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mstkinez 46F  
45 posts
12/28/2019 6:09 am
I know you!!!!

So you think AdultFriendFinder is Facebook and you posted up your face
But the sites are completely different so this boldness eludes ...
Let ask you ask yourself a question:

Would you walk around the streets during the day with a tshirt on listing your sexual desires for the world see? (I doubt that VERY seriously- and if you would we’re definitely not a match)

That’s exactly what putting faces up on the site resembles ....it says you cannot keep a secret - not that you want know you are (common excuse) because if you wanted know you are then you would only show who you are( of course mentioning that you will show your face upon request there by subtly asking me keep your secret ) and by I am being general as in each woman that you deal with individually as opposed the whole world which opens you up : hey you’re that guy from the sex site right?

do you really want that kind of celebrity?

Now I have choices on how I can deal with you and the situation:

I can ignore you and let you call a fake profile - which is what happens a lot of guys the women are simply not interested so they’re not answering you


I can answer you and tell you exactly how I feel... I might piss you off but at least you know I’m real (by the way I don’t care if you’re pissed I’m more pissed that you talk and I can’t do anything with you understand that )

I will always point out how your face being on this site makes you recognizable on the street for no apparent reason and how if I show up in your town I might just tap you on the shoulder because now I know what you look like and it would only be to say: “aren’t you on that sex site guy ? “ (Internet celebrity lol)

There’s no point in you getting mad because you are in fact the guy from the sex site your face is up for everyone to see because you want them to know who you are even though you’re not talking to all of them

think about that

restate 75M
1884 posts
12/28/2019 6:50 am

no you don't

Minks37 38M
10 posts
12/28/2019 7:04 am

Very true couldn't have said it better myself

jj12345616 47M
24 posts
12/28/2019 7:14 am

So we'll spoken

Tony28197 41M
21 posts
12/28/2019 7:19 am

true that

seems6666 49F
3901 posts
12/28/2019 7:31 am

I think it's great if a man post's his face on here, I wouldn't do it but pics are available on request.
So what if he is recognized? to recognize him, you must have seen him which means you are on this site too!! So he has nothing to be worried about.. unless he's married of course,, and unless you live in a very small town the chances of seeing him are pretty remote.
I'd rather see a face than a dick pic.. you can also google image search a face pic... I haven't tried it with dick pics

mstkinez replies on 1/3/2020 1:21 pm:
The entire point of the Internet interaction here is a mental exchange.
you want to be able to mentally connect with someone so they want to physically be in your presence.
you are sending off certain messages In every part of your expression that are subtlely read by the opposite sex. one of which is I can keep your secrets and the first signage of that is whether or not the person can keep their own secret. Now, putting your face up says you can’t keep a secret...therefore, the only good purpose it serves is the weed out the people I don’t want to talk to, 😂

BiggLala 48F  
28522 posts
12/28/2019 7:54 am

I disagree that a person showing their face means they cannot keep a secret. There are many reasons people show their faces or don't show their faces. Every one of those reasons are individual choices respective to each person.

I tend to agree with seems. I don't require a face pic unless and until I plan to personally meet someone, but it is refreshing to see a face pic on a profile as opposed to a dick pic.

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mstkinez replies on 1/3/2020 1:26 pm:
Human body is so vast and the mind is even more expensive so face is never refreshing to me it caps the mental exploration space of dealing with the person almost immediately by packaging them up and not allowing them to just be I don’t like looking at dick pics either let me be clear I actually like looking at expression ultimately when I guess I’m going to meet the person if they want to show me the picture I don’t even need that cause I like to physically meet a person and let that be for it the first time. it works out really well for me and I enjoy that part of the reveal everything to do with interacting with someone that I find attractive is a mew level of attractive...
Show me a face on a sex site and it is like an unfinished poem.... it’s awkward to me I’m expressing my opinion.

redrockrascal 61M
21599 posts
12/28/2019 8:32 am

Your post seems to assume that there are a lot of people on these sites. The number of individuals compared to the general adult population is less that 1%.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.

mstkinez replies on 1/3/2020 1:28 pm:
I know what i like and how I live and well, I’ve had some VERY interesting adventures that would say approach it exactly as I choose.

lookg4fun4all 61M
33 posts
12/28/2019 10:03 am

Agree with you. I try to limit my pics to body pics. Now if you have see my chest or other body parts, then maybe you recognize me.

mstkinez 46F  
30 posts
1/3/2020 1:34 pm

In order to attract people they put up pictures for this website (don’t be fooled) you don’t have to be on the site to see pictures of people who are on the site so why let it be your face? I once had my genitals up here and decided to show the person my face and they chose to call me out on the train (public transportation). Another time, it was my butt, And the guy commences to tell my younger sister all about this website and me. we never even met but he had a picture of my face. Then there’s also the time when my generals were up and the gentleman who I chose not to meet who also happened to have a picture of my face as well showed my mother because apparently they were in the same school face pics are tricky I don’t deal with them or genital pics

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