annual recharge holiday and I will be off line for a bit. But I look forward to seeing you all again, and learning more interesting stuff when I get back.

oldhabits88 34F
166 posts
8/31/2017 11:27 am

I'll miss you while you're gone but I hope to hear good stories when you get back.


sexysixties2 72F  
38886 posts
8/31/2017 12:34 pm

5 ) "You can't write sexy unless you are really feeling it." So true. I don't thnk I wil ever be able to write again as I once did.

Enjoy the holiday.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


marysia4u 64F
15362 posts
8/31/2017 1:17 pm

Hope you have a safe wonderful time away.

Re the replica penis..... it's different than getting a cock shot in your face from someone you don't know. If you know the person and get on really well but can't get together due to distance, then a replica could cum in very handy while you're having phone sex.


coranimuscorcill 55F  
802 posts
9/2/2017 7:56 am

hotdreamer - what a wonderful summary of your experience here!

You're invited to CorPlay anytime.
Kinky-ish coffee or before bed time fun in favorite chat rooms.
Life is too short not to laugh!
Peace, light, love


MyNameIsKay 58F  
11808 posts
9/2/2017 12:16 pm

I have made real friends here as well. And no...I'd rather see a real penis than a replicated one.

Enjoy your holiday.

Swim...Bike...Done


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
9/18/2017 6:44 am

    Quoting oldhabits88:
    I'll miss you while you're gone but I hope to hear good stories when you get back.
Great time, glad you missed me but I hope only in a good way. No real stories to tell, apart from the dream I had about the five Philippino women. Come to think about it they may have looked a little bit like you.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
9/18/2017 6:45 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    5 ) "You can't write sexy unless you are really feeling it." So true. I don't thnk I wil ever be able to write again as I once did.

    Enjoy the holiday.

Never say never.....but I know what you mean.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
9/18/2017 6:46 am

    Quoting marysia4u:
    Hope you have a safe wonderful time away.

    Re the replica penis..... it's different than getting a cock shot in your face from someone you don't know. If you know the person and get on really well but can't get together due to distance, then a replica could cum in very handy while you're having phone sex.


I suppose you could be right. I'd better knock up a few to send out.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
9/18/2017 6:47 am

    Quoting coranimuscorcill:
    hotdreamer - what a wonderful summary of your experience here!
It was just the first things which came into my head for a rush post really, but I'm glad it gave you a quick overview of my world!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
9/18/2017 6:47 am

    Quoting MyNameIsKay:
    I have made real friends here as well. And no...I'd rather see a real penis than a replicated one.

    Enjoy your holiday.
I'm not sure I would.......


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
9/18/2017 6:48 am

    Quoting rainbowsox:
    Yup. Friends with strange faces. In even stranger. Places
    Who fill in the nooks, Cranny's. And spaces!

    Don't like country music?
    So you don't like. The Beetles. The Rolling Stones. The Who. Etc. Etc. Etc?
    Ya know. Cus' they're from your. Country
    Fuck. I'm funny

    Love,
    Mrs. X'
Hmmmm. I think you should work on some better material!


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