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mareus100 41M  
136 posts
1/20/2020 12:40 am

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Venting a little steam

I will start off by saying that I am writing this blog for myself for my sanity and my general welfare no I can't speak every man when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex you know women. You might get this little naive but I take at face value what woman tell me! Un fucking believable I think at almost 41 you would at least have a working knowledge of how a woman works. I think this is a question that will puzzle mankind to the end of days lol do women ever say what they mean or do what they say they will do??? Lol I got it there forever moving the Goalposts lol I really don't think man is psychologically equipped to deal with the way a woman processes logic. I mean what's the deal for example they will tell you one white lie but then that leads to another white lie that eventually leads to one big fucking black one what given half a chance she will quite happily pin on you you somehow making all your fault? Now I've been a serving soldier and a bouncer for over 20-years and in all my time I'll never come across anything more deadly sleek it conniving and downright underhanded as a woman underestimate them at your peril lol as I said in the beginning I write this for me it may not make sense to you it makes hell of a lot of sense to me and I feel hell of a lot better. So today she took the time to actually read this rambling bullshit I thank you like I said it may not make sense but it made me feel better Marius lol

jajo696 65F
2490 posts
1/20/2020 9:49 am

yes...as i said....i understand and said the same as you. No misunderstanding here. Good Luck ~~

BiggLala 48F  
28930 posts
1/20/2020 8:31 am

I understand that you're ranting out of frustration and your own personal perspective, which results from your experiences.

That said...based on my own experiences, I can apply everything you wrote to *some* men. Not saying what you mean or meaning what you say, moving the goalpost, frequent little white lies leading to one (or more) big lie and then blaming me for it, and seemingly illogical "logic" are all experiences I've encountered with *some* men. Sooo...as Justlooking referenced...what you speak of is a PEOPLE issue, and not one exclusive to either gender.

Anyway...glad you feel better.

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mareus100 replies on 1/20/2020 8:48 am:
Thank you yeah it has relieved little tension if I left it any longer I think I would have exploded not good not good all round I mean you don't have to be Sherlock Holmes if you that I'm referring to the same women I have talked about previous posts I refuse to believe that I've been completely taken in completely deceived all this woman is ever done is hurt me emotionally w3hat have I done for her in different countries it never last a relationship probably not but friendship transpires oceans I've always felt I've had a bond with this woman she says the same back I realely in all honestly don't want to believe that I on being lied to i dont think I really dl think I could take that.

JustLookn439 54M

1/20/2020 6:12 am

I'll just add that lying is not a prerogative of either gender. While some lie to protect themselves (still a lie), others lie habitually, or to hurt others. People who lie, particularly to hurt or show total disregard for others, are a little less human and a lower quality breed. This is gender neutral; we know both genders lie--often form similar reasons.
To claim men can't understand women when they are lied to, there is nothing to understand, beyond the obvious. You don't want to trust too quickly with anyone--especially when you don't know them, well. Always position yourself for minimum loss in case they are lying.

mareus100 replies on 1/20/2020 6:54 am:
The worst lies are the ones that u what u want to here andlet u beleve it. I already stated that im a littelemosinaly naive as it were what I'm told by a woman I take at face value for no other reason than I expect what I say to be taken in the same way being told that you mean something that you are special and you are some how different from all others to that person share a unique Bond is heart-wrenching when over time that it is taking you to get to know this person you start to notice patterns of Lies that myself in recent times find myself making excuses and and Reasons to forgive these lies my emotions always been my worst enemy all the time telling me self that this person is worth all the effort all ll the emotional heart ach maybe not as a partner but as a close friend and this person letting you believe this in my eyes is the worst kind of emotional abuse there is. mareus.

jajo696 65F
2490 posts
1/20/2020 2:34 am

Ohhhhh....i am sooooo cracking up. Cuz i know exactly what you say...only in the reverse....lol. Your venting made so much sense....and i am glad u feel better after writing it. We see , interpret, respond and understand the same stimuli, very differently. Oy Vey ...Good Luck to us ALL ~~

mareus100 replies on 1/20/2020 3:48 am:
Pls dont miss understand me I don't hate women I don't think women are less than men in any way shape or form in fact had a fair few Female Friends I understand women up to a point and pretty sure just make it up as you go along from there on lol.but women I would say by their very nature designed to make things difficult for men like I said women's logic differs from ours immensely

dogslife2live01 68M
2113 posts
1/20/2020 1:05 am

when trying to understand love leave logic out of the equation

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity

mareus100 replies on 1/20/2020 1:08 am:
The deffonision of insanity is doing thr same thing over and over and expecting diffrint results.fuck if thats not the same thing as love?

mareus100 41M  
101 posts
1/20/2020 12:45 am

When it comes to the r never ending battle of the sexes always pays to hoccupy ve the moral high ground lol

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