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What is a dragon
Posted:Mar 9, 2016 9:26 am
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2016 4:55 am
I have been asked a great many times what a dragon is, eventually you will be able to find the term a google search as it applies to swinging.
For now I will post it in my blog so that you will know
If you know what a Unicorn is a Dragon is easy …
A Dragon is like a Unicorn but more fierce.'
I started to call myself a Dragon when I realized that unicorns are characterized as pure and sweet as well as rare and I had found myself JADED by the many men in the world who thought themselves to be gods gifts to women.
I am just not as sweet (Naive) as I once was so now I am a Dragon, Just as rare but in need of the right Dragon Tamer...
now you know what a dragon is, but before you UN-sheeth your sword seeking to slay a dragon you should know that dragons can only be seen by those with a pure heart...lol
Happy Hunting
Sparse blogging
Posted:Mar 9, 2016 9:24 am
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2020 1:17 am

I wanted to take a moment to let some of you know why my Blogging has gone out the window. I made a bad choice, I had to correct my mistake, in the choice and the correction there were consequences.
I have no current internet connection and I cant blog on my phone.
I go to the library now to get online but I cant open certain sites while I am there.
So I am stuck. Cant post unless I find private connections and am not yet in a position to make my own Private connection...
just thought I would explain... thanks for reading
Happy Hunting
Men, Dicks.
Posted:Jan 31, 2016 12:16 pm
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2016 4:54 am

i wrote this to post on craigslist but i thought it worth re-posting here


I have been reading the posts in Craigslist for a while now and I must say its a wonder any of you get laid (ever).
I realize that you want to tell others what you seek but do you really think that telling the populous of women to come suck your dick will get you a response. (or lets fuck, or come satisfy me.)
Then I read that men are turning to other men because they need something and the women here wont respond. Guess what guys women are real people and we are not here to meet your needs we are here to meet ours. I must say the pickings are getting pretty slim to find a respectful man attached to the Dick I need to use to meet my needs.
Then I go through all the trouble to find a good man with a good Dick and I find that he cant use it. (it goes soft or wont get hard at all {if you want to know why got to Utube>ted talks>the great porn experiment.} or he unloads so quick that it was hardly worth the effort).

Just a few tips for you Dicks that want to find a real woman to mutually meet your sexual needs:

Be respectful. Even if you are seeking role play, you want a healthy intelligent woman to play with you will only get that with respect.

Be Original. Women who like sex talk to lots of men so set yourself apart.

Be Prepared. Just like the work world is geared for you (men getting paid more than women and glass ceiling and all) The world of alternative sex is a woman's domain. This is due to supply and demand, there are not all that many women who have an open healthy attitude about sex so the ratio of women to men that seek sex is very tilted. So women really do have the power here.

Be honest. If discretion is a must because you are married then say so, if you lie about being in a relationship then you will get caught and you cant blame the woman because you did not even tell her.

Be secure. Drama comes from insecurity and no one wants drama in their life.

Be Respectful. If a woman meets you and is not interested she owes you nothing. No means no even if she changes her mind and says no just as you are ready for intercourse.

If you chose to continue on the same course and you think that you can get laid with negative or disrespectful adds, then I can only assume that you have the money to pay for sex or you don't care if you sleep with a gal that wants to share her disease with you. Happy Hunting. May Karma be with you...
Open relationships
Posted:Oct 19, 2015 6:39 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2015 2:48 pm

