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Another Auld Lang Syne  

infinitepoetry 50F  
101 posts
1/2/2020 11:04 am
Another Auld Lang Syne

I am kissing 2019 goodbye with the end of a decidedly hard year.
My husband/master had to return to the UK in order to get treatment and to bring his family there. That didn't work quite like we planned. That's how the cookie crumbles.

I'm trying to navigate returning to being single and now labeled as a widow. I'm not quite sure what other people think when they meet me and I am known as a widow. I'm sure it is intimidating and it makes someone think they might not want to tackle that. I can't say that I blame them. But the truth is, my Master's absence for that year cushions the blow and started to prepare me for what I'm facing now. And if you didn't know it, a widow usually means great sex because we usually haven't had any for quite some time

Typically, I would write a poem and be evasive with you, my readers. You would not read the whole truth in verbose wording. Or else, it would be hidden in some flowery words that are metaphorical. No, the simple fact is I loved him and he's gone. He found me on the blogs and now I have returned ever wiser than I was years ago.

It appears that we change but AdultFriendFinder does not. There are still the amount of fakers and scammers. There is still the frustrating reality that most people think way more of themselves than they really are. And there is also the disappointment of meeting new people time and time again and being disillusioned because they just don't meet up to the expectations you had online or in your fantasy.
I guess I defy the odds because he read my blog, messaged me and ended up moving from the UK and we spent a decade of loving one another, all because of blogging...

The following is your words of wisdom from the widow.on AdultFriendFinder:
1. If you don't try, you might as well buy some cats and become the cat person. Giving up your search isn't going to make it happen. .
2. If you are intrigued by someone, message them today and tell them that you want to meet. This brings it back to the beginning, it won't happen otherwise.
3. It is better to have loved and lost than not at all. Try to put your fear in check.
4. Start treating everyone with the premise that they may be giving hyperbole when it comes to what they think of themselves. It is an ally if that's what you think inside your head but it doesn't make it reality either. However time tells all...
5. Keep your faith that fate lends a hand. There is no denying chemistry and if it is there, you'd be a fool to pass it up.
6. Live everyday like it's your last because it may be. And don't ever let a day go by that you don't tell those that you love that you do.

For the rest of you that are here looking for a love potential or aren't looking for anyone, or are just here to read the blogs,.. I tip my hat to you for a new year filled with joyous moments and happiness.

infinitepoetry 50F  
97 posts
1/2/2020 11:09 am

OK I give up! Why are they posting 2 of every first image now? UGH AdultFriendFinder!!!

dimibooshi 63M
33 posts
1/2/2020 11:16 am

All are great,i live by wisdom 6,,,thank you for putting these in writing

infinitepoetry replies on 1/2/2020 11:34 am:
You are very welcome

dimibooshi 63M
33 posts
1/2/2020 11:19 am

Because your beauty deserves a second look,,,ill stick with that

infinitepoetry replies on 1/2/2020 11:33 am:
Thank you <3 I'll buy that explanation for about a millisecond

lucacarate 41M
59 posts
1/2/2020 11:41 am

sorry my photo! I just wanted to tell you that your 6 commandments deserve! and if I can it's 2020 then new life new friends ... you feel a lot of sadness in your blog! but believe me start a new life .. and what they think people do not care ... a big kiss from Italian luca

infinitepoetry replies on 1/2/2020 2:40 pm:

FiftyFourLooking 55M

1/2/2020 11:44 am

My observations of this site are such that of the 'female' profiles 95% of them are fake/scammers, looking to lure people away to another pay porn site. Of the remaining 5% of actual females with a pulse, of those that actually answer (1 in 100), 50% want money (pay for play, 'be serious', p2p, etc.), 40% are looking for a permanent relationship right away and the remaining 10% really want a friend.

I'm certain from the woman's vantage point, there is a level of fake/scammer profiles they must endure as well. However, I've also noticed that because of the (roughly) 200:1 man-to-woman ratio, their results are a little more positive.

I have a woman friend on here who stated she received 15-20 messages daily from men, from which she had to whittle down the 'prospects'. Meanwhile a guy has to send out 100+ messages just to get a singular response (mostly which is 'not interested', or 'are you generous?'.

Yes, it is a one-sided website, but I persist.

infinitepoetry replies on 1/2/2020 2:05 pm:
Ypur statistics are probably 90% accurate. I give a 10& leeway for error in most assessments. I don't live near a large town and the options are slim of finding someone in my chair as a master hair colorist...I don't do hillbilly rednecks which are my options in Appalachia. What else would you suggest?
Exactly, I'm sucking it up like a buttercup and remaining

h4rry66 53M
1916 posts
1/2/2020 12:39 pm

Nice view. Thanks

infinitepoetry replies on 1/2/2020 2:02 pm:

AmorphousAmor 60M
3544 posts
1/2/2020 1:39 pm

Gimme some truth... and you did... thanks!

infinitepoetry replies on 1/2/2020 2:02 pm:
My pleasure. Truth is something you get when dealing with an individual who has recently stared death in the face. It's just the way it is

mc_justmc 59M  
5557 posts
1/2/2020 5:02 pm

While I'm not a cat person, I did pick up a 3rd dog last year....

infinitepoetry replies on 1/2/2020 5:39 pm:
What kind do you have? I have a Plott Hound, the least known dog in America but one of only four breeds originally bred in USA. I love dogs

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