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nastytease4U 42F  
9938 posts
7/18/2020 3:56 am

Last Read:
8/3/2020 4:05 am

what are your feelings about the new IM system?

Things I noted:

Sorting by distance means those who are farthest from you appear first.

I have open a before I can delete it.

It now glitches and doesn't show my friends list.

I have not found one thing that is better

What do you think?
They need to fix it or go back to the old system
I love it
I really don't give a damn


big54al 66M
2081 posts
7/18/2020 4:52 am

They still haven't fixed the missing words on blogs yet


maturem1967 52M  
11 posts
7/18/2020 5:36 am

Yeah, quite a lot glitches to be fixed still.


vindalooloo23 53M  
28 posts
7/18/2020 5:47 am

It is terrible


smurfalert99 64M
24 posts
7/18/2020 5:49 am

It's really, REALLY awful.

And they expect people to pay to use it.


jackdiane3 62M/54F  
1 post
7/18/2020 6:00 am

doesnt work for me


myxxxfiles 62M  
11 posts
7/18/2020 6:01 am

I use an older platform...unable to use IM now they locked me out... worked perfectly before.


CleavageFan4U 63M  
63194 posts
7/18/2020 6:17 am

I'd not even looked at it till you mentioned it.

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CaseyCat 55F  
13 posts
7/18/2020 6:45 am

Sometimes, I feel we are slowly seeing the demise of this site. First, they took the free IM chats away from the standard members. Second, they took free gold away from the ladies and icebreakers. Thirdly, they fooked up the IM, again. They are choking the life out of this site.


idahosmilin 68M
29 posts
7/18/2020 7:15 am

Go back to the old system.


coolpoolguy3 54M
2881 posts
7/18/2020 7:21 am

Worst version of IM yet!


Greatsex4ume2 64M  
42 posts
7/18/2020 7:26 am

Worse then before!


piggmann 60M  
4 posts
7/18/2020 7:28 am

it's much worse than before. not that they listen. this is a total "take the money and run" site. run that credit card and its fuck us all after that.


2469gold 54M  
5 posts
7/18/2020 7:29 am

Many messages don't go through, and notifications are terrible when they do work. I liked it when it showed missed messages as well . new one is totally a flop. layout is good but beyond that.........


FenderGibson999 55M  
1 post
7/18/2020 7:34 am

It's a piece of shit as usual.


Wok2016 38M  
502 posts
7/18/2020 7:48 am

It's probably worse than what they replaced it with. Which is impressive, given it wasn't very good to begin with. That seems like something that should have been easy to fix....


DoctorBooty 39M  
6377 posts
7/18/2020 7:55 am

I've been on this site 15 years, the IM has been shitty for all of them.

They will never get it right.


jan04005 62M/48F
9 posts
7/18/2020 8:05 am

this whole sight sucks


opnmnds2fnd 40M
4 posts
7/18/2020 10:37 am

No real improvement in any way I can tell. It has its own issues that I don;t think they planned on like it switches you to "busy" if you simply refresh your main profile page or try to do anything else on the site as well as chat simultaneously. Ooops...


pentastar1954 66M
3 posts
7/18/2020 10:38 am

At $100 per year the site is doing well for not working properly


Firebird81964 56M  
1 post
7/18/2020 11:25 am

I am a former gold member under another user name, since I rejoined as a standard member I can't do shit. The cost for becoming a gold member is ridiculous. The last time I renewed my old gold membership I got it for $7 a month for 12 months. I hate to sound so cheap but $20 a month for a site that doesn't work half the time and half of who's members seem to work for the site with no other reason than to make you use your points, buy more points or get you to buy other shit isn't worth it. This used to be a really good site but I agree with some other comments that I have read, I think the demise of this site is soon at hand.


maybe1932 66M/51F
30 posts
7/18/2020 12:26 pm

Ours hasn't worked since it changed


swfla56 64M
94 posts
7/18/2020 12:52 pm

They do anything to members from chat. BULL SHIT. IT worked fine before assholes.


avgkinkster 53M
43 posts
7/18/2020 12:54 pm

Clearly this site has become about nickel and diming everything. Frankly I don’t think they give a damn about I am unless it puts money in their pocket. It’s getting harder and harder to communicate with people for free. The reason I don’t pay is because they can’t even get the free shit right so why would I bother paying?


