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Manic Monday
Posted:Jul 21, 2014 2:17 am
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2014 5:55 am

My quest for the perfect friend with benefits continues on!

My topic today would be etiquette. I recently was in contact with a man from another state that would be here in October for some football.Literally, and when I say this - its true, after having exchanging two messages via Kik, decided it would be ok to send me some penis pics.

Nice penis - yes! Appropriate to send - NO!. His response? Well, we are on an adult sex site, so why not? Well, I propose we use our imaginations a little people. I mean, seriously. I am one of these females that require verbal foreplay before you can pull out the big guns.

That's not to say that if we are in contact, indeed, I hope to hook up with you and potentially have sex. That's why we're here, is it not?

I have literally met with and had sex with one male from this site, and given the fact that I have been on this site for over a year, that's not a great average. Let's shake it up a little.

Hugs and kisses,
Sexy Saturday
Posted:Jul 5, 2014 6:01 am
Last Updated:Jul 21, 2014 2:11 am

As I look through profiles, I wonder what it is that attracts us to a certain persons profile.

Certainly an eye catching pic - doesn't necessarily have to be nude, but a little cleavage never hurt. As far as men - I'm hoping that a lot of women will agree with me, I don't need to see your penis in your profile pic. Unfortunately, though it truly might be a work of art, I am more interested in seeing the face behind the penis.

A great smile goes a long way! Nice teeth, trimmed facial hair if you have some - put your best foot forward. In this kind of lifestyle, if we are seeking extracurricular activities, then surely the level of attraction must be there initially. Longevity can come into play with a good sense of humor and an appetite for naughtiness.

Smile sunshine!

Hugs and Kisses,
Kim (aka naughtymilf)
Posted:May 22, 2014 4:27 am
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2014 4:35 am

I'm thinking that I'm the one looking for the elusive unicorn amongst men.

I want a playmate that is interested in me and my interests. Not just to fuck - but someone that can make me laugh on occasion, have a drink or dinner and just be downright silly. Of course if all of that happens and we are both compatible, we will definitely end up in bed.

Not MY bed, lol. I feel it necessary to throw that in. Because I think some people have the misperception that with my husband and I having an open marriage that we bring people to our house to have sex. NO NO NO. We still have a life and (and grandchild lol) and we would never jeopardize our homelife.

If the gentlemen that I'm interested in is married then he darn well better have alternative plan if he intends on getting me in bed.

That is all folks - be safe out there.

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what's up
Posted:May 16, 2014 4:04 am
Last Updated:May 20, 2014 4:59 am

Finally a positive post on my blog.

I am an attention . Of course, I get it. That means that I get positive and negative attention. But honestly who doesn't like attention?

I mean really. A glance across a crowded room. A wink in an elevator. A random gentlemen buys me a drink at a bar even though I am sitting there obviously with my husband. I love it. Why not?

I don't aspire to be beautiful, never have, never will. Instead I take what I know to be my best features or assets - enhance them and by gosh - I know I look good for a 46 year old grandma!

Have a great day everyone - and make someone feel good about themselves today! Be positive
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WTF Tuesday
Posted:May 13, 2014 1:38 am
Last Updated:May 15, 2014 5:10 am

Here we go again. Please please please. I love messages! I am obviously an attention , but with that being said, if you cannot come at me with something more original than - I got a big dick, I can think of something - I am more than likely not going to ever talk to you again.

And couples please, although I appreciate your interest, I am not on here looking for a couple. I am half of a couple, so if your interest is purely in me, than I am more than likely not interested.

Have a great day everyone and happy hunting!

Cinco de Mayo
Posted:May 5, 2014 7:07 am
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2020 5:36 am

We all have our likes and dislikes correct? OK! If I'm interested in someone I generally read their profile. I mean, that's what it's there for right? With that being said, I wish everyone else did before they contact someone.

My profile is clear, I don't date black men and I don't date men over the age of 50. Not to say that there is anything wrong with either of those but I am just NOT interested.

This isn't a beacon to all of those to contact me to try to sway me in my decision, or personally attack me because I'm discriminating against those two groups. Come one people. It's a free country isn't it?

This is added fun for me. Just because I am on an adult dating site does not mean that I am not getting what I want at home, it means that I am looking for something additional.

And one last thing, if one more guy says - "Hey nice tits, or my recent favorite - "I want to dump my sperm in you". Yes, that is a message I received. Really???? WTF

Have a great day everyone
Rainy day Thursday
Posted:Apr 3, 2014 9:58 am
Last Updated:Apr 8, 2014 4:09 am

Here I sit half naked in my bed, with no plans with anyone lol. What's wrong with this picture?

Oh, I don't know, classic reasons I guess. My died, I ran out of gas. Blah. LOL

What is it that makes people successful on this site? I'm pretty straight forward I guess. My pics are current. I have a flirtatious side, perhaps a bit naughty for some. Maybe a little agressive if the situation calls for it.

Maybe wanting to meet someone in a public place first is my downfall. Perhaps that's it.

Have a good Thursday everyone!

Wednesday - Hump Day?
Posted:Apr 2, 2014 4:20 am
Last Updated:May 1, 2014 7:33 pm

Ok, this post is definitely directed at a certain person, but may also be considered as a generalization.

