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Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type??  

hotmamamm 44F  
9389 posts
1/16/2020 10:45 am
Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type??

I never have been a skinny . I have been average, curvy, thick, and now I have crossed over a very small BBW. Confession I am very good with camera angles. Truth be told I am having a difficult time adapting to body. They say beauty comes in all shape and sizes. What I have learned throughout the years is the key sexiness is confidence. Yes your body is your temple however it is your mind that is your biggest sexual organ. I am seductive, sensual, erotic, and some people say I am smart too. Imagine that! I have all these qualities that has nothing to do with the size of body yet men are still find me attractive. It is other women that are the most judgemental. They will be the ones fat shame you and tell you that a man is settling be a " fat" . That we are not desirable. I understand that is their personal opinion
however I wonder if other lady friends on feel like we are the ones bringing eachother down. So are questions .. Honesty is the best policy. Are you more attracted a woman by her confidence or body type? Is it the combo of both? Or are you someone loves all shapes and sizes because what makes someone beautiful is their mind? I would love hear your input. Happy Thursday ya!

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hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/16/2020 10:46 am

The gremlins keep eating my words. !!


kumswaloer3 50M
281 posts
1/16/2020 10:54 am

I find sexy to be a combo of mind, and body. I like all shapes and sizes. I think a naked woman is a work of art. She needs to feel, and express her sexiness.


MonsterCacti 34M
459 posts
1/16/2020 10:54 am

I would go with body type. However if they arent confident u wont get anywhere with them cause they dont like being naked


kumswaloer3 50M
281 posts
1/16/2020 10:55 am

BTW, love the pics.


scott6250 57M
27145 posts
1/16/2020 10:56 am

You look very lovely my friend. I am attracted to a confident woman and her intelligence. O do love a nice body too. Happy Thursday my friend.

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luvhandle14 53M  
325 posts
1/16/2020 10:56 am

A little bit of both. I am attracted to curvy, full- figured ladies, so the body type is important (but not essential) for me. Once we met in person I am also attracted by her personality and her confidence. I like ladies that are confident with their looks and are aware that I find them incredible sexy.


Trapper69 62G  
2430 posts
1/16/2020 11:00 am

For me, it's a combination of everything....I've met some women who were beautiful and sexy with "perfect" bodies.....however, their personality had serious flaws..... Of course, not all beautiful women are like that......a lot of them have great personalities. I like a woman who has confidence……..and I like women who lack confidence. I However, if they are too confident, and try to force their opinions on others all the time, or totally lack confidence, it can be a turn off.... Some of the best women I've been with, have carried some extra pounds.... I'm far from perfect, and don't expect others to be perfect.....


author51 57F  
86460 posts
1/16/2020 11:04 am

Beauty comes from within and for me it is as much as the heart and soul.The mind is next after those two things..Love your camera angles but like I said before my friend, when one is beautiful on the inside, it shines out..Stunning my friend..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


andifisayyes 58M
178 posts
1/16/2020 11:06 am

For me it is a combination of about 75/25. That is 75% mind and 25% body. Maybe more like 80/20 actually. Ya, I'd say 80/20 now that I'm thinking about it. Don't get me wrong, a hot body is nice but it is one of the less important factors. After all, everyone has a body with similar parts. A sexy mind is much less common and it can more than make up for any physical shortcomings.


ULIXBIG 65M
6659 posts
1/16/2020 11:06 am

I found that women are women's harshest critics. So, your experience is not surprising to me.
I love it when a woman has confidence. And with regards to physical attributes, I think that there is some beauty in any body, no matter what size or shape.
Having said that, I do find you very attractive, body and mind.


Leegs2012 47M
49840 posts
1/16/2020 11:10 am

You are gorgeous!! Keep showing off that sexy..sexy body of yours!! XOXOX!


slo2600 43M
159 posts
1/16/2020 11:14 am

    Quoting hotmamamm:
    The gremlins keep eating my words. !!
That's been happening to me, too.


Desir4Fire 45M
2192 posts
1/16/2020 11:14 am

Queen Janeane,
Those are some sweet cheeks.
It has always been a mixture of both mind and body.
I have met super skinny girls who had complicated sex life due to their mind.
Keep it all in prospective, love yourself, love your body, keep peace in your mind and heart.


tomcutt4fun2 55M
19 posts
1/16/2020 11:19 am

Definitely a mix of both....shake and bake!


dwz5234 67M  
244 posts
1/16/2020 11:21 am

Confidence an a mind works for me Beauty comes from within the heart ,all woman are Beautiful


TXThckDk1980 39M
6 posts
1/16/2020 11:22 am

Confidence gets me every time.


FunSuburbanDude 54M  
68 posts
1/16/2020 11:23 am

I find I'm attracted to confidence and personality. That must be the case because I don't have an ideal body type I'm interested in. If a woman feels comfortable with herself and is nice to others, that's a turn-on. Right now there are a few women I'm crushing on, and that's the only thing they have in common. Some are curvy, others skinny, big age differences and hair colors.


59vintage 61M  
31 posts
1/16/2020 11:27 am

For me it is the combination of things, but inner beauty is more important than outer beauty. The combination of intelligence, wisdom, wit, humour, personality, confidence, character overrides what some think of as deficiencies in looks. The total package is what is important with physical looks not the prime factor.


Tmptrzz 57F  
72631 posts
1/16/2020 11:27 am

You know hun you look great, and I think it's about the person as a whole. If a man is really attracted to a lady its about being attracted to her as a whole, mind, body and soul. As we all come in different shapes and sizes, and men I know like a lady with some meat on her bones. And confidence along with skills play a major factor in people being attracted to one another. If they are just attracted to your body it's just usually all about the sex.

Some great questions today, and shame on those FAT SHAMERS, I think the ones who fat shame are just jealous!!! I hope you have a terrific Thursday..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


coolpoolguy3 53M
2282 posts
1/16/2020 11:47 am

I'm going to have to go with confidence and personality are far more attractive to me than looks. Don't get me wrong I like looking at good looking women but it doesn't hold my attention as long as confidence and personality.


Story435 71M
2992 posts
1/16/2020 11:47 am

Hello sweetheart!
The size of your body has nothing to do with anything it's wants in your heart that makes a good person. I have never seen anything wrong with your body I like it very much your very ! Never let anyone take that away from you sweetie. I know there are other ladies on here that will do anything to knock you down they are jealous or just assholes!
You one of the best don't let anyone take that away from you.
Butch


Story435 71M
2992 posts
1/16/2020 11:49 am

    Quoting author51:
    Beauty comes from within and for me it is as much as the heart and soul.The mind is next after those two things..Love your camera angles but like I said before my friend, when one is beautiful on the inside, it shines out..Stunning my friend..
Vert good sweetie
Buych


Story435 71M
2992 posts
1/16/2020 11:51 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    You know hun you look great, and I think it's about the person as a whole. If a man is really attracted to a lady its about being attracted to her as a whole, mind, body and soul. As we all come in different shapes and sizes, and men I know like a lady with some meat on her bones. And confidence along with skills play a major factor in people being attracted to one another. If they are just attracted to your body it's just usually all about the sex.

