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kbkentwood 63M
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3/30/2018 6:35 am
Questions for the Ladies

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BiggLala 48F  
28942 posts
3/30/2018 7:05 am

why do you have profiles on this site?
-I joined A*F*F to find what is commonly referred to as FWB, or 2-3, for friendship that included non-exclusive, ongoing sex.

What is your motivation for being here?
-My motivation *now* is mostly to blog and interact with people, while remaining open to finding what I originally joined for.

What has been your overall reaction?
-Though I've had some good experiences, I realized not long after joining that what I considered an FWB, emphasis on actual developing an friendship, was different than what most men here consider an FWB. The majority of men I met only wanted sex, whether one time or every few months (6 or more), and only contacted you when wanting sex, basically a fuck buddy to only meet for sex.

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perfumedgal3 71F

3/30/2018 7:24 am

are women's reasons any different from men. We want to make a connection as do men I believe. Some men just want notches on the bed post but others would be happy to find some they can develop a relationship with. Both genders have to kiss some frogs before they find the prince or princess.


jamieyes100 38T  
87 posts
3/30/2018 8:32 am

I think its for the same things as the guys want. Attention, affection and to be seen. Some are more exhibitionists while others are more voyeurs, so between the two forces, one wanting to be watch while the other wants something to watch is the motive to participating in these online environments. Many of the contacts I make are only looking at making online fantasies, the contact me, ask questions, make requests, but never physically materialize any of their suggestions. Those types were only getting off by what the were communicating through the Net. While others look to make real life contact and from there its when it becomes meaningful. A friendship develops based on common trust and understanding of the same nurtured desires two or more people wish to satisfy.____ J.S. MS-PSY


redrockrascal 62M
21730 posts
3/30/2018 10:59 am

    Quoting perfumedgal3:
    are women's reasons any different from men. We want to make a connection as do men I believe. Some men just want notches on the bed post but others would be happy to find some they can develop a relationship with. Both genders have to kiss some frogs before they find the prince or princess.
Good answer.

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papis_baby_girl 41F
5365 posts
3/30/2018 11:57 am

why do you ask?

oh... I know... you're married and you want to gauge whether or not women are looking for married men.

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lyavu 47F  
1374 posts
3/31/2018 6:47 pm

My qurstion goes to the men? Why do yoi meet then we never hear from you for a while? If yoi can answer that i will answer yours .


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