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khuXBFXM8u 58M
7353 posts
3/8/2016 5:36 am
Behaviour



Which do you believe is more effective... you can only choose one!

Discouraging bad behavior or encouraging good behavior?


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author51 57F  
100451 posts
3/8/2016 5:44 am

Encouraging good behaviour always...Used to work for my students all the time.Everyone tries harder, does more than expected when encouraged by others whether it be parents, teachers or employers.

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spankandsquirt20 41F
10332 posts
3/8/2016 5:54 am

I would say encouraging good behaviour for sure.


sexysixties2 72F  
39110 posts
3/8/2016 6:14 am

Encouraging good behaviour works best IMO.

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kinkyfem73 47F

3/8/2016 8:32 am

Encouraging good behaviour for sure is better. With enough positive reinforcement the bad gradually vanishes.

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Tmptrzz 57F
85282 posts
3/8/2016 8:50 am

Encouraging good behavior..

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BiggLala 48F  
28850 posts
3/8/2016 9:38 am

I like what honeydripper said about actually modelling good behavior, and then encourage it. The reality, however, is that people tend to acknowledge bad behavior more quickly because (they think) they're attempting to correct it and stop it. Unfortunately, this doesn't always work because some people, yes even some adults, behave badly to get attention, which is all they want in the first place.

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HermanG67 53M
8133 posts
3/8/2016 12:39 pm

punishment tends to be ineffective in changing behaviors, it may have an immediate effect, but has no long lasting impact


khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/8/2016 6:28 pm

    Quoting author51:
    Encouraging good behaviour always...Used to work for my students all the time.Everyone tries harder, does more than expected when encouraged by others whether it be parents, teachers or employers.
Thank you

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/8/2016 6:29 pm

Another believer

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/8/2016 6:30 pm

    Quoting Sexy_SandraD:
    Positive reinforcement is my preferred choice.
It's all about positivity.

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/8/2016 6:31 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    Encouraging good behaviour works best IMO.
Ahhh, spare the rod

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/8/2016 6:33 pm

    Quoting Darling_Annette:
    Encouraging of anything always works more effectively than discouraging. As people we respond better to carrots than sticks! However, sometimes there also needs to be disincentives to bad behaviour for those that need rules and guidelines.
Sneaky... you were only allowed one choice... or do the two negatives make a positive?

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/8/2016 6:35 pm

    Quoting  :

You went off the board? That's not allowed, but I see your point.

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/8/2016 6:36 pm

    Quoting kinkyfem73:
    Encouraging good behaviour for sure is better. With enough positive reinforcement the bad gradually vanishes.
You always agree with me... that's why your my Sis

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/8/2016 6:39 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Encouraging good behavior..
Tmptrzz, the power of positivity

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/8/2016 6:41 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    I like what honeydripper said about actually modelling good behavior, and then encourage it. The reality, however, is that people tend to acknowledge bad behavior more quickly because (they think) they're attempting to correct it and stop it. Unfortunately, this doesn't always work because some people, yes even some adults, behave badly to get attention, which is all they want in the first place.
Ok.. so encourage good behavior

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/8/2016 6:43 pm

    Quoting HermanG67:
    punishment tends to be ineffective in changing behaviors, it may have an immediate effect, but has no long lasting impact
Herman, I putting you down for encourage good behavior

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NaughtyInSO 109F
9755 posts
3/8/2016 6:53 pm

Positive thinking and encouragement of positive behavior always win, imo.

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BiggLala 48F  
28850 posts
3/8/2016 7:00 pm

    Quoting khuXBFXM8u:
    Ok.. so encourage good behavior

    How does spanking fit in
Spanking? Well, spanking can turn negative behavior around. It's been many years since I've been spanked and I'm a good girl, remember? So I guess it worked on me.

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/8/2016 7:31 pm

    Quoting NaughtyInSO:
    Positive thinking and encouragement of positive behavior always win, imo.
Sometimes it hard to stick that... Yes?