    Some great questions today, and shame on those FAT SHAMERS, I think the ones who fat shame are just jealous!!! I hope you have a terrific Thursday..
Very good response!
Butch


seems6666 49F  
3471 posts
1/16/2020 11:53 am

I think the older the man the less inclined they are to worry about body shape maybe because they realise that looking like a model isn't everything.
I noticed the youngest man who posted went for body shape.
Unfortunately, I think the men who like bigger women are few and far between or are reticent about stating they like bigger women for fear of "ridicule"
With bodies getting bigger across the world, I'm hoping there will be a fat uprising and there will be no choice for the men, they have to like bigger or go without


xliketoplayx 37M
23 posts
1/16/2020 11:54 am

You are super attracive.yumm


samson19682006 51M  
1273 posts
1/16/2020 12:06 pm

Love your curves.


Boatsandhoes007 36M
16 posts
1/16/2020 12:07 pm

Very pretty


justaguyinalaska 53M  
294 posts
1/16/2020 12:08 pm

I absolutely go with *confidence*.

That said, the *data* indicate that humans- whether it's in a biz meeting, a social gathering or pouring over an on-line profile- are first attracted (or not) by physical features. The question is: how do we process these first impressions and use them to guide what we do next? In deciding my responses, I bear in mind an old bromide from Army infantry: "The first report from the field is always wrong."

A person with poise and confidence projects a powerful attraction- capable of overcoming many impressions received on a *first look*. The key is to restrain impulsive summary judgment and open one's heart and mind to the full, four-dimensional picture.

I will also share that all of us- regardless of age and/or circumstances- are capable of *change*. I appreciate the challenges of inertia, the inevitable decay of our energy that begins in middle age and that *change* is more easily counseled than achieved. All the more reason to find a partner with whom to share your journey of change. The thrills and accountability of an awesome connection can be the force of change.


69ereatwetpussy 57M
2974 posts
1/16/2020 12:11 pm

Confidence goes a long way to me.
Every body is different.
If you know it a use it to your advantage.
It beautiful to me.
You have both.you also have a beautiful smile.
Beautiful eyes how couldany one not love you.
Your smart and that a turn on
So have a wonderful day hope your warm enough.
XOXOXO Thomas


benard69 63M/63F  
4971 posts
1/16/2020 12:14 pm

Just as long as you are Healthy and Happy...It's all that really counts...But must say your body with creative camera angles (As you say) is more than desirable...


Piper3654K 49M  
73 posts
1/16/2020 12:19 pm

Confidence confidence confidence..... very sexy. You have more than you think, even though you say you're "good with camera angles" you'd probably not be posting pics if you didn't know at some level you're damn attractive.


SC4wheels 46M
299 posts
1/16/2020 12:33 pm

Confidence and attitude. There are women of all shapes/sizes that are sexy and women of all shapes/sizes that aren't. There are plenty of women with "super model" bodies that are very unattractive when you talk to them.


Grmtby69 47M
65 posts
1/16/2020 12:39 pm

I wish I could say I’m I like all body types; but we all have our preferences! Me and my man member prefer bbw and Ssbbw!! But I find it takes a lot to get bbws and ssbbw to understand they are absolutely perfect!!


Myoraldesire 46M  
5 posts
1/16/2020 12:45 pm

Confidence and comfort with herself, hands down!


pacnwlover42 51M
7445 posts
1/16/2020 12:48 pm

None of us have the perfect body. We are all unique. I didn't always enjoy my body until I joined this site. I love your curvy body and you are much more than average. I think women are harder on themselves when they see their bodies. This whole thing about needing to have the ideal body is just fantasy. You have many wonderful qualities along with your gorgeous body that make you a one of a kind and very desirable.

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


inprimeageguy4u 42M
13 posts
1/16/2020 12:56 pm

Id say its a mixture of both, and by the way you look amazing


needitnow69nks 49M  
42 posts
1/16/2020 12:58 pm

I love women of all shapes and sizes. Though I do tend to lean more towards the thicker and curvier ladies


PAWAPh 43M
10965 posts
1/16/2020 1:08 pm

    Quoting hotmamamm:
    The gremlins keep eating my words. !!
This Gremlin Would Eat That Ass!

"Is it the combo of both?"
You're A Terrific Combo!

Amazing Lady!!

Jack


citizen4722 62M  
65321 posts
1/16/2020 1:13 pm

I've always been attracted to bigger women. They are more confident, caring and cuddly. Just like your good self


Lonely16842 54M  
820 posts
1/16/2020 1:22 pm

Confidence and personality definitely, I don't focus on body type at all. Oh and in your case as you already know..... your eyes. I could get lost there


BangalTiger98 21M  
34 posts
1/16/2020 2:16 pm

I think someone's "preferred" body type will draw the eye and peek interest. But it's the personality and character that makes a women really REALLY sexy.

Kindness, sense of humor, intelligence and a splash of naughty...oh my


justskin1 68M
11516 posts
1/16/2020 2:46 pm

For me it is mostly about confidence.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


aflower2c 45F
14967 posts
1/16/2020 2:51 pm

Interesting comments considering how shallow the actual dating world is, especially when it comes to body type!.
In my experience if you are down for sex he will forgive the couple of extra pounds, but it also means he won't touch you or look at you (makes for really bad sex) and he's most likely to hurry thru the sex.

Although I did find the hookup guys on here to want perfect bodies and faces, even if I was looking for casual sex. I had several bad experiences with men not wanting to touch me or look at me. So mamy men are far more unforgiving than they want to believe.

Lessons learned, I now avoid the men that are focused on the physical. For example he makes comments about my fitness or body type in his opening message or in his profile. Because I have 12 extra lbs and he would make issue of it if we decided to meet. 🙄 That also limits the availability of men, but I would rather do that then see thier face look at me with disappointment wjen we get nekid.

So dudes please don't fuck just because she is willing, at least find her attractive in all ways before you stick your dick in.

Little miss flower

Written from a small city middle of no where kink thinkin kinda gal.


aflower2c 45F
14967 posts
1/16/2020 2:52 pm

And you always have fun sexy blogs!

