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lickmelightly 40F  
435 posts
2/23/2012 4:43 pm
Sleeping with married/attached people


Alright, so I know this blog will probably cause some debate. However I am not afraid to say how I feel on this. Yes I know every situation is very different but if we stop to take a look before jumping. I myself can speak from being married at one point and my other half cheating on me. And now myself have been seeing a married person for over 5yrs. I will say if I knew now knowing back then I would have thought a lot harder.
Yes we really did talk a lot about the what if. Though no one can predict. As in a conversation recently not even money can stand in someones way.
Why, really do people want to go and fuck someone and not be with them. Yes, I do again know what site I am on. But has a lot of society become so lost in communication and honesty with their partners.
Or perhaps it is my complex thinking. And I do know being with someone is more then sex. So why if someone you are with isn't pleasing you talk about it. Am I really missing something??????


Always be yourself


Sindish 48M/52F

2/23/2012 5:25 pm

I think there are two different issues at work here.

First, people tend to stray when there's been massive communication breakdowns in the relationship. It gets to a point where the two people can't ask for what they truly want, or one person isn't willing to listen.

The second issue is that variety is nice. Every person offers something a little different inside and out of the bedroom. Now trying to put an open relationship into practice is not something easily achieved (at least in my opinion).


cca101 67M/63F
4 posts
2/23/2012 5:30 pm

A person can be unavailable whether or not they are married. Single and unavailable though acting as if you are. Or married and available


lickmelightly 40F  
411 posts
2/23/2012 7:48 pm

Again I do know all situations are different. And factors play into different things. I just was very curious about what others thought.

Always be yourself


fast6996 51M/52F  
100 posts
2/24/2012 7:25 am

very interesting,lol. agree with all the comments accept the money thing. seems like an excuse.??? we enjoy playing, sometimes time is hard to find. we prefer to play together only, we have played with married women,who since were divorced. not because of us,lol, things were not well when we met them. open marriages? thats a personal preferance. don't work for us, we like to see each other enjoy. not to judge, but there are always opinions.. lickmelightly said it all with always be yourself!!!!


lickmelightly 40F  
411 posts
2/28/2012 6:31 am

For instance, in an email conversation with someone not even on this site. I am talking about the same thing. These two people are staying together because of kids. If anything, that is the worse thing to do. We teach our children what to do when things go wrong. I wasn't going to stay with my child's dad cause I wanted that family life. I got out cause I wanted better for him. I guess sometimes the other side of the party has to more or less step outside of their shoes and take a look.

Always be yourself


lickmelightly 40F  
411 posts
4/3/2012 5:47 pm

It's called not wanting to repeat the same cycle over and over again. Which is what happens when two people stay in a marriage when they don't want to. Kids learn from that.

Always be yourself


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