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To see or to be seen...that is the question  

irisheyes1129 64F  
192 posts
11/3/2008 9:45 am
To see or to be seen...that is the question

OK...always have heard of voyeurs...for the most part men who like to watch others having sex...although I think today, women are catching up to men in this respect. Now my question is, do you think it would turn you on more to be the voyeur, the one watching a couple having sex or do you think it would be even hotter to be the ones being watched?

waxylady4you 63F
20 posts
11/3/2008 4:43 pm

well Irish, LOL you know me I like to be the voyeur,,,,,,,then join in when it gets really hot! LOL so I say both, a voyeur and an exhibitionist..

oh and by the way BigBoo,,,,,,,,,at swingers clubs, you can be both and you do the act! LOL


irisheyes1129 replies on 11/4/2008 10:52 am:
yes I know you prefer to watch the action, however one of these days I am gonna get you on a sybian dammit!!!!!

Cheeky260 49F
31 posts
11/3/2008 6:14 pm

Irish as you well know I can be both. Not only do I enjoy watching others.. But I LOVE to be watched. Both are very much a turn on for me. I have learned that it is not everyones cup of tea..

irisheyes1129 replies on 11/4/2008 10:55 am:
yes cheeky I do know and I will never look at my swing set in quite the same way...and yes, unfortunately we all realized it is not everyone's cup of tea!

EasydoesJACK 51M

11/3/2008 7:15 pm

When I lived in Miami (circa 1996) I was dating a girl and we went to some adult club/theater... we went into the theater area and it was a small room, with 2 sections of theater seats, seating about 24 all together... with a front projection 55 or 60" TV as the screen... there were 2 guys in there when we came in siting at opposite sides...

we sat 2nd row from the back, my girl was wearing a tank top with a denim skirt... some hetero porno was playing... only took about 2 minutes before she had my cock out and was sucking it... she had her knees on the seat facing me, i reached under her skirt and was playing with her sloppy wet pussy while she was blowing me...

the guy sitting the rown in front of me, was watching us, making a lot of eye contact with me i might add which wasnt very thrilling, but he whipped out his cock and started jerking off while he watched my girl suck my rock hard cock... was a real turn-on...

then the other guy, moved a few seats closer, and he was jerking off too, only he was jerking off while he watched the guy jerking off who was watching us!

it was a fun experience...definately a turn-on to be watched... one of very few like that I have had !

irisheyes1129 replies on 11/4/2008 10:51 am:
mmmmm it does sound rather interesting...but if I were you, I probably would be weary of the guy watching the guy...lol...well as long as all had fun, no harm done right? but do you think you would have been turned on more had one of the men been a woman and they started action while watching you?

rm_Yev_Kassem 56M

11/4/2008 10:34 am

Irish this is like asking a man if he masturbates. Of course we love to watch. I watch and imagine me being there thinking about what I want to be doing. I can't wait to be watched with you. Mmmmm now that gets me hard!

irisheyes1129 replies on 11/4/2008 10:57 am:
so you are saying you like both?...lol...watching and being watched with me?...lol...I know you just want to know what kind of pie I have...lol...always the baker

nessus01 69M  
98 posts
11/4/2008 11:07 am

Well, of course both are turn ons, and the depth of the thrill depends on the circumstances (who's pitching, who's catching, who's watching!

"Nature always favors the hidden fault. "- (Murphy's Third Law)

irisheyes1129 replies on 11/4/2008 3:15 pm:
so glad you are back nessus, we shall have to catch up soon!

horny196364 57M

11/4/2008 1:30 pm

love to chat with you sometime

RockPebble 74M
2488 posts
11/6/2008 6:34 am

Watching is good. I find that I don't realize I'm being watched when I'm focusing on her. I try to focus on all of her cues so if someone else is vocal it does have an effect on me, lol.

sexaddict20044 57M  
66 posts
11/7/2008 8:50 pm

Having done both,I'd say they're both hot. Gotta admit I can't watch for long w/out wanting to be involved. Irish,what were ya gona say??? LMAO

brute472 79M
3479 posts
11/10/2008 5:02 am

Definitly the voyeur when you are on.

Shakasimba 61M
3 posts
11/11/2008 5:37 am

Too watch or to be the show both are good I like to watch a-lot but i do love the attention

ac610 64M

11/16/2008 2:23 pm

Great question!. I think watching is always fun. Most guys will agree, thus the number of porn flicks. On the other hand, knowing someone is watching you have explosive, sex is also a turn-on.

rb8038 45M

12/1/2008 8:40 am

I always welcome a chance to watch, but truthfully, being watched turns me on much more. I think it's because I know how much it turns me on to watch a hot woman, so I like to feel like I'm turning on the woman watching me, if that makes sense.

jentlemanjimm 62M  
30 posts
1/4/2009 11:47 am

Wonderful question! I have a fantasy that I fully intend to fulfill... that is to be in a small intimate audience with a woman friend watching sex on a little stage. Real sex not actors. Real passion and desire filling the room. I do not think I want to be the one watched but I also enjoy very much having sex in places we might get seen..

juicyisme 56F
239 posts
1/18/2009 7:57 pm

I have never had the opportunity to watch anyone in person however I must say I am a voyeur! Love to watch others *Jiggle Jiggle

"A negative attitude will destroy a dream and paralyze ideas the world is blessed by those with a positive attitude who see possibility where others see barriers"

bobby_ray56 65M  
274 posts
2/3/2009 9:39 pm

speaking as someone who has had the most possible fun with his clothes on, I can saferly saw I would rather be watched in your context. In that light, I can be getting laid, and the spectators are holding their own. Any questions?

lickher_allup 75M
26 posts
3/31/2009 4:16 am

it is beautiful to see a lady cum to as she see me cum to ever day alot so i guess i am both

rm_PoorMeImSane 49M
38 posts
8/4/2009 3:04 pm

As someone with very limited (yet recent!) experience in this 'field', I very much prefer the role of watcher. But only if it's someone I know. Porn, for example, does nothing at all for me. It needs to be real, and it helps if I can picture exactly what the female I'm watching is thinking. If that makes sense.
And I agree with Sweetin, you're all a bunch of pervs...


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