Little miss flower

Written from a small city middle of no where kink thinkin kinda gal.


stopbyandsayboo 48M
770 posts
1/16/2020 3:32 pm

    Quoting author51:
    Beauty comes from within and for me it is as much as the heart and soul.The mind is next after those two things..Love your camera angles but like I said before my friend, when one is beautiful on the inside, it shines out..Stunning my friend..
I totally agree...Sure looks play some part but a long lasting relationship stems from within...That never changes or grows old

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1salesman3 65M
4649 posts
1/16/2020 4:41 pm

Sexiness is in the mind for me.


aspencutter 58M
56 posts
1/16/2020 5:25 pm

only comment i am going to try now is i fall into your eyes


Tbadboytoy69 60M
125 posts
1/16/2020 6:41 pm

Inner beauty is true but I have to be honest. If your ugly your ugly. No amount of inner beauty will help you. I’m not a good looking guy. I try and use humor. My wife is ugly like me. That is why we are together. Mr and Mrs Fugly. Beer googles in college.


furry7890 47M
60 posts
1/16/2020 6:58 pm

i am a face man, if i find her face attractive nothing else matters to me. if i can not stand looking at someone it is not going to work no matter how hot her body is. ps, you have a very beautiful face!!!!


slutcd4u2 58T  
32 posts
1/16/2020 7:09 pm

    Quoting hotmamamm:
    The gremlins keep eating my words. !!
Don't feed the Gremlins after midnight !!! You are Beautiful ! and Confident!!! , I'm not sure what attracts me in general as sometimes i see this shy thing over in the corner getting me all hot n bothered .. or the bold one who is the life of the night might get me wound up too ! I think its just the person and my mood at that moment , body type isn't a major factor as long as they are healthy .


NJGUY08090 53M
2761 posts
1/16/2020 7:14 pm

You look perfect to me and it looks like you are quite confident and comfortable. Just be your self and have fun.


dreamon78 59M  
1201 posts
1/16/2020 7:48 pm

What I find attractive in a woman really has nothing to do with her body or her appearance. I am far more attracted to her sweetness, playfulness and sense of humor. Life is truly magical when you have someone that treasures the opportunity to laugh with you and share in all of the joys of your day. That said, I totally adore curves and the amazing suppleness that accompanies them so I may be a bit biased. No matter how stunningly beautiful she is when you’re first attracted, when you find that special chemistry with someone the attraction grows exponentially.

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Sexczy69 64M
2635 posts
1/16/2020 8:29 pm

The smile is what I go for... a great smile and warm heart...


Cpllooking6671 53M/48F  
2381 posts
1/16/2020 9:08 pm

Confidence is key- you can rock anything if you believe you can..
Love what is seen of your body-and you are very beautiful.
My wife is not perfect but I do not want that- nor do I need skinny where I can get hip bruises... I love her body because it has done its ultimate job: she has made our 3 kids with it. Society and its "norms" push women to the prescribed ideal- but who wrote that prescription? That Dr is a quack.
As long as YOU are happy with yourself- thats all that matters.


looking4fun71756 59M
15 posts
1/16/2020 9:33 pm

I like big beautiful women. I honestly think you taste better! You certainly are more passionate.


dublos 54M  
133 posts
1/16/2020 9:59 pm

Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type??


Yes.

A woman who has an attractive body type and no confidence? Not attractive.
A woman who has confidence yet does not take care of her body? Not attractive.

A woman who's got both? Much more attractive.


looking4u69ca 59M  
2899 posts
1/16/2020 10:02 pm

Your pics are lovely. Attitude is everything.
I love a woman with confidence.


mamacita38dd 41F  
47870 posts
1/17/2020 1:20 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    You know hun you look great, and I think it's about the person as a whole. If a man is really attracted to a lady its about being attracted to her as a whole, mind, body and soul. As we all come in different shapes and sizes, and men I know like a lady with some meat on her bones. And confidence along with skills play a major factor in people being attracted to one another. If they are just attracted to your body it's just usually all about the sex.

    Some great questions today, and shame on those FAT SHAMERS, I think the ones who fat shame are just jealous!!! I hope you have a terrific Thursday..
I completely agree with Tmptrzz, like i have always told you, you are beautiful and never let anyone tell you otherwise.

I do find it funny that someone who recently tried to fat shame a blogger out of pure jealousy has the nerve to come here and say the total opposite of how they act, another example how big of a hypocrite they are... like Tmptrzz said shame on them.

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missthee 54F  
4077 posts
1/17/2020 1:46 am

Confidence ! Confidence ! Confidence !

"It is other women that are the most judgemental."

I have a couple of friends I know since our teens, whose confidence was ruined by their own mothers. Either by longterm fat-shaming, or slut-shaming. These women, who are neither fat nor sluts (in every sense of the word) never recovered, even after they married and had children of their own.

So, yes, one cannot overstress enough how important it is to maintain your self-confidence, and the rest will follow.


azriel1970 49M  
28515 posts
1/17/2020 4:24 am

I will honestly say it is a combination of both!!! I need the physical attraction but so much of the physical attraction comes from her brain and her personality as well!!!! I want the whole package!!!!!


Shots30 44M  
2289 posts
1/17/2020 5:29 am

I am attracted to all body types. I agree with you it is not just the body, but it is the confidence and intelligence of the lady as well that makes them sexy. I think you look great in all your pics and of course certain angles do help, but there is nothing with that.

Keep being yourself and use your sexy mind to find mutual friends that enjoy the same.

Cheers!


profcoquin27bis 55M
2750 posts
1/17/2020 5:43 am

i like your pic a lot


LickYourYoni 70M
551 posts
1/17/2020 6:07 am

I quite love a confident woman. When at a swinger's club, I look at the various people there. They are of all shapes and sizes. I see how larger women rock their sexy dress and how they confidently carry themselves. I like that!


The12er 47M
270 posts
1/17/2020 7:33 am

Well, darling what can I say more then you sum it up just perfect!!

Do you read my mind or??