60satisfaction 63M  
233 posts
7/18/2020 12:58 pm

It doesn't matter a bit what they do...
its a wonder that it works at all.


Luv2bottom4u2 63M  
1569 posts
7/18/2020 2:04 pm

IT SUCKS !!!!


Tmptrzz 58F
87310 posts
7/18/2020 2:37 pm

I really don't like the new IM..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


985bii 62M  
1 post
7/18/2020 3:28 pm

I hate it. Whether the glitches are fixed or not, it's terrible. The old IM was so much easier.


mchlnwh 59M
322 posts
7/18/2020 7:06 pm

Tried it today. It sucks.


s2ndegree 61M  
9731 posts
7/18/2020 8:04 pm

I'm confused here.Is there a reason why people would rather
use a system that's never been reliable. I never sent any and the ones I
received were of the standard predictable nonsense.I do remember it very well
for a rather large amount of negative back and forth and ghosting reports often posted on blogs rather regularly.

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phonex12342 62M
1 post
7/18/2020 8:10 pm

it sucks. period. Took away the free IM's for free members. Then took away the ability to look at the members locations and what they were looking for. Not worth the cost. The site is really going down hill. I was on here before for 3 years and it has only gotten worse. I'm only a free member now and I don't know if it's worth the money to go gold.


Calfitcouple 53M/53F
21 posts
7/18/2020 8:12 pm

doesn't work for me


tj4fun31 52M  
4 posts
7/18/2020 8:27 pm

If I sort by distance it makes ZERO sense to list those farthest away first. I mean thats so dumb it makes my head hurt!!


exploring2L82 70M  
21 posts
7/18/2020 8:46 pm

It sucks and not in a good way


sg_hot_guy 50M
10 posts
7/19/2020 12:25 am

    Quoting Firebird81964:
    I am a former gold member under another user name, since I rejoined as a standard member I can't do shit. The cost for becoming a gold member is ridiculous. The last time I renewed my old gold membership I got it for $7 a month for 12 months. I hate to sound so cheap but $20 a month for a site that doesn't work half the time and half of who's members seem to work for the site with no other reason than to make you use your points, buy more points or get you to buy other shit isn't worth it. This used to be a really good site but I agree with some other comments that I have read, I think the demise of this site is soon at hand.
Yes ! You are correct.. They blocked my other nick the moment i did not renew my gold membership ! Also most of the profile are fake !


Imdirtnasty 50M  
3 posts
7/19/2020 3:08 am

I FUCKING HATE IT


SomewhereSE 62M
243 posts
7/19/2020 3:56 am

They never seem to proof test any “improvements” so nothing ever workS right when they roll it out, so that it’s broken is par for the course. Doesn’t bother me since I never use it, it’s a pointless waste of time, more scammers than real members there.

A poll isn’t going to help get it fixed, everone ought to find/complain to them in their site problems blog, no point talking to customer service, that never gets results either.


JeepMan1652 58M  
1 post
7/19/2020 4:59 am

Instead of not working 98% of the time, now at least I can open it and communicate with people. But it has been broken for so long, I think that people have developed all sorts of risky work around solutions.


Eviloutlaw1 58M
3069 posts
7/19/2020 5:56 am

Haven't used the new version, then again I never really used the old one as it never worked for me.


bitchkitty2017 68F  
5301 posts
7/19/2020 6:04 am

I dont come on here to bitch and moan about something i cannot do anything about like some people ..it is not that bad i wanna talk to someone i bring it up and talk to them ..get over it and get on with it


1seeking1 55F
3255 posts
7/19/2020 6:16 am

Seems to be slower then the old version....


cuminmyhairypuss 58M/55F  
8 posts
7/19/2020 7:54 am

sucks big time


older4young2020 52M  
22 posts
7/19/2020 9:04 am

What tickles me, is that I use to see so many people bitch and moan about the old IM system and all of it's problems. Now that AdultFriendFinder has attempted to make changes, everyone seems to want to go back to the old system for which they despised soooooo much.

