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Why Females Like BBC My POV 100 Reasons!
Posted:May 9, 2016 9:41 am
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2022 3:31 pm
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Came up with this list in 5 minutes. Often I get asked why I like bbc. Now you know! This is my POV. I live my life for me not for you. No reason for haters if you do not agree please move past this page. Thank you.
BBC has the qualities here's my 100 reasons!

1. Fuck better and longer.
2. Bigger Thicker dicks.
3. More fun personalities
4. They have edge that bit of animated quality.
5. More experienced sexually.
6. No inhibitions.
7. Exceptional bodies.
8. More dominant.
9. Can cum more times been with bruthas who have cum 24 times in one night.
10. Some prefer white women which gives us the edge.
11. They are straight up. No Games.
12. They know how to engage, entice & approach women.
13. Know what they want and when they want it.
14. Fuck for long hours on end.
15. Kiss better, bite the lips they don't shove their tongues down your throat.
16. Hotter looking lips.
17. Less critical.
18. Not opinionated they do less hate on others.
19. They are happier people.
20. Better sense of humor.
21. Easily satisfied less demanding.
22. Better skills.
23. Knows how to work their dicks.
24. More playful. Knows how to flirt.
25. No hangups.
26. They make you feel comfortable sexually they aren't pushy.
27. More spontaneous.
28. Less rigid in their personalities.
29. Better teeth.
30. Cuter smiles.
31. No back and forth stuff in their game.
32. More exciting to be with
33. Keep shit real.
34. Are confident.
35. Can ask them anything you wish without feeling uneasy.
36. Always they reply always they never ignore you.
37. They do not do DRAMA.
38. Always when they answer they say it like it is ....
39. More mature they do not do petty shit.
40. Not into cliques.
41. They judge for themselves.
42. Into thinking for themselves not into gossip.
43. They do not hide. If they do not like something they will let you know.
44. East to be open with them about anything they don't hate on you.
45. They stay hard after them cum.
46. They know many many many more sex positions.
47. More into pleasing women sexually and know how to do it right.
48. More charming
49. They use a better approach when trying to meet you.
50. They feel you out not pushy.
51. The more in tune with "signals" women give.
52. They don't get upset when rejected and turn on ou with rude comments.
53. They are assertive but not arrogant.
54. They deal with shit better they are low key.
55. They don't have expectations go with the flow.
56. They don't wast time and hit on girls where they know don't fit their criteria.
57. They have strong personalities but not overbearing.
58. Not afraid to answer the hard questions.
59. They fuck more often and regularly.
60. They do not talk for the sake of talking.
61. More creative in every aspect.
62. They know how to flirt and convo.
63. Works a females body better.
64. Can make any situation fun.
65. They are not into story telling.
66. They are about action.
67. They do not brag.
68. They make you feel special.
69. They are not afraid or intimidated by go getters.
70. They have better style.
71. They laugh more and don't take shit too seriously.
72. Knows how to handle a woman.
73. Loves how they talk their style.
74. Keep their clothes fresh great fashion.
75. Hotter abs
76. They do not take shit from anybody.
77. They will defend you they have a backbone.
78. Keep convo fresh & ongoing.
79. They don't expect women to do all the work sexually.
80. They get personal in a good way.
81. They are intimate.
82. They will do what works and will not do what does not work.
83. They let you know how its gonna be or how they want it.
84. No guessing games.
85. You will never be bored with them.
86. They do not get jealous.
87. They are not insecure.
88. They know boundaries.
89. They will take the lead.
90. If it is no longer working they will tell you.
91. Always treat women with respect no matter what the situation.
92. They have great dance moves.
93. Energetic.
94. Can handle female nymphs
95. Likes things to be equal
96. Willing to compromise.
97. Values your opinion.
98. Appreciates all that is given from compliments to gifts.
99. Never offensive or offended to a point.
100. They will treat you as you treat them!

Any bbc want this girl for keeps?
19 Comments
AdultFriendFinder Profiles * Emails & Chat Biggest Mistakes POV
Posted:May 9, 2016 8:18 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2020 10:01 am
13957 Views
Am directing this more towards the males. My POV for profiles, emails & chat do's & don'ts. Find it easier to list it than write it as a blog. Here it goes as you only get once chance to get it right the first time, You need to treat women with respect no matter how big of a slut or sub she may be, you still need to treat with women with respect, Am astonished how many males are clueless to understanding this concept. Remember your approach is the females first impression. Learn how to approach us and catch our attention. Above all respect our preferences we know what we want and so should you! We aren't here to figure it out for you. Learn how to engage, entice, flirt & approach women. Be a man of quality, substance & have a unique technique. Women only want to put their time, energy, & effort into someone worth it & not into those who say "watch me cum."