BIANCHI61956 63M
171 posts
1/17/2020 7:39 am

always interested in you


eclecticskr 58M  
143 posts
1/17/2020 8:41 am

Confidence is very sexy-attractive!


wjb1958 61M
3686 posts
1/17/2020 11:37 am

Personally and Confidence are more important than body shape or size to me


Aden0069 51M
127 posts
1/17/2020 1:20 pm

It is a combo of both for me! However, truth be told the confidence and the personality outweigh the physical. I have met some very sexy females in my 51 years, and that had nothing to do with their bodies. It is a woman's confidence and mind that brings it all together. I have been fortunate enough to meet a few women that would be considered BBWs, but they were some of the best fun I had and had wonderful minds. With all that being said, for me the biggest physical part is the face, eyes and beautiful, bright smiles! And you definitely have that my dear!


db25p 61M
15 posts
1/17/2020 2:14 pm

Not sure you'd qualify as bbw, but most men I know, and me, prefer a woman with some "meat on her bones" so to speak. I am not terribly attracted to women who are uber skinny. Of course, personality is also key. Hot snotty people are no fun at all.


sensualmaninmn 58M  
395 posts
1/17/2020 2:50 pm

I had to ponder this for a day to answer honestly. It is CONFIDENCE. I have had awesome satisfying sex with women that are even BBW+. I would rather be with a larger woman that is confident and caring than one that has a perfect body, yet lacks the enduring traits that turn me on.


celldwellerfan 25M
9 posts
1/17/2020 3:17 pm

I feel like it's definitely a combination. The right mind and the rest doesn't even matter, but your confidence will definitely accentuate your other "assets" to make you that much sexier.


bs2019cj 40M
18 posts
1/17/2020 4:17 pm

To me confidence is way more sexy then just looks. I want to have some type of actually conection and someone with confidence is so sexy in my opinion


mc_justmc 59M
5429 posts
1/17/2020 6:57 pm

Confidence always means more than body type to me. You just happen to have both working for you.


scottj55555 51M
1968 posts
1/17/2020 9:39 pm

I don't really have anything I apply to everyone across the board. Each person is unique. If you make a connection with them, they are sexy by virtue of that connection in addition to their own beauty. I can get turned on by someone's appearance, but generally that's fleeting.
Look at women who are regarded as sexy - Marilyn Monroe and Mae West. Neither was thin by today's standards, but decades after they're gone, they're still hailed as epitomes of sexiness. The thing is when you think of each of them, a certain personality comes to mind as well, it's not simply an image. It's that combination that truly is the compostion of sexy. Beauty, personality, the way someone carries themselves.
I'll finish this up by saying I haven't seen a photo of yours here that I haven't thought of as beautiful. Your blog brings your personality to us, so I have at least the same image of you as the ladies mentioned above. Because of that, something extra comes across in your photos to make you sexy.
Wow, I'm not sure I actually answered the question you asked, but it is my answer.


dec47 72M
838 posts
1/18/2020 7:00 am

" A lot of cargo on the upper deck will get my attention, But a quick wit and a curious mind will keep me attached"


travellerabc123 50M
3703 posts
1/18/2020 8:30 am

I think it's the confidence of your pictures. Not because they are naked. I would love whatever body you presented and whatever medium. Ultimately its your confidence that makes me overwhelmed for you.
SuperBJ is having a similar issue right now with stolen pictures and not doing HNW. She posted a clothed NNW pic. It's her creativity and confidence that make the difference.

Embrace the suck


GreenEyedGuy1968 51M  
104 posts
1/18/2020 12:46 pm

    Quoting hotmamamm:
    The gremlins keep eating my words. !!
It is insane!!
I gave up correcting stuff and hopefully whoever reads it realizes I'm not completely nuts.


GreenEyedGuy1968 51M  
104 posts
1/18/2020 1:05 pm

    Quoting seems6666:
    I think the older the man the less inclined they are to worry about body shape maybe because they realise that looking like a model isn't everything.
    I noticed the youngest man who posted went for body shape.
    Unfortunately, I think the men who like bigger women are few and far between or are reticent about stating they like bigger women for fear of "ridicule"
    With bodies getting bigger across the world, I'm hoping there will be a fat uprising and there will be no choice for the men, they have to like bigger or go without
Everything comes back into style!

Bigger women used to mean bigger babies, thus bigger warriors for the tribe, so big breast/hipped women were more desirable than scrawny ones.


GreenEyedGuy1968 51M  
104 posts
1/18/2020 1:06 pm

My vote has changed over time for sure, when I was younger it would have definitely for been body shape/size in the slender range.
Now... I like "curvy". Yes, curvy. Period.
It's way sexier to me than xylophone ribs and man abs on a woman!

But to the original question, I love a soft, curvy woman with a brain and a huge sense of humor, who is confident and sexy in her own skin.


niceguy5947 60M
27 posts
1/18/2020 5:03 pm

be proud beautiful


rick315875 61M
8691 posts
1/19/2020 11:47 am

For me it is about respect. If I do not respect you as a human being. Then there is no sexual desire.


leftoverture69 56M
163 posts
1/19/2020 1:45 pm

yay! your back i would say its a combination of looks attitude and confidence that gets me excited about a woman


merlot5555 64M  
124 posts
1/20/2020 4:50 pm

....genetics determine your body shape... plus or minus of course depending on how you take care of it.... confidence is a plus because it enables you to be yourself and relax in your sexuality.... now curiosity, curiosity is the key because that pushes you to explore... and that curiosity makes anyone a more interesting and attractive person.... imvho...


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:25 am

    Quoting  :

Personality is important to me as well. I so appreciate you stopping by and participating. Happy Tuesday to ya.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:28 am

    Quoting kumswaloer3:
    I find sexy to be a combo of mind, and body. I like all shapes and sizes. I think a naked woman is a work of art. She needs to feel, and express her sexiness.
I learned once someone is comfortable with themselves, their sexuality, and body it brings confidence. I find that sexy. Great to see you friend. Happy Tuesday to ya


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:29 am

    Quoting MonsterCacti:
    I would go with body type. However if they arent confident u wont get anywhere with them cause they dont like being naked
I agree the lack of confidence can be unattractive no matter what body type you have. I appreciate you participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:32 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you. Outter beauty does come in all shape and sizes but I agree personality is very important. Thank you for participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:32 am

Thank you sexy friend


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:34 am

    Quoting scott6250:
    You look very lovely my friend. I am attracted to a confident woman and her intelligence. O do love a nice body too. Happy Thursday my friend.
I would not fault anyone for being attracted to a nice body but I agree that the mind is important. I always appreciate you input Scott. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:36 am

    Quoting luvhandle14:
    A little bit of both. I am attracted to curvy, full- figured ladies, so the body type is important (but not essential) for me. Once we met in person I am also attracted by her personality and her confidence. I like ladies that are confident with their looks and are aware that I find them incredible sexy.
Everyone has a preference of what they desire but I agree confidence is the key. I appreciate you participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:37 am

    Quoting Trapper69:
    For me, it's a combination of everything....I've met some women who were beautiful and sexy with "perfect" bodies.....however, their personality had serious flaws..... Of course, not all beautiful women are like that......a lot of them have great personalities. I like a woman who has confidence……..and I like women who lack confidence. I However, if they are too confident, and try to force their opinions on others all the time, or totally lack confidence, it can be a turn off.... Some of the best women I've been with, have carried some extra pounds.... I'm far from perfect, and don't expect others to be perfect.....
That is a excellent point. Someone with too much confidence is a turn off. Thank you so much for participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:39 am

