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mareus100 41M  
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2/25/2020 3:34 pm

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Something worth fighting for

If it for her i would never have started wrighting a blog she was the one that was the insprasion for my first blog c a l l e d the wood nymph and and just about every other blog written just over a year since my first blog and in that time I'm me and said woman I've been to hell and back because one another considering 4000 miles apart. In that year we've gone from long distance relationship 2 major falling out trying to fuck each other over anyway we could just to hurt one another now I'd say it's fair to say on the hurting category I've been hurt most is a fair assumption and I'm not guilt free I'm- on get my own back which is quite tricky considering the distance between us. Any rational person would say just walk away not so easy I seen far more in her from the moment I met her that was a Bond which both of us agreed existed I told her man is lucky to find a buddy in a woman as well as a lover well the lover part did not work out too well between us both left marks on each other metaphorically speaking. This has been any other woman I would have walked away without another word but not this woman Bond that can transpire an ocean in my book is worth the battle 2 try and keep and have I battled to keep the friendship at all costs. Just about every aspect friendship has been tested not least Trust we both just about completely lost trust in one another this not been to just one but both our doing no matter what I point Blank refuse to give up on I have always said was one off kind . so as it stand and at the moment we both need to step by step build trust in one another. Personally speaking if it takes another year to regain that Trust in my book it will be worth it. Now her view on this subject I don't really know. If she did not feel this Bond that I have spoken of surely she would have disappeared into the horizon a long time ago would she have not? But as far as I'm concerned in my mind even though others completely disagree and think I'm a couple of Screws Loose in the head for pursuing this friendship I will keep pursuing this Bond that I value so. Just because I love affair didn't work out does not mean that me and her cannot be good friends. Mareus


OriginalDDBJQXX 57F
68 posts
3/23/2020 8:54 am

We will always be friends..... That bond will never be broken.


Paulxx001 63M
16764 posts
3/10/2020 8:33 pm

Don't listen to anyone's advice. It's all bullshit. Did I just give you advice? 🤔 lol 😂
I've been there and done that, for my own reasons - some similar to yours. Although the relationship fizzled after a period of time - I have no regrets in nurturing the friendship that I'd found. True friends are hard to find.
Oh... it drifted because each of us, found life partners, in all meanings of the word. But we're STILL friends, after all these years! ❗
Go for it. Nothing worse than living with regrets. Just be vigilant.
Sounds like you are self aware. 👍


seems6666 50F
4112 posts
2/26/2020 9:15 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Somethings tangible are worth fight for, but 4000 miles away? C'mon, you know she has to move on, and so do you.

    Why she is staying in contact? Maybe she's a blog-junkie and she likes / liked your stories....but go take outside and take a breath. Wouldn't you prefer someone to be within hugging distance, instead of key-stroke distance?

    My suggestion? Let go. Turn the corner. Take a new path.....move on.
Amazingly, I have to agree with Heathen on this one ... you can be pen pals over that sort of distance, but not really in a relationship.(unless you have a private jet!)
Maybe she hasn't said goodbye because she doesn't want to hurt you... but I think it's time to move on


mareus100 replies on 2/27/2020 3:53 am:
Thank you for your continuing interest and what I posted. To be honest I knew from the start that the long distance relationship thing I was doomed from the beginning but this one coming to my life when I was going through the most singular and emotionally traumatic experience of my life if the death of my mother she coming to my life when I was lost lonely and Afraid I think this may be the main reason see that I'm reluctant to completely turn my back on her as a person I can't help but see the good in her no matter what. Op so I'm reluctant to completely give up I would rath
er have her as a friend in my life that her not been there at all

Heathen_G 61M
7838 posts
2/25/2020 9:52 pm


mareus100 replies on 2/25/2020 7:18 pm:
If I was an animal almost certainly I've been a dog what I'm trying to say is I see certain things like a dog for example unconditional love and loyalty to those are deem worthy of it and fiercely protective over who and what I love dearly


I understand the loyalty concept, but I think you're being loyal to an idea of someone, not the actual person. What happens when you meet a woman who lives close by, and conditions are perfect for a relationship? Or what happens when she meets a man who lives close by, and the same?


Heathen_G 61M
7838 posts
2/25/2020 9:47 pm

Somethings tangible are worth fight for, but 4000 miles away? C'mon, you know she has to move on, and so do you.

Why she is staying in contact? Maybe she's a blog-junkie and she likes / liked your stories....but go take outside and take a breath. Wouldn't you prefer someone to be within hugging distance, instead of key-stroke distance?

My suggestion? Let go. Turn the corner. Take a new path.....move on.


mareus100 replies on 2/27/2020 3:45 am:
U make a valid point there my friend.but as i sed its the friendship aspect i want to keep alive.i mean i didnt expect the longdistance thing to work out.like u point out 4000miles is a long way.

pocogato12 68F  
34823 posts
2/25/2020 6:18 pm

WOW I really hope you get to keep tis friend. Some things are worth the battle

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mareus100 replies on 2/25/2020 7:18 pm:
If I was an animal almost certainly I've been a dog what I'm trying to say is I see certain things like a dog for example unconditional love and loyalty to those are deem worthy of it and fiercely protective over who and what I love dearly.

mareus100 41M  
101 posts
2/25/2020 4:36 pm

Somethings are worth fighting for


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