Too good to be true
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Posted:Jul 28, 2021 10:25 am
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2021 7:20 pm
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He tells you what you want to hear. He's totally good looking and he is interested in me. Things are going well so it seems. But every time you talk about getting together something seems to go wrong. And it doesn't happen. It's made out to be your fault so you feel terrible. And you try to make amends and work things out so you can meet up but it still doesn't happen. And finally you wake up and realize that it never was going to happen. He's all tal He doesn't meet people. He just talks a good game and gets you all strung out on him. Well, his loss. He could have gotten the experience of a lifetime!!!
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Another Random Thought by Lonely
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Posted:Jul 2, 2017 5:17 am
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2017 9:42 am
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We all know the obvious problem with lakes and fakes and being jerked around by people on this site. But I have noticed that because of the actions of those people, especially this most recent situation (see previous entries regarding that fiasco), that I am finding myself having a hard time believing someone when they say they want to meet me. And the more attractive the person is the less I believe them. So what do I do? Do I keep my guard up and protect myself or do I take the chance and risk getting y hopes dashed again? I am going through this with one guy in particular. He says all the right things but I can't tell if he really wants to meet me or not because he hasn't made an an attempt to do so yet. And I know people have lives and they can't just drop everything and do whatever they want when they want (unlike me LOL ). Maybe I just need to learn to be patient and try to have some faith? I don't know... What do you think?
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Creating the Ultimate Sex Playlist
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Posted:Jun 27, 2017 3:13 am
Last Updated:May 15, 2019 7:13 pm
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As the title states I am currently working on creating my Ultimate Sex Playlist. This being a compilation of songs to be played before, during or after the act. Of course there are the obvious choices like my personal favorite, "Closer" by Nine Inch Nails, but I am curious what the good people of AdultFriendFinder think...
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A short lesson in Grammar
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Posted:Jun 25, 2017 2:07 am
Last Updated:Aug 8, 2021 9:58 am
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A blog I wrote on MySpace February 12, 2009 which I have carried over to Facebook March 9, 2012. And now am bringing to AdultFriendFinder.
I’ve spent quite a bit of time on MySpace. I have viewed profiles, read blogs, corresponded with people and so forth. I must say that I am astounded by how many people butcher their written thoughts with improper grammar, poor spelling and a complete lack of punctuation.
I realize that I can be an insufferable know-it-all and I know that I am quite the perfectionist (I am a Virgo, after all) but it isn’t rocket science. I grew up in Joplin, Missouri, went to public school and took the same Comm Arts classes as everyone else.
Is it really so difficult to take a few extra moments to properly construct a complete sentence? My eleven year old can do it so why can’t the average adult? I’ve even taken the time to provide some examples of the correct usage of what seem to be the most misused words in our language.
Your – I looked at your profile.
You’re – I see you’re online.
See the difference? The word “your” is used to show possession. The word “you’re” is used as a contraction for the words you and are.
There – I see there are other people online as well.
Their – You can look at their profiles.
They’re – Maybe they’re online now.
Again there is a difference. The word “there” shows place. The word “their” shows possession. The word “there” is a contraction of the words they and are.
To – You should go to the profile.
Two – Maybe they have two profiles.
Too – you can too.
The differences? The word “to” is a preposition which indicates a relationship between the subjects in a sentence. The word “two” is a number which works as an adjective to show quantity. The word “too” means also or as well.
Were – Were you online today?
We’re – We’re online right now.
Where – Where did you look?
These differences? The word “were” is a past progressive form of the verb to be. The word “we’re” is a contraction of the words we and are. The word “where” is an adverb questioning in what place.
And speaking of adverbs they seem to be the most misused of all. Words such as bad or quick being used instead of badly or quickly.
CORRECT: I miss him badly.
NOT: I miss him bad.
CORRECT: I ran as quickly as a rabbit.
NOT: I ran as quick as a rabbit.
But I think the worst one of all is when someone uses the word good in place of well.
CORRECT: I don’t feel well.
NOT: I don’t feel good.
See? I really it isn’t that difficult!!!
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Blocked???
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Posted:Jun 9, 2017 2:32 pm
Last Updated:Aug 8, 2021 2:38 am
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For over three months I have been watching a friend on cam. Even texting him as I watch him. We have talked about meeting and were finally supposed to on Thursday. Then Wednesday I notice he is broadcasting so I pop in to watch him. I send him a text as usual. He replies asking why my name never shows up in his room. I have no clue, it's AdultFriendFinder after all. So I give a cheeky reply that I don't know but if I am on I am watching. He then replies that I don't show up on his IM list either. Then stops broadcasting, views my profile and after a few minutes starts broadcasting again. I try to load up his cam room multiple times but am told he is not available. I then try to go to his profile and it shows that it is unavailable. Did he block me? That is the only thing I can figure, but why??? Because of some AdultFriendFinder program glitch? I try texting him asking him if he blocked me but I get no reply. I am assuming that if he blocked me here then he has also blocked my number on his phone... But what the hell did I do??? It makes no sense. I know there are a lot of fakers and flakers on this site but he doesn't seem to fall into one of those categories. So what happened?? I thought we were friends regardless of whether we were ever going to be lovers or not. It just seems like something happened to spook him but what I don't know. I just wish he would talk to me and tell me. He once told me not to second guess him but he isn't giving me the same consideration is he? I don't know and I can't talk to him and I don't know what to do. And maybe this isn't the best place to put this but I had to get it off my chest somehow. I hate losing friends, I hate for people to think badly of me. I need to set this right somehow...
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The Hard to Achieve Orgasm
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Posted:May 17, 2017 10:56 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2019 7:47 pm
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I still remember the disappointment I felt after my first time that there were no "fireworks". But like I told myself it was the first time and everybody knows they say that the first time isn't the greatest. So then came the second and third and forth and still no orgasm. Of course, I wasn't exactly sure what to expect. I had never been able to give myself an orgasm through masturbation. I was beginning to think something was wrong with me. But this was 1991 and I was only 17 so I really had nowhere to turn. So, I suffered in silence. Don't get me wrong, I enjoyed sex but I always felt like there was something missing. Eventually, I started reading and watching porn. And I learned about clitoral stimulation... And finally one day it all came together (no pun intended). But it still did not happen every time. Over the years I have been able to have "hands free" orgasms sometimes when I am on top. I was even lucky enough to have a multiple rolling orgasm once. My last "relationship" I was in lasted 8 months and I faked it the entire time. He doesn't know that. Don't get me wrong, the sex was amazing but I felt pressured by him to cum so I gave him what he wanted. He didn't know any better and he thought he was a stud. But I don't want to go through that again. I want to be able to talk about my issues with my next partner. I want them to understand and be patient and not feel like it's some kind of challenge for them to "make me cum". And if it happens great but if not that okay we had a good still had a good time and we can always try again. And if anyone out there has any tips or tricks please feel free to share because I am willing to try just about anything LOL
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Texting a Potential Lover
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Posted:May 4, 2017 12:25 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2019 7:50 pm
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I have always been a chatter. In grade school I always got the check mark for talking too much in class. It's just something I do especially if I am nervous or I like you. So when someone, particularly someone I like, gives me their number and says "text me anytime you want" it can be a recipe for disaster... I do not know this person yet so I do not know how much texting is actually appropriate. I am pretty certain they do not want me texting them all day, every day. But what is the right balance? I don't want to smother them and scare them off but at the same time I don't want to ignore them so that they think I am not interested. Is there a way to find that perfect amount without disastrous effects? Because I have already had a few LOL
Any suggestions???
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