    Quoting author51:
    Beauty comes from within and for me it is as much as the heart and soul.The mind is next after those two things..Love your camera angles but like I said before my friend, when one is beautiful on the inside, it shines out..Stunning my friend..
Thank you. I agree beauty comes within. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:40 am

    Quoting andifisayyes:
    For me it is a combination of about 75/25. That is 75% mind and 25% body. Maybe more like 80/20 actually. Ya, I'd say 80/20 now that I'm thinking about it. Don't get me wrong, a hot body is nice but it is one of the less important factors. After all, everyone has a body with similar parts. A sexy mind is much less common and it can more than make up for any physical shortcomings.
I agree. A sexy mind is less common. A beautiful body is not. I really appreciate you participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:42 am

    Quoting ULIXBIG:
    I found that women are women's harshest critics. So, your experience is not surprising to me.
    I love it when a woman has confidence. And with regards to physical attributes, I think that there is some beauty in any body, no matter what size or shape.
    Having said that, I do find you very attractive, body and mind.
Thank you sweet friend. You are correct woman are their worst critics. It is annoying. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:42 am

    Quoting Leegs2012:
    You are gorgeous!! Keep showing off that sexy..sexy body of yours!! XOXOX!

Your always too kind to me sweet friend. Always a pleasure to see you. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:43 am

    Quoting slo2600:
    That's been happening to me, too.
So annoying...lol


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:44 am

    Quoting Desir4Fire:
    Queen Janeane,
    Those are some sweet cheeks.
    It has always been a mixture of both mind and body.
    I have met super skinny girls who had complicated sex life due to their mind.
    Keep it all in prospective, love yourself, love your body, keep peace in your mind and heart.
Great word of wisdom my friend


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:45 am

    Quoting tomcutt4fun2:
    Definitely a mix of both....shake and bake!
A mixture would be ideal. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:46 am

    Quoting dwz5234:
    Confidence an a mind works for me Beauty comes from within the heart ,all woman are Beautiful
I agree. I think everyone is beautiful as well. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:47 am

I am attracted to confidence as well. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:49 am

    Quoting FunSuburbanDude:
    I find I'm attracted to confidence and personality. That must be the case because I don't have an ideal body type I'm interested in. If a woman feels comfortable with herself and is nice to others, that's a turn-on. Right now there are a few women I'm crushing on, and that's the only thing they have in common. Some are curvy, others skinny, big age differences and hair colors.
I do not have a ideal body type I am attracted to well . That is why personality is quite important. I appreciate you participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:51 am

    Quoting 59vintage:
    For me it is the combination of things, but inner beauty is more important than outer beauty. The combination of intelligence, wisdom, wit, humour, personality, confidence, character overrides what some think of as deficiencies in looks. The total package is what is important with physical looks not the prime factor.
I agree inner beauty is way more important than outer beauty. I appreciate you participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:52 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    You know hun you look great, and I think it's about the person as a whole. If a man is really attracted to a lady its about being attracted to her as a whole, mind, body and soul. As we all come in different shapes and sizes, and men I know like a lady with some meat on her bones. And confidence along with skills play a major factor in people being attracted to one another. If they are just attracted to your body it's just usually all about the sex.

    Some great questions today, and shame on those FAT SHAMERS, I think the ones who fat shame are just jealous!!! I hope you have a terrific Thursday..
Thank you sweet friend. I understand people have personal preferences but no need to be so rude about it. Perfection does not exist. I appreciate you participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:55 am

    Quoting coolpoolguy3:
    I'm going to have to go with confidence and personality are far more attractive to me than looks. Don't get me wrong I like looking at good looking women but it doesn't hold my attention as long as confidence and personality.
I agree. Ofcourse we will first be attracted to someone because of their looks. However with no personality it gets boring so to speak..lol.
I appreciate you participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 10:57 am

    Quoting Story435:
    Hello sweetheart!
    The size of your body has nothing to do with anything it's wants in your heart that makes a good person. I have never seen anything wrong with your body I like it very much your very ! Never let anyone take that away from you sweetie. I know there are other ladies on here that will do anything to knock you down they are jealous or just assholes!
    You one of the best don't let anyone take that away from you.
    Butch
Thank you Butch


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:31 pm

    Quoting seems6666:
    I think the older the man the less inclined they are to worry about body shape maybe because they realise that looking like a model isn't everything.
    I noticed the youngest man who posted went for body shape.
    Unfortunately, I think the men who like bigger women are few and far between or are reticent about stating they like bigger women for fear of "ridicule"
    With bodies getting bigger across the world, I'm hoping there will be a fat uprising and there will be no choice for the men, they have to like bigger or go without
I think you right about older men. It seems the younger are more obsessed with physical appearance. Truth be told I do not think a man would go without if the Skinny girls did not exist...lol.. thank you for your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:32 pm

Thank you so much.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:32 pm

Thank you so much Samson Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:33 pm

Thank you.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:40 pm

    Quoting justaguyinalaska:
    I absolutely go with *confidence*.

    That said, the *data* indicate that humans- whether it's in a biz meeting, a social gathering or pouring over an on-line profile- are first attracted (or not) by physical features. The question is: how do we process these first impressions and use them to guide what we do next? In deciding my responses, I bear in mind an old bromide from Army infantry: "The first report from the field is always wrong."

    A person with poise and confidence projects a powerful attraction- capable of overcoming many impressions received on a *first look*. The key is to restrain impulsive summary judgment and open one's heart and mind to the full, four-dimensional picture.

