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Voted for Trump or Clinton?
Posted:Jul 2, 2019 7:25 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2021 12:08 pm
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Does it matter you if your hookups voted for one or the other?
Voted for Trump and won't fuck a Clinton supporter.
Voted for Trump and will fuck anyone.
Voted for Clinton and won't fuck a Trump supporter.
Voted for Clinton and will fuck anyone.
Didn't vote.
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Is it raining bisexual men?
Posted:Jan 14, 2014 1:01 pm
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2021 8:01 pm
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So I'm thinking of making a poll asking if all that many men are now bisexual or just tired of masturbating alone?

Seems like there are a lot of men on AdultFriendFinder who list themselves as 'Straight' in Sexual Orientation but then list 'men' in Looking For categories. I know men have raging libidos most of the time but maybe I just don't understand bisexuality? I think women are lovely and attractive but I'm not aroused by them so not bisexual right? So maybe bisexual for a woman means she is sexually aroused by both sexes and can be romantically involved with either sex. But for a man, it's just sex?

I welcome your comments!
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My true love
Posted:Jun 2, 2013 5:09 pm
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2015 7:24 pm
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I'd been to London playing tourist and met a lovely little old lady on a bus who kindly advised be on good eateries in London. When I told her I might just go check one out right then because I had early theater tickets she asked to join me. A delightful friendship began. Before the meal was over I heard the name Jonathan at least twice, her beloved grandson, was a light in her lonely widow's life. We corresponded the old fashioned way with letters on pretty stationary a few times a year until my November visits when we'd meet up for a meal and some sights.

My sweet Rose became frail and I began to call her as she was not always able to leave her apartment and was even lonelier. On one occasion the phone was answered by Jonathan the dutiful and loving grandson. He was so thrilled to meet the American lady who delighted 'my girl' as he called his Gran. The chat was brief and he promised to call me if things looked dire. Four months later I hopped a plane in response to his call and arrived too late to say goodbye to sweet Rose. He sent me directions to the cemetery and I met the 50 - 60 mourners there. Jonathan was a hunk who marched straight up to me and said my name as he pulled me into a strong embrace. I'm sorry I sobbed feeling like I was overreacting not even being related. he smiled and kissed my gloved hand, I was pretty snotty afterall, and made me promise to come to the house after the service. Taxis were shared to Rose's home in the suburbs, a narrow 2 story flat. I heard someone say 'coats upstairs' so I gathered a few from other guests and followed Jonathan up the narrow staircase.

He humorously flopped on top of his armload on the bed the rolled to his back. I tossed my armload next to his and sat in a chair removinb my coat. Can I change my shoes I asked. he rolled to his belly and said, only if they are sexier than those awful boots. It was snowy and cold, I protested unzipping them. He watched then lithely slid off the bed to offer...let me, he took my black pump gently gripped my stocking sheathed ankle and slipped it on and repeated with my other shoe but this time smiling and running his hands over my calves. I knew you had great legs under all this woolly gear. You did? I smiled back enjoying the massage. Mmmhmm he said moving his hands to my knees now and down again. I lay back in the chair. That feels nice I said relaxing my legs. I like a man at my feet...I teased. Yes? he gently pushed his thumbs between my legs and I took a deep breath as I let him separate them. Oh my god stockings not tights he gasped and laid his head on my knees as his fingertips touched the bare skin of my upper thighs. Lift your head, I told him and raised my skirt up so he could see. he glanced at the door and smiled lifting one knee up and sliding his hands to my hips and ass. he pressed his face to my panties inhaling and kissing me. Are we doing this really? he whispered. I'm not doing a thing I said giggling a bit. my panties were down and both knees as far apart as I could manage in the chair. Oh my god, he gasped I love a woman with hair, he pulled my hips to him to the edge of the chair and licked and sucked like a starving man. I grabbed his curly hair in my hands pushing his face into me. Later, after everyone left, we fucked like rabbits on Rose's creaking old bed with her blessing I know.

