i'm not cheap... i wear nice clothes, my house, pickup and car are paid for...my guy toys, boat, guns, are paid for also... i've worked hard and scraped by a couple years to be able to play now.... andi'm not a cheap guy... most of the time i'll pick up the check when i'm out with friends.. but they reciprocate also...so to meet a new date, where do we go????... to the steakhouse....we meet, she's fudged about 30-40 lbs and about 5 yrs from what she originally told me...as the waithress takes our order, she orders a <b>$</b>12 drink, i have a beer.... then she orders an appetizer and asks me if i want 1 also.... i suggest we share, but i get a cold stare.... oops, strike 1....waitress brings the fancy-smancy drink, but its not strong enough... sent back....a couple minutes later, it arrives again....too strong this time... i know for a fact that the bartender makes good drinks...opps..strike 2...her appetizer arrives with 2 small plates.. she sets them aside and proceeds to scarf down the bloomin onion.... and asks why i din't order anything??? waitress takes our orders, i order the medium ribeye, she orders the large 1.. baked potato with all the works...i'm in awe... and i'm a healthy eater.....she orders a different drink, something else, it comes just as our meal does....she gulps it down asks for another... i've had 1 beer, no appetizer...and we proceed with dinner.... she's shovels it in like there's no tomorrow and asks if she can have a doggie bag....she wants me to save half of my steak for her to take home!!!!!!!!!.... i figure to cut this short and escape....conversation goes on and on about what she likes... as a guy, i'm learning to listen...check comes... its equal to some third world country's debt!!!...i pay, excuse myself and go apoligize to the bartender... (whom i know btw)..<b>. com</b>e back to the table...and we leave... she's got her car and i'm in my pickup.... we stand by my truck for a few minutes and she tells me that she had a nice time, but doesn't think this will work out.... boy am i relieved...i'd hate to have to feed her on adily basis... kinda makes me wonder why she's not married anymore....