    I will also share that all of us- regardless of age and/or circumstances- are capable of *change*. I appreciate the challenges of inertia, the inevitable decay of our energy that begins in middle age and that *change* is more easily counseled than achieved. All the more reason to find a partner with whom to share your journey of change. The thrills and accountability of an awesome connection can be the force of change.
You absolutely correct. First impression on a online profile is physical appearance. Confidence and personality is what keeps someone interested. You do not see that online unless you communicate. I often wonder when we get older if our expectations are less because our journey is more about companionship than physical adventures.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:41 pm

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    Confidence goes a long way to me.
    Every body is different.
    If you know it a use it to your advantage.
    It beautiful to me.
    You have both.you also have a beautiful smile.
    Beautiful eyes how couldany one not love you.
    Your smart and that a turn on
    So have a wonderful day hope your warm enough.
    XOXOXO Thomas
Thank you so much sweet friend


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:43 pm

    Quoting benard69:
    Just as long as you are Healthy and Happy...It's all that really counts...But must say your body with creative camera angles (As you say) is more than desirable...
Yes very creative angles. It is a illusion...lol..thank you. I am healthy who is working on being happy. Thank you for commenting. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:45 pm

    Quoting Piper3654K:
    Confidence confidence confidence..... very sexy. You have more than you think, even though you say you're "good with camera angles" you'd probably not be posting pics if you didn't know at some level you're damn attractive.
You would be surprised if you knew how difficult it was for me to post a photo..lol.. II hate taking pictures..lol..Great to see you. Happy Hump day


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:47 pm

    Quoting SC4wheels:
    Confidence and attitude. There are women of all shapes/sizes that are sexy and women of all shapes/sizes that aren't. There are plenty of women with "super model" bodies that are very unattractive when you talk to them.
That is true. I really believe beauty comes in all sizes. Thank you for your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:49 pm

    Quoting Grmtby69:
    I wish I could say I’m I like all body types; but we all have our preferences! Me and my man member prefer bbw and Ssbbw!! But I find it takes a lot to get bbws and ssbbw to understand they are absolutely perfect!!
I do not think it is wrong to have a preference of body type. I just think it is wrong to body shame. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:50 pm

    Quoting Myoraldesire:
    Confidence and comfort with herself, hands down!
Comfort and acceptance is the key. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:51 pm

    Quoting needitnow69nks:
    I love women of all shapes and sizes. Though I do tend to lean more towards the thicker and curvier ladies
You like what you like and that is okay. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:52 pm

    Quoting PAWAPh:
    This Gremlin Would Eat That Ass!

    "Is it the combo of both?"
    You're A Terrific Combo!

    Amazing Lady!!

    Jack
Awww.. sweet talking me again. Thank you for participating Jack. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:53 pm

    Quoting inprimeageguy4u:
    Id say its a mixture of both, and by the way you look amazing
Thank you. I appreciate your nice compliment. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:55 pm

    Quoting pacnwlover42:
    None of us have the perfect body. We are all unique. I didn't always enjoy my body until I joined this site. I love your curvy body and you are much more than average. I think women are harder on themselves when they see their bodies. This whole thing about needing to have the ideal body is just fantasy. You have many wonderful qualities along with your gorgeous body that make you a one of a kind and very desirable.
Same here. I started exhibitionism to become comfortable with my body. I always appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:56 pm

    Quoting Story435:
    Vert good sweetie
    Buych


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:56 pm

    Quoting Story435:
    Very good response!
    Butch


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 3:57 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I've always been attracted to bigger women. They are more confident, caring and cuddly. Just like your good self
I thought you would be the cuddling type..lol.. great to see you citizen. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 4:11 pm

    Quoting Lonely16842:
    Confidence and personality definitely, I don't focus on body type at all. Oh and in your case as you already know..... your eyes. I could get lost there
Thank you Lonely


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 4:13 pm

    Quoting BangalTiger98:
    I think someone's "preferred" body type will draw the eye and peek interest. But it's the personality and character that makes a women really REALLY sexy.

    Kindness, sense of humor, intelligence and a splash of naughty...oh my
I think you are absolutely correct. It is always a pleasure to see you. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 4:14 pm

    Quoting justskin1:
    For me it is mostly about confidence.
Same here. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 4:17 pm

    Quoting aflower2c:
    Interesting comments considering how shallow the actual dating world is, especially when it comes to body type!.
    In my experience if you are down for sex he will forgive the couple of extra pounds, but it also means he won't touch you or look at you (makes for really bad sex) and he's most likely to hurry thru the sex.

    Although I did find the hookup guys on here to want perfect bodies and faces, even if I was looking for casual sex. I had several bad experiences with men not wanting to touch me or look at me. So mamy men are far more unforgiving than they want to believe.

    Lessons learned, I now avoid the men that are focused on the physical. For example he makes comments about my fitness or body type in his opening message or in his profile. Because I have 12 extra lbs and he would make issue of it if we decided to meet. 🙄 That also limits the availability of men, but I would rather do that then see thier face look at me with disappointment wjen we get nekid.

    So dudes please don't fuck just because she is willing, at least find her attractive in all ways before you stick your dick in.
Honestly I find that hard to believe. I think you are a attractive lady, but you are correct people on this site can be very superficial. Especially when you are a exhibitionist. Thank you so much for your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 4:18 pm

    Quoting aflower2c:
    And you always have fun sexy blogs!
Thank you. I like your blog too.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 4:19 pm

    Quoting stopbyandsayboo:
    I totally agree...Sure looks play some part but a long lasting relationship stems from within...That never changes or grows old
I agree that never changes or grows old. Thank you for your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 4:21 pm

    Quoting 1salesman3:
    Sexiness is in the mind for me.
Same here 1salesman. The mind is so sexy. I appreciate your interest. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 4:21 pm

    Quoting aspencutter:
    only comment i am going to try now is i fall into your eyes
Thank you so much


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/21/2020 4:22 pm

    Quoting Tbadboytoy69:
    Inner beauty is true but I have to be honest. If your ugly your ugly. No amount of inner beauty will help you. I’m not a good looking guy. I try and use humor. My wife is ugly like me. That is why we are together. Mr and Mrs Fugly. Beer googles in college.
I appreciate your honesty


uuwreckme 60M
139 posts
1/22/2020 7:12 pm

on a site like this I would say that the visual is the first thing that allures you, however what keeps you is her confidence


Piper3654K 49M  
73 posts
1/23/2020 5:01 am

    Quoting hotmamamm:
    You would be surprised if you knew how difficult it was for me to post a photo..lol.. II hate taking pictures..lol..Great to see you. Happy Hump day
It's great to see you too dear. As crazy as this place can be, I'm glad you're back.

Tom


Don_Harlo 43M
5 posts
1/23/2020 8:23 am

Ahhh yes I have struggled with this issue too. I love all women shapes and sizes. Let me be the first of many to say women you are beautiful you are precious I love a great body I also love a confident woman. So a man that recognizes beauty knows that it's an entire package. Baby there are men on their knees waiting and wanting to admire and devour your sexy ass body a long line. Lol! I just know how I want you to feel Sexy just the way you are. Hugs and kisses!


tomhere5 58M
25 posts
1/25/2020 5:33 am

You are absolutely gorgeous, love your eyes and nipples!!!