It's just too funny.


justaman4sex2 56M  
2 posts
7/19/2020 11:17 am

It is the worst! Constantly refuses to let me respond and everyone that has hit me up thinks I am blowing them off. I have been on this site a while but I think it's time to find a new one. If something wasn't broken then why intentionally fuck it up? SMPH!


simpleandrelaxed 54M
20 posts
7/19/2020 11:44 am

I get a blank page no matter how i refine the setting..


PreacherNHotwife 57M/51F  
3 posts
7/19/2020 1:01 pm

None of the above, actually. We wouldn’t have thought it possible, but it’s even worse than the old program. The new one is completely useless! It crashes before we can even post one reply. Absofuckinglutely worthless!


blackdude4white 60M  
95 posts
7/19/2020 2:11 pm

This is one of the shittest sites on the internet. I am fighting with them now because a friend invited me to watch his cam. Since I let my gold lapse, I had to pay 25 points which I did. But the damn cam never opened. Just the little dots going round. They have responded about this blaming everything but my kitchen sink for the problem. They basically have stolen 25points from me. See my blog. I come to this site to see cams. If it goes belly up something a find myself wishing for, no great loss. I have been a gold member for nearly 15 years and it has been nothing but a waste of money. Read my blog for more information on how they have tried over the years to rip me off. I truly hope their office building burns down with the site owners still inside!


slo2600 44M
175 posts
7/19/2020 2:13 pm

I've been on this site like twenty years. It's getting worse and worse and worse all the time.


blackdude4white 60M  
95 posts
7/19/2020 2:18 pm

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    I dont come on here to bitch and moan about something i cannot do anything about like some people ..it is not that bad i wanna talk to someone i bring it up and talk to them ..get over it and get on with it
No one comes here to bitch and moan. If you think that then you are dumber than 45, and that's pretty dumb. What we try to do is hope that by speaking out about it maybe/but doubtfully, they will read the complaints and fix it. Good for you that it works all the time perfectly, but for us it does not. The site has gotten very shitty over the 15-20 years that I have been a member.


sussi1028 60F
820 posts
7/19/2020 3:13 pm

    Quoting CaseyCat:
    Sometimes, I feel we are slowly seeing the demise of this site. First, they took the free IM chats away from the standard members. Second, they took free gold away from the ladies and icebreakers. Thirdly, they fooked up the IM, again. They are choking the life out of this site.
I suspect they want as to exchange some message and then move on to actual meets If we spend too much time on IM, how could we find time to meet and get to know each other. It is called AdultFriendFinder and not Cyber Friend Finder. Isn’t it????
Working out with our friends will keep AdultFriendFinder in business

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phxmn4u2 58M
28 posts
7/19/2020 5:41 pm

it really sucks you can't answer a im it sends you or them offline


smilybob2214 36M
75 posts
7/20/2020 3:50 am

15 point to chat is to many


fahrenheit451x2 57M
83 posts
7/20/2020 4:22 am

It's just all a mess - the whole site


apole4ahole 55M
51 posts
7/20/2020 10:21 am

As far as I can tell, they took something broken and made it even worse


cici1334 48T
17 posts
7/20/2020 11:03 pm

MIne is a blank screen so don't even know what it is???


exhibicionista46 40M
284 posts
7/21/2020 8:47 am

a big shit

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51007 65M  
539 posts
7/21/2020 11:01 am

Hello, the new MI is very very bad.
I dont' see my list, how can I join my preferences, ... ! It worked best before. !!!


