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Is the Profile Fake?  

multiorg44 64M/62F
12 posts
1/18/2017 3:44 pm
Is the Profile Fake?


It should not be a surprise that there are fake profiles on this site...and probably every site like this one. That said, I don't know how many or what percentage. I don't think it's a large number because I've met a lot of the members who contact us, so it seems there are a lot of legitimate people on the site.

Here are some things that I use to weed out what I think are fake profiles.

Free member - look, if you're serious about meeting people on this site, you should pay the small fee they ask. You probably spend more on drinks in one evening than this site costs for a month.

Only 1 picture or 1 picture repeated 2 or more times. We live in times where everyone with a cell phone has a decent camera that costs nothing to take pictures, so why only take 1? Use a mirror, if you don't have a friend to take it for you (and if you don't have a friend that'll take your picture, what does that say about you - probably nothing you care to have others know.). I find that most legit profiles have several pictures.

Pictures must correlate. What's that mean? Well, if your profile is of your big, erect cock but the other pictures look like someone else's...probably a fake profile or at least a fake picture. Same for the gals. One picture is outstanding but the others are of someone older and/or fatter. Red flag!

It's not just fake pictures to be concerned about. It's also misleading pictures.

Please, leave out pictures of you from years ago when you were hot and sexy...and thin.

What about pictures of your dog, cat, , whatever? Ok if you're in it too and restrict it to maybe 1 or 2 pictures and you've got lots of others of just you.

Pictures of you and your car, house, motor cycle. Again, 1 or 2 fine as long as you've got plenty of others.

Pictures of your vacation. Ditto the above.

What we want to see:

For couples: Pictures of BOTH of you together. Clothes on or off? Preferably both but if you have to go with only one, let it be clothes off! You do know what this site is about, don't you?

Gals: We'd like to see her tits, belly...all of her. We want to see her naked with a clear view of her body/type.

Guys: We'd like to see his cock ERECT. For some reason, men take pictures of themselves with flaccid cocks. What's the point? We've never seen any picture of a flaccid cock that is appealing except to the extent it shows the rest of the guy's physique but we can see his physique just as well if he's got a hard-on.

Pictures of your rear - CAUTION. For gals, when you ONLY see pictures of her ass, you can be sure she's got a big belly or looks much fatter from the front, which is ok if you like that but not if it's a surprise. For guys, this is usually code for: I'm bi. Now, there are probably some guys who think they've got a really nice ass and that's a feature they want to show. Ok, just know that bi-curious, bi-sexual and gay males will be contacting you for dates. So, if you're straight and don't want that attention, leave out your ass pictures.

Clear Pictures: most cell phones take reasonably clear pictures if you have some lights turned on. And there's no reason to not have them turned on. So, there should be no reason for having dark pictures where you are hardly discernible. Turn the lights on. If the picture isn't clear, delete it and take another. Their free.

Shaky Cam: If your picture is blurry because you moved the camera when you took it, delete it and take over. If it's video, delete it and put it on a tripod or prop it up or have someone else take the video (they'll enjoy the show...and so will we!).

Clear Video: This is my biggest pet peeve of video. I know it's harder to take clear video. You have to turn on the lights. At first it may kill the mood but after a few minutes of hot action, no one will notice. Believe me. I've done it. I know. And if you've got dark video of your hot action and that's all you've got, delete it (or at least don't post it) and take it over again. Imagine the fun you'll have retaking it. You might even be able to make it better.

That's all I've got for now. Hope it's helpful. Let me know what you think in the comments.

s2ndegree 62M  
9737 posts
2/1/2017 6:57 am

It definitely makes judging someone more difficult!

Using more than all the road!


multiorg44 64M/62F
7 posts
2/22/2017 7:21 am

Just a note about video. I shoot video with at least two cameras on a tripod and occasionally take some close ups with another off tripod. I know that not everybody has quality cameras like this nor the editing capabilities that I have but the videos really need to be better.

Here's how to do that:

The first thing you need to do is TURN THE LIGHTS ON. Every camera takes better video (and pictures) with enough lighting. It doesn't have to be professional. If all you've got is a couple table lamps, turn them on. Be better to have something up high. Wallmart sells a cheap ($20) double lamp that is about 6' tall and works great.

If you take video with your cell phone prop it up or better yet, have someone else take it. They'll enjoy the show. I'm sure one of your lifestyle friends would enjoy taking the video for you.

How about asking your lifestyle friends if they've got decent cameras to take video? And maybe a tripod. Enlist their help. They'll love the show.


multiorg44 64M/62F
7 posts
4/6/2017 11:09 pm

If you're in the Phoenix area and you want to have video and/or photos taken of your escapades, contact me. There's no charge. I just do it for the fun of it.

We can meet first to make sure we're all OK with the setup.


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