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Spontaneous Sex
Posted:Aug 5, 2014 9:25 am
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2014 6:41 am
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Can you have it!



Or are you a super type “A” personality who can’t…

unless your to-do list is complete, your house is in order, you are waxed or shaved (whatever your routine), you have had a candle light dinner, whatever it is that get you there, before you can fully let go, and enter the freak zone.



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Freedom…
Posted:Jul 29, 2014 9:52 pm
Last Updated:Aug 18, 2014 8:05 pm
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defined as: the state of being free or at liberty rather than in confinement or under physical restraint.



In any society with rules of conduct (written or unwritten), is it possible for any of us to be truly free in any aspect of life, or even sexually for that matter?
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Fate
Posted:Jul 25, 2014 8:02 am
Last Updated:Aug 1, 2014 12:10 am
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What are your thoughts?

Are you where you are supposed to be?

Were you destine to be here, blogging and reading blogs on a sex dating site?
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Pon Farr
Posted:Jul 22, 2014 12:14 am
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2014 12:22 am
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is a blood lust phenomenon in the fictional TV show Star Trek. The nuts and bolts of it: Vulcan males and females reach a level of lust and passion that is unmatched by any other species in the universe. The phenomenon occurs only once every seven years.

If you were given an irreversible choice between experiencing Pon farr level sex for one week every seven years, and then have no sexual desires for 7 years, or have pretty good, but not great sex all the time, which would you choose?




Update: The concept with Pon Farr, is the sex is so great and so fulfilling, you would have no longing or pressure build up for 7 years... kind of like a 7 years after glow.
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Bill Clinton AdultFriendFinder Video Introduction Sound Bite…
Posted:Jul 18, 2014 8:38 am
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2014 12:16 am
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This post was inspired by a comment left by sweet_VM is a previous post Hillary Clinton the next President

Getting a blowjob is the White House… that was great.

Getting a blowjob from the President in the Whitehouse…


Priceless


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Hillary Clinton the next President?
Posted:Jul 16, 2014 10:25 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2014 11:27 am
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As promised to blog friend kzoopair, a post right up your ally.

Could you imagine… Hillary as president? You get Bill Clinton occupying the White House again... this time with lots time on his hands?


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Sex… What is it?
Posted:Jul 15, 2014 11:23 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2014 11:54 am
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What constitutes sex… everyone has a different definition. On one hand you have those who will pretty much claim you had sex if you look at them too long… then on the other hand there are those who will expand the boundaries so they can claim they didn’t have sex. Back in the day, we use to rib one of our friends about cheating on his girlfriend… in his mind, he didn’t have sex with someone unless he cum during penetration. So everything else, including penetrating and withdrawing before cumming, meant he didn’t cheat on his girlfriend by having sex with someone else.

In a recent post “Weird Sex Facts from Around the World”, my blog sibling ask (more or less) if masturbating while on her iPhone, counts as sex. So I am putting it to you people of the Ville; what constitutes sex to you?

1. Masturbation with or without toys)?
2. Solo Camming for a viewer?
3. Conventional cybersex?
4. Cybersex with feedback devices, such as LovePalz?
5. Mutual Masturbation?
6. Cock rub over clothes
7. Pussy rub over clothes
8. Grinding / dry humping over clothes
9. Grinding / dry humping clothes off
10. Hand Jobs
11. Cunnilingus
12. Fellatio
13. Rimming / Ass play
14. Anal penetration without cumming? (just in case you have the same beliefs as my friend)
15. Vaginal penetration without cumming? (just in case you have the same beliefs as my friend)

Pick the numbers or the cut-off point, and leave a comment to explain!
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Weird Sex Facts from Around the World
Posted:Jul 14, 2014 11:48 pm
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2014 9:31 pm
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Do you feel you are knowledgeable about sex? How knowledgeable are you about the weirder freakier side of sex. Here are some weird sex facts that may give you a giggle.

Hitler ordered sex dolls for Nazi troops. You heard me correctly. It was an effort to keep German soldiers from contracting STDs, mainly syphilis. Apparently German scientists devoted a lot of time and effort into designing a sex doll, but the soldiers refuse to carry the blowup dolls in their packs. They feared embarrassment should the Allied forces capture them.

Certain governments will pay for you to have sex. Now you have to be handicapped, and be living in Netherlands, Germany or Switzerland. These governments have been known to provide a stipend for the physically disabled to have sex with a sexual aid worker.

The sex drive-in. In places like Zurich Switzerland were is legal, the aim is to relocate where the trade is practiced. The drive-ins feature an alarm box, where the ladies can summon security if things get out of hand, keeping the ladies safe and off the streets.

Sex toys? Not in India. Selling sex toys there is a punishable offence; 2 years for a first offense and 5 for repeat offenses. You can also get the book thrown at you for owning a sex toy, so you will have to go old school and use your hands.