Looking4FWB6258 58M
12 posts
7/21/2020 4:18 pm

Sucks


trlywickedcpl 67M/68F  
3 posts
7/22/2020 6:29 am

Just one more reason not to give then my money


Pussylickologist 62M

7/22/2020 1:11 pm

Like everything else on this site it sucks and/or is fake. Was really good in in its early years!


wannarock2006 55M  
9 posts
7/22/2020 4:29 pm

The site has now slowed to a glitchy barely functioning waste of time. I have been a paying member since 2006, I won't be renewing.


wannarock2006 55M  
9 posts
7/22/2020 4:33 pm

Why does my IM keep switching to busy all by itself, WTF?


ahrnycumtoy 46M  
22 posts
7/22/2020 9:48 pm

sucks


Sallyslober 38T
1 post
7/23/2020 12:39 am

no they expect to steal your credit card numbers is what they expect they want you to pay for it


Brownie202 63F
1906 posts
7/23/2020 6:14 am

The worse it is the better I like it. That way I am . getting less desperate people sending me one. They refuse to read my profile or think that they are exception

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Brownie202 63F
1906 posts
7/23/2020 6:23 am

The worse it is the more I like it. Most who sends me one either does not read my profile or think they are the exception. The rest are sore losers because they are not what I want. That is if i was meeting. Oh by the way my profile says I do not use the im and am not meeting.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Brownie202 63F
1906 posts
7/23/2020 8:24 am

I am happy its worse. Less people who are looking for a fast meet will not be able to send me one. In such a rush they don't take the time to read my profile.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


perkerlee 70M
4 posts
7/23/2020 11:25 am

AdultFriendFinder is now as fucked up ad FB. They are greed driven.


chrisp672 48M  
1 post
7/23/2020 1:50 pm

the persons profile shows that they are on IM. When you try to contact them then the IM says they are gone, not online.....I get that issue 9 times out of 10 when i try to contact someone on IM.


3200Ram 39M
206 posts
7/24/2020 4:01 am

it's not work properly .. I tried many PC.


UrMan4Fun2020 37M
34 posts
7/24/2020 5:03 am

It still needs some work


idblueswoman 62F  
772 posts
7/24/2020 6:06 am

I don't use the IM feature... not my thing. What really annoys the crap out of me is when I log on to the site it automatically makes me available in IM and bamn messages. I have to go then set it to busy so I don't get messaged but some people can't ready and do it anyway.


if_bi_wife 61M/60F  
24 posts
7/24/2020 8:52 am

Reality check here... The new IM sucks !!!!! WTF


wewanthotsex62 56M/100F  

7/24/2020 9:27 am

It still does not work. Just like 90% of the people here...Fakes and talkers.


loveswomanbits 45M
24 posts
7/24/2020 12:05 pm

It's carp


loveswomanbits 45M
24 posts
7/24/2020 12:06 pm

Post4332246 it's crap


loknnky 67M
157 posts
7/24/2020 1:24 pm

i did like the new message system but i see they went back to the old that works every now and then


josewales5 56M  
2 posts
7/24/2020 9:00 pm

Yes,is real shitty.Was glad to see today,they are back to the old IM.


tyrantcapri 47M
24 posts
7/25/2020 10:29 am

Simple, it's pure bullshit !!!


Agent4Sure 65M  
165 posts
7/25/2020 11:03 am

The new one worked for a week, the old one never worked, but now I get the same old message "Reconnect Now" again and again. Useless


rocketman196972 63M
181 posts
7/26/2020 7:55 am

Most of the time I am not on a gold status and the AdultFriendFinder admins don't award points for guys like they have posted, so IM is not really an option for me. When gold, it isn't dependable.


2havfun4u 59M/108F
6 posts
7/26/2020 8:07 am

so sad to say the site is not worth paying for anymore im down graded to standard mbr now i like to chat it's 15 points now and regardless if the person you chat with respond the site still takes your point away .

So long story short i'll be on till my points are gone...... Oh and BTW my status has changed and the site charges you to change you profile status mmmmmmm go figure so sad
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MatureGent4u2c 55M  
7 posts
7/26/2020 9:33 am

Every "improvement" they worse things get.


boatsatseaH0Tc0m 60M
30 posts
7/26/2020 1:42 pm

15 years ago it worked truly fine and was free as well. Now it sucks like hell. Standard members get shut off after 5 messages or so. All for the money.


ludwig202 68M
11897 posts
7/27/2020 5:04 am

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oralfixation2u 63M
54 posts
7/27/2020 6:11 am

I see that as of this morning they changed back to the previous format. As bad as it has been I didn't think it could have gotten any worse. I was sadly wrong.