Jdhot4Tg 62M  
565 posts
1/26/2020 3:17 pm

mmm indeed i love a wet juice shave with succulent lips


tnjackin 50M
175 posts
1/27/2020 11:22 am

I just want to say I adore the new you. I love a body with curves and I love a woman is comfortable in her skin. I think we all have things we would change about ourselves , i think its normal but that doesnt mean we dont want to be who we are. I am a firm believer that "sexy" really doesnt start to come into play until at least age 35. Thats about the time we all really start to realize who we are and find comfort and confidence there. sexy is way more that body type. Sex was good in my 20s but id have to say it has been Soo much better the last 10-15 years because i know who i am now. it really does get better with age. and for the record, you're a delight.


tnjackin 50M
175 posts
1/27/2020 11:25 am

and if i havent said so before, i find you incredibly sexy


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/27/2020 1:08 pm

    Quoting furry7890:
    i am a face man, if i find her face attractive nothing else matters to me. if i can not stand looking at someone it is not going to work no matter how hot her body is. ps, you have a very beautiful face!!!!
Thank you so much. I am a face person myself. Sorry for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/27/2020 1:10 pm

    Quoting slutcd4u2:
    Don't feed the Gremlins after midnight !!! You are Beautiful ! and Confident!!! , I'm not sure what attracts me in general as sometimes i see this shy thing over in the corner getting me all hot n bothered .. or the bold one who is the life of the night might get me wound up too ! I think its just the person and my mood at that moment , body type isn't a major factor as long as they are healthy .
Hello friend I tried to cut the gremlins off however he keeps eating my words..lol.. you are correct healthy is important. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/27/2020 1:11 pm

    Quoting NJGUY08090:
    You look perfect to me and it looks like you are quite confident and comfortable. Just be your self and have fun.
Yes accepting and embracing yourself is very important. It is hard to do at times. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/27/2020 1:12 pm

    Quoting Sexczy69:
    The smile is what I go for... a great smile and warm heart...
A good heart and smile are excellent qualities. I'm sorry for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
1/27/2020 1:14 pm

    Quoting looking4fun71756:
    I like big beautiful women. I honestly think you taste better! You certainly are more passionate.
I heard bigger girls were better lovers. Ofcourse I do not know if that is true or not
.I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you


HARDLUVSTIGHT8 29M
14 posts
2/1/2020 3:49 am

both confidence and body in bed


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 2:35 pm

    Quoting dublos:
    Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type??


    Yes.

    A woman who has an attractive body type and no confidence? Not attractive.
    A woman who has confidence yet does not take care of her body? Not attractive.

    A woman who's got both? Much more attractive.
I would have to agree with your opinion. Thank you for participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 2:37 pm

    Quoting looking4u69ca:
    Your pics are lovely. Attitude is everything.
    I love a woman with confidence.
Confidence is attractive. I appreciate your opinion. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 2:38 pm

    Quoting mamacita38dd:
    I completely agree with Tmptrzz, like i have always told you, you are beautiful and never let anyone tell you otherwise.

    I do find it funny that someone who recently tried to fat shame a blogger out of pure jealousy has the nerve to come here and say the total opposite of how they act, another example how big of a hypocrite they are... like Tmptrzz said shame on them.
Yes. I noticed that as well. I appreciate you commenting mama. Happy day to you.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 2:40 pm

    Quoting missthee:
    Confidence ! Confidence ! Confidence !

    "It is other women that are the most judgemental."

    I have a couple of friends I know since our teens, whose confidence was ruined by their own mothers. Either by longterm fat-shaming, or slut-shaming. These women, who are neither fat nor sluts (in every sense of the word) never recovered, even after they married and had children of their own.

    So, yes, one cannot overstress enough how important it is to maintain your self-confidence, and the rest will follow.
Self confidence is a ongoing journey within myself. It is great to see you pretty lady. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 2:43 pm

    Quoting azriel1970:
    I will honestly say it is a combination of both!!! I need the physical attraction but so much of the physical attraction comes from her brain and her personality as well!!!! I want the whole package!!!!!
I want the whole package too Thank you for commenting. I also would like to thank you for accepting my friend request


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 2:46 pm

    Quoting Shots30:
    I am attracted to all body types. I agree with you it is not just the body, but it is the confidence and intelligence of the lady as well that makes them sexy. I think you look great in all your pics and of course certain angles do help, but there is nothing with that.

    Keep being yourself and use your sexy mind to find mutual friends that enjoy the same.

    Cheers!
I find I feel more confident when I am comfortable in my own skin. It is a daily journey. Thank you for commenting Shots. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 2:47 pm

Thank you so much sexy friend I appreciate you stopping by and commenting. Happy day to you.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 2:48 pm

    Quoting LickYourYoni:
    I quite love a confident woman. When at a swinger's club, I look at the various people there. They are of all shapes and sizes. I see how larger women rock their sexy dress and how they confidently carry themselves. I like that!
Confidence is a attractive quality. Thank you for stopping by and commenting. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 2:50 pm

    Quoting The12er:
    Well, darling what can I say more then you sum it up just perfect!!

    Do you read my mind or??
I would love to read your mind to be honest with you. Great to see you sexy friend.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 2:50 pm

Thank you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 2:51 pm

    Quoting eclecticskr:
    Confidence is very sexy-attractive!
I find confidence sexy too. Thank you for stopping by and commenting. Happy day to you.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 2:53 pm

    Quoting wjb1958:
    Personally and Confidence are more important than body shape or size to me
Yes Personality is very important. Especially a sense of humor. I am sorry for the late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 2:56 pm

    Quoting Aden0069:
    It is a combo of both for me! However, truth be told the confidence and the personality outweigh the physical. I have met some very sexy females in my 51 years, and that had nothing to do with their bodies. It is a woman's confidence and mind that brings it all together. I have been fortunate enough to meet a few women that would be considered BBWs, but they were some of the best fun I had and had wonderful minds. With all that being said, for me the biggest physical part is the face, eyes and beautiful, bright smiles! And you definitely have that my dear!
Ofcourse some kind of physical attraction is important but I agree personality is the most important. Thank you for stopping by and commenting. Always a pleasure to see you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 2:58 pm

    Quoting db25p:
    Not sure you'd qualify as bbw, but most men I know, and me, prefer a woman with some "meat on her bones" so to speak. I am not terribly attracted to women who are uber skinny. Of course, personality is also key. Hot snotty people are no fun at all.
Thank you but I qualify..lol.... ty he doctor said I needed to lose 60 pounds. I appreciate you stopping by and commenting. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:00 pm

    Quoting sensualmaninmn:
    I had to ponder this for a day to answer honestly. It is CONFIDENCE. I have had awesome satisfying sex with women that are even BBW+. I would rather be with a larger woman that is confident and caring than one that has a perfect body, yet lacks the enduring traits that turn me on.
Thank you for taking the time to give me your honest answer. It is always a pleasure to see you visit my blog. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:01 pm

