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multiorg44 64M/62F
12 posts
10/21/2016 3:57 pm
Pictures You Should Have in Your Profile

Many pictures on this site are just plain awful. If you expect to get results, you should seriously consider posting better pictures. So, here's some advice on the subject from someone who has had to suffer through horrendous pictures...and someone who has considerable experience in taking good pictures and videos.

But before getting into the actual pictures, something very important needs to be said and it has nothing to do with quality or quantity. And that is:

1. Your pictures must actually be your pictures not pictures you've gotten on the internet or from someone else. It's illegal, deceptive and stupid, so don't do it.

2. Your pictures must be recent and by that I mean you must still look like you did in those pictures. If not, get rid of them and replace them with recent pictures. Everyone's phone has a camera nowadays. Use it or learn how to use it.

Now, for the pictures themselves. The first big mistake I see a lot of people making is they only have 1 picture in their profile. It doesn't cost anything to take pictures. Use your phone. Take lots of pictures.

What kind of pictures should you take?

Single Males:
Take at least one body shot. This shows what kind of a body you have. It can be nude or clothe, partially or fully. You can include your face/head if you're ok with that. If not, don't include it.

You should also include one or more cock shots. By that I mean fully erect. I see a lot of pictures of nude males with soft cocks. What's the point? She doesn't care what it looks like when it's soft. She only cares what it looks like when you're hard. Take a few shots from different angles and post the ones that look the best.

Make sure it's a clear picture and that the size correctly represents your real size. A little embellishment is ok, we all want to look our best. You can do that with the right angle. But don't make it look like you've got a very long and very think cock when you only have an average one. Lots of women prefer average size cocks because bigger ones can sometimes hurt, especially if the guy doesn't know how to use it or doesn't use lube.

Don't make your cock picture your main profile picture. This is controversial. Some women refuse to even reply to men whose main profile picture is a cock picture. If you don't care or you've got something so special that you just have to show off with, then go right ahead.

Most couples use a shot of the woman as their main profile shot. Since the man is usually the one cruising the site, it makes sense. If she's ok with it, include her face, bare breasts and her waist.

If you're not ok with showing her face, there are many ways to drape her hair or turn her head so her face isn't clearly visible. We all like to see what her hair looks like.

If you're not ok with bare breasts, put some clothing on. You can drape a scarf or other material across them, showing only a portion. She can have a sexy bra on. Or, use sexy clothing or something that clearly shows her features rather than hiding them.

The waist. I see lots of pictures where they have cleverly hidden the fact that her belly is bigger than she or anyone else would like. The favorite is showing her behind. I've seen lots of gals with very sexy behinds but unflattering bellies. I know this hurts but if she has a belly, at least show what it really looks like. Some people are ok with that. Others will be disappointed or worse if you waste their time by deceptively hiding her belly in the pictures, especially if they get to the point of meeting and get naked before finding out.

Ok. That's enough for now. Let me hear your comments. I'll add more at a later date.

Nola7011 64M
1021 posts
10/21/2016 5:47 pm

Nothing takes the place of a close encounter.

People are strange when you're a stranger."

Antisirp8 57M
51 posts
10/21/2016 7:09 pm

Some great advice there ... well thought through ... Cheers! A'8

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