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hotdreamer1000 60M
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5/16/2016 4:07 am

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The Kind of Girl I want to Date


The kind of girls I think I want to date – Bubbly, outgoing, obviously sexy, uninhibited, good with people, skanky but with class;

The kind of girls I wish fell in love with – Kind, giving, sensuous, quietly thoughtful, strong but not too self-assured , admiring, admonishing but quick to forgive, unexpectedly erotic when aroused;

The kind of girls I tend to fall in love with – Dark, quiet, outgoing but introspective, hard on themselves, insecure but not too needy, full of unrealised promise.

(I have always thought that someone somewhere must be a mixture of all three……)

The kind of girls who fall in love with me – I have absolutely no idea, but thankfully they do sometimes.



(Once again this isn't the post I thought I was going to write, but I got side tracked! )

lustasaurus 43F  
1750 posts
5/16/2016 6:53 am

Surely, there's overlap in categories 2 and 3. Please tell me there's overlap!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
5/16/2016 7:34 am

    Quoting lustasaurus:
    Surely, there's overlap in categories 2 and 3. Please tell me there's overlap!
Masses of overlap! I've even been lucky enough to have overlap between categories 1 and 4, and pretty much everywhere else too, just not as much or as often as I would like, lol.

Mostly though, I don't really analyse at the time, if I love them I love them. but afterwards I sometimes look back and think......"Is there a pattern here somewhere?"

Don't you wish there didn't have to be an afterwards?


zandigal 55F
13002 posts
5/16/2016 9:39 am

skanky with class... niiiice.... lol


Respond to every call that excites Your Spirit
~Rumi


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oldhabits88 34F
166 posts
5/16/2016 10:34 am

Obviously I'm your dream girl Dreamer. Oh wait I think I'm being too self assured. Damn did I just cancel myself out?


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
5/16/2016 12:18 pm

    Quoting zandigal:
    skanky with class... niiiice.... lol

I was thinking of you Zandi!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
5/16/2016 12:18 pm

    Quoting oldhabits88:
    Obviously I'm your dream girl Dreamer. Oh wait I think I'm being too self assured. Damn did I just cancel myself out?
If you are worried you might be too self assured then you are just insecure enough!


zandigal 55F
13002 posts
5/16/2016 12:25 pm

even better, Dreemy

Respond to every call that excites Your Spirit
~Rumi


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hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
5/16/2016 2:34 pm

    Quoting PassionCork:
    I'm sure there is a girl who is just the right mix of all three . . . perfectly imperfect for you Dreamer.
Well it doesn't matter really - because as I always say, in the end you never find what you think you are looking for in someone - if you try to do that all you can see is their faults. It would be nice to fall in love with someone perfectly imperfect, but the reality, it seems to me at least, is that you can't choose who you fall in love with, you just love them, and then love who they are.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
5/17/2016 5:48 am

    Quoting  :

Ha haa! It was just meant to be a bit of fun, so I'm glad you enjoyed it.

I don't think there is anything to be scared about in listing ideals! Because as I said to passioncork, in reality we seem not to fall in love with ideals anyway.


sexysixties2 72F  
38886 posts
5/17/2016 11:28 am

I always thought I knew what I was looking for until my eyes caught someone else's one Sunday morning so many years ago....I was married but my first thought was "Oh shit you are going to be trouble"......he was, but he was perfect for me and I loved him dearly.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
5/17/2016 3:08 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I always thought I knew what I was looking for until my eyes caught someone else's one Sunday morning so many years ago....I was married but my first thought was "Oh shit you are going to be trouble"......he was, but he was perfect for me and I loved him dearly.
"Oh shit, now I am going to be trouble over this person." Ah yes, that happened to me once. You just get to the point when you know it is inevitable don't you. She was nothing like what I would have described as perfect, and yet she was utterly, totally perfect for me.


stormyroses 36F
1628 posts
6/3/2016 10:02 am

I often think I know what I want; that I have a "type". As soon as I start to feel certain about this, the universe steps in to knock me on my ass by bringing me someone who is all the things I never knew I wanted. I am beginning to think I could fall in love with anyone. Yet I don't feel that I can identify as pansexual, as I am still extremely choosy about my lovers and don't often meet people that I feel that I could love. Still, those loves have all been very different from one another. The only pattern I've observed is that they're all intelligent and kind - though the intelligence ranges from scary-smart-genius to just-above-average, and the kindness may either be hidden beneath a gruff exterior or outright humanitarian.

I hope that you find someone who is a mix of all those things you listed, dear Dreamer. I know that such complex people do exist. We just tend to show a different side to each person - it takes a deep connection with someone for us to show all our facets.

Do not seek an external refuge, but be a light unto yourself.

"Be the change you want to see."

HalfNekkid Wednesday Peekaboo


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
6/6/2016 4:19 am

    Quoting stormyroses:
    I often think I know what I want; that I have a "type". As soon as I start to feel certain about this, the universe steps in to knock me on my ass by bringing me someone who is all the things I never knew I wanted. I am beginning to think I could fall in love with anyone. Yet I don't feel that I can identify as pansexual, as I am still extremely choosy about my lovers and don't often meet people that I feel that I could love. Still, those loves have all been very different from one another. The only pattern I've observed is that they're all intelligent and kind - though the intelligence ranges from scary-smart-genius to just-above-average, and the kindness may either be hidden beneath a gruff exterior or outright humanitarian.

    I hope that you find someone who is a mix of all those things you listed, dear Dreamer. I know that such complex people do exist. We just tend to show a different side to each person - it takes a deep connection with someone for us to show all our facets.
I could have written your first paragraph, and it might be in slightly different words, but the essence of it would be exactly the same. I do have someone like that in my life, but the relationship has a long term issue which I think you know about, and which I want to change, but don't want to change.....possibly can't change. Hence the constant dreaming, lol.


Violette001 48F
4497 posts
7/22/2016 9:32 pm

a classy skank... clank?

i still wish i was a skank sometimes. lol

"Do not put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket"
--Author Unknown



hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
7/25/2016 2:36 am

    Quoting Violette001:
    a classy skank... clank?

    i still wish i was a skank sometimes. lol
I'd love to have you as my clank.


Violette001 48F
4497 posts
7/25/2016 8:22 am

I'd love to be your clank! lol

"Do not put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket"
--Author Unknown



hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
7/26/2016 2:43 pm

You have no idea how sexy that is!


Violette001 48F
4497 posts
7/28/2016 7:38 am

Really?! wow. i'm not sure how to respond to that. i only know, that it makes me feel happy that you think so.



"Do not put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket"
--Author Unknown



hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
7/29/2016 3:11 am

    Quoting Violette001:
    Really?! wow. i'm not sure how to respond to that. i only know, that it makes me feel happy that you think so.


Well I'm glad - it was meant as a compliment!


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