it has been a long while, and i feel ready to write. so here goes.
What is an open relationship?
I have often wondered about the trust and the security that goes into an open relationship.
On the surface it seems that most are not secure enough to entertain such an idea. In my mind there was no other ideal relationship to have.
Imagine if you will total trust, total freedom and the love of a secure person standing behind you.
Perhaps I have seen too much in my life and have seen the “Ideal” couples who are totally secure and have open relationships. I set my sights high and decided to hold out. Not just for an open relationship but also for marriage.
How secure are you?
Could you handle a relationship where the person you love sleeps with others?
How would that look for you? Would you want to be there every time?
These are the questions couples field when they decide that they want to explore the lifestyle (or swinging).
For most of the time I have been in the lifestyle I have been single so while I have held onto my idea of ideal I often wondered if I would ever find someone who had the same ideas of openness coupled with commitment that I held in the back of my mind.
Then it did happen!
I met a man that made my head swim.
my heart swooned when he came into my life
and every day with him is a easy surprise.
The open relationship is falling into place for us naturally and we both know that we want the other in our life forever.
Life is a trip, I kept wondering if I set the bar too high and if I would never meet the right person and then one day when I quit thinking about it and let down my guard he shows up.
I am so excited for each day and am once again I am renewed in my belief of the power of the universe.
thoughts of the mind
Posted:Jun 12, 2015 9:14 pm
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2015 4:41 pm

a moment of loneliness after a long day.
wanting to share the thoughts on your mind.
having someone in your corner who would do anything for you.
a warm body on a cold night, or a cool body on a warm day.
that alluring odor of a person that turns your head.
security, resources, and the right to make things better.
there are a million personal reasons that help us decided to commit our lives to another. and then in a blink, if we forget, we change and burn it all.
everyday is a choice, alone or together, those choices make our state of mind and our state of being.
The Comfort factor.
Posted:Jun 4, 2015 3:44 pm
Last Updated:Jun 10, 2015 7:38 pm

it seems that i am always trying to figure out what i want
it also seems the closer i get to finding what i want the more i change my mind about what i want...
i have decided that i would hate to be a guy, women are katty and that is perhaps why i have few women friends,
i never stay in a place long where i don't want to be and that includes arguments.
so i was discussing with on of my "Friends" (male) why anyone would choose to be in a relationship in this day and age and i came up with a great many reasons for and against "commitment"
for me after the emotional connection i have to a Permanent partner, there is a comfort factor, and a resource factor. i wonder if you can find that in a alternate relationship.
i realize that we all do what works for us and as we make our way thorough the balance is tipped quit often... but the way i see it its all practice for the day we "get it right" or "figure it all out"
every relationship i have ever had has taught me something, one day when it is right it will stick and i will learn life lessons with a partner.
Riding the Dragon
Posted:May 31, 2015 1:01 pm
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2015 3:36 pm

Today I woke In a wondrous state of being.
Sore and exhilarated all at the same time.
I have often said out loud that sex is my drug.
Last night I found that “the Dragon” is the high of highs.
It started from the moment I saw him waiting, Standing, Sexy.
My nerves shot into the air however there was little time to think.
So I Soared.
Then in simple tasks he was there “the Dragon” kept me afloat.
Catching me every time I began to descend, pointing me up again.
At times I felt as though he could reach into my mind think my thoughts.
And then I would focus and fall, “the dragon” would come again and lift me.
He took me to heights at the end of the path, again and again, up was the loft.
Then the music started and everyone faded and new heights I found with “the Dragon"
and I soared
Exhausted but glowing from my flights of fancy.
I took “the Dragon” and we rode to a new launching pad.
From this vantage point where no one could see
a new crest of emotion “the dragon” held for me.
He took me up, up, up where I could see no more
I held on very tight as he felt for my core.
While I soared.
He would let me come down just enough to catch breath
then he would take me back up, held on a current, and climbing
again and again up to new statures, wondering if anything else exists.
We twisted and turned and glided all over seeking new valleys and hills.
When I started to feel out of control I grounded myself by seeking his core.
Coming into contact with 'the dragon” skin I found a current flowing through him.
Ready to ride
It was now that the dragon said I could climb on, as I did my core started to scream.
It was too much and not enough all at once and I wanted to fly but felt to fall at once
“the dragon” anchored me pushing us still higher, launching until I was panting for breath
his energy continued to propel us past bumps of air, then we rolled and I held on.
I held on not out of fear but out of need, senses already on overload I wanted more
and “the dragon” gave more the rushing and heat of his current filling me.
And I rode.
Finding new ways to hold the flight, maintain the summits of air.
We pulled, pushed and danced with the air, I danced with “the dragon”
him holding me, me holding him, the fear of falling gone we glided again
this time his current had found a rhythm with mine and the flow wound us both.
We held the glide until we could hold nothing back and we hit crescendo and fell
falling became flight as we found our way back, and we found a comfortable perch
continued to ride
exhausted now and prone, I found small puffs of current that kept me on edge
as “the dragon” rested I felt him, in me around me and holding my thoughts
my eyes closed and I was riding “the dragon” once more.
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WoW: exuastion
Posted:May 27, 2015 4:46 pm
Last Updated:May 31, 2015 3:58 pm