Jonathan followed my hairy self back to the states 3 mos later and spent the next 7 years loving me like I've never been loved before.
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Tired of lazy men
Posted:May 18, 2013 2:37 pm
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2015 7:24 pm
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What's with men who don't know how to woo, charm or otherwise chat up a lady? This is AdultFriendFinder not free vagina for the asking! Jeez I'm tired of the losers!
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Women are definitely different from men
Posted:Feb 23, 2013 1:38 pm
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2015 7:25 pm
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From an interesting conversation I had.....

I think women and men are different. Women bond faster due to their desire to nest and nurture. In the end, I think men want these things too but biology has them in a fix, more often having a stronger libido than women.
Women know this but too often they think that since this man has chosen them, they have changed. Biology does not change. We can control our biological desires but when men don't feel appreciated those desires become predominant.
Women have the responsibity to nurture this as well...not just keep a nice home, cook and a social calendar filled.
Keeping each other happy has to be the goal at all times.
What often both men and women forget how to do is to keep ourselves happy and not put that responsibility on another person.
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For the sake of the ....
Posted:Jan 30, 2013 3:49 pm
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2015 7:25 pm
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I hear this from many married men that they stay for the . One friend breaks my heart when he tells me how lonely he'd be without the shrieks and noise of his . His wife however has not been intimate with him in over 10 years. She seems to enjoy the continual punishing of a mistake he admitted at that time. She won't even sit down to a meal with him and makes the chose who to eat with. So from my perspective he's raising his to be a shrew like his wife and his boys to be cuckholded like him.

Then there are the men who still love their wives but for whatever reason, the sex has slowed to infrequent or none. I know marriages have their ups and downs. I also know that women have emotional needs that often need to be met before they feel sexy. I know too that men often need sexual affirmation to meet their emotional needs! Catch 22!

But still while I have sympathy for both of these types of married men, I cannot play with you! I have had it all and want it all. I'm 50 yes, but not willing to settle. I also could never hurt a person intentionally by being a party to infidelity.

Once a long time ago, I lived in another state and had an ardent admirer. He was married and we played volleyball together. He was verbal and made no secret of his lust for me in front of others. I was polite and turned him down. I was lucky he was a gentleman and never got angry. Well, time came for me to move away and I told him the date I was leaving town and to come over the night before. The movers had come and my apartment held my cat, litterbox, water and food bowls and an air mattress I borrowed. He arrived at 10 pm and we sat on the stairs for hours and chatted. I explained that one day I might be Lisa, his wife, and be unhappy for whatever reason and would be grateful to the woman who said no to my husband. Well a year later I went back for a mutual friend's wedding. Lisa, the wife, cornered me in the ladies room. I thought she was going to kill me, but then she smiled and said she owed me a thank you. Her husband told her what I did.

So I missed what probably would have been a wonderful night of lust. She probably never would have known. I think most women never learn of their spouse's infidelity. So, I didn't settle but got a nice story to tell.
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My first blog post....hmmm
Posted:Jan 27, 2013 2:07 pm
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2015 7:26 pm
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Good afternoon campers. It has been a
month since I signed up on AdultFriendFinder. I'm a
standard member but as a female, that's
not very limiting. (Plz forgive typos...
text box is not showing all that I type!)

So a few observations. Most men here are
looking for hookups with random women.
I am not sure how successful they are
because I cannot imagine someone so horny
or lonely to tolerate the crude and rude
behavior I've experienced.

I'm a single sexual woman and like my
profiles state, I want a man but do not
need a man. I can provide myself an
exquisite orgasm. But I am here for
more. Someone once told me men like
to feel like they rescue a woman. A
woman who needs no rescuing is either
not appealing or even intimidating.
Do you agree?

More thoughts later. And I promise I am
a kind hearted woman with much love to
give, not a bitch as I've been called
more than once on this site.
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