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mareus100 41M  
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12/16/2019 6:46 pm

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Can a man and women be frieinds?


Can man in woman be friends? This wasn't my post this was somebody else's but my answer to this yes they can. I met a woman on here we started off as cyber lovers you know the cam thing then we got to know each other decided to try a long distance relationship needless to say that didn't work feelings were hurt nasty things were said threats were made even after all this I still founded that I wanted her in my life so I battled to save our friendship. Although in the beginning after a fall with a far from Friends but I persevered and pursuit that friendship after all in my eyes and in my heart I felt it was worth saving. thankful that she scene passed all my hurtful things that I said knowing I said them because I was heartbroken and didn't mean any of the hurtful things I said. We are very still very much friends so man and woman can be friends if that friendship strong and valued by both there is no reason why they can't be friends. Marius

BiggLala 48F  
28930 posts
12/28/2019 8:27 am

    Quoting dogslife2live01:
    "The definition of "pursue":
    to find or employ measures to obtain or accomplish : seek pursue a goal."

    Simply put, I think men do not pursue (initiate or seek if those words serve your purposes better) friendships with women, who are not already known to them, in whom they are not sexually attracted.

    "...having a discussion with you is just like telling trump he is wrong"
    -And that is your opinion. We all have them, and can express them as we please. Correct? You know the thing about opinions, right? They are neither right or wrong, as they are not facts. Obviously, we disagree in our OPINIONS on this matter. This is completely fine with me. I'm not trying to change your perspective on this topic. However, you seem incapable of understanding that you will not change mine. What prohibits you from accepting that *fact*?"

    it is clear we share the same opinion... to hold on to our truths rather to what is written... bonne chance
Ok boomer.
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dogslife2live01 68M
2113 posts
12/28/2019 3:42 am

"The definition of "pursue":
to find or employ measures to obtain or accomplish : seek pursue a goal."

Simply put, I think men do not pursue (initiate or seek if those words serve your purposes better) friendships with women, who are not already known to them, in whom they are not sexually attracted.

"...having a discussion with you is just like telling trump he is wrong"
-And that is your opinion. We all have them, and can express them as we please. Correct? You know the thing about opinions, right? They are neither right or wrong, as they are not facts. Obviously, we disagree in our OPINIONS on this matter. This is completely fine with me. I'm not trying to change your perspective on this topic. However, you seem incapable of understanding that you will not change mine. What prohibits you from accepting that *fact*?"

it is clear we share the same opinion... to hold on to our truths rather to what is written... bonne chance

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


BiggLala 48F  
28930 posts
12/26/2019 9:58 am

    Quoting dogslife2live01:
    ". This is clearly the case because nowhere did I say that, "...a man has to have anysexual desires for a woman to have a friendship with her." Again, I'm specific in my choice of words, so that's what you filtered."

    may i quote your opening statement from your first response
    " I don't think men and women can be *just* friends. I firmly believe that men do not persue friendships with women they aren't sexually attracted to."

    but then again i am sure i misunderstood you once more...
    having a discussion with you is just like telling trump he is wrong
The definition of "pursue":
to find or employ measures to obtain or accomplish : seek pursue a goal."

Simply put, I think men do not pursue (initiate or seek if those words serve your purposes better) friendships with women, who are not already known to them, in whom they are not sexually attracted.

"...having a discussion with you is just like telling trump he is wrong"
-And that is your opinion. We all have them, and can express them as we please. Correct? You know the thing about opinions, right? They are neither right or wrong, as they are not facts. Obviously, we disagree in our OPINIONS on this matter. This is completely fine with me. I'm not trying to change your perspective on this topic. However, you seem incapable of understanding that you will not change mine. What prohibits you from accepting that *fact*?

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dogslife2live01 68M
2113 posts
12/21/2019 7:33 am

". This is clearly the case because nowhere did I say that, "...a man has to have anysexual desires for a woman to have a friendship with her." Again, I'm specific in my choice of words, so that's what you filtered."

may i quote your opening statement from your first response
" I don't think men and women can be *just* friends. I firmly believe that men do not persue friendships with women they aren't sexually attracted to."

but then again i am sure i misunderstood you once more...
having a discussion with you is just like telling trump he is wrong

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


BiggLala 48F  
28930 posts
12/20/2019 2:26 pm

    Quoting dogslife2live01:
    that you are and the only thing i left out was just a repetitive statement
    but i even disagree that a man has to have anysexual desires for a woman to have a friendship with her.
    even assuming that the friendship was started with sexual intent and then matured to a genuine friendship
    then again you would be contacting your opening statement "I don't think men and women can be *just* friends"
    and contradicting yourself when you state that "This does not mean the friendship cannot be genuine or fulfilling."
    unless the closing statement was meant to infer a FWB relationship
    but you do understand our discussion has outgrown possible enlightenment.
you do understand our discussion has outgrown possible enlightenment
-I understand that it seems your intent was to enlighten *me* on your opinion, rather than attempt to understand mine. This is clearly the case because nowhere did I say that, "...a man has to have anysexual desires for a woman to have a friendship with her." Again, I'm specific in my choice of words, so that's what you filtered.