Today i am not working on anything...
i am so tired from my day and trying to recover from being sick over the weekend that i decided just to try and stay awake long enough to do what i have to do...
some days i think it just has to be ok to "be at peace"
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ToT: AdultFriendFinder is what you make it!
Posted:May 26, 2015 7:12 pm
Last Updated:May 31, 2015 3:55 pm

this site is like life, you will get out what you put in...
if you want something fun to come of your time here put fun in
if you want respect put that in
if you want contacts....
and so it goes
if you are not willing to to the work quit complaining and move over for those that are...
MM. Orgasms
Posted:May 25, 2015 1:52 pm
Last Updated:May 26, 2015 7:15 pm

Orgasms cum to me Easily
Posted:May 23, 2015 8:46 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2015 7:07 am

Today I have relationships on my mind (perhaps I am a girl) more specifiably weddings.
One of my daughters text-ed me “the wedding is off” first thing this morning.
I had gone to bed late after talking to my very good friend who is getting married on the 30th.
The one wedding has been in jeopardy a couple of time over the last few months and things have been worked through so the wedding is a go... for my the wedding was never really firm.
My other has decided not to have a wedding but went strait to the husband and wife designation (they have been together many many years so it works)
So my first question to all three of them and anyone else who calls and is in turmoil is have you talked to HIM?.
No matter what the situation I feel that communication is the key.
When we assume what others are thinking we are usually wrong, hell even when we ask what others are thinking we don’t usually think the same way they do so we don't really take it how they meant it.
Translate to me, I know that everything I do, I do for me. When I meet a “guy” and we can talk then the FWB possibilities open up. However if I meet a guy and there is not much to say I tend to turn in another direction.
Over my swingers weekend I got into a conversation with a newer couple and we discussed why we are drawn to certain people. Sounding intelligent was a key factor for all three of us, we decided it was because when a person sounds intelligent they must have enough life experience to make adult choices. Counter that with a person who wont talk or only has one word to say at a time and I personally feel as if I am forcing a to do what I want no matter the age level of that person.
I have to say that communication has become a key from the beginning for me... now having lots of opportunity to learn and grow in that field I feel most comfortable with a person who can tell me everything. What is more I not only learn things about them but I learn things about me.
Communication encompasses many things for me: Honesty, trust, security, intelligence, experience, adventure, and improvement. Round that off with a healthy sex life and a soul mated commitment and I could be happy for the rest of my time here and perhaps longer...
happy hunting everyone ...now go talk to someone. tee hee.
FFF: gangbang
Posted:May 22, 2015 9:19 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2015 7:19 pm

I have been talking with a guy via this site that has a group a guys that likes to set up gang bangs. I have always thought that a gang bang would be great fun. As a fantasy.
I would be the center of attention, all the guys wanting to make sure I am good and wet. If I experience many (50+) orgasms one on one I can only imagine the numbers if there were one guy after another after another who was making me cum.
I would want to start with oral, mouths all over my body (nipple orgasms have becum easier lately) with one cock in my mouth that keeps changing as they get hard... when we are all nice and ready I would start with the closest cock and ride it to my hearts content, grinding to my favorite orgasm and then perhaps a few more just because its already there.
Then I could take the next in whatever way they wanted. One guy missionary, one spooning. One scissored. And so on until I ended up in the doggy position taking one after another until I could not even fathom cumming one more time...and then start all over again (hey in fantasies you get to be super human)
mmmmmm I am going to go get out my toys... happy hunting everyone.
ocean inspired.
Posted:May 21, 2015 1:12 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2015 4:28 pm
i have always loved the power of the ocean
and the mysteries that lie therein.


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