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Bi and CD Men. A curious rant of sorts I guess LOL  

luckypuss86 33F  
140 posts
12/26/2016 12:26 am
Bi and CD Men. A curious rant of sorts I guess LOL


This is a question or rant or something of that sort for the Bi and CD Men of the sight the say they are interested in meeting woman. Maybe it is my location IDK. I have chatted with a few men who are bisexual and Cross dressers who say they want to meet women. They tend to all say that it is hard to find a woman who isn't turned off or run when they find out they are bisexual. Then they are surprised when I say I'm not. It's like I'm here, let's chat and make this happen. Most want to, of course, have a threesome. But I, being an introvert, want to meet one on one. This is probably where I lose a few. I'm not saying that it won't happen, it just won't happen right away or often. Fucking one guy and having as many orgasms as I have is tiring enough, especially if it is an all day session which I love. But back to the point. I feel like if I were a guy asking to meet it would be no problem and no threesome needed. Then there are the ones who don't ask for a threesome, who I connect with and chat with for about a week. Chat about future meetings and everything. Then they go ghost on me. Don't speak to me, answer emails, IMs, etc. Then next thing they are looking for a guy to suck or fuck them. And Im like hey you could have told me you weren't interested anymore. It takes time and energy to get past my anxiety to even work up the courage to meet. So if I decide that I want that and you don't I need to know. That goes for the straight guys too.

Crossdressers same thing goes for you too. Hey I'm here for it. Wear the wig and heels and let's make this happen. But you either go ghost on me or scared to meet with a woman. I understand you're nervous, so am I. But I am willing to work through it and I am quite serious about it. Now, when I chat with a CD I ask if they have ever met with women dressed. If they say no then it probably won't happen with me either. More on their part than mine.

Now this is just based on my experiences so far with Bi men and Crossdressers. And a topic because a good percent of those who view my profile are bisexual.
Let me say this though. At the end of the day your bisexuality, need to wear women's clothing, status (single preferred), occupation, level of education, looks,height, past sexual conquests(std free preferred LO etc. are not what I am interested in having sex with. It's you. Your personality and sensuality are what I am interested in more than anything. Hopefully that makes some sense. I guess this is a rant and not a question. I would love to hear from you out there in the AdultFriendFinder world.

luckypuss86 33F  
230 posts
12/26/2016 12:29 am

SN: I have had a couple meets so far and haven't had any oral. Im starting to think that is something else that doesn't happen much either. But I am limited in my meeting experience so no rant on that LOL.


luckypuss86 33F  
230 posts
12/26/2016 12:49 am

AN: I need to stop posting shit at 3 o clock in the morning.


funiithesun58 62M
1193 posts
12/26/2016 6:02 am

Some people try to walk the walk and can't talk the talk . Hope you can find one for you .


luckypuss86 replies on 12/26/2016 6:57 am:
Not giving up yet LOL. Thanks for responding to my blog

Janet4fun2016 59T  
898 posts
12/26/2016 6:12 am

Maybe you haven't got to talk to the right ones yet? Just don't lump all CD's & Bi in one box yet.


luckypuss86 replies on 12/26/2016 7:00 am:
OH Im not putting all in one box. Just the ones who are looking for women. LOL JK. I am just speaking from my experiences with the Bi men and CD's I've chatted with not all. So far not so good but still optimistic. Thank you for reading my blog.

bioralpleasure 63M  
48 posts
12/26/2016 8:40 am

    Quoting  :

I have to disagree, I don't think the LGBT community is taking over. I think people are just more comfortable expressing their true sexuality. I have run into so many men over the years here on AdultFriendFinder who state they are "straight" on their profile, but are actually bi or curious. Bi women have always been accepted and celebrated here. But the stigma against gay and bi men have kept a lot of people in the AdultFriendFinder closet.


luckypuss86 replies on 12/26/2016 11:35 am:
I don't mean they are taking over, I think he meant there are way more LGBT community on here than there are straight. But I kinda disagree about bi women being accepted and celebrated. I think they are more fetish-sized than anything nowadays especially with the porn industry. I wish more straight men would be honest on this website at least. For me it would make my line of questioning different when I chat with them. I chat with guys who are "straight" and tell them I don't mind Bisexual men. Next thing I know they are wanting that elusive threesome. Just not something I am looking for right away but seems to be a required for some to meet with a woman IMO. Thank you so much for reading and responding to my post.

ericasatin 66T
328 posts
12/26/2016 8:59 am

These are all good questions you raise. I think most cross dressers are bi is because women don't understand them and usually don't want anything to do with them. They're few that do. This is why they go to men or other CD's for what they need. I know myself, the first time I put on women's clothes, I was 6 or 7. I knew what I always wanted to be and that was a girl even before that.
I told my wife years after we were married and she did not approve of it. She told me she wished she would have known before we got married that I was like that. She said she was not a lesbian and that I was not the man she had married.
I would love to spend time with a woman and be able to dress everyday with her. But for now being alone or with other CD's will have to do. I think most of us would much prefer to be with a real woman. As far as threesomes goes. That is not a high priority for me. One on one with a woman would just be so wonderful and a dream come true.