I find it best that, if you're going to engage someone in discussion, as you did me, seek first to understand before seeking to be understood.

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dogslife2live01 68M
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12/18/2019 5:01 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    I am specific in my choice of words, so it seems you didn't actually read what I wrote.
    Regardless, you fail to explain how what I said is actually a contradiction. Rather you only demonstrate how you filtered my words.
that you are and the only thing i left out was just a repetitive statement
but i even disagree that a man has to have anysexual desires for a woman to have a friendship with her.
even assuming that the friendship was started with sexual intent and then matured to a genuine friendship
then again you would be contacting your opening statement "I don't think men and women can be *just* friends"
and contradicting yourself when you state that "This does not mean the friendship cannot be genuine or fulfilling."
unless the closing statement was meant to infer a FWB relationship
but you do understand our discussion has outgrown possible enlightenment.

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


BiggLala 48F  
28930 posts
12/17/2019 9:30 pm

    Quoting dogslife2live01:
    I don't think men and women can be *just* friends.
    I firmly believe that men do not persue friendships with women they aren't sexually attracted to
    This does not mean the friendship cannot be genuine or fulfilling.

    reads like men are friends only with women they want sex with...but if they don't get sex then they can have a genuine friendship...
I am specific in my choice of words, so it seems you didn't actually read what I wrote.
Regardless, you fail to explain how what I said is actually a contradiction. Rather you only demonstrate how you filtered my words.

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dogslife2live01 68M
2113 posts
12/17/2019 12:54 pm

I don't think men and women can be *just* friends.
I firmly believe that men do not persue friendships with women they aren't sexually attracted to
This does not mean the friendship cannot be genuine or fulfilling.

reads like men are friends only with women they want sex with...but if they don't get sex then they can have a genuine friendship...

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


BiggLala 48F  
28930 posts
12/17/2019 8:32 am

In what way am I contradicting myself? Please explain.
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TicklePlease 52F  
12891 posts
12/17/2019 4:22 am

What's contradicting about saying a man will only pursue a friendship with a woman he's attracted to (true) as well as saying it could be a genuine and fulfilling friendship? (also true) It's absolutely possible to have an opposite sex friendship, given that the woman has made clear that the sex part isn't going to happen and the man is man enough to be ok with that.

That being said, there are very VERY few men that can see any value to a platonic relationship. Once the possibility of sleeping with her is gone, there's no need for a friendship.


sdkyle36 36M
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12/17/2019 3:01 am

one pretty much always wants to fuck the otehr


dogslife2live01 68M
2113 posts
12/17/2019 3:00 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    I don't think men and women can be *just* friends. I firmly believe that men do not persue friendships with women they aren't sexually attracted to. They will always have that interest in the woman, even if sex never happens. This does not mean the friendship cannot be genuine or fulfilling.

    Just my opinion since you asked.
you seem to be contradicting yourself

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


IVFalternative 49M
630 posts
12/17/2019 1:25 am

Yes, there are women whose company I enjoy who I don't want sex with for one reason or another. Also women who I've had sex with before but don't want to do it again and still like talking to them. So, friends!

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BiggLala 48F  
28930 posts
12/16/2019 10:23 pm

I don't think men and women can be *just* friends. I firmly believe that men do not persue friendships with women they aren't sexually attracted to. They will always have that interest in the woman, even if sex never happens. This does not mean the friendship cannot be genuine or fulfilling.

Just my opinion since you asked.

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LadyTeddieBear 63F  
1131 posts
12/16/2019 8:23 pm

Of course they can be friends. I have serval male friends to be honest I get along with guys better then women

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idblueswoman 62F  
770 posts
12/16/2019 7:54 pm

Of course men and women can be friends and not be lovers. I have had friends who were men over the years and still do. This crazy idea that it's not possible is something that's been debated for years.


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12/16/2019 7:34 pm

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mareus100 41M  
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12/16/2019 6:50 pm

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