The typical age of sex education varies widely across the globe. Germany is at one end of the spectrum with the average age being 11.3 and Vietnam is at the other end where 16 is the average.

Greeks are having the most Sex. On average Greeks are hitting it an average of 138 times per year, with Japan bringing up the rear at 45 times per year.

If you want to really get your freak on, go to a music festival. According to a MSN UK study, more than half of a poll of 2000 people say they attend music festivals for the sex and D rugs and alcohol, with the music being the second place attraction. Looks like Iggy Pop will have to re-do his song.
Who knew
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Dating...
Posted:Jul 13, 2014 9:48 pm
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2014 9:25 pm
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the number one cause of marriage

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Coerced Into Having Sex
Posted:Jul 9, 2014 8:37 am
Last Updated:Jan 3, 2016 12:19 pm
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When you read the title what were you thinking…? Were you thinking about a woman being coerced into having sex by a man? Well sorry to disappoint, but this post is about the exact opposite, females coercing males into sexual behavior... it more common than you think.

I read an article several months back, about an academic study of young men being coerced into having sex by sexually aggressive females. According to the article published by the APA journal of Psychology of Men and Masculinity, 43 percent of high school boys and young college men, indicate they have had unwanted sexual experiences, and 95% said a female acquaintance was the aggressor. 18 percent reported the sexual coercion was by physical force; 26 % described unwanted seduction by sexual behaviors; 7 % after being given drugs or alcohol; and 31 % said it was by verbal coercion. Now verbal coercion, (or at least an attempt at verbal coercion), I have witness or at least heard firsthand. Back in the 1980s in my university days, I returned to my dorm room late one night, to hear my best friend trying to talk his way out of having sex with a girl, who aggressively wanted him as her boyfriend, (he was just beginning to see someone else). At the time I thought it was the funniest thing ever, so I rounded up a few other friends and we listened closely. She had some of the best closing material ever, and my friend was scrambling to rebut her argument. Anyway the study, found that half of the coerced men had intercourse, 10 % reported an attempt to have intercourse and 40% had just fondling and kissing.



The study used statements to measure the different types of coercion activities. Examples of coercion included “My partner threatened to stop seeing me” for verbal; “My partner encouraged me to drink alcohol and then took advantage of me” for substance; “My partner threatened to use or did use a weapon” for physical; and “My partner has tried to interest me by sexually touching but I was not interested” for seduction. The findings revealed a need for more scientific study of the thin line between sexual seduction and sexual coercion. And interesting difference between males being coerced into sex and females is that the male victims’ self-esteem doesn’t seem to diminished as a result of the incident.

Thoughts
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Another “Does Penis Size Matter?” Opinion… But This Time From A Lesbian
Posted:Jul 8, 2014 2:38 pm
Last Updated:Aug 7, 2014 1:36 am
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I stumbled across an article on another website that I wanted to share with the community. I would be so much easier if I could just throw up and external link, but since I can’t here is the article, penned by Red Velvet verbatim. Enjoy!

I feel like people have beaten this topic to death and yet, I still recently got asked the question: Can I please a woman with a below average penis?

Eek. At first I thought, maybe I’m not the person to ask because I’m a lesbian but then I thought, WAIT I’m actually the best person to ask because I’M A LESBIAN… which basically means that pretty much all of the sex I have is without a penis and I still managed to please my women. (I say “pretty much” all of the sex I have is without a penis because sometimes I feel particularly adventurous and bring out the strap on)

Now let me tell you why I think the number one reason that having a below average penis isn’t the biggest deal in the world: If I can get the job done just with the three inches that are my fingers, I’m pretty sure a below average penis can do it no matter how small.

A woman’s g-spot is only about 2-3 inches into her vagina and when it comes to penetration, the g-spot is the magic button. So, considering the average size of a penis is 5.5-6.3 inches, most men have more than enough to please a woman. In fact, that is even enough to hit her cervix, which hurts if you’re not careful! So basically, even if the length of your penis is considered rather small and below average, you still have what it takes to get her to cum during penetration.

Keep in mind that even if your penis was 12 inches, some women still can’t cum from penetration. So don’t neglect the clitoris. Never neglect the clitoris.

A final note: If you need help finding the g-spot, just know that it’s a small textured bump you’ll be able to feel.




Thoughts and Comments
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Morning Sex
Posted:Jul 8, 2014 8:23 am
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2014 11:43 pm
30103 Views
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Seduction…
Posted:Jul 7, 2014 9:36 pm
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2014 11:41 pm
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When you thing of seduction what do you think of?



Do you think of it as a one ended affair... a man seducing a partner.. woman seducing a partner? Or do you think of it as a two sided affair?

Thoughts
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