    Quoting celldwellerfan:
    I feel like it's definitely a combination. The right mind and the rest doesn't even matter, but your confidence will definitely accentuate your other "assets" to make you that much sexier.
Fair enough. Very good answer. I appreciate you stopping by and commenting. Happy day to you.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:03 pm

    Quoting bs2019cj:
    To me confidence is way more sexy then just looks. I want to have some type of actually conection and someone with confidence is so sexy in my opinion
I feel like the more confident I am the more sexually free I become. I appreciate you stopping by and commenting. Happy day to you.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:04 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    Confidence always means more than body type to me. You just happen to have both working for you.
Awww..thanks sexy friend


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:05 pm

    Quoting dec47:
    " A lot of cargo on the upper deck will get my attention, But a quick wit and a curious mind will keep me attached"
Very honest answer great to see you dec.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:10 pm

    Quoting scottj55555:
    I don't really have anything I apply to everyone across the board. Each person is unique. If you make a connection with them, they are sexy by virtue of that connection in addition to their own beauty. I can get turned on by someone's appearance, but generally that's fleeting.
    Look at women who are regarded as sexy - Marilyn Monroe and Mae West. Neither was thin by today's standards, but decades after they're gone, they're still hailed as epitomes of sexiness. The thing is when you think of each of them, a certain personality comes to mind as well, it's not simply an image. It's that combination that truly is the compostion of sexy. Beauty, personality, the way someone carries themselves.
    I'll finish this up by saying I haven't seen a photo of yours here that I haven't thought of as beautiful. Your blog brings your personality to us, so I have at least the same image of you as the ladies mentioned above. Because of that, something extra comes across in your photos to make you sexy.
    Wow, I'm not sure I actually answered the question you asked, but it is my answer.
You did answer the question Scott. Thank you I am quite unique I just need to learn to embrace it..lol.. I appreciate you stopping by and commenting. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:39 pm

    Quoting travellerabc123:
    I think it's the confidence of your pictures. Not because they are naked. I would love whatever body you presented and whatever medium. Ultimately its your confidence that makes me overwhelmed for you.
    SuperBJ is having a similar issue right now with stolen pictures and not doing HNW. She posted a clothed NNW pic. It's her creativity and confidence that make the difference.
I am trying to come up with some creative ideas to give me some inspiration..lol.. I apologize for the late reply. Thank you for commenting.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:39 pm

    Quoting GreenEyedGuy1968:
    It is insane!!
    I gave up correcting stuff and hopefully whoever reads it realizes I'm not completely nuts.
I gave up too. Which drives me nuts!! Lol


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:41 pm

    Quoting GreenEyedGuy1968:
    Everything comes back into style!

    Bigger women used to mean bigger babies, thus bigger warriors for the tribe, so big breast/hipped women were more desirable than scrawny ones.
Interesting. I have read in some cultures bigger woman and more desirable.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:43 pm

    Quoting GreenEyedGuy1968:
    My vote has changed over time for sure, when I was younger it would have definitely for been body shape/size in the slender range.
    Now... I like "curvy". Yes, curvy. Period.
    It's way sexier to me than xylophone ribs and man abs on a woman!

    But to the original question, I love a soft, curvy woman with a brain and a huge sense of humor, who is confident and sexy in her own skin.
I agree. I think when people are younger physical appearance is important.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:44 pm

Thank you niceguy


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:45 pm

    Quoting rick315875:
    For me it is about respect. If I do not respect you as a human being. Then there is no sexual desire.
I like your answer Rick Respect!! I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:46 pm

    Quoting leftoverture69:
    yay! your back i would say its a combination of looks attitude and confidence that gets me excited about a woman
It great to see you Combo of both is also my answer. I apologize for my late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:48 pm

    Quoting merlot5555:
    ....genetics determine your body shape... plus or minus of course depending on how you take care of it.... confidence is a plus because it enables you to be yourself and relax in your sexuality.... now curiosity, curiosity is the key because that pushes you to explore... and that curiosity makes anyone a more interesting and attractive person.... imvho...
Yes I agree. I found I was more sexually free when I was comfortable in my own skin. I apologize for the late reply. Thank you for commenting.


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:50 pm

    Quoting uuwreckme:
    on a site like this I would say that the visual is the first thing that allures you, however what keeps you is her confidence
I agree
On a site like this we are drawn to personal appearance. I appreciate you commenting. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:52 pm

    Quoting Don_Harlo:
    Ahhh yes I have struggled with this issue too. I love all women shapes and sizes. Let me be the first of many to say women you are beautiful you are precious I love a great body I also love a confident woman. So a man that recognizes beauty knows that it's an entire package. Baby there are men on their knees waiting and wanting to admire and devour your sexy ass body a long line. Lol! I just know how I want you to feel Sexy just the way you are. Hugs and kisses!
Thank you so much


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:54 pm

    Quoting Jdhot4Tg:
    mmm indeed i love a wet juice shave with succulent lips
My goodness


hotmamamm 44F  
16899 posts
2/1/2020 3:56 pm

    Quoting tnjackin:
    I just want to say I adore the new you. I love a body with curves and I love a woman is comfortable in her skin. I think we all have things we would change about ourselves , i think its normal but that doesnt mean we dont want to be who we are. I am a firm believer that "sexy" really doesnt start to come into play until at least age 35. Thats about the time we all really start to realize who we are and find comfort and confidence there. sexy is way more that body type. Sex was good in my 20s but id have to say it has been Soo much better the last 10-15 years because i know who i am now. it really does get better with age. and for the record, you're a delight.
I would agree. I really started to accept and embrace myself in my late thirties. Its been a interesting experience..lol..Always a pleasure to see you. Happy day to you.


rusty_nail 70M  
541 posts
2/2/2020 10:38 am

Beautiful, thank you for being among these blog pages. Hubba Hubba.

If being broke weekly is a career, then I should feel good about being successful.


Cfitzwell71 48M
17 posts
2/4/2020 11:55 am

Damn I want to know you!


kumswaloer3 50M
281 posts
2/7/2020 10:07 am

It doesn't matter what you want to tittle yourself, they are all Beautiful!


Udontwant2misout 38M
3 posts
2/14/2020 10:35 am

Confidence 100%. Everybody is unique and beautiful.


211269gonzo 58M
2 posts
2/15/2020 8:33 am

i would like a bit of all women arent FAT there beautifully AMPLE OR EXTRA PADDING now and with smarts thats what i like!!


Hardthicksteel77 42M
9 posts
2/18/2020 12:24 pm

Damn why arent you in Central TX?? Gorgeous.....


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