luckypuss86 replies on 12/26/2016 11:40 am:
I am sorry to hear about how your wife had reacted. But I do kind of agree it is something you should have disclosed before you got married. I feel there are more women than most CD's think that will accept them dressing. Like you said most go to men and other CDs and we women who accept and would not mind being with one are shut down from the gate. Like I said in the post they are surprised and almost non believing that I can be attracted to a man that dresses or wears panties. I hope you do get to experience being with a woman as you are. Thank you for reading and responding to my post.

hiagainitsus 58M/55F  
18 posts
1/1/2017 10:57 pm

Hello Lucky, Im the male 1/2 of the couple, and I know exactly what you are saying. I am very blessed..... I married a woman, My best friend, A lady who believes that who you are, comes from within, and NOT how you dress.
Back in 2005, when I was married to my 2nd wife, I decided to transition to living full time female, taking hormones and living & working as a female. She left me when I wanted to explore my sexuality by dating men. She had no problem with me dressing and being a female. Her problem was, "I wasn't committed to her and our relationship." She left me in June 2010, and I stopped living fulltime female in August after a hate crime almost put me in the hospital. A month after that I found the wonderful woman who later became my 3rd wife. She is a beautiful, very open minded person, who doesn't judge anyone by their appearance or clothing. What matters to her, is the personality, and being true to themselves. I still do occasionally dress completely, but only a few times a year. I am pretty passable.
We have invited Cds/TGurls to our home many times to help with make up and dressing, and we always get stood up. I even tried not once, but twice to have an all TG/CD gangbang with my wife as the center. We had several say they would be here but.... NO One showed up either time! She has posted on FetLife, to help with dressing, makeup, & trying to pass in public, and again, No one shows up after we change schedules and make special arrangements to meet them. We have seen this many times, chatted with several people, and like you, they just..... disappear.
If they wont take that first step, they will never learn to walk....

Here is something to think about.... What if a wife --- shaved her head, grew facial and chest hair, got masculine tattoos, dressed completely as a guy does, talked and acted all macho and bossy..... How attractive would that be to her husband? How do you think a wife feels about her husband trying to be a female??? Same way...
If my wife or I say we will be somewhere or meet, We will do everything in our power to do as we say.
Lucky, If you would like to chat or meet me, her, or both, we would love to. We live close to you. We will look forward to your reply. [image]


luckypuss86 replies on 1/1/2017 11:53 pm:
Thank you for responding to my post. Im sorry you had to experience that level of hate. I am glad you made it out okay. I might have felt the same way as your 2nd wife as far as dating because in a committed relationship I prefer monogamy. If there is going to be any playing it will be mutual and always together. I am glad you found someone so understanding and sounds like third times the charm. I will send a friend request and we can definitely see where it goes. Again thank you for taking the time to read and respond to my post.

strapon_or_ts 51M  
54 posts
1/31/2017 1:29 pm

You are awesome! I love your attitude on this.


luckypuss86 replies on 1/31/2017 5:32 pm:
Thank you. I haven't heard that compliment. I always read my post over again and still agree with what I wrote. Thank you for taking the time to read and respond to my post.

Lovtwolok 60M  
27 posts
3/2/2017 3:24 am

Belive it or not this site gives men the chance to fulfill their deep kinky secrets . They got married out of collage, house, kids, bring job. the wife stopped have sex so they went to the internet . And in their world they are Bisexual men, or crossdresser. I have been for 23 years and when it comes down to it ,it's a fantasy.


luckypuss86 replies on 3/2/2017 5:24 pm:
So that fantasy doesn't include women? I am not looking for or interested in the married guys. I am mainly speaking to the single ones who say they are interested in being with a woman. Thank you for reading and responding to my post.

cdkathy1 60T
1 post
1/6/2019 8:58 am

Wow!!!! Just found your blog and find it very refreshing and gives me new hope. I am a straight male that never thought about dressing. I was in my mid 30's dating a female that changed all that, but that is another story. But as a straight, single, x-dressing male, It is very hard to find a real woman that enjoys a guy dressing up. I have been on this site for a while and have only found two women that were really interested in me dressing up for them....which i happily did. But back to your question or rant, this is not something I want on my resume, this is something I like doing with a woman and not as a threesome or with other people in the room. Like you, not to say that would never happen, but it would more likely be with two women and myself. I would love to find a open minded female to chat or meet with, but there just seem to be more women on here that say they like it than actually do. But if women were more open to the idea, they would find out how much more it spices up a relationship and the possibilities of finding more things to do. If there are guys in your area, and they are not wanting to meet you, they are just crazy!!!!!
Great post, and will be checking in to read what you are blogging about.


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