Duder130 39M
15 posts
7/27/2020 10:37 am

Yeah it wasn’t very good before but somehow it seems worse now.


Huntress0rgasm 61F  
35 posts
7/28/2020 7:51 am

Yes, and it tells you they aren't on IM and asks you to leave lmao You cannot reply to their message when it happens. Even though they are on IM!


hotflash72 74M  
3 posts
7/28/2020 3:14 pm

Hopefully some where out in the world some one has taken note and will start a new site that WORKS !!


suesteve14 46M/43F
8 posts
7/28/2020 6:08 pm

to many issues and disconnects


phxmn4u2 58M
28 posts
7/28/2020 9:02 pm

it sucks . i had no problems with the way it was .


rdy_2_plz_ 21M
15 posts
7/29/2020 12:58 am

In my opinion it hasn't changed much


mtl_hypersexual 42M
13 posts
7/29/2020 5:22 am

For sure it needs work but for me works both on PC and mobile. Sorting by distance it gives me the closest members though. I am new on passion so I have no termsI of comparison, but I am a geek so I don't complaint much, making lemonade with the lemons.


nightdriver22 46M  
1 post
7/29/2020 8:44 am

The operators of this site are most likely nothing more than criminals. They are all on trial and sentenced to long prison terms.
They pull the money out of the members' pocket without any corresponding consideration.
It is unbelievable that you pay a lot of money here to view the virtual advertisements of whores or that webcam girls ask you to go to other payment sites.
If the operators were reputable, they would block access at the slightest suspicion of fake profile or prostitution.
Apart from that, the majority of the profiles are certainly fake profiles.
I hope that somebody will find someone who sues these criminals for damages and repayment of the contributions.

The presumption of innocence applies (unfortunately) to all accused!


Bnormalfun 34M
19 posts
7/29/2020 12:44 pm

I wish we could just chat more easily.


RoosterTex69 56M  
51 posts
7/29/2020 7:38 pm

AdultFriendFinder is like 90's technology, that doesn't function properly.


Trexxmexx 50M
5 posts
7/30/2020 2:29 pm

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mike92hd4928 57M  
17 posts
7/30/2020 2:45 pm

mine seems to work better now i can respond now


summerlove94 54F
7 posts
7/30/2020 3:31 pm

i cant remember the last time it worked for me but once in a blue moon the old one actually worked. not once since the new one.


Pepper_Pott 36F
202 posts
7/31/2020 8:46 am

I like the fact it has a direct line to my ouija board!😈👹
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ROBARONI 61M  
8 posts
7/31/2020 9:52 am

They have gone back to the old system as of a few days ago (up here - North East).


iwantwat 58M  
17 posts
7/31/2020 10:40 pm

Don't know if it's related, but now my cam doesn't work either.


protection19 66M  
60 posts
8/1/2020 9:34 am

I seem that I can not get on it when I want nor invite who I want to talk to on it


1hardcock00 57M
28 posts
8/1/2020 10:20 am

i think this site is going down hill there are other sites that are better and when you first try it out and you use IM they just take 3 points to see if you want to join and to be a member is cheaper


Greatsexxxfun 36M
7 posts
8/5/2020 8:46 am

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CalaisCock 25M
16 posts
9/3/2020 10:51 am

It sucks


TheElitesTRIAL 26M
113 posts
10/1/2020 1:55 pm

Should be fixed for preference atleast..so tired of dudes hitting me up .

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fk4funyes 60M/58F
1 post
10/5/2020 8:18 am

If most of us are unhappy with this new system ( we have been on before) why not just leave or tell them we are going to leave in XX amount of days if they don't fix it. This is hw they make their $$ without members.. who also go to other sites and let others know how we are treated here.. they should fix it. Or lose lots of $$$ in membership. What do you all think?


46fun9 62M
229 posts
10/9/2020 8:47 am

Seems to me, that every time they try to fix something, they just make it worse


ROBARONI 61M  
8 posts
10/18/2020 8:13 am

No more broadcasting in Private. Don't like that. Go back to the old system.


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