I received a message from a young man over the weekend, after a couple of messages he requested an alternate way to contact me. We started chatting via KIK. No problem. Made plans to meet for coffee or a drink on Monday.

Met him, and actually broke my own unwritten rule. I was definitely attracted to him, and truth be told, I still am. He got a hotel room and we had sex. Not mind blowing sex, just eh. Now I know what my potential is as a lover. I am a very open minded, giving lover. This person has not met his own potential. Actually felt like I had to force him into oral.

After our mere 1.5 hours together in bed, he informed me that he had other things to do lol. Ok then. Now here is why I don't just fuck people on the first meeting. Long response time to a message after that, actually blocked me on KIK, because he wasn't man enough to let me know that - hey - he only wanted to fuck me once.

That will NEVER happen again. If you happen to approach me on here,DO NOT expect me to fuck you the first time I meet you. Have a little courtesy. If you meet me and you're not interested please say so. Honesty is always the best policy in my opinion. I'm not here to change my relationship status. I'm MARRIED. I don't want to marry you, be your girlfriend or your sidekick. I do, however, want you to be my friend. And friends are honest with each other.

Have a great day everybody,
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Friday, TGIF??
Posted:Mar 21, 2014 11:46 am
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2014 4:20 am

Let's get some facts together about me. Firstly, me being married does not make me desperate. If you contact me, then I am going to assume that you took the time to read my profile, correct?

That means,NO - we cannot exchange a few emails on this site, or any other and hook up to have sex. NO - I am not interested in black men, I'm sorry, that's just my preference, with that being said, that doesn't mean that you can convince me otherwise, no matter how hot I think you are and how hot you think you are! This is a my preference, and not only that, but a RULE between my husband and I.

If you are going to contact me assume that we would need to meet for drinks, dinner or lunch before proceeding with any sex talk. The idea is for me to meet someone that I would potentially hang out with on a regular basis. I understand that this is definitely an adult sex site, which means to YOU, the reader, we WILL have sex if I am interested and there is chemistry.

I guarantee you that if we DO have sex, you will say, AHHHHHH. I'm pretty much no holds barred, toe curling crazy.

Posted:Jan 30, 2014 10:55 am
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2020 5:36 am

I stand corrected. I do not respond to every message. In all honesty, I get a lot of them, and if you don't have the courtesy to attach a face pic, I probably won't respond. Sorry.

Most recently I received a "message" and I use that term loosely, from a gentlemen. No words - only pics. And in a normal setting, there were in the pics. Folks - please - and I am pleading with you - don't send pics with in them. There are alot of unstable people out there in the world whom I know you don't want fantasizing about your .

Take a bathroom selfie - I respect that far more

Have a great day and stay warm everyone!

Hello It's Tuesday
Posted:Jan 21, 2014 8:46 am
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2014 10:42 am

My blog post today is about courtesy.

As it states in my profile, I am married with permission to play with others. Well, my husband has that same hall pass.

He has not had much luck on any of these sites. He contacts women. He's very polite. He doesn't expect to have a hookup on the first date, or expect them to meet and hookup within an hour. He's actually a very good looking guy.

Here is my point - the women that he contacts do not even have the common decency to reply to his messages with a no thank you.

I know that I respond to EVERY message, even if it's a courteous no thank you.

Do you all find that people on these sites don't have common courtesy? Or is it just his rotten luck?

Happy Friday
Posted:Jan 17, 2014 2:55 am
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2014 10:36 am

For those of you viewing this blog, let's chat about honesty. Most recently, I was chatting with a gentlemen who I will admit, his pics were just smoking!

I showed his pics to one of my friends and she said, "That's not him!" LOL. I didn't believe her and continued chatting with this man. After he sent me a few penis pics, which any of you know I am not necessarily impressed by, he sent me face pics. Ummm, excuse me, not the same person.

When asked about this he said "I didn't think any one would be interested in me if they saw what I really looked like". So, what? You think that when I meet you I am going to be oh so impressed with your witty charm? Now mind you, if you looked at my previous blog post, this is the same gentlemen that wanted to meet me by the side of the freeway or in a department store, to window shop.

Oh, let's add the fact that he wanted to chat through google places, and put his name in as UNKNOWN PERSON. Umm, hello? I'm married - not desperate lol.

Thanks for listening folks, have a wonderful weekend!

Posted:Jan 16, 2014 1:52 am
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2014 2:50 am

Back at it again,
Trying to wrap my mind around the concept here. FWB - this means a few things:
NO - I will not meet you after two sentences have been exchanged to have sex.
NO- You may not call me at midnight! I wake up very early related to my job.
NO- I cannot host, not now, not ever!!! Open marriage doesn't mean I open my home at all, especially to every cheater out there lol.

This is a good one, and I'm sure you folks will loves this one - NO I will not meet you on the side of the freeway for a quickie: to cop a feel, or a store dressing room. Who does that crap? Maybe I would if we had a relationship, but if you can't take me out and at least buy me a drink - NOTHING and I repeat, NOTHING will ever happen with me.

Happy Hunting!

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