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hotdreamer1000 60M
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6/5/2014 9:48 am

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You Wish


I have been feeling a bit reclusive lately I think. It even seems to have affected my sex drive.

Not that I have any sex to be driven to, (well there was a recent opportunity, although I resisted trying to make it happen) but you know what I mean.

I think because for me sex (even imaginary sex) is all about mental intimacy as well as physical, and for some reason I don't really seem to want too much mental intimacy just now. I can't quite put my finger on why. I don't really like being like this and I expect it isn't terribly good for me either.

Part of the reason is that I just don't really like very many other people. A lot of people just are not very nice. It's not just that I expect too much of them, (I am learning not to be like that) but more that a lot of people really are too selfish to be likable.

But I also have friends, good friends, with whom I have not been in touch for a while, and I can't seem to find the enthusiasm to contact them. I don't want to let that go on for too long, but on the other hand I don't want to force it, as I have occasionally done in the past, and then piss them off by making excuses, appearing to not want to spend time on them after all.

Oh well, I keep working, churning out the admin on other stuff I have to deal with and generally interacting with people, but my heart and soul isn't in it somehow.

Normally it would be. Normally I don't bother with anything much unless I give it all of me. I just don't feel like I currently have that much to give.

Downer of a post, sorry. Back next time with something up-beat, sexy or funny, I promise.

And if anyone I meet criticises me for being this way I am going to say "You wish YOU were reclusive." I learned that from V.

Violette001 48F
4497 posts
6/5/2014 1:27 pm

i wish we could be reclusive together!!!!!

sometimes, it helps me to listen to the song called "misery" - but not the original... you need to hear the cover by Mike Tompkins. he always makes me smile. even laugh.

and i'm glad i wrote something that made you smile. i hope you get a lot more smiles, that always shortens the duration of a funk.

"Do not put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket"
--Author Unknown



sexysixties2 72F  
38886 posts
6/5/2014 2:19 pm

I'm feeling a bit the same myself....not sure what's wrong really but I seem to be quite happy hiding away by myself. Here's hoping we both get out of the rut soon.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
6/6/2014 4:47 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks mate


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
6/6/2014 4:47 am

    Quoting Violette001:
    i wish we could be reclusive together!!!!!

    sometimes, it helps me to listen to the song called "misery" - but not the original... you need to hear the cover by Mike Tompkins. he always makes me smile. even laugh.

    and i'm glad i wrote something that made you smile. i hope you get a lot more smiles, that always shortens the duration of a funk.
You skank!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
6/6/2014 4:48 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I'm feeling a bit the same myself....not sure what's wrong really but I seem to be quite happy hiding away by myself. Here's hoping we both get out of the rut soon.
If you're happy then it isn't really a rut..........Hmmm, who am I kidding!


Violette001 48F
4497 posts
6/6/2014 7:42 am

You wish you was a skank!!!!

"Do not put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket"
--Author Unknown



hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
6/9/2014 1:19 pm

Actually yes, sometimes I really do!


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
6/9/2014 1:21 pm

    Quoting rainbowsox:
    Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Or so I am told
    Reach out. Friends don't need apologies. Or time tables

    Love,
    -H'
You are right. It isn't so much the friends I am apologising to, it is more to myself I think.


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
6/9/2014 1:21 pm

    Quoting the_girl5:
    Well, I love this post- it's very real, vulnerable and that, and I think real is what it's all about. Everyone has their ups and downs, and I think the downs are just as important- give it time and feel ok about it!
Thank you, and I am glad you like the post. I like you!


hippiechick1967 41F
12074 posts
6/17/2014 3:38 am

You won't get any criticism from me: I agree with what you said about not liking people and expecting a lot from them. Being reclusive is actually pretty cool.

Elevate me...


hotdreamer1000 60M
11652 posts
7/2/2014 8:54 am

    Quoting hippiechick1967:
    You won't get any criticism from me: I agree with what you said about not liking people and expecting a lot from them. Being reclusive is actually pretty cool.
I am so happy! The hippiechick said I was cool!


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