PROFILES:

1. If you do not have any pics you need to understand you are up against thousands of others competing for the smaller number of women on this site.
2. Females don't want their time wasted being directed to view your pics elsewhere.
3. Posting a pic of whatever part you post of the same pic several times is just ridiculous.
4. Not having a face pic or lack of body pics show you're playing games.
5. If your pics are fakes that's just pathetic.
6. Anything that is fake or a lie in your profile is pathetic shows you're playing games. We're adults expect you to act like one.
7. If you have 1 line or 2 in your profile shows that you will lack sexually if you aren't putting effort into your profile you're obviously not gonna put effort into being with that person (my POV).
8. Keep it real. Females know all the lines don't manipulate.
9. The entire point of the profile is to have the basic essential information completed with a face pic. The most awkward thing is to see a hot body then have to reject someone because their face.body pic is not attractive. Put it all out there so a decision can be made & this way nobody's time is wasted.
10. Many women in their account set up have clicked on the invisible option while viewing profiles. If there is some interest only way she can determine if she truly is interested is looking at your profile. You males then get obnoxious & send emails out to all who has viewed your profile. Just because someone viewed you doesn't mean there is an interest.
11. Females feel "if you can view me you better bet your ass I better be able to view you too" it needs to work both ways. Again there is that option in the account where you can filter members who do not have pics or completed profiles not to contact you.
12. FFS don't provide a college thesis in your profile. We're not planning the trip to Disneyworld.
13. Tell me what you are about & what your experience is what you want and what you want in a woman. Please save the stuff how great you are at licking pussy. We know you all hold the trophy to being the best at everything.
14. Women want to see you have a personality that you aren't dry wood. They like males with substance. We do not need your resume. FFS do not cut and paste some other male's profile. Cannot tell you how many times I have come across the same profile on 100 of others profiles here.

EMAILS:

1. Most of us have lives & do not want our time wasted. Those emails "hello" get deleted & blocked. Seriously why even bother.
2. We know you cut & paste your message & send it out to several women the same wording.
3. Manipulation we know the game it doesn't work just stop.
4. You cut & past or email some porn shit. It's just laughable women don't even read it.
5. If you aren't local & we're here for real meets why even bother with an email when you will get no reply?
6. Why send rude emails? Just immature & you get blocked people don't care about your opinion & view you as crazy.
7. Why some males expect a reply? Isn't the answer obvious if someone doesn't reply they aren't interested. Just move on... really move on...
8. Women get hundreds of emails a day. We filter through them by the face pic & location. If i'm not attracted to you I won't even read what you have to say. If you're not stating what you want in you're 1st email I can't be bothered. Most of us not into the email game. We like confident secure males who know what they want.
9. Do you expect us to be honest with you when you males lie to us, don't think so. We always find out the truth. Dont be frontin your shit.

CHAT:

1. Whether it be in the chat rooms or IM all males asking the same thing "watch me cum" ... no ty. Understand females get this asked 1 million times a day. We realize you go to every single girl in the room asking in every room. It does NOTHING for us except waste our time. We aren't here to service you. You're confused. Am not saying some females won't but when you're here a lot like myself & most others those words are just regurgitated every second & it's played out.
2. Everybody here for a different reason. Don't assume because you have a dick every girl is going to want you. Women need a connection. Males just need a pulse & a fuckhole.
3. Engage a female into chat. Flirt & pull her into your convo. If you do not know how to flirt observe others. Having a sense of humor is key.
4. Worse offenders are repeaters. Who repeat the same shit over & over & over it's obnoxious & annoying. It reduces your chances because those types go to the ignore list & get blocked nobody wants to deal with dat shit.
5. If you are mean nasty rude or attack others in chat most will IGNORE you & block you we aren't here for YOUR drama leave that shit at the door.
6. It's truly incredible males will hit on women with no pics just to get them off find it mind blowing but hey if that's your thang not my business but please don't hit on me it shows you have no substance. Same for those who tell a women she's hot cos her body pics are hot but she has no face pics her face could look like a monster but you tell her she's hot. As for me I do not use empty words I don't say something unless I mean it. I don't spew compliments am str8 up.
7. Just cos someone is in chat doest't mean they wanna engage in chat.
8. THIS IS THE BIG ONE.... Don't assume someone is here for the same reasons that you are here...seriously are you kidding you can't be more self centered. Don't assume someone is into the same sexual stuff you are into either.
9. Don't be pushy it's just gonna get you blocked & onto the ignore list. How can you not understand this by now?
10. Experienced want experienced in most cases not all but most.
11. The worse thang you can do is agree with a female on everything in her
profile & agree with everything in chat in other words if you're an ass kisser w/o any opinion of your own just to get someone to watch your cam or get you to cum that makes you utterly pathetic. It show's you can't think for yourself.
12. Begging ... for fuck sake just don't go there. If we don't wanna chat or view you move along, c'mon really .. just stop.
13. Don't be frontin ya stuff we know we know keep it real.
14. The way you act in the public chat rooms towards others are seen by other people. Your displaying who you are & what you are all about so if you attack others & are mean it's not attractive.
15. Males this may come as a shock but we know every line every manipulation tactic every move. Females want someone with the unique technique who know how to reach out to us in a special way. Not that difficult to figure out.. just be who you are with a bit of spice!
16. Whenever a female gets on cam males immediately try to tell her what to do, wtf? It's her cam she can think for herself. Why oh Why get on her cam just to tell her to view your cam or help get you off? Really? These are some of the reason's women do not want to get on cam. Males harass them to death where they just shut their cams down. Think about it. Instead of asking a female "what are you looking for" why not offer something up & say "is that something you would be interested in to?" Saying " i wanna fuck your ass" could be a total turn off to some women who aren't into it... again the assumption is gonna kill your spot.
17. Never understood why people come into chat for the sole purpose to abuse others obviously they never became adults. They need to understand NOBODY has to tolerate their abuse & most likely not only their victim but others block them. (that's another POV in itself) This is all I'm going to say on the subject.

Summary:

This is my POV. Your comments are most welcome! Be adults & don't be rude it's seriously not necessary & it's immature. Ripping apart others gets you nowhere fast. Don't forget whatever you post to my blogs others will see what you're about too you may want to keep that in mind.
9 Comments
AdultFriendFinder Profiles * Emails & Chat Biggest Mistakes POV
Posted:May 9, 2016 8:17 am
Last Updated:Jan 3, 2018 8:04 am
12960 Views
Am directing this more towards the males. My POV for profiles & chat. Find it easier to list it than write it as a blog. Here it goes.

PROFILES:

1. If you do not have any pics you need to understand you are up against thousands of others competing for the smaller number of women on this site.
2. Females don't want their time wasted being directed to view your pics elsewhere.
3. Posting a pic of whatever part you post of the same pic several times is just ridiculous.
4. Not having a face pic or lack of body pics show you're playing games.
5. If your pics are fakes that's just pathetic.
6. Anything that is fake or a lie in your profile is pathetic shows you're playing games. We're adults expect you to act like one.
7. If you have 1 line or 2 in your profile shows that you will lack sexually if you aren't putting effort into your profile you're obviously not gonna put effort into being with that person (my POV).
8. Keep it real. Females know all the lines don't manipulate.
9. The entire point of the profile is to have the basic essential information completed with a face pic. The most awkward thing is to see a hot body then have to reject someone because their face.body pic is not attractive. Put it all out there so a decision can be made & this way nobody's time is wasted.
10. Many women in their account set up have clicked on the invisible option while viewing profiles. If there is some interest only way she can determine if she truly is interested is looking at your profile. You males then get obnoxious & send emails out to all who has viewed your profile. Just because someone viewed you doesn't mean there is an interest.
11. Females feel "if you can view me you better bet your ass I better be able to view you too" it needs to work both ways. Again there is that option in the account where you can filter members who do not have pics or completed profiles not to contact you.

EMAILS:

1. Most of us have lives & do not want our time wasted. Those emails "hello" get deleted & blocked. Seriously why even bother.
2. We know you cut & paste your message & send it out to several women the same wording.
3. Manipulation we know the game it doesn't work just stop.
4. You cut & past or email some porn shit. It's just laughable women don't even read it.
5. If you aren't local & we're here for real meets why even bother with an email when you will get no reply?
6. Why send rude emails? Just immature & you get blocked people don't care about your opinion & view you as crazy.
7. Why some males expect a reply? Isn't the answer obvious if someone doesn't reply they aren't interested. Just move on... really move on...
8. Women get hundreds of emails a day. We filter through them by the face pic & location. If i'm not attracted to you I won't even read what you have to say. If you're not stating what you want in you're 1st email I can't be bothered. Most of us not into the email game. We like confident secure males who know what they want.
9. Do you expect us to be honest with you when you males lie to us, don't think so. We always find out the truth. Don't be frontin your shit.