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/8/2016 7:32 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    Spanking? Well, spanking can turn negative behavior around. It's been many years since I've been spanked and I'm a good girl, remember? So I guess it worked on me.
You're a good girl

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BiggLala 48F  
28850 posts
3/8/2016 8:10 pm

Whaaaaat?

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/8/2016 9:11 pm

Ahhh shucks

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/8/2016 9:13 pm

    Quoting  :

A positive action

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sweet_VM 62F
81052 posts
3/9/2016 8:15 am

Good behavior hugsssss V

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author51 57F  
100451 posts
3/9/2016 1:11 pm

You are welcome..

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/9/2016 4:44 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Good behavior hugsssss V
Thank V.

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
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3/9/2016 4:45 pm



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pal334 66M  
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3/10/2016 4:27 am

I think Good behavior. Bad may get attention, but is not popular.

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spunkycumfun 60M/65F  
36112 posts
3/10/2016 5:52 am

I think encouraging good behaviour is most effective but, if that fails, violence is quite effective!


kzoopair 69M/67F
25772 posts
3/10/2016 9:45 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    I think encouraging good behaviour is most effective but, if that fails, violence is quite effective!
Spunky's right. I've trained a lot of dogs, and I prefer to encourage good behavior, but it isn't always effective. Some times you have to clamp down on them to get them to listen.

A tourist in Italy spotted an old man with a donkey, and the donkey was obeying slight hand signals perfectly and calmly, never screwing up once. The tourist was amazed and asked how the old man got him to behave that way. The old man said he used a technique of tender love and kindness. The tourist asked for a demonstration, so the old man pulled a two by four out of the donkey's pack load, and cracked the donkey right between the eyes with it. The tourist, appalled, hollered out "That's not tender love and kindness! " And the old man said "No it ain't, but you gotta get his attention first."

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/10/2016 8:58 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    I think encouraging good behaviour is most effective but, if that fails, violence is quite effective!
The old spare the rod spoil the child thing.

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/10/2016 9:00 pm

    Quoting pal334:
    I think Good behavior. Bad may get attention, but is not popular.
Yes Pal... everytime I turn on the television, I see bad behavior getting lots of attention.

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/10/2016 9:04 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Spunky's right. I've trained a lot of dogs, and I prefer to encourage good behavior, but it isn't always effective. Some times you have to clamp down on them to get them to listen.

    A tourist in Italy spotted an old man with a donkey, and the donkey was obeying slight hand signals perfectly and calmly, never screwing up once. The tourist was amazed and asked how the old man got him to behave that way. The old man said he used a technique of tender love and kindness. The tourist asked for a demonstration, so the old man pulled a two by four out of the donkey's pack load, and cracked the donkey right between the eyes with it. The tourist, appalled, hollered out "That's not tender love and kindness! " And the old man said "No it ain't, but you gotta get his attention first."
I don't know if that will work so well in the real world.

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mature_951 59F  
3341 posts
3/12/2016 6:46 am

encouraging good behavior.... behavior, behavior, behavior

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
3/12/2016 7:24 am

    Quoting mature_951:
    encouraging good behavior.... behavior, behavior, behavior
Hey... I use the Canadian (queens english), and the U.S. spelling interchangeably

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
4/2/2016 6:55 am

    Quoting 1EroticauthorTwo:
    Encourage good behavior. I have always thought that, speaking from a psychological standpoint, using positive reinforcement works better than negative reinforcement due to the fact the negativity makes you feel bad about yourself. Positive reinforcement, or catching someone doing good things leaves them feeling good about themselves.
    Feeling good about yourself is something that permeates the air around you, you radiate happiness and others can catch it from you.
Can't agree more

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tigger678902 53F  
4549 posts
4/25/2016 11:53 am

Encouraging good behaviour

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10302 posts
4/25/2016 3:49 pm

The method I try to follow

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sensualpassion72 55M/48F
3503 posts
5/20/2016 1:46 pm

Good Behavior ---- of course.


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