CHAT:

1. Whether it be in the chat rooms or IM all males asking the same thing "watch me cum" ... no ty. Understand females get this asked 1 million times a day. We realize you go to every single girl in the room asking in every room. It does NOTHING for us except waste our time. We aren't here to service you. You're confused. Am not saying some females won't but when you're here a lot like myself & most others those words are just regurgitated every second & it's played out.
2. Everybody here for a different reason. Don't assume because you have a dick every girl is going to want you. Women need a connection. Males just need a pulse & a fuckhole.
3. Engage a female into chat. Flirt & pull her into your convo. If you do not know how to flirt observe others. Having a sense of humor is key.
4. Worse offenders are repeaters. Who repeat the same shit over & over & over it's obnoxious & annoying. It reduces your chances because those types go to the ignore list & get blocked nobody wants to deal with dat shit.
5. If you are mean nasty rude or attack others in chat most will IGNORE you & block you we aren't here for YOUR drama leave that shit at the door.
6. It's truly incredible males will hit on women with no pics just to get them off find it mind blowing but hey if that's your thang not my business but please don't hit on me it shows you have no substance. Same for those who tell a women she's hot cos her body pics are hot but she has no face pics her face could look like a monster but you tell her she's hot. As for me I do not use empty words I don't say something unless I mean it. I don't spew compliments am str8 up.
7. Just cos someone is in chat doest't mean they wanna engage in chat.
8. THIS IS THE BIG ONE.... Don't assume someone is here for the same reasons that you are here...seriously are you kidding you can't be more self centered. Don't assume someone is into the same sexual stuff you are into either.
9. Don't be pushy it's just gonna get you blocked & onto the ignore list. How can you not understand this by now?
10. Experienced want experienced in most cases not all but most.
11. The worse thang you can do is agree with a female on everything in her
profile & agree with everything in chat in other words if you're an ass kisser w/o any opinion of your own just to get someone to watch your cam or get you to cum that makes you utterly pathetic. It show's you can't think for yourself.
12. Begging ... for fuck sake just don't go there. If we don't wanna chat or view you move along, c'mon really .. just stop.
13. Don't be frontin ya stuff we know we know keep it real.
14. The way you act in the public chat rooms towards others are seen by other people. Your displaying who you are & what you are all about so if you attack others & are mean it's not attractive.
15. Males this may come as a shock but we know every line every manipulation tactic every move. Females want someone with the unique technique who know how to reach out to us in a special way. It's not that difficult to figure out.. just be who you are with a bit of spice!
16. Never understood why people come into chat for the sole purpose to abuse others obviously they never became adults. They need to understand NOBODY has to tolerate their abuse & most likely not only their victim but others block them. (that's another POV in itself) This is all I'm going to say on the subject.

Summary:

This is my POV. Your comments are most welcome! Be adults & don't be rude it's seriously not necessary & it's immature. Ripping apart others gets you nowhere fast. Don't forget whatever you post to my blogs others will see what you're about too you may want to keep that in mind.
3 Comments
AdultFriendFinder Profiles * Emails & Chat Biggest Mistakes POV
Posted:May 9, 2016 8:15 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2020 10:00 am
12669 Views
Am directing this more towards the males. My POV for profiles & chat. Find it easier to list it than write it as a blog. Here it goes.

PROFILES:

1. If you do not have any pics you need to understand you are up against thousands of others competing for the smaller number of women on this site.
2. Females don't want their time wasted being directed to view your pics elsewhere.
3. Posting a pic of whatever part you post of the same pic several times is just ridiculous.
4. Not having a face pic or lack of body pics show you're playing games.
5. If your pics are fakes that's just pathetic.
6. Anything that is fake or a lie in your profile is pathetic shows you're playing games. We're adults expect you to act like one.
7. If you have 1 line or 2 in your profile shows that you will lack sexually if you aren't putting effort into your profile you're obviously not gonna put effort into being with that person (my POV).
8. Keep it real. Females know all the lines don't manipulate.
9. The entire point of the profile is to have the basic essential information completed with a face pic. The most awkward thing is to see a hot body then have to reject someone because their face.body pic is not attractive. Put it all out there so a decision can be made & this way nobody's time is wasted.
10. Many women in their account set up have clicked on the invisible option while viewing profiles. If there is some interest only way she can determine if she truly is interested is looking at your profile. You males then get obnoxious & send emails out to all who has viewed your profile. Just because someone viewed you doesn't mean there is an interest.
11. Females feel "if you can view me you better bet your ass I better be able to view you too" it needs to work both ways. Again there is that option in the account where you can filter members who do not have pics or completed profiles not to contact you.

EMAILS:

1. Most of us have lives & do not want our time wasted. Those emails "hello" get deleted & blocked. Seriously why even bother.
2. We know you cut & paste your message & send it out to several women the same wording.
3. Manipulation we know the game it doesn't work just stop.
4. You cut & past or email some porn shit. It's just laughable women don't even read it.
5. If you aren't local & we're here for real meets why even bother with an email when you will get no reply?
6. Why send rude emails? Just immature & you get blocked people don't care about your opinion & view you as crazy.
7. Why some males expect a reply? Isn't the answer obvious if someone doesn't reply they aren't interested. Just move on... really move on...
8. Women get hundreds of emails a day. We filter through them by the face pic & location. If i'm not attracted to you I won't even read what you have to say. If you're not stating what you want in you're 1st email I can't be bothered. Most of us not into the email game. We like confident secure males who know what they want.
9. Do you expect us to be honest with you when you males lie to us, don't think so. We always find out the truth. Don't be frontin your shit.

CHAT:

1. Whether it be in the chat rooms or IM all males asking the same thing "watch me cum" ... no ty. Understand females get this asked 1 million times a day. We realize you go to every single girl in the room asking in every room. It does NOTHING for us except waste our time. We aren't here to service you. You're confused. Am not saying some females won't but when you're here a lot like myself & most others those words are just regurgitated every second & it's played out.
2. Everybody here for a different reason. Don't assume because you have a dick every girl is going to want you. Women need a connection. Males just need a pulse & a fuckhole.
3. Engage a female into chat. Flirt & pull her into your convo. If you do not know how to flirt observe others. Having a sense of humor is key.
4. Worse offenders are repeaters. Who repeat the same shit over & over & over it's obnoxious & annoying. It reduces your chances because those types go to the ignore list & get blocked nobody wants to deal with dat shit.
5. If you are mean nasty rude or attack others in chat most will IGNORE you & block you we aren't here for YOUR drama leave that shit at the door.
6. It's truly incredible males will hit on women with no pics just to get them off find it mind blowing but hey if that's your thang not my business but please don't hit on me it shows you have no substance. Same for those who tell a women she's hot cos her body pics are hot but she has no face pics her face could look like a monster but you tell her she's hot. As for me I do not use empty words I don't say something unless I mean it. I don't spew compliments am str8 up.
7. Just cos someone is in chat doest't mean they wanna engage in chat.
8. THIS IS THE BIG ONE.... Don't assume someone is here for the same reasons that you are here...seriously are you kidding you can't be more self centered. Don't assume someone is into the same sexual stuff you are into either.
9. Don't be pushy it's just gonna get you blocked & onto the ignore list. How can you not understand this by now?
10. Experienced want experienced in most cases not all but most.
11. The worse thang you can do is agree with a female on everything in her
profile & agree with everything in chat in other words if you're an ass kisser w/o any opinion of your own just to get someone to watch your cam or get you to cum that makes you utterly pathetic. It show's you can't think for yourself.
12. Begging ... for fuck sake just don't go there. If we don't wanna chat or view you move along, c'mon really .. just stop.
13. Don't be frontin ya stuff we know we know keep it real.
14. The way you act in the public chat rooms towards others are seen by other people. Your displaying who you are & what you are all about so if you attack others & are mean it's not attractive.
15. Males this may come as a shock but we know every line every manipulation tactic every move. Females want someone with the unique technique who know how to reach out to us in a special way. It's not that difficult to figure out.. just be who you are with a bit of spice!
16. Never understood why people come into chat for the sole purpose to abuse others obviously they never became adults. They need to understand NOBODY has to tolerate their abuse & most likely not only their victim but others block them. (that's another POV in itself) This is all I'm going to say on the subject.

Summary:

This is my POV. Your comments are most welcome! Be adults & don't be rude it's seriously not necessary & it's immature. Ripping apart others gets you nowhere fast. Don't forget whatever you post to my blogs others will see what you're about too you may